Had my best friend round today, we was haveing a few beers and listening to music and he saw a download called "footjob 1" i tried to carry on like i wasnt bothered hed seen it, and he didnt mention anything but omg!!! has anybody else had anything like this Posted by footgirl0226 (Member # 29201) on :
OK- I have discussed this with another foot fetish guy who makes this whole thing so secretive to friends.
What is the BIG DEAL? I dont get it. Cause let me tell you. If you are with a chick and she knows about it, then every single one of her friends know about it. Cause we all bedroom talk. And EVERY MAN AND WOMAN has some hang-up or fetish. Everyone has a quirk or something odd they like or dislike in the bedroom.
I dont go into a room and announce my sexual obsession, but to friends- they all know and a lot at like NO WAY, but there have been a couple that understand.
SO, I think, and I may be 100% wrong, but maybe the way you have presented the whole foot thing in the past to someone maybe have been in the totally wrong way and they were freaked and now you are so introverted with the thought of it.
Its not gross or disgusting or psycho. It's feet for God sakes. No different from a handjob or a BJ. I mean really, BJ's are socially acceptable but people cant handle a foot? Really!
SO if I am wrong please forgive me. I just think if a few came out of their shells and talked about it in a normal way instead of a hyped up whatever way, they would be surprised at the responses.
I might be totally wrong...
Posted by Web Cruiser (Member # 1019) on :
The problem is only as big as you make it
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
The real trick is to own your foot fetish. Don't let it own you. It's only as "weird" as you let it be, so if you play it off like it's no big deal, your friends won't think its a big deal.
Posted by elric1266 (Member # 29613) on :
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226:
I dont go into a room and announce my sexual obsession, but to friends- they all know and a lot at like NO WAY, but there have been a couple that understand.
Absolutely! I own my fetish, it is part of me. Those who know me well, know this. I am not ashamed of it, nor do I wear it on my sleeve. It is no big deal that your friend found out. If this is a friend, they will either accept it or not. Either way, they are still your friend.
Posted by sacfeet (Member # 28153) on :
Along the same vein, but perhaps more embarrassing... I use google's browser synchronizer at work and home to keep all my bookmarks in sync. Well you have to take the good with the bad I guess, but my bookmarks were discovered by a co-worker who is a deceitful loudmouth. Needless to say I do feel a bit embarrassed, but I did own up to it like it was no big deal. everyone knows, but it's not too weird, except the woman don't wear sandals or open toe shoes to work as much anymore. Posted by elric1266 (Member # 29613) on :
Live and learn! That is why I never bookmark anything questionable. Sorry to hear about that, though! Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
I would think that many many people in this day and age are aware of female feet lovers even though some may try to paint a negative picture. You did mention that it was on your PC which i assume is in your house so if he does have really crazy reaction to it then he can go home. He's missing out after all.
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