ok so I was using the computer and looking at some foot videos and I left the computer for a few minutes but mistakenly forgot to close the video so my mom went to use the computer and saw the foot video I has been watching and I walked back into the room just as she saw it she had a pretty disgusted expression and said "don't tell me your obsessed with peoples feet" my younger brother happened to overhear this as well I just tried to play it off and act like I didnt know what she was talking about now I just feel very awkward and uncomfortable Has anything lik this ever happened to anyone else?
Posted by Maxmillion (Member # 15651) on :
I once "thought" I saw links of foot sites ive never visited on the computer. So someone else in my family could have been looking at them?
But other than that, no I dont think, after all these years anyone knows anything..
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
I wish I had some advice for ya! I do not do judgement - esp. by a parent it can be damaging depending on your age. Not like anything we can do about it except embrace it and channel it into a business/artistic expression.
U might create your own shoe line for example -
U might say you are exploring your sexuality and was curious about all of the woman including those body parts that are not in the mainstream media.
Or you can shock them in another way - tell them you have a secret and make something up like your gfriend is prego or you are gay and then say well just have a foot fetish...I hope my kid would come to me one day about their stuff!
Peace -
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
My brother and cousin know and that's about it...
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
that really suck, i feel 4 you bro. there are two computers at home one for the family and one for, yeap you guess it, just me.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by show me ur feet: now I just feel very awkward and uncomfortable Has anything lik this ever happened to anyone else?
my dad went thru his IE browser history years ago (like 1995 or 1996) when i was back home from college (during a christmas or summer break) and using his computer to surf the net late at night.
he mentioned it to me the following day and said something about being careful with that in the future, LOL
needless to say, I was totally busted & i felt like shit (this was years before my signature pic, mind you -- so i can only imagine if he saw that)
[ April 20, 2008, 07:14 PM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
one of my cousins now knows.. he's cool about it.. says it's no big deal.. it could have been much worse!!!
my mom tried to 'out' me once... in public.. and in an embarassing way.. then later.. told my sibling who said he thought i had a thing.. long story short.. they wanted to 'correct' me with a family meeting/intervention.
when i showed up.. said.. i'm a pro-photographer and if my clients want pics of their feet, who am I to discriminate!!!! took care of that situation.
now.. i'd say that it's not an obsession.. but who cares if i think some gals have cute feet and others don't! no further details.
yes.. it's awkward.. but write it off as a popup (if your folks aren't computer savy). or something like that. don't hide.. but in the way they ran into the material. there is no way to midigate it.. just minimize it.. and let it slide.
RPM
p.s. with any luck.. they'll let it go (like my folks did)
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
My parents both found out about my foot fetish when I was about 12 and both tried to convince me that it was weird. I, of course, didn't care about what they said about it, I just knew that I liked feet and thought it was harmless. But I was always real careful about looking at feet on the computer regardless.
When I was a little older, I found out my older cousin had a hardcore foot fetish, then found out I had a couple of friends who liked feet too. And at that point, I felt like I began to own my foot fetish and felt comfortable, even defiant, about it.
Posted by AliasnameTO (Member # 29734) on :
No one in my family has a clue. I have my own computer, and I use Firefox set to clear history every time I close it. I have no saved videos, and a secret stash of pics in a very unassuming folder... I bet I'll be found out one of these days, but who knows? I think I can keep it covert.
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
i had nightmares about this happening to me when i shared the family computer
thank god for lap tops
Posted by ambrose (Member # 17196) on :
I was shy about it at first but now after it got out about my fetish I don t care who knows
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
My dad found my stash of LegShow magazines when I was home from college. I knew this for a fact because I discovered that he had swiped a few and hid them in the top cabinet in his bathroom where he hid his old Playboys!
So kids the lesson is its no biggie if your pop finds your porno stash. Just hope you momma doesn't discover it first.
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
I think anyone who pretty much knows me knows. I don't really care much unless it is like someone's grandmom being around when it's discussed.
Patrick
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
My friends know and I'm pretty sure my parents know...they found my porno stash but it only had "normal" porn The only time I feel awkard about it is if something about feet comes up and there is someone new in the room that I don't really know I don't want to be pegged a freak right off the bat! Another thing though that is a common mis conception is that if I like feet it automatically includes dude's feet! Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
i mom found it in her browser history, then proceded to punch me in the eye. ever since then, i try to keep it as much as a secert from my family as possible
Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88: i mom found it in her browser history, then proceded to punch me in the eye. ever since then, i try to keep it as much as a secert from my family as possible
WTF?!?!?! LMFAO
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Bad luck mate !! Have to be careful next time.
I think my family know that I like feet, never admitted it but they suspect it.
Posted by J.J. (Member # 24686) on :
My family know about my fetish as I make no secret of it. However, I used to share a house and a computer with a few friends (male and female) and at some point I decided to just go on the footfetish-sites, regardless of the consequences. No one ever spoke to me about it but I bet they spoke about it with each other! (grin)
Posted by mclaren f1 2003 (Member # 2934) on :
i live by myself and have my own computer...so no one can go through my stuff haha
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by Feeties:
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88: i mom found it in her browser history, then proceded to punch me in the eye. ever since then, i try to keep it as much as a secert from my family as possible
WTF?!?!?! LMFAO
umm...what's so funny?!?!?
Posted by Mona (Member # 8351) on :
some people just need thier own laptop.I certainly do.
Posted by taylormade (Member # 20344) on :
One of the best things I ever did was to tell my parents that I have a foot fetish. They were completely cool with it, as they don't really know much about what that means. And the've never brought it up to me again. To me, it means I don't have to be so careful about checking out pretty feet whenever I'm around them.
Posted by dicklipschitz (Member # 127) on :
quote:Originally posted by LeDaemon: My dad found my stash of LegShow magazines when I was home from college. I knew this for a fact because I discovered that he had swiped a few and hid them in the top cabinet in his bathroom where he hid his old Playboys!
So kids the lesson is its no biggie if your pop finds your porno stash. Just hope you momma doesn't discover it first.
That's pretty cool, LeDaemon. I mean, I swiped a few of my old man's Playboys but I never figured turnabout might be fair play.
I get a feeling we're about the same age (39) ... because I remember bringing home my stash of Leg Shows from college as well. Except in my case, I hoped to God that neither of my parents found it.
These kids today, with their iPods and their Internets and their rock and roll, they don't know how good they have it when it comes to their porn collection.
Cheers, DL
Posted by dmmgp2000 (Member # 20759) on :
My mom found my stash of feet photos when I was 15. This was just before we got internet in the house. I was carless with my collection one night and she had to move my nightstand to vaccuum and found the folder of pics. She sat me down for a "talk", which actually wasn't much talking because I was so embarrassed and just wanted to die. There was a few awkward moments since then, but now that I'm 25, it's never mentioned anymore, but she knows and so does my dad. No big deal anymore, but it sure sucked that day!
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
does it count if your wife's family and friends know enough to figure it out? i found out how much they knew at the wedding shower... one of the questions ask to the group was what were the top three fav things of mines.... and the winning answer (i didn't have a say in it.. it was a surprise)... a foot fetish!!!!
after the whole deal.. two gals came over (they know i'm a photog too).. took their shoes off and asked what were my thoughts.. one had ok feet (thanks to the hose she had on) and the other were smokin' hot!!!
i was very nervous at first.. then opted to play it down as if it was the most normal thing to have.. and the results were that the group paid it little mind.. and i got to see two sets of feet i'd never see otherwise!
RPM
p.s. still.. i won't announce it to my fam.. (my cousin.. youngest bro... and maybe one other cousin knows).... and that is mainly because they won't get it... trust me i know!
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88: i mom found it in her browser history, then proceded to punch me in the eye. ever since then, i try to keep it as much as a secert from my family as possible
Ouch dude... that's pretty harsh Posted by timothy99 (Member # 28289) on :
RPM cool story!
Posted by cloudray (Member # 18758) on :
I'm pretty sure my mother and her close friends know. It was obvious when I was a little kid because I liked women's feet then and was too young to be shy about it. Occasionally she or her friend will mention something about it but I just ignore it. I'm also pretty sure my mother has a shoe fetish of her own anyway.
Posted by adomiu666 (Member # 29799) on :
No one knows in my family,if they would they probably think im a freak or something,but i think my aunt knows,cos she told me dat she had her feet licked many times and i stare at her girlfriends feet all the time ,so i think she noticed Posted by footfucker (Member # 9539) on :
Both my parents know, not by choice, my mum found my collection of mags and my dad found a DVD which I caught him watching, to which he replyed "I didn't know you were into this" lol, oh and a few of my close friends in England, apart from that I'm quite secretitive about my foot fetish.
"Another thing though that is a common mis conception is that if I like feet it automatically includes dude's feet!"
Couldn't argree with you more, Bluetoelover, I've had that happen a few times. I just say well look at it this way, fat guys have bitch tits, so does that mean that tit lovers like fat blokes tits as well....to which "most" reply no.
Posted by feetrnice2004 (Member # 2411) on :
Two stories about family members from me... First-- 20 years ago when I was 20 my stepmom came in my room to do some cleaning and found a Leg Show magazine (remember that?)on the floor under my bed. I was sitting at the desk in the room writing a paper for class or something and asked, "do you like feet?" I turned red as a beet and answered, "um, yeah." She replied, "oh, ok.. whatever, we each like our own things." And then put the mag down and went about her business. After that, I made sure I didn't leave things around, but it was cool to know that she's cool about it. (I'm 40 now.. lol.. and don't see her much any more).
Second-- This second story happened last year and hit too close for comfort as that old expression goes. Last year I was in my computer room in the downstairs part of the house. I usually keep the door closed when I'm in there working and people generally knock on the door before coming in. Well it was a relatively hot summer day and usually in Connecticut where I live it's pretty cool.. but not this time.. so the door was cracked and I thought the family was out. I was wrong. I was busy supposed to be working but took a break and came to Wu's . I was looking at some of the contribution pics and had a nice sole shot up on the screen (Britney Sweetstink's sole). I was looking at it when I realized that standing behind me was my 16 year old StepDaughter!!! I flew to the close button, but I knew she saw. She had come in without knocking and I was almost paralyzed with fear!!! She came to ask me to drive her to the movies so she could meet up with her friends. I stammered something like, "ok sure". Then she asked.. "um.. why were you looking at that picture of the foot? Do you like have a foot fetish or something?" I couldn't lie... but I had to be diplomatic... so I said, "people like different things about each other.. some people love eyes and compliment peoples eyes, others like noses, others like hair and compliment people's hair, well, I happen to like feet." Then I waited and my heart was racing and I was about to pass out because she might think I was a freak or something. She was quiet for a moment, then said," oh, ok.. whatever." And walked out. From that point on it's never been mentioned.
I want to make very clear now that I have never ever done anything inappropriate to her NOR would I ever. Her feet are OFF LIMITS to me, as they should be. Her mom's (my wife's) feet.. well that's another story
So there's my two stories.. one semi-embarrassing and the second TOTALLY.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
"I want to make very clear now that I have never ever done anything inappropriate to her NOR would I ever." Comment by feetrnice2004
No one implied that you did. Why would you say that?
_fjb_
Posted by feetrnice2004 (Member # 2411) on :
Because there have been occasions where people jumped to conclusions. I guess I was trying to cover the bases for whatever reason.
Posted by Loves Girls Feet (Member # 30409) on :
I don't think anyone in my family has ever found out ...... BUT..... I think maybe a couple aunts & a few female cousins has noticed their shoes damp & sticky over the years........
Posted by FOOTMEISTER (Member # 30123) on :
My mom, her friends and my aunt found out at a "girls night in" dinner party, I was caught sniffing shoes and then my mums friends and my aunt and mum were purposley talking about their feet all night lmao so i could hear but they took it light hearted and always say i can rub their feet when i see them so its all GDGD
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
I see it from Footjoyboy's p.o.v. I wasn't even going to think anything...it just sucks when you get caught....my mom caught me with a Leg Show six years ago, but she's one of those people that' real gullible and she treated it as an actual porno asking where did I get that porno from....my family has conservative views on stuff like that...I was 18 at the time and could have raised the whole 'i'm old enough' issue, but just lied and said I borrowed it from a friend....it worked lol. I felt fortunate ANYONE else in my family would have seen that and yeah there'd have been no turning back.
Posted by flipfloplick (Member # 21954) on :
girlfriends or girls that i get into bed eventually figure it out because i improvise foot fetish stuff into foreplay. 55% of the time they dont want it cause their too ticklish or uncomfortable with it, oh well, i get a few kisses in before i have to move on.
anyone that ever hangs out with me will notice that i take glances at feet. my family and friends probably notice because my speech changes after seeing some really nice toes at the mall or something
hey feetrnice2004 that sucks that she caught you have thing stayd normal between her, mom/wife, and you
Posted by haydenpanettierefeetslave (Member # 2512) on :
only in my family know is my cousin. She is the one who encouraged me to compliment women's feet.A lot of my friends do know about my liking feet.
Posted by feetrnice2004 (Member # 2411) on :
flipfloplick... things have stayed normal between all of us. But I have to wonder what stepdaughter really thinks...but I'm not going to ask!
Posted by Loves Girls Feet (Member # 30409) on :
feetrnice2004 , how old is your stepdaughter ??
Posted by feetrnice2004 (Member # 2411) on :
She's 17 now.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
.... (Hardly ever come into the main Foot-fetish talk zone, but pop my head in every now and then)...
Just read the last few posts and had to scroll up to find out what was everyone talkin' about...
Sorry about that feetrnice2004. Reminds me of my niece who is 17 also. She uses my computer alot and my porn is not hidden too deep. I keep it outta plain site but if you really look hard, you'll find it... Well anyway, everytime she asks to use the computer, I always say, "Yup ok, but don't look at anything your not suppose to look at OK!"... is why the door stays wide open to add stress to the matter.....
Posted by loves licking feet (Member # 12096) on :
feetrnice....I remember when my ex-step-neices were that age
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I bet I'll be found out one of these days, but who knows? I think I can keep it covert.
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