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Originally posted by oscarthemonkey:
While this topic gets re-discussed all the time, and people are often sick and tired of rehashing the "where did our fetish come from" bit...it's partially because there is no empirical evidence or personal introspection that has been definitive.

Why, as a rule ,do men have fetishes and woman do not? When men like feet, it seems to be all races, economic classes, intelligence levels,nationalities, sexual orientations,and the like are on board. But- then the million arguements of why I like small feet and others like big feet, why some like smelling and some don't, painted toes or not,etc are very hard to explain.I don't remember anyone teaching me to like feet.
I don't know why I like tying up women and tickling them, either. Does not stop me from sucking toes or tickling my wife crazy.
And- not trying to be rude- I gave about caring about why many years ago. Just have fun with it and be happy you like it. As I've said before, I'd much rather ask a woman to play with her feet than to do some MUCH more bizarre, and in my opinion, disturbing fetishes, that probably numerous "normal" people like.

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Thanks for the heads up, now honestly i could relate with what ur saying because i 2 have grown 2 accept and admire what i have..it's just sometimes people in general want to always know where this came from...but honestly i don't think their is an answer..so like u said, just enjoy it..hey wouldn't it be funny if their's a FootGod that implants these thoughts into our minds..lmao jk =)
 

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Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
 
I haven't grown to admire mine yet. It's becoming like a hobby for me, kinda informational. I think we are born with it. Like lots of guys like breasts and some go crazy over elbows and knees.
 

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Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
 
Mine goes back as far as I can remember; so as far as I'm concearned-I was born with it.

_fjb_
 

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Posted by J.J. (Member # 24686) on :
 
Mine survived many (re)(in)(carnal)carnations with me. I had it back in the days that I lived a caveman's life (wich, believe you me, wasn't easy, all those rock-hard-horn-skin-walked-on-all-day-soles!) I had it when I lived in ancient egypt (I'll never forget the feet of the pharao's daughter, the softest thing I ever felt!) and I have it today, I was born with it many times and I hope to be born with it forever more.


 

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Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
I think it results from an event occuring involving feet which produces a natural curiosity about feet at a young age, such as how they smell which later devlops into a sexual attraction when a little older.

Girls feet are very smooth and delicate in their own way which is quite a feminine feature and very attractive.

As for preferences I think we develop our own as our liking for female feet is explored. I wouldn't day you are born with it.
 

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Posted by tintin19153 (Member # 3694) on :
 
I love women`s feet and butts. I know what was the cause of me liking feet and butts.It was my aunt.She would always wear tight pants and sandals.She had the perfect bubble butt and I remember I was play and she came into the livingroom and started marching around the room with me ,she was in front of me.I could not stop looking at her big,round butt.I was in grade school at the time.I didn`t really know what was going on but I knew I wanted to touch her butt.
I started liking feet not to long after that.I was in my bedroom watching tv and my aunt came in .She started laying face down on the bed.I was at the end of the bed right by her feet.I started looking at her pretty soles and toes.It was the first time I ever got hard.I started to touch her soft feet after about a minute.She said"stop trying to tickle my feet"I never touched her feet again but I was crazy about women`s butts and feet ever since.
 

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Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
Yeah, I think it makes sense, a sexual experience (such as your first erection) regarding feet is always going to trigger stronger urges in later life. Because feet or often hidden and/or private I think when you see a pretty girls foot it arouses curiosity and in turn arouses something else.
 

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Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
which ever way you slice it.. of the many things i love about a woman.. her feet are on the list! don't get why some folks like only part of the whole.. but then.. that is what makes me.. well... me!

RPM

p.s oh.. by the way.. i think it's both. some inherit it.. others develope it.. others discover it. bottom line.. once you have it.. you're hooked for life!
 

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Posted by Karnell (Member # 6647) on :
 
I dont think so....i think we develop it at a young age.
 

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Posted by jesse_ffd (Member # 30977) on :
 
I agree with RPM.
I believe we inherit it.
There has to be a point in which you come in close contact with attractive feet, then you build on it. Then you start to notice feet more to the point here you find them sexually appealing.
At least that's my take
 

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Posted by arw1983 (Member # 30288) on :
 
i like all parts of the female form, so i cant say wether we are born with it or develop it.but feet are on my top favourite bodyparts list
 

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Posted by Hal (Member # 3484) on :
 
Lucky Teen and *@LeX-RaGe*:

Please both resize your avatars to 150x150 max.

Thanks,
-Hal-
 

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Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
Please may someone tekk me how do I re-size it without changing it?
 

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Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
Please may someone tell me how to re-sizze it without changing it?
 

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Posted by talus (Member # 8646) on :
 
Before I realised that I had a Major foot fetish, I used to work in a shoe shop (my first Saturday job) I was only about 15 or 16 so we are talking about 35 years ago. The only thing that sticks in my memory is hot summer days with girls and women in sandels and flip flops.
God, if I knew then what I know now, I would have been arrested.
 

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Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
personally I don't share the same lust for her shoes as I do her feet. Although I certainly notice if she has some sexy heels on it just makes me want to take them off and get to her feet.

Shoes harbour the smell yeah and I guess that's a bonus.
 

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Posted by jesse_ffd (Member # 30977) on :
 
All you have to do is resize the image and upload it in the same destination.
 

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Posted by Shadixx (Member # 22316) on :
 
I can remember being very young and noticing feet. Im not sure where it came from or why I have it I just know that I love it.
 

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Posted by mr. white (Member # 7461) on :
 
yes i belive so, i remeber when i was young like 5 or younger i liked them. that was b4 i new about sex lol.
 

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Posted by acrylikhan (Member # 14491) on :
 
I think when I was six or seven, I like my neighbor's wife's feet. Very friendly, always in flip flops, and gorgeous. I remember looking at her feet all the time.

Then college came, and Kerri opened a very BIG door...
 

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Posted by sgadd27 (Member # 13044) on :
 
I think we aquire it at an early age and we hone it as we grow older...i can remember liking my kendergaten teachers feet.
 

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Posted by aerodrew (Member # 2682) on :
 
I can't answer for "we" but I sure the hell was..
Without a doubt... And I'm thankful that my wife has beautiful feet and I get my share at her pleasure..
 

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Posted by I love Senta Moses (Member # 46200) on :
 
Starting by 6th grade, it was a part of a girl that was usually covered that I could see naked at one point or another and leer at without suffering the consequences. In high school I would take off a girl's shoes and socks and tickle her feet, sometimes even massaging and kissing them. Little did they know (or did they?) I was doing so out of lust. I've always loved cute, soft, smooth, unblemished feet.

Then there was April O'Neil's tickle torture scene on the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle cartoon, I think that must've gotten many of us started.
 

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Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
 
Interesting bumped topic. I believe that I was born with it and I came to a realization of it at a young age.
 

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Posted by canIsmellYourFeet (Member # 11183) on :
 
Its ironic now that I think about it...but in kindergarten I had a girlfriend who "made" me smell her feet during recess. Guess she had a bit of a dom in her. When I was done she would reward me with a kiss on the cheek. Its ironic cause I hate dom/sub stuff, but I do LOVE smelling feet, playing with them, rubbing them on my face, anything the doesn't involve any tongue. I guess I could trace it to kindergarten and it kinda grew from there.

I think everyone may have a similar experience, or they simply always knew they liked feet. Its random.
 

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Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
 
I'm pretty sure I've seen evidence of at least some genetic pass through.
My dad was always a looker (oddly my mom actually encouraged it, drawing his attention to nice looking ladies). On a few ocassions I noticed him looking at girls who were barefoot.
A year ago my son's laptop was having issues and I took a look at. I found a foot related porn vid (footjob). All I could think of was "like father, like son"
I don't have any recollections of feet from my early, early years. I became aware of my love for feet and feet subfetishes around 12 years of age while visiting the local community pool during the summer.
In particular there were twin sisters my age who came every day. They had deep tans, wore leather anklets and came in flip flops. I remember hanging on the side of the facing the pool deck and watching their gorgeous wet, tanned, bare feet walk within feet of me.
 

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Posted by Footman1955 (Member # 46205) on :
 
I have written a book on how I developed a severe chronic foot fetish. I was sexually abused by my 10 year older half sister.. Although many men especially foot fetishists would not consider this sexual abuse. According to psychology & man made criminal laws this was most definitely sexual abuse. At the time it started I was just 2 years old when my half sister began giving me a bath & placing her feet in the water bath with me. She was 12 years old when it started & 20 years old when these incidents ended. There were also at least 100 incidents between the age of 2 & 10 where I found myself in bed with my half sister fondling her feet & toes with my soldier.. At the time I considered myself the luckiest little boy being pleasured by my half sister's feet.. Little did I know the severe impact these incidents would have on my later life..
You can buy my book in e-book format if you go to my website www.ImpactOfIncest.com to read the full impact of what my half sister did to me.
I will share some excerpts from the conclusion of my book here > The dictionary’s definition of a fetish is as follows; an object or bodily part whose real fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression. The dictionary further defines a fetish as an association of sexual feelings with a part of the body or an article of dress. The word fetish originates from the Latin word “facticius” which means artificial or manmade. It also means an object that has supernatural powers over others. A foot fetish in psychology terms is called “paraphilia”, meaning above and beyond friendship and love. In psychology terms “paraphilia” means an association with a non-sexual object, action or thing. Foot fetishism, foot worship, or podophilia is a pronounced sexual interest in feet. It is also the most common form of sexual preference for otherwise non-sexual objects or body parts.
Bottom line, people develop sexual associations with what turns them on and as long as there are mutually consenting adults that are both understanding and willing to fulfill another individual’s fetish and fantasy, then there is no harm done. The only harm can come when someone is unwillingly forced to participate in someone else’s fetish, which is very wrong.
I began writing my book with the most basic theory about psychology, why do we behave the way we do? To refresh this most basic theory, the dramatic and powerful events and experiences that occur during our childhood years shall have a profound impact on us later on as adults. Through my research I have uncovered some of the most common reasons why men will develop a foot fetish. Most young little baby boys by nature are naturally quite curious, crawling along the living room or kitchen floor as their mother and perhaps some of her friends might be having tea or just chatting. But to the young little boy, all he sees as he’s crawling along the floor are women’s feet, sometimes dangling outside of the shoe, as he is drawn to the shape and perhaps to the movement of these dangling feet. This is just another example of how a young little boy can first encounter women’s feet, becoming somehow fascinated by them and leading him to develop a foot fetish later on in his adult life. Another common example of how young little boys go on to develop a foot fetish sometimes occurs rather innocently in the following manner. A mother or perhaps a sister places her young baby son or baby brother on the top part of their feet in an innocent playful fashion, allowing the young boy to ride horsy on top of either his mother’s or his sister’s foot. The young little boy, feeling his penis rub against the feet of either his mother or his sister becomes somewhat sexually aroused, henceforth a foot fetishist is born.
Definition of incestuous abuse include any sexual contact defined as touching with the intention to sexually arouse the child, fondling of the genitals or other parts of the body in a sexual manner, manual stimulation of the genitals.
Why men love female feet > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkccHQ1egc4
Psychology & Sexual Fetish, Panties vs Shoes, Boobs vs Feet > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yObtOBd2Tms
 

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Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
 
I don't fit into the category of having my mother or a relative innocently or purposely put their feet on me. My first realization of my fetish was when my kindergarten teacher took her shoes off during class. At the time I didn't know that it was a fetish, but I knew that I liked it and was drawn to it. There was also a girl in the class that wore flats and would take them off during naptime. I remember laying awake and looking at her feet.
I remember sometime around the 4th or 5th grade looking at my first Penthouse or Playboy with some friends. They were big into the tits and pussy and I went along with them. That's what's mysterious to me. At that age guys would talk about a girl's tits and how they liked big ones, etc... and I never told them I liked feet. I went along with the tit talk. I had no idea that foot fetishism was taboo. Around that age I got my first hardon watching a girl take her shoes and socks off at a pool. Luckily, I was in the water, but that was when I knew that girl's feet were my tits.
It was also around that time that I first heard the word foot fetish. I was at a friend's house and his dog would lick on his sister's friends' feet. Her friend asked why the dog did that and his mother said that the dog has a foot fetish. The friend asked what a foot fetish is and the mom said that it's when someone likes feet.
 

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Posted by RJFoot (Member # 37988) on :
 

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Originally posted by sgadd27:
I think we aquire it at an early age and we hone it as we grow older...i can remember liking my kendergaten teachers feet.

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