Now i'm just curious but would u consider worshipping another womens feet other than your girls feet cheating..? i mean it's not sex but let's just say that your in a good relationship with your girl and she pleases u in everyway; like footjobs and lets u have your way with her feet in anyway u want..but 4 some reason u still want more feet..and then u call your homegurls 2 have fun with their feet, would u think that's cheating..?? i mean were talking about feet, not vaginas.. lol voice ur thoughts.. =)
Posted by AmberLily (Member # 10907) on :
And does this super wonderful girlfriend *know* that her partner is worshipping/playing with other women's feet?
If she does and doesn't think anything of it, then it's not *cheating* -- cheating implies lying and sneaking around in my view.
If she has no clue and this is something done in secret, then it's walking the fine line of being "a cheater" right there. If you think it has to be a secret, then perhaps it's not really that good of an idea. Why risk hurting the super awesome girlfriend?
This is *totally* the kind of thing that should be discussed between two people in a relationship.
And my slightly off-topic question is: Is anyone else watching SwingTown on TV? Talk about having an open relationship, hehe.
[ July 01, 2008, 03:01 AM: Message edited by: AmberLily ]
Posted by *@LeX-RaGe* (Member # 22983) on :
quote:Originally posted by AmberLily: And does this super wonderful girlfriend *know* that her partner is worshipping/playing with other women's feet?
If she does and doesn't think anything of it, then it's not *cheating* -- cheating implies lying and sneaking around in my view.
If she has no clue and this is something done in secret, then it's walking the fine line of being "a cheater" right there. If you think it has to be a secret, then perhaps it's not really that good of an idea. Why risk hurting the super awesome girlfriend?
This is *totally* the kind of thing that should be discussed between two people in a relationship.
And my slightly off-topic question is: Is anyone else watching SwingTown on TV? Talk about having an open relationship, hehe. ;)
I like ur answer, the topic ran through my mind the other day after a co-worker was discussing the levels of cheating..and i said, "would worshipping other womens feet be cheating?'' lol
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
I would say it is cheating. If it's something she knows about and doesn't seem to care, then don't be surprised when you find out she's 'only' blowing your neighbour down the hall.
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Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
I'd say it's cheating to a foot lover or anyone who thought they would get sexual pleasure from it, example if a group of friends are playing truth or dare, nobody there likes feet at all and one boy is dared to lick a girls foot from heel to toe and he does it that isn't cheating.
However, for a foot fetish this is basic foreplay to him which puts it in the same league as going down on someone or getting a blow job.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
My wife would definitely say its cheating!
Posted by Jim5876 (Member # 28334) on :
i was in a simiar situation and trust me its cheating. what seems harmless to a guy is not to a woman. it almost cost me a 7 year relationship. try to think of it from your gf point of view. you are touching another woman in a sexual way that is not her. trust me your gf will not think its harmless when she finds out.
Posted by Foot-Clan Ninja (Member # 25128) on :
if you see it in a sexual light, then it is cheating
Posted by Brandy's Foot Slave (Member # 20905) on :
Yeah bro it's cheating....without a doubt
Posted by PublicName (Member # 12270) on :
It's cheating for sure.
Also dude, think of it this way.
Vagina or not, but what's something you get off on? Feet. Same concept.
Making out and playin' around with someone physically in any sense should be considered cheating.
Posted by 2swift (Member # 16002) on :
Bottom line....if the action, or activity you are about to par take in makes you ask this question to yourself, and you cannot openly, honestly tell your spouse, girlfriend, or partner about it, then it is cheating.
If it helps, reverse it...would you consider it cheating if your spouse, girlfriend, or partner allowed another man (male friend, stranger, co-worker) to worship, and have his way with her feet as you would, and did not tell you about it....would you consider it cheating?
Something to think about.
Regards, 2swift
Posted by foot_sniffer2281 (Member # 21756) on :
Most definitely cheating...
You're getting pleasure from another girl behind your partners back....
Posted by whyme (Member # 29265) on :
quote:Originally posted by *@LeX-RaGe*: Now i'm just curious but would u consider worshipping another womens feet other than your girls feet cheating..? i mean it's not sex but let's just say that your in a good relationship with your girl and she pleases u in everyway; like footjobs and lets u have your way with her feet in anyway u want..but 4 some reason u still want more feet..and then u call your homegurls 2 have fun with their feet, would u think that's cheating..?? i mean were talking about feet, not vaginas.. lol voice ur thoughts.. =)
Share the rest of the story, can you get some feet of another girls?
This sounds kinky and sneaky...share the rest if there is more to this story lol
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
my wife and i consider anything that you do with another person that you dont want your partner to know about cheating. so yeah, if i was to go out and massage a womans feet and make sure my wife didnt find out, i would be cheating.
as for open realtionships and swingtowns.. we watch it and laugh cause it reminds us a little how we got into the swinging scene. it wasnt nearly as easy as they portray it and alot of starts and stops. and yeah, when we are swinging, if i was ever interested, i could do whatever with another woman's feet.
Posted by Mommie Dearest (Member # 18340) on :
In this case I am going to go with the majority here and say - if you must HIDE your actions then yes it is cheating.
However ... if you do tell her and she is ok with it then that is all the permission you need. Definately discuss this with her!!
ps - who's girl-friends are these .. yours or hers If they are her "girls" - they should respect her "invisible" lines and should know where NOT to go with you.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
Cheating unless she's aware or simultaneously involved via menage trois! Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I might like to massage another girl's feet, but THAT'S IT.
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
most people would say it's cheating
Posted by Sabbath (Member # 4844) on :
I once read an excellent rule of thumb here at Wu's : If you wouldnt do it to your sister, its cheating!
Posted by olujasasjevera (Member # 26778) on :
ur talking about feet not vaginas? lol.. to us the foot is a vagina so theres no difference between 1 and the other.. you see the foot as a sexual object. so yeah its cheating
Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
It def is, can't say I'm totally innocent about it tho.
Posted by footntoesmassager (Member # 12132) on :
I would say yes. I'd stick with your girlfriend's feet.
Posted by slimebass (Member # 1409) on :
I still think theirs a big difference between licking someones toes or licking someones vagina.
I did some foot worship on a good friend of my wife & I, while my wife was there, and she was fine with that. And I would kiss a random girls feet if I had a chance (I have) and not feel guilty.
Hey, society says what we like shouldn't be sexual so they can't have it both ways. In other words it can't be wrong to sexualize it and than cheating if you do.
Posted by *@LeX-RaGe* (Member # 22983) on :
Thanks for the reponses guys, pretty good topic huh..? lol
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
personally, i wouldn't consider it cheating, but i know most any g/f I ever had would probably treat it that way Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
It strikes me that you would conceal what you might do. That tells me that you don't think your girlfriend would approve or, at least let it slide. From that, I'd have to guess that you believe that SHE might think it is cheating. Need I go further?
As much as I might share Tyler D.'s sentiment the bottom line is this: If she thinks that it is cheating, IT IS!!
If you are trying to justify what you would like to do (perhaps even planning to do), it is pretty clear from the responses here that you're on your own, bub. Try it if you like but accept the responsibility for all the fallout when (not if) you're discovered.
I hope this sounds like a vote against your proposal to seek extra-curricular feet.
Posted by DaleAdam69 (Member # 27877) on :
I would possibly consider it NOT cheating if....
a) Any activities you indulged in with another woman was strictly foot fetish related
b) Your current g/f was not willing to let you near her feet etc.
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
my thoughts are this. if you get sexual gratification out of worshping anothers feet, and you have to hide it from your significant other...it's cheating. i mean how would YOU Feel if your g/f wife etc. was letting other me just play with her feet?
Posted by mr. white (Member # 7461) on :
Yes I think it would be cheating 100%. Look feet to us are like boobs and ass's to the rest of the world, you know? Lets say we loved boobs insted of feet, touching them would be cheating. See what I mean. I would never.
Posted by jayrea (Member # 28480) on :
yes, it's cheating! It's a act of intimacy you are sharing with your partner. If the person has to be shady about it and try to hide their actions from another person then yes it's cheating.
Posted by Girlgotsole (Member # 14405) on :
Yeah. That's cheating. Because feet are our passion. How would you like it if your girl licked up another guy's chest and worshipped his cock? Guys tend to check out women's feet in a relationship or not. Just a tendency of visual people (and being surrounded by your fetish). But, you should be pretty content with your woman's feet. It sounds to me like you might just be getting bored with them. So find something to spice it up. Or be patient. Give it time. I'm telling you, probably the moment she leaves you for cheating on her, and her feet are forbidden, you'll be back on these forums posting about how much you want those feet. Greener grass syndrome. That's all.
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