how many days do you think i should be on with a girl before i tell her about my foot fetish???
i'm not going on a date in the near future, nor have i been in such a lucky position. but for future reference, how many is the min.???
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
There isn't a magic formula for it. It just depends on the two individuals involved and their personalities, comfort levels with each other, sexual attraction, etc. For example I dated a girl back in college that gave me a BJ on the first date and then I sucked her toes by the second date. I didn't "tell" her about my foot fetish it just kind of happened in the heat of the moment since she was pretty damn forward herself with wanting to polish my helmet without me even making the first move with her.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
LaeDaemon,
They dont make them like that anymore !! Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: LaeDaemon,
They dont make them like that anymore !!
i second that Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
minimum time is long enough to ask her what size shoe she wears first. then anything after that is fair game.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: LaeDaemon,
They dont make them like that anymore !!
i second that
I say they do make them like that guys and we're in luck because there are more of then out there who've had stuff done to their feet - the only thing is the ones that were traditionally against feet have sharpened their views on it as some sort of resistance toward an increasing sub-culture of foot fetishism
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.: minimum time is long enough to ask her what size shoe she wears first. then anything after that is fair game.
well, sometimes asking that is a bad questions (this from personal experience.) my question is how long should i attempt to hold out before asking???
Posted by cs (Member # 9338) on :
Women tend to know by the time i get them in bed. I just act like it's the most normal thing in the world and go for it.
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
you don't tell her
you just let it happen in the heat of the moment like ledaemon said
many girls would tell you they won't do many sexual things but they allow it during the heat of the moment
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
give her some good loving. hide it for a little while (once youve been dating a couple weeks maybe), do this if youre shy about telling her.
do some stuff in the heat of the moment and then explain after that! thats a good idea i think
Posted by climax (Member # 6641) on :
Well im sorta being open about it in general with my groups of friends and such, so most girls that are gonna come into with me and are interested will already know, so that gets that part out of the way. I suppose if they girl didnt know, id find an opening in a conversation and say it then, but i wouldnt use the word "fetish" though.
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mikey P: you don't tell her
you just let it happen in the heat of the moment like ledaemon said
many girls would tell you they won't do many sexual things but they allow it during the heat of the moment
can't really pull that off. i tend to bring it up and ask anyway. so i thought i'd ask how long i should wait before saying anything?
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88: my question is how long should i attempt to hold out before asking???
hold out until you just can't take it anymore. ...and finally then when you can't go another second without her feet (lest you bust your load in ur pants) make sure you ask her something just so you can know you at least tried.
be careful of letting the pressure gauge build up too high cuz usually it will affect how you ask things and that could cause conflict from the mouth of an untrained person. best of luck on holding out as long as you can tho.
for some foot guys, that is unfortunately the best option - is to hold out for as long as they can take it.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
i would say let it come into the relationship organically. dont force it any more than you would force anal sex. i like the idea of letting it happen peripherally.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
When you two are comfortable talking about sex, ask her what she likes. What turns her on? Then let her know what turns you on. Mind you though,usually you don't talk about sex until both of you are ready to go at it.
Posted by cathymules (Member # 15805) on :
its not the number of days thats important but the timing it self. when you seek the oporturnity go for it . good luck Cathy
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by cathymules: its not the number of days thats important but the timing it self. when you seek the oporturnity go for it . good luck Cathy
in case i can't smell nor get the opporturnity ( i doubt i will) how many days min.???
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote: how many days min.???
refer to your foot fetish handbook that you received when you signed up at headquarters.
lets try again.
its not the number of days thats important but the timing it self. Posted by DownUnderFeet (Member # 31117) on :
There is no magical day when a girl wakes and up decides that she will let her boyfriend do all the kinky shit he wants.
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