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Originally posted by Fate111:
It sounds to me like you had an "in" there when she asked you about ever sucking a girl's toes. I assume you have before. If a girl I was going out with asked me that before she knew about my thing for feet, I would've just casually responded that, yes, I have without making a big deal about it.

When you get more intimate with her, just get her in a position where you're massaging/fondling her feet and just start sucking on her toes. It sounds like she's curious about it and that she probably wants to try it, since she mentioned to you that her sister brought it up.

My personal philosophy is to never actually say anything about how attracted I am to women's feet. I go about expressing it via actions once a woman is comfortable with me and trusts me. Saying something about it beforehand tends to conjure up negative images, in my opinion. I also feel that conveying something like that via actions, rather than words, shows that you're comfortable with what you're doing in the moment and that it's perfectly natural behavior for you. You're also taking charge in the moment, which is something women find attractive.

The bottom line is if you're comfortable with it, then she will be comfortable with you doing it if there's a comfort level and trust already established, and doing it without asking her comes off as pretty powerful.

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Originally posted by DownUnderFeet:

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Originally posted by Fate111:
It sounds to me like you had an "in" there when she asked you about ever sucking a girl's toes. I assume you have before. If a girl I was going out with asked me that before she knew about my thing for feet, I would've just casually responded that, yes, I have without making a big deal about it.

When you get more intimate with her, just get her in a position where you're massaging/fondling her feet and just start sucking on her toes. It sounds like she's curious about it and that she probably wants to try it, since she mentioned to you that her sister brought it up.

My personal philosophy is to never actually say anything about how attracted I am to women's feet. I go about expressing it via actions once a woman is comfortable with me and trusts me. Saying something about it beforehand tends to conjure up negative images, in my opinion. I also feel that conveying something like that via actions, rather than words, shows that you're comfortable with what you're doing in the moment and that it's perfectly natural behavior for you. You're also taking charge in the moment, which is something women find attractive.

The bottom line is if you're comfortable with it, then she will be comfortable with you doing it if there's a comfort level and trust already established, and doing it without asking her comes off as pretty powerful.

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Just what I was thinking. Half the work has already been done. Just say you want to indulge her curiosity about having her toes sucked and say you might enjoy it too.

I also agree in portraying with actions, but I do say it sometimes. I go through a ritual finding her erogenous during foreplay the first time I sleep with someone, and feet are consistently one of them.

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unfortunately feet have never been a part of my foreplay routines

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time to MAKE it part of your routine then
 

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Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
you're already "in". she sounds open. just build off your massages. you don't have to "tell" her per se. just do a bit more than a little massage. you're on the right track.. just don't get all worked up about it. the advice given already is on point, so i won't expand too much on it. (many threads on this topic have been dicussed).

for now, just 'breath' and go ahead enjoy the fact she's cool with your feet deal.

RPM
 

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Posted by deputy chief koizumi (Member # 20344) on :
 
Here's what I'd do in your situation. The next time she puts her feet in your lap, bring up the conversation you had about toe sucking, and see if she'd be willing to let you try it. She seems pretty open about feet in general, and from your story, maybe open to the idea.
It's worth a shot. If she really likes it, and wants you to do that more, then she just opened up the door for you to tell her you like feet.
 

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Posted by dicklipschitz (Member # 127) on :
 
*smack*

That's the sound of me slapping you on the forehead.

She's holding the door open for you, dummy. Don't stand there and dither over how to walk through it.

When the opportunity arises, friggin' take it already. Just lean in and suck her toes. Or give her a foot rub. Or kiss her arch, or nibble on her heel, or nuzzle her ankle.

Don't make a big deal over it. In fact, don't say anything about it. Just incorporate it into your playtime activities, like nothing's unusual, and see where it goes. If you treat her normally -- like you're just having fun, rather than being a drooling perv -- she'll go with the flow.

Here's a lesson I've learned over the years: Women like confident men. If you're indecisive, if you're hemming and hawing, you're gonna miss the goddamned bus. Just go for it, and enjoy the ride.

(By the way, there's a difference between being confident and being a prick ... your job is to know the difference.)

Cheers,
DL
 

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Posted by *@LeX-RaGe* (Member # 22983) on :
 
Bro just tell her straight up..if she's asking you question about feet and stuff..then go for it!! lol =P
 

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Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
Relax....take a deep breath..have fun. If you're not having sex and you're not looking to involve feet in your sex life why bring it up? It's not an issue.
And if you were having sex, women are very intuitive when it comes to things like knowing what appeals to their guy. If you stare at her breast...she knows...if you stare at her feet she knows. What she might not know is why you're staring at her feet. So what's your end goal in telling her?
I usually tell a woman about my fondness for feet before we get physical. It's done in a playfull fun way b/c objectively foot fetishes are pretty funny! God's little joke on us. Don't tell her straight up! Don't sit her down like you would if you had something serious to say. Be comfortable with it, otherwise she won't be. Whenever I tell a girl about my weakness for pretty feet it guarantees some laughs, some verbal playfull teasing both ways and finally me having my way with her and her feet. Planting that subtle seed lets her connect 2 and 2 tegether when ever we do get physical and I include her feet in the fun(something most guys don't do, so she'll notice!)
So relax dude. You're not telling her you have herpes, just that feet turn you on. Oh, I know you're not having sex yet, but the best way for a couple to have great sex is to encourage both parties to divulge what really really turns them on without fear of ridicule. Get your girl to open up and in turn open up to her. Even if you're not having sex, try it! It will create a MUCH tighter bond between the two of you!
good luck
GQguy
 

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Posted by ffan (Member # 32113) on :
 
It sounds to me like she is also into feet since she is the one that always brings up the subject. At the very least she picked you out as the person she wants to have her first foot experience with. Most women are not dumb. They see if you keep darting your eyes away from their face to take a quick glance at their feet. Some women may think you're wierd for liking feet but she apparently does not. Getting her to do a little foot play should be easy. My suggestion is the next time she brings up the subject-jump on it and go with the flow. If she does not bring it up just make a passing comment about her feet. If she recently changed her nail color tell her how nice they look. If she puts her feet in your lap again tell her how soft her feet are.I have a feeling she will take the bait.
Most important-don't deny your fetish-It's part of what makes you who you are.You are lucky enough to have someone so open-NOW GO HAVE SOME FUN!!!!
 

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Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
 
i wish i could tell you, but i have a problem w/ this too
 

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Posted by Rafito (Member # 31512) on :
 
You are all ready in. I knew I was ready to tell my wife, when she started to put her feet in my lap and I started to massage her feet. I told her I liked her feet and how I like them. I saw she did not freak out, so I started to tell her more bit by bit. In one month I was getting a footjob from her.
 

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Posted by jay1 (Member # 15655) on :
 
i use to be just like this...scared lol but just come out and tell,90% of females i told about my foot fetish didnt mind they love it...just try
 

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Posted by Drunk_24-7 (Member # 21781) on :
 
You've hit the jackpot my friend. If she's putting her feet in your lap for foot massages and asking you if you've ever sucked a girl's toes, and then when you say know telling you that she's heard how good it is...well I mean, you couldn't possibly imagine a better or easier scenario. There's no assembly required here, you're aleady in, so just go for it.
 

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Posted by nodes (Member # 29542) on :
 
I dosent really matter what she has said, its what you say. I think if you guys hang out and even more so you guys have been together for two months, it is time. women like men to be assertive they like it for you to take control and make a decision, you have to know what you like and want. I don't mean command her to do this or that. If a chick is letting you in at all, what i mean is if she talks to you becuase she wants to, then you can tell her, this wont make or break anything; as long as you don't come on too strong. whatever you do be confident, make it seem like if its no big deal. Make sure to tell her how pretty her feet are. You could even try this, dont even tell her your history of feet, tell her that you just think her feet are pretty. The method you use should be based on the type of person she is.

For me i kind of come on strong about it. I tell them pretty early. Women love to be told that they are pretty. When it comes to there feet I let them know. I even argue my point. Would you rather I dislike your feet? or worse not pay attention to them? Now you really got her mind going.

But remmember this VITAL POINT!
Dont let her know you like feet all that much because you will lose the "hand" in the relationship. She might start to hold out on you in the future, if she knows you are crazy for her feet she might use that to get her way.
 

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Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
 
"Strike when the iron is hot." It is that simple. And it sounds like the iron is hot and waiting for you to strike . Now, don't go in full speed with reckless abandon , you can use the full throttle, but with some finesse and skill . Most women appreciate a man who is a smooth operator, especially when it comes to being intimate with them .
 

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Posted by gibarian (Member # 11661) on :
 
Wow Sheepz...sounds like you have a good girl dude. She WANTS her toes sucked, that is it man....you're in there.

I've always had a problem when they put their feet in my lap, even if we where just sitting chilling watching tv. I could NEVER hold back a "woody" lol. I remember my last GF when this first happened, she then rubbed my "thang" with her soles through my boxers for about 40 seconds then we had sex...no fj :-(

Go for it bro. Make it a quick, simple, harmless art of your conversation when you're massaging her feet.

Say "you know i love your feet, they are so cute and smooth".....she will love that, make her giggle. Laughter will ALWAYS win a girl over...ALWAYS. As much as they want a "george clooney", they would still rather a more average guy that can make them laugh and make them feel good.
 

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Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
 
Dude! Yeah, seriously, SHE WANTS YOU TO SUCK THOSE TOES man! Lol No seriously, she is curious about it. Don't be shy around a girl who brought it up herself bro' good luck mate.
 

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Posted by cs (Member # 9338) on :
 
I would recommend this approach: "I have a foot fetish, so I'm going to suck your toes, then we're going to have incredibly satisfying sex."

Usually works for me.
 

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Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
 
Two months and you haven't done anything sexual? I assumed you were about 14 when you said that. And you say you've had lots of experience dating and breaking up so then I get the impression your are in your 20s from that statement. Maybe its coz these girls are fed up with you being such a prude and not making your move in a reasonable amount of time that they are breaking up with you? And then you say the girls puts her feet in your lap and blatantly asks have you sucked another girls toes and you have no clue as to how she might be in regards to foot play? Are you thick or just mentally incapacitated?

Strange post indeed.
 

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Posted by toeringguy (Member # 32356) on :
 
before we were married, she put her feet in my lap and i casually took her socks off and played with her feet, i think she was a little freaked out at first but shes very open minded and it didn't really bother her that i sucked on her toes after we were married and i can do it any time i want, but alas she never was really into feet. the bottom line is you already have an in since she brought it up in the first place, sounds like your well on your way.
 

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Posted by cathymules (Member # 15805) on :
 
go for it.i remember the first time my boyfriend sucked my toes.at the time i was shocked(my feet were stinky and was caught off gaurd) but enjoyed it.it was the first time someone paid any attention to my feet ,had no problem getting a foot rub after work then.
 

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Posted by sheepz (Member # 22167) on :
 
Hey guys, not sure if any of you remember me, but i just wanted to say thank you to ALL of you for the advice. I meshed all of it together and did what i thought was right, and it worked perfectly. Shes completely ok with it, and as jay1 said LOVES it, because its "an easy turn on when she needs me" haha.
 

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Posted by theticklishtrollop@hotmail.com (Member # 32801) on :
 
Hmmmm you should have had the confidence at the time to just kinda smirk and say why you want you toes sucked, a woman loves nothing more then a guy with confidence and a lil kinky side. Like I said in other posts what girl would turn down a foot massage from a nice guy she is dating?

Keep up with the foot massages, I can say be a little affectionate like after you finished rubbing one start a routine where you just give the top of her foot a quick kiss. Kind of like a gentleman kissing a ladies hand. After a few sessions of that you will notice she will expect you to kiss them, you have a girl that wants to have done to her what her sister had or she has had before and liked it a lot so she is saying it was her sister that had her toes sucked because she does not want to sound weird.

xoxox

TT
 

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Posted by Sol (Member # 2476) on :
 
NB: Only read the OP.

I can't believe you're even making a thread about this. Your girl has practically offered you her feet on a plate. If she brings up the subject of sucking on toes and sounds interested, you have absolutely no reason to not go forward and tell her about your fetish - it's an open invitation!

From what I've gathered from your post she is interested in the idea, or at the very least open about it. Next time you're together you could steer the convo into fetishes or kinky things and ask her if she has any, and then she'll ask if you do and you just let her know!

It is pretty nerve-wracking to tell a girl about your foot fetish, but when she has flirted with the idea herself it's a no brainer - just come out and admit you have one. I can almost guarantee that she will be cool with the idea, so just let her know!

One thing most guys seem to think is that upon telling a girl you have a foot fetish, if she doesn't warm to the idea it will instantly mark the end of your relationship. Why would that be the case? At the very worst she won't satisfy your fetish desires, but if she already likes you she's not going to bail out just because of a little edge to your sexual preferences.
 

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