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Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
 
Reckon her feet dont rank very high, they looked pretty ordinary. Looks like this might be a relationship void of feet. Now u guys know me, I cant have that. Lovely, attractive girl the conversation went well BUT I dont think she's going to be receptive to footjobs and foot play, which means I wont be satisfied.

What do ya guys think ?
 
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
that is a lot riding on a first date... i'm old school.. (though young)... i don't put a ton at stake on the first date. however, if you're that certain, call it a day and don't build her hopes up.

RPM

p.s. better get the best combo is better than feeling at a loss later...
 
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
 
Will taking her to a salon to get a pedicure make them any nicer looking, do you you think?
 
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
 
sounds like you see this girl for her flaws

in that case, you should kick her to the curb
 
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
 
i wouldnt base it on feet buddy.

if you get along with her, then thats good! you should keep her.

the feet for me has always been a bonus.
 
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
i agree with you toe sucker.. but when a man has a need for feet so bad... having a gal that doens't play ball isn't fun. finding one who can make you happy and has the feet part down is better in that case.

RPM
 
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by RPM:
i agree with you toe sucker.. but when a man has a need for feet so bad... having a gal that doens't play ball isn't fun. finding one who can make you happy and has the feet part down is better in that case.

RPM

Absolutely true
 
Posted by gibarian (Member # 11661) on :
 
Don't feel like you have to go with her because you guys "get along" etc. Plenty of women out there, and plenty of them are attractive that have beautiful feet-that love getting foot massages......foot massages WILL open doors for foot "activity".
 
Posted by Drunk_24-7 (Member # 21781) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mikey P:
sounds like you see this girl for her flaws

in that case, you should kick her to the curb

[Laugh] Well you can never accuse Mikey of beating around the bush. Although that post cracked me up, it's also a very true statement.
 
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
 
Based on a first date, I wouldn't dismiss her out of hand. It has been my experience that it is very often that the nature and personality of the owner of the feet that can make them become more attractive. The suggestion of a "gift pedicure" was a good idea, too.

When speaking in more "straight" company about breasts, I will confess that I have had girlfriends that have taught me that "more than a mouthful is a waste". Others have demonstrated that "more than enough isn't". Each have their own attractions.

If the appeal doesn't improve with a little time...then ditch the bitch.
 
Posted by DownUnderFeet (Member # 31117) on :
 
I'd probably give it time and hope her feet would grow on me if I was in your position. It isn't a deciding factor for me, but if you are not satisfied with her then you shouldn't be expected to stay with her just for the sake of not being an asshole.

[ September 30, 2008, 07:31 AM: Message edited by: DownUnderFeet ]
 
Posted by gibarian (Member # 11661) on :
 
You want a woman that will GET YOUR D*CK HARD...!!! Anything else, and i assure you it will NEVER last, because animal attraction is just that, and we are animals baby..!!

Haha.. In my experience, when the sex and attraction is not there, people cheat..people break up..so on and so on.
 
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
 
Thanks for your input guys. I'll give it some more time and see if it grows.

For those that recommended a pedicure, that wont help as she has kinda clumsy looking feet; thats the prob. Also I doubt if she will accomodate a foot guy in providing regular 'foot play' as she doesnt come accross as the open minded type in this regard. But like I said I'll give it some more time and throw some bait and see how she handles it...
 
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ozboy:
Thanks for your input guys. I'll give it some more time and see if it grows.

For those that recommended a pedicure, that wont help as she has kinda clumsy looking feet; thats the prob. Also I doubt if she will accomodate a foot guy in providing regular 'foot play' as she doesnt come accross as the open minded type in this regard. But like I said I'll give it some more time and throw some bait and see how she handles it...

There must be something about her that makes you want to give her a second chance...something more than just her feet.

Good on ya. There may be unimagined rewards to follow; or it could prove to be a bust but DO stick it out to find out what depth she may have.
 
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
 
If you know for sure she wouldn't be into it, why do that to yourself. You also deserve tbe happy in the relationship too. If that includes feet for yiu then I wouldn't compromise that. You will find someone who is o.k. with it but don't rush
 
Posted by girlyfootlvr (Member # 27325) on :
 
Most girls have decent looking feet. Don't base anything on 1st date. Go out a few times and see if you have FUN with her, ENJOY her company, and have things in COMMON..etc.

Then get her some complimentry Nail Polishes and tell her how you like those colors on her fingers and toes.. Slowly build on to it. Have her get a pedicure, or give her one. Get her a toe ring, etc. Tell her you love her pretty feet. And guess what - she'll be game! And I'm sure if you pamper ordinary feet, they tend to look Extra-ordinary. There's very minor different in the two....
 
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
 
quote:
And I'm sure if you pamper ordinary feet, they tend to look Extra-ordinary. There's very minor different in the two....
A valid point girlyfootlvr, however my passion lies with toe skill and dexterity not just in a pretty looking foot, hence the complexity of my situation.
 


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