ok ive been to some partys and everytime i go to party with my friends there are some hot girls there. as the night goes on i notice that the hot girls got sexy feet the ones wearing sandals flip flops and there is some girls with sock covered feet. i wanted to smell some of these girls feet. a few girls took of there gym shoes and where wearing socks like i just mentioned and they put them up on the coffee table at my friends party. i was like i want to smell your feet. but i didnt say it. but i did keep looking when the girls and other people wernt looking. my question is how do i get these girls to notice that im looking at there feet and without my friends knowing ive got a foot fetish. what should i say to these girls.
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT One of the few positive things about getting older or becomming more experienced is that you learn, you grow, you become comfortable with yourself, you gain confidence, and you care less and less what others think. If you are a good responsible law abiding citizen, with a job, a family, and some money in your pocket, what do you care about what others think or say. If you are not hurting anyone, what you do, what you like is your own personal business. Respect for the woman is paramount, and honesty and good communication. To approach a girl, just keep it light and fun, and pay a compliment like, nice shoes, I like your nail color, design. Once you enter a relationship, be attentive to her needs, listen, give of yourself, and of course if it is approached right, she will give back to you! Pay attention to all parts of her body and then slowly work feet into it. You let her know how much you like them, and it turns you on so much, and most women are OK with it! Just be well rounded and not just a foot fiend. You will then find your girlfriend will slowly and gradually accomodate your needs. Don't be affraid, communicate, ask for what you want, and be willing to give to get. If you are called out by her or anyone...you respond, SO WHAT THAT I LIKE FEET, I love everything about a woman and her body, I am a man after all. I enjoy kissing her all over, women should be adored and worshipped by their man, what's wrong with that! Maybe you should try it, you may like it, or maybe you just don't like women? If it is her, you say I love everything about you, is that OK? In other words go for it! Life is short! BE CONFIDENT, but be respectful, and go slow. Then the answer to this question will not be so hard and difficult. So what if people or even the woman makes fun of you...laugh it off, no big deal, laugh at yourself, and then go kiss, lick and smell some pretty female feet! You can also say that an ex-girlfriend loved having her feet kissed, and when I saw how excited she got when I did it, that it excited me too! Did you know girls get turned on that way? Go figure! THOSE LAUGHING AT YOU....ARE SECRETLY JEALOUS OF YOU! PLEASE BELIEVE ME...AND DON'T BE ASHAMED! 1 out of every 4 guys absolutely, positively, loves girls feet. We all secretly know that too! THAT'S RIGHT 25% OF MEN HAVE A FOOT OR SHOE FETISH!!! ABSOLUTELY, NO ARGUMENT, MOST ARE JUST TOO SCARED AND IMMATURE TO ADMIT IT!!!SO BE PLAYFUL, MAKE IT A JOKE, DON'T CARE WHO LAUGHS, AND GO GET SOME SEXY FEMALE FEET!!!
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
OMG if I was going to read that I sure would need it to be broken down into some paragraphs. That's just hellish on the eyes!
Posted by luv p3rf3ct to3s (Member # 22036) on :
quote:Originally posted by Pjay: OMG if I was going to read that I sure would need it to be broken down into some paragraphs. That's just hellish on the eyes!
Posted by Mike Loves FEet (Member # 24256) on :
WELL SAID ROYALS!
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mike Loves FEet: WELL SAID ROYALS!
Are ya fuckin' kidding me? Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
OK, I'll grant that the points are valid. Even the sentences are ok. But what the fuck is up with not breaking it down into some sensible paragraph structure? Do THAT and then we can say, "Well said." All right?
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Hey Pjay, RELAX BROTHER!!! You don't know me, or nothing about me, to come off like this!!!!!!. Your point is valid. WATCH YOUR TONE WITH ME! If you are talking to me YOU BETTER BE FUCK'N RESPECTFUL! You got something to say, there are ways to say it! DON'T MOCK ME DUDE! GOT IT? I'm not starting a flame war here, but if you come on to me hard like this, you wouldn't be so brave to my face, I KNOW THAT FOR SURE! CHILL! HAVE A GOOD NIGHT!
Posted by oppressus (Member # 36433) on :
Hahaha, this is irrelevant to the original post but I like how ROYALS went off on Pjay, saying stuff like "you don't know me", "WATCH YOUR TONE" or "BETTER BE FUCKIN RESPECTFUL" and finally "DON"T MOCK ME DUDE" etc etc, basically words that would be exchanged in person say at a bar or something in a heated moment...but he ends it with "I am not starting a flame war here" BWAHAHAHAHA!!! That is lame ROYALS, you need to chill, stop talking all big here as if you are going to do something about it, in a non cyber way. its a message forum. don't make lame ass threats.
and in case you want to go off on me, ill cut to the chase, no i do not know you nor do i ever think i will see you. PEACE!
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
I didn't threaten him, nor will I threaten you. I told him point blank to watch his tone and be respectful, I will say the same to you. The fact is people get brave behind their computer because they couldn't act this way in the real world without getting a big foot in their ass. Neither of you would say @#$% to my face, and that's a fact dude, nothing lame about it, no threat, fact baby! Now, enough of this bull crap, my intent was to be supportive, and helpful to this guy who wrote this thread. I was not being rude to him just TRYING TO BE helpful. You don't like the way I presented it, fine, say so without being some super dick! His point was well taken, the way he said it and continued to say it deserves my big size 13eeee foot up his ass! I have got no beef with anyone else on this great board, and I want to keep it that way! I hope the original poster finds my guidence to be of some help, then this would all be worth it! NUFF SAID! PEACE OUT!
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Thank you hammer114eva I really appreciate that a lot. I want to go back to enjoying this amazing board again, and people like you remind me why I like it here so much. Compared to other boards, there is so little flame throwing and posturing here, and the best group of people anywhere on the net. So thank you again! Take care!
Posted by ToeSucker83 (Member # 3187) on :
Getting frustrated on this forum is ok, but I think we should all be tactful about it. Instead of berating someone because you disagree, just ignore it. If someone 'calls you out' don't even sweat it baby! That said...
mtcarmeman2323, I remember being your age and fiending for some hot feet that I saw at the parties. My advice is, just be yourself and if a girl is into you, she's about 60% or more likely to get excited about you paying attention to her feet.
You can wait it out and confess your fetish later, but if you and a girl you like are kicking it having a good time - offer a foot massage. Or if you're making out and wanna test it, rub her feet, lick her toes, seduce her...
BOTTOM LINE: If you don't treat it as something weird, she'll be 90% MORE likely to not think of it in a negative way.
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Toesucker83, well said, good advice to me, and more importantly, really good advice to the poster of this thread. I think we think alike, and he can really benefit if he takes our experience and comments to heart.
Posted by The foot fu**in master (Member # 2152) on :
Oh boy! i didn't think Wu's was the place for peeps to get gully, but guys, there's no need. Royals made very valid points to the initial post. Pjay gave his opinion on how it read. Imho it should have ended there.
I'm sure plenty of us have gotten into forum exchanges which get a bit heated, but at the end of the day the big words and tough talk doesn't cut it. We need to also remember that if we want to continue using the forums we should be respectful of fellow users and avoid using the kind of language which can spark the kind of flame war Royal mentioned. Also the moderators can also step in if things start to get out of hand. Hopefully, the original poster got some useful advise from you Royal, and it was a shame the thread descended to what it did. I hope we can all be a bit more civil from here on.
My 2 cents worth.
FFM
Posted by mtcarmeman2323 (Member # 35435) on :
thanks for all the advice so far very helpful. my next question is at a party has anybody ever gotten caught looking at the ladies feet. i think i would want to get caught on purpose. how do you get caught on purpose for looking at there feet. what about when your not at a party and say your at walmart or since im a college student how do you get caught on purpose looking at there feet.
Posted by ToeSucker83 (Member # 3187) on :
Well, you could just tell her that you think she has pretty feet... Or wait til SHE looks at you and then check out her feet while you have her attention. Be creative and Good Luck!!!!
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
It's me again, hi! I'll try not to piss anyone off! What you ask is a great question. The technique that can work is the prolonged glance at her feet, then wait on her eyes, when she gets you, YOU SMILE, LOOK DOWN, LOOK BACK, and laugh. LAUGH at yourself! Then approach, say hi, and say, I never can be smoothe when I look at something absolutely gorgeous! SMILE! I really like your shoes, oh, and everything else is amazing too! GOOD LUCK!
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
My APOLOGIES to everyone here once again, I acted immature and I know better. I am just an older very experienced dude, honestly trying to help a younger guy out, and I think I can do it. I wish there was someone 25 years ago there to help me out a little! AH, but that's where the experience comes from!
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
Royals gives some good advice in both his first post and in his last response to mtcarmeman, even in spite of the structurally flawed paragraphs (I just had to get that in because it was such a big issue on page 1.). Seriously though, I think it's more about the advice given and its intent and Royals is on target, in my opinion.
The bottom line is like Royals said: Be confident in yourself, respectful and go slow. Doing that will make a woman feel more at ease around you and she'll trust you more. Just remember that there are a bunch of things higher on the kinky spectrum than liking a woman's feet. It may seem a little odd at first to her but if she feels comfortable and trusts you before you "make your move" on her feet, she'll just follow your lead, which, again, women find very appealing.
With regards to the second question about wanting to get caught looking at a woman's feet, I guess I can see where you're coming from by trying to put your attraction/interest out there right off the bat. I think you have to be very careful though not to come off too strong. Looking at a woman's feet and hoping she notices is really not that much different from looking at a woman to get eye contact. The first couple of times doing it is ok. However, when no move is made on the part of the guy and the staring just continues, it can definitely freak a woman out and make her feel like she's being stalked. There has to be some kind of exchange, like a smile when she catches you looking (either at her feet or her face) and you need to let her know that you know she's looking. The way Royals explained it is probably one of the best ways to do it, in my opinion. After that, you definitely have to move in and start a conversation of some kind. Otherwise, it can just become too creepy for the woman involved. And, again, keep the conversation light, be confident in yourself and be respectful towards her.
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Thank you FATE111, I appreciate your support, and of course I agree with you 100%. The one other thing I want to add is the ability to be easy, light, sort of care free, with a good sense of humor, and self critical humor. You like to have FUN! You want the girl to have FUN. Be funny, charming, and if you get shot down, shrug it off, laugh it off, take it well, move on, believe it or not, there may still be a next time with her. Watch the movie the WEDDING CRASHERS!!! This is a required watch! Watch how easy and silly these guys are, VINCE VAUGHN, for example. Make her feet fun, great toenail polish, did your toes come that way out of the box? OR, Those shoes are awesome, did those feet really come with them? What a deal! If you are easy and fun, girls tend to respond that way! OK, MATTHEW M. movies with KATE HUDSON are great too! Watch that stuff, sounds stupid, but that is a good way to learn!!!
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
HI, SO YOU KNOW, THIS WAS THE RESULT OF MY ADCVICE AS WELL AS OTHERS ON THIS BOARD, AND THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED FOR REAL FOR ANOTHER POSTER WITH A QUESTION HERE!!! IS THERE ANY BETTER PROOF THAN THIS FOR YOU, READ WHAT HE WROTE, AND PLEASE BE INSPIRED:.......... OK... I want to close this post out for anyone that might be interested. Not sure if you guys will believe what I am going to write, but I need to just get it out for my own sake. Never thought it would play out like this....
So, she agreed to the drink and we whent for a drink at a small bar around the corner from work... I could write a 2 page paper here, but want to keep it quick for the forum.
She was dressed in a black sweater top with gray wool pants. The best part was the high heal strappy shoes with a fresh coat of black polish. Like I said before, this woman’s feet are "perfection". We started talking about work and all that BS when... After about 3 beers I did what you guys said. I complemented her on her shoes and how nice her pedicure was... This was it!...
It was at this point were she ordered a Cranberry and Vodka and inched her stool closer. Before I knew it her foot was immediately pressed up against my leg. Wow!..better then I could have ever expected.
We had two more drinks and she asked me if I wanted a last drink at her condo? Of curse I said yes...!
This is the part I can write a book about... little to say it was the best foot fetish experience I have ever had or could have wished for....!!!, and I was on my way home at about 2:30 that morning.
I appreciate everyone’s advice and encouragement... It just gave me the extra courage to do this, and I am sooooo glad I did. Wow... I really still cant believe it happened. I know it seems a bit far fetched, but you have my word this story is real. Not sure how this is going to affect the work relationship, but in my mind it is going to make it even better.... Thanks Guys!!!
Posted by den2 (Member # 20517) on :
Kill em ROYALS!! Kill em!! "ha ha" Anyways I thought your response was very well said, don't let Pjay get ya pissed, He just doesn't get it that's all.
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Thank you very much DEN2. I hope this post has the same level of success for this poster, as the other post did! It is great when you can see results from this communities help and support, that is what all of this should be about, POSITIVITY! GIVING BACK! SHARING! SUCCESS!
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