great article!!!!
Posted by Mona (Member # 8351) on :
Dan has a rather large following as a love columnist among a certain demographic and I know many people, especially young women, who take his word as gospel to a certain extent. This article is very good for the Foot community.
Posted by archadmirer (Member # 3142) on :
Nice find. Dan wrote an article several years ago telling a writer that her bad karma from ditching a foot guy would probably land her a husband that didn't admit to necrophilia until after marriage... funny dude!
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
nice plug on our behalf!! cool!
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
very nice
Posted by Mr. Mule (Member # 35514) on :
I love how he defends the foot community. Its very empowering.
Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
Dan Savage is awesome.
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
That answer he gave was awesome!
"...if she can indulge your fetish—happily and regularly—and take some pleasure in giving you pleasure, she might be “the one.” If she can’t or won’t, she obviously isn’t."
Superb!
Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :
quote:Originally posted by archadmirer: Nice find. Dan wrote an article several years ago telling a writer that her bad karma from ditching a foot guy would probably land her a husband that didn't admit to necrophilia until after marriage... funny dude!
That was a great article too.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Excellent response from Dan. I wish I had read something like before I got married. It might have encouraged me to tell my fiance' about my fetish. Then I could have enjoyed her feet our entire married life instead of waiting 23 years.
The point that stood out to me, because I'm monogamous was: "Finally, SFF, don’t let the girlfriend—or anyone else—tell you that you’re threatening to end this relationship over something trivial. Sexual fulfillment is important, particularly if your relationship is exclusive. And the “triviality” of your kink cuts both ways: If your kink is so trivial, why not just indulge you, then? And in a long-term relationship—or a marriage—one partner’s sexual selfishness and another’s sexual frustration rarely prove trivial over the long haul. They’re more often grounds for divorce." Great point.
I've hoped and wished for many years (since I divulged my FF to my wife) that she would allow me to use it as an outlet for enjoyment for myself because her sex drive is so much lower than mine. Unfortunately for the most part she's just not into pleasing me unles it involves both of us. It's either both of us- or none of us. Occasionally, especially on mornings that I'm horny, while laying on her stomach she'll let me uncover her legs and feet and cum on her soles. But there's not much involvement or feedback from her. Still it's better than nothing.
She's always been very sensitive about feeling that things are being "done TO her rather than WITH her". While I try, it's hard to understand. I just have the same feeling that this guy has- that she doesn't want to make me happy.
Maybe it's because I'm a guy- but I know I could get her off everyday if SHE wanted it, even if I didn't want sex or mutual masturbation, and be totally involved- interacting, encouraging, teasing, etc.
Anyway, great article that spoke to me. Sure wish I could get the wife to read it.
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
He really is defending a big part of the fetish community, not just us Foot Guys. In any case, he re-iterates what I've always believed.
Good find. Posted by Mona (Member # 8351) on :
Dan's newest column defends a guy with a running shoe fetish.
It took me a second to figure out who Dan Savage is...I've read his article in a local paper called "Metrotimes" all the time and I find it to be hilarious..He is nuts and Foot guys are nothing compared to some of the stuff he has to hear people talk about...
Posted by PFS (Member # 20905) on :
That guy is the king of common sense...I'd like to buy him a beer!
Posted by DownUnderFeet (Member # 31117) on :
Yeah he's done a few articles on feet over the years.
i agree 100% with what savage said. because i have been in relationships in the past,where i had to through my foot fetish to the side because of my partner. that relationship ended because i held back who i was and what i was into,that it led to watching porn on the internet. well we are no longer together and you see where i'm writing my reply from,so i guess that settles that.lol. Enjoy this footjob cumshots cumpilation FREE! Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
I thought that I knew what he was saying...but. now I'm not sure...TELL ME! I WANNA LMMFAO TOO!
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet:
quote:It’s not like you’re into shit or choking or Christian side-hugs
christian side-hugs? LMAO, does anybody besides me get that?
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