I found a video on youtube tittle fat toes.It was of a plus size girl with chubby feet that were realy nice.But there were so many negative comments about her feet and size.This bother me because just because a women is not a 100pound supermodel does not mean she does not have sexy feet.A friend of mine is about 5ft7 and 200+ pounds but she has the most beautiful feet I have ever seen.[Before you ask I have never aproached her about my foot fetish.]I was wondering how everyone else felt? Is weight a factor with feet because with me it is not.
Posted by Below_the_Ankles (Member # 33795) on :
I have to be attracted to a woman's entire body before I can be attracted to just her feet, and I simply don't find fat chicks attractive. At all. That's how I feel.
Posted by little5 (Member # 26188) on :
I actually prefer plump chicks. Not to the point of those awful cellulite legs but 200 lbs doesn't bother me at all. Yes plump chicks tend to have feet that are more fleshy and wrinkly than thin chicks. I like that.
Posted by Rashad (Member # 34143) on :
man bbw girls have nice feet i and i dont mind their bodies its just when they have fat flaps everywhere its like wtf thats not attractive but i love big girls feet
Posted by Groovyfacey (Member # 35475) on :
I'm going to have to agree with Below The Ankles on this one.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Personally don't care for really heavy girls (now a little overweight's another thing- maybe it's my age or the fact that I carry some extra weight myself)but that's NOT saying that they can't have great feet. I've seen some very nice feet on heavier girls.
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
A few years ago I was at a grocery store doing some shopping and I seem this BBW woman, cute face and I look down at her feet. I thought her feet looked sexy. Somehow, I kinder falled her around not to get notice just to check out her feet more. Also, as she walked in that store I could notice her soles and they were very wrinkled.
I like BBW women who has sexy feet too.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Unfortunately, people are cruel on the net. I'll bet most of those comments are from bored/drunk/stoned clods who've got nothing else better to do with their time.
[ December 11, 2009, 08:51 PM: Message edited by: dougiezerts ]
Posted by solebrotha985 (Member # 2347) on :
*shrugs* i have always loved thick women, big girls whatever u wanna call them. i have come across a lot of them that have very sexy feet. i was never one to be attracted to 100 lbs stick women. to each their own though.
[ December 11, 2009, 08:44 PM: Message edited by: solebrotha985 ]
Posted by Mr. Mule (Member # 35514) on :
Ain't nothing wrong wit a big woman or her plump feet! But I have a limit like everybody else 200lb is fine we start movin closer to 300lb thats a little bit much LOL!
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
I'm 200 lbs, so of course I'm not opposed to it.;p I wouldn't change much about myself. I'm happy with how I am. I am not very picky with who's feet I like. I don't find really skinny girls attractive at all, and prefer bigger girls anyhow.
Posted by vanderfeet (Member # 8733) on :
pleasantly plump FTW!
Posted by Rashad (Member # 34143) on :
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I'm 200 lbs, so of course I'm not opposed to it.;p I wouldn't change much about myself. I'm happy with how I am. I am not very picky with who's feet I like. I don't find really skinny girls attractive at all, and prefer bigger girls anyhow.
most of that are your massive breast lol
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
I have a fetish for voluptuous women. I am very down with the plus sized models.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
quote:Originally posted by Rashad:
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I'm 200 lbs, so of course I'm not opposed to it.;p I wouldn't change much about myself. I'm happy with how I am. I am not very picky with who's feet I like. I don't find really skinny girls attractive at all, and prefer bigger girls anyhow.
most of that are your massive breast lol
Lol. Thanks.
[ December 12, 2009, 09:41 AM: Message edited by: ShortLivedTyranny ]
Posted by houseshooz (Member # 10572) on :
Proportions are what matter most to me. If the length, width and thickness are all in line then the rest is irrelevant.
I think what might bother some ff guys is that heavy-set women are more prone to packing on excess fat in the feet which can cause the tops, toes and soles to lose their distinctive characteristics and just look swollen.
Nothing wrong with thickness, as long as it can enhance and not consume the natural shape of the woman's foot.
Posted by sofatater (Member # 4209) on :
I like women of various sizes. However, if I see a picture of a woman or her feet and I find that I'm not attracted to her or her feet, I don't feel the need to make such a comment. (i.e. "Damn, those are some ugly...") That's why it pisses me off to read such comments in any forum. If ya don't like what ya see, fine, move on. If ya do like what ya see, please make a polite comment. And just for the record- ShortLivedTyranny, very nice. I don't comment on every picture I like 'cause I try to not be a "post whore".
Posted by Albatross (Member # 15234) on :
I am perfectly fine with chubby chicks!
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
quote:Originally posted by sofatater: I like women of various sizes. However, if I see a picture of a woman or her feet and I find that I'm not attracted to her or her feet, I don't feel the need to make such a comment. (i.e. "Damn, those are some ugly...") That's why it pisses me off to read such comments in any forum. If ya don't like what ya see, fine, move on. If ya do like what ya see, please make a polite comment. And just for the record- ShortLivedTyranny, very nice. I don't comment on every picture I like 'cause I try to not be a "post whore".
Thank you. I respect your wish to not be a psot whore.;p
Posted by prettyfeet702 (Member # 35450) on :
As a professional plus size model, I'm not surprised to read the wide array of responses to this thread. At a size 10/12, I am considered "plus" in my industry ... I really don't think a scale does a woman's figure-assessment as much justice as her proportions and tone ... I've met women who weigh less than me that look like crap because they are jiggly and poorly groomed .. and I've met women who weigh more than me who are GORGEOUS because they are muscular and busty with voluptuous asses and thick legs. I'm happy with my figure, could care LESS about men who don't like me because I'm not a size zero, and I'm not hearing too many complaints from the men who date me or photograph me.
Just like not all men like blondes, not all men like thin women. Brunettes, redheads, thick girls, plus size girls -- we all have a place in someone's heart ( we can't all be size zero and blonde, sorry Hef!).
If someone isn't your cup of tea, keep it moving til you find someone you dig .. but don't disrespect her or the man who finds her attractive. Who knows, the chick you find attractive might be considered disgusting or unattractive by someone else's standard of beauty.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
My taste differs from many here. While i'm attracted to many types I see no point dating women i'm only mildly attracted to when I can date those i'm highly attracted to.
In any case, every woman is beautiful in their own way.Odds are someone out there likes the content that a woman post. It's not cool to blast her for having the balls to post stuff. I'd like to see these same dudes post their pictures to be commented on.
I do get a little irritated though when someone starts a thread with "the most beautiful feet ever" only for me to open the post and see chipped polish, scaley heels, flat feet or puffy ankles. A more modest title will do.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
chefflash some plus-sized girls can be gorgeous! Plus-sized girls can still with plus-sized looks and of course incredible feet.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
To each their own is what must be remembered on this topic. Same could be said for "red head feet" or "sky high arches", not every foot guy is gonna find them attractive.
To me, a "fat" foot is not in the least bit attractive, the only distinctive characteristic between a "fat" foot and a guys feet are the nail polish. Harsh as that sounds that's my opinion.
I have seen countless threads in the pic section of plus sized women's feet that I find not in the least bit alluring but that doesn't give me the right/privelege of posting my thoughts. I would rather see people posting pics of those feet then not posting ANY pics(which happens to alot of forums).
The moral of my post is to each their own.
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
I need thick women to accompany my size.
Posted by Rashad (Member # 34143) on :
quote:Originally posted by sofatater: I like women of various sizes. However, if I see a picture of a woman or her feet and I find that I'm not attracted to her or her feet, I don't feel the need to make such a comment. (i.e. "Damn, those are some ugly...") That's why it pisses me off to read such comments in any forum. If ya don't like what ya see, fine, move on. If ya do like what ya see, please make a polite comment. And just for the record- ShortLivedTyranny, very nice. I don't comment on every picture I like 'cause I try to not be a "post whore".
i said wat ur saying in another forum lol
Posted by desmond (Member # 20001) on :
ofcourse we love the whole body to be nice,
but I have to be honest, if a girl is unattractive, meaning body and face, if she has the kind of feet that make my knees weak, I'm ashamed to say that she would get my attention in a heartbeat if she wanted to.
i find feet important to the degree that if everything else is unattractive, feet can make it up. And because of the feet, Ill slowly find the rest more attractive as well.
Kind of like the wayt that a real nice women (karakter-wise) can become super attractive physically, just because of her great karakter. Feet for me have that same power.
There is this girl at my office that I really don't like. She's just not a nice or good person and she's not even ashamed of it, she's just a little mean and doesn't care about anything it seams, she's not all that attractive but thinks she is, that's just so wrong and overall ugly on a person.
But men, She likes to wear open schoes whenever she can, she knows I don't really like her, but if she only new how much I love her feet, I bet she would use it against me. She's has gorgeous large slender long feet with long beautifull toes.
I really dislike her, but her damn feet still get to me and make me act very civilized to her, something that I wouldn't do if she had ugly feet, then I would totally ignore her and be as short as possible with her, but anytime her annoying ass is talking to me, all I see and think of are her long slender dark skinned feet with those long beautifull toes!!!
damn my fetish!!! haha
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
quote:Originally posted by Below_the_Ankles: I have to be attracted to a woman's entire body before I can be attracted to just her feet, and I simply don't find fat chicks attractive. At all. That's how I feel.
MY EXACT FEELING.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
quote:Originally posted by solebrotha985: *shrugs* i have always loved thick women, big girls whatever u wanna call them. i have come across a lot of them that have very sexy feet. i was never one to be attracted to 100 lbs stick women. to each their own though.
I could not agree more. Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
Can't stand overweight people. It shows that they care little about their health, which is the most important thing to care about.
Posted by Dick Lipschitz (Member # 127) on :
Can't stand closed-minded people. It shows they care too much about superficial appearances, which is the least important thing to care about.
That out of the way, it really depends on the woman. Some girls look great and are quite fun, while others look sloppy. Personally, I prefer a girl with some curves. But we're not going to settle anything here, are we? It's all about individual tastes.
Cheers, DL
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
quote:Originally posted by Dick Lipschitz: Can't stand closed-minded people. It shows they care too much about superficial appearances, which is the least important thing to care about.
That out of the way, it really depends on the woman. Some girls look great and are quite fun, while others look sloppy. Personally, I prefer a girl with some curves. But we're not going to settle anything here, are we? It's all about individual tastes.
Cheers, DL
It's not so much the Aesthetics of it, it's the fact that it really is unhealthy. Don't get me wrong I like a woman to have curves, I'm a fan of a bit of extra ass. But, there is a difference between a woman who has a full figure and nice curves, and a woman who resembles a shapeless pile of dough,
Posted by skipperbob (Member # 28525) on :
I like them all ways but I prefer meaty feet over thin, boney feet anytime. I like my women big!
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
I would like to say I really do not think my feet look like mens feet.:\
And you can be a bigger girl and still not be a shapeless pile of dough.
It is also very unhealthy to be stick thin... depending on your hieght being under 130 lbs could be unhealthy.
It's not that they do not care about their health. Some people just have a really hard time losing wieght over others. Some even have medical problems that disable them to do some of exercising required to lose that wieght.
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: It's not that they do not care about their health. Some people just have a really hard time losing wieght over others. Some even have medical problems that disable them to do some of exercising required to lose that wieght.
Life is hard, but you gotta try.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
Who says they do not try? The only trying that should be talked about is you trying to put yourself in their shoes, and try not to be so judgemental.
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
Thou shalt not weigh more than thy refrigerator.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
Are you not attracted to under-wieght women as well? If you are still using health to disguise your criticism that is.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Attraction isn't a choice. One cannot help who they're attracted to.
I don't think people should go out of their way to make larger people feel bad. Obviously there are guys out there that dig that.
What's all this talk about boney women? As though those that don't dig BBW's automatically date stick thin women. Last I checked all of the men's magazines, playboy ect and the top foot models...none of them are bone thin. It's not as though it's either big girls or skinny chics....one or the other.
Just had to defend those that lead an athletic lifestyle. Watch what they eat and work out religiously like me.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
Cliches, but...
"To each his own."
&
"Variety is the spice of life."
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
I was saying that because he used unhealthy as a reason for not liking bigger people and critcising them. I was simply asking if he thought the same of underwieght women.
The same type of concept applies when I challange men who HATE homosexuals, but hot young lesbians are A-Okay.
Don't use a one-sided reason if you aren't up to it being challenged.
And for the record, you don't have to be bone thin to be underwieght for your height.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I was saying that because he used unhealthy as a reason for not liking bigger people and critcising them. I was simply asking if he thought the same of underwieght women.
The same type of concept applies when I challange men who HATE homosexuals, but hot young lesbians are A-Okay.
Don't use a one-sided reason if you aren't up to it being challenged.
And for the record, you don't have to be bone thin to be underwieght for your height.
Save for certain runway shows one rarely ever sees the underweight woman. Even then....that is not the male ideal if porn/mens mag/ ect are any indication of what most men find attractive. Scientist even found there's a certain hip to waist ratio of 0.7 that men universally find most attractive.
A little more off topic....next time you spar with a guy over his close minded stance on homosexuals keep this in mind:
Interesting reads.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
They were very interesting reads. I still hold the thought that you should be fair in your thoughts and let all gays be gay, not just the ones that arouse you. That goes the same for bigger girls. Let them feel sexy, everyone deserves to feel that way, because to someone, they are. Big fashion models are not underwieght? Yes most are. Victioria secret models? Now they are not. When the fashion world considers 150 lbs to be a plus size model, then something's wrong. That is not an unhealthy wieght.
Posted by Dick Lipschitz (Member # 127) on :
We all have our faults. We're overweight. We're underweight. We smoke. We drink. We text while driving. We can't do math. We watch too much TV. Whatever. Everybody has an unappealing quality or two.
So let's be careful about how we relay our thoughts about other people. "I can't stand ..." is not the same as "I'm not attracted to ..." . The latter implies a lack of interest; the former implies a lack of tolerance.
Just a thought.
Cheers, DL
Posted by Below_the_Ankles (Member # 33795) on :
quote:Originally posted by Dick Lipschitz: "I can't stand ..." is not the same as "I'm not attracted to ..." . The latter implies a lack of interest; the former implies a lack of tolerance.
Exactly, sir. Well said. Posted by AceCorr (Member # 37554) on :
Plus size women are fine with me. All I request is that their feet are also plus size so there is more to worship! I don't like it when big women have tiny feet. Since I love feet, I love big feet because there is more to worship.
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
I'm not that in to under-weight women either, I don't go for the Herioin Chic look really.
The reason I bring up the health issue, in regards to overweight and underweight women alike, is due to my own healthy life-style choice. It is as GQ said, it doesn't really make sense to attack our choice to be fit and trim, while eating properly. I do it because it makes me feel good, and I know that if I dislike women with plus sizes then it is only fair that I should also maintain a healthy physique so as not to perpetuate the double standard that "it's okay for guys to be fat but not chicks".
Also, the comparison you drew up about hating homosexuals. Well, that doesn't really fly with me because I am bisexual. But, since this is a forum for people with a fetish for female feet. It doesn't seem appropriate for either of us to bring it up. Since this is a straight guy fetish.
Posted by prettyfeet702 (Member # 35450) on :
Well since we're in philosophy mode, I might as well throw in a wrench: Do any of the men care to whom the models are attracted? Or are we not really people, but mere feet attached to moving lungs, put on Wu's for the sole purpose of objectification?
Posted by prettyfeet702 (Member # 35450) on :
quote:Originally posted by Diabolicus: this is a straight guy fetish.
are you kidding me? I know tons of gay men, gay women, and straight women into feet! Since when did you have to be a hetero male to dig feet?
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
quote:Originally posted by prettyfeet702: Well since we're in philosophy mode, I might as well throw in a wrench: Do any of the men care to whom the models are attracted? Or are we not really people, but mere feet attached to moving lungs, put on Wu's for the sole purpose of objectification?
It would be interesting to hear you expand on this. I guess most guys just don't want to hear too many personal details from the models, chances are it won't really matter because it's not like everyone using these forums and Wu's site in general are the type of guys out to meet up with these models.
But, rather from a models perspective, how about just offering up a female point of view and what women are attracted to regarding these issues.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by prettyfeet702: Well since we're in philosophy mode, I might as well throw in a wrench: Do any of the men care to whom the models are attracted? Or are we not really people, but mere feet attached to moving lungs, put on Wu's for the sole purpose of objectification?
Hmmm. I don't really care who the models that post here are attracted to. Not because I don't see them as people, but merely because it doesn't effect me. I have no interest in dating the models here. I'm not a model. If I did model, I would understand that there are some that would prefer another type. This of course is something i'd have no control over of course.
By the looks of things, if you were looking for a date(thats the only time our looks matter) you'd have your pick from the majority.
At least we as a forum have come to a consensus however that no one should be exposed to negative comments due to their size.
[ December 15, 2009, 08:11 AM: Message edited by: GQguy ]
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
DL, it's so individual taste!
the two women who spoke up about being "plus" size don't even register in my book as plus sized!! lol!!!
one person said it best earlier.. it's all about shape and proportions that do the trick for me in terms of being attractive or not. i don't use weight as a barometer.. i look a lot less than the scale suggests... and that throws people off who ask. they think i'm handsome and want to talk to me (despite my reminding them i'm married).. but the minute they hear the weight number, their minds start to struggle with the discrepency they see.. a handsome guy should not tip the scale so high! yet.. no one would ever call me fat.. i dont' look fat.. just weigh like i'm fat.. (my doc hates that.. he feels the scale is right and i must loose a ton of weight.. but he never said a word before seeing the number)
bottom line.. society has an issue with those who look disproportionately big! society doesn't care the reason or cause (medical or psychological.. or just taught bad habbits as a child and forced to eat by a parent .. something i see in my line of work sadly enough)
this thread covered everything else i had in mind to say so well.. so... i'm off to the pic area:)
RPM
Posted by LordLucan (Member # 2130) on :
Take a look at this site: ELISHA'S FEET & HEELS! She's not Kate Moss but shows off her feet perfectly with style and elegance! It may change the minds of some fo you who've posted in this thread.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by LordLucan: Take a look at this site: ELISHA'S FEET & HEELS! She's not Kate Moss but shows off her feet perfectly with style and elegance! It may change the minds of some fo you who've posted in this thread.
I don't know any guys that would say Kate Moss was their feminine ideal. She's a fashion model. She models clothes for women....not for men. You'll never find her on the cover of maxim magazine or any similar type. What's funny is that it's women perpetuating this skinny unhealthy image. Not men. Give me a Shannon Elizabeth a Jennifer Aniston or an Alisha Keys. You won't find a Kate Moss in a Sports illustrated swim suit issue.
As for Elisha. She's very pretty. Has great style. But i'm not physically attracted to her. Maybe her personality. Some might say that i'm superficial but....isn't physical attraction completely superficial?
GQ
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
My point was to provide a comparison. I will bring up which ever I please to make my point. Your sexuality has nothing to do with what I said, and it was not said to insult you in any way.
And no this is not a straight guy forum, geez you are full of generalizations.
Posted by Soopaman Lova (Member # 2743) on :
Wow, this here is a pretty touchy thread. Me, personally, I don't mind a thick woman. Hell,i'm from Texas. But I just don't cut for the women that somehow just let themselves go. I dated this one woman that was 30 at the time I was 24 and she was more like an amazon and her feet were beautiful. I mean, flawless. She just had more in all the right places. Stomach was still flat though. Anywho, I guess it is to each thier own but this is about to be 2010, there is no such thing as "Respect" these days. Everyone that feels extremely against what you believe won't just look over it, you can expect that they will go by any means to get thier opinions heard. Just to let thier existence be known...I dunno what it is.But I got love for thicker women. If it was up to me, i'd have enough to pull a 550. Plus thier attitudes are alot better. Shit...by the looks of the mainstream, women on that 90 lb. program are going out of style.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I think what he meant to say Tyranny was that Wu's is a "straight guy's place" as in your not gonna see guys feet on here. That's not saying there isn't gay guys/women amongst us...
Posted by Elisha Jade (Member # 37585) on :
Firstly, LordLucan thank you for posting my URL I'm Elisha, I'm plus size and I don't have manly feet hehehe. (I don't take offense to anyone who isn't into "bigger" women either) btw...
I think that some plus size women can have just as sexy feet and thin women but it all depends how well they look after them Posted by chefflash (Member # 36219) on :
I want to thank everyone for posting.In no way did I think it would get this much responce To my question.I was kinda blowing off steam because I realy like the womens feet and she was pretty to.She did not deserve so many negative comments.To make a point to any plus size women out there I would Love to be your own personel foot stool.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
quote:Originally posted by prettyfeet702: Well since we're in philosophy mode, I might as well throw in a wrench: Do any of the men care to whom the models are attracted? Or are we not really people, but mere feet attached to moving lungs, put on Wu's for the sole purpose of objectification?
I'm usually interested in learning more about intriguing people, and that certainly applies to attractive women with appealing feet! In fact, knowing a bit of what lies below the surface can make the wrapping even more appealing to my eyes.
Posted by Hamp (Member # 28204) on :
quote:Originally posted by prettyfeet702: As a professional plus size model, I'm not surprised to read the wide array of responses to this thread. At a size 10/12, I am considered "plus" in my industry ... I really don't think a scale does a woman's figure-assessment as much justice as her proportions and tone ... I've met women who weigh less than me that look like crap because they are jiggly and poorly groomed .. and I've met women who weigh more than me who are GORGEOUS because they are muscular and busty with voluptuous asses and thick legs. I'm happy with my figure, could care LESS about men who don't like me because I'm not a size zero, and I'm not hearing too many complaints from the men who date me or photograph me.
Just like not all men like blondes, not all men like thin women. Brunettes, redheads, thick girls, plus size girls -- we all have a place in someone's heart ( we can't all be size zero and blonde, sorry Hef!).
If someone isn't your cup of tea, keep it moving til you find someone you dig .. but don't disrespect her or the man who finds her attractive. Who knows, the chick you find attractive might be considered disgusting or unattractive by someone else's standard of beauty.
Perfect! This reply is the best one so far. In either scale, skinny or plus, there are those that are hot and those that are not. I like a woman with some "meat on her bones" as we say here in the South!
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: I think what he meant to say Tyranny was that Wu's is a "straight guy's place" as in your not gonna see guys feet on here. That's not saying there isn't gay guys/women amongst us...
Bingo.
Posted by Spruce314 (Member # 35412) on :
I would rather date a plus size lady with pretty feet than a supermodel with ugly feet. Guess most of us agree on that.
Personally, I find meaty feet more attractive too. SLT, I have to agree. What I've seen of you I wouldn't change either. :-)
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
This is a really dumb thread. Each person has there own personal taste and there is no reason to bicker about the right's or wrong's of that personal taste.
As GQGuy said - Attraction isn't a choice.
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
quote:Originally posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com: I have a fetish for voluptuous women. I am very down with the plus sized models.
DITTO!
You know guys, this would be a great idea for our next topic....
"BBW have nice feet too!" I'm sure it's been discussed before.
and let's not forget the obvious: The average woman is a PLUS SIZE woman! (not a matter of opinion) It's a matter of fact.
P.S. I toe-tally agree with Spruce314! I'm also attracted to women with thick, meaty soles!
[ December 30, 2009, 01:21 AM: Message edited by: Weekend_Warrior ]
Posted by AceCorr (Member # 37554) on :
BTW, how do you define plus size? From what dress size or weight, BMI, or waist to hip ratio, etc. determines plus size? I personally think big girls are more fun to play with and I love how big and meaty their feet are. I don't like skinny boney feet like Paris Hilton's. Too much bone not enough feet. I love plump toes! The more to suck on!
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
quote:Originally posted by prettyfeet702:
quote:Originally posted by Diabolicus: this is a straight guy fetish.
are you kidding me? I know tons of gay men, gay women, and straight women into feet! Since when did you have to be a hetero male to dig feet?
Okay, you are right about this. I know plenty that are in to this fetish as well not just hetero males and females.
Also, on another note, regarding my responses on this topic. I am sorry if I offended anyone with my viewpoints. That was not what I intended at all. I simply got a little too passionate that I was called superficial. I truly do not envision myself as someone who puts too much emphasis on aesthetics.
In either case, I enjoy contributing opinions and commentary on this forum because there is a lot of like-minded people here.
I guess what I really want to say is: Sorry I got a bit argumentative.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by Diabolicus:
quote:Originally posted by prettyfeet702:
quote:Originally posted by Diabolicus: this is a straight guy fetish.
are you kidding me? I know tons of gay men, gay women, and straight women into feet! Since when did you have to be a hetero male to dig feet?
Okay, you are right about this. I know plenty that are in to this fetish as well not just hetero males and females.
Also, on another note, regarding my responses on this topic. I am sorry if I offended anyone with my viewpoints. That was not what I intended at all. I simply got a little too passionate that I was called superficial. I truly do not envision myself as someone who puts too much emphasis on aesthetics.
In either case, I enjoy contributing opinions and commentary on this forum because there is a lot of like-minded people here.
I guess what I really want to say is: Sorry I got a bit argumentative.
This fetish and modeling in general is 100% about aesthetics. Nothing to be ashamed of. I highly doubt any man wants a woman he's not attracted too....and even worse..no woman wants a man that's not physically attracted to her. It's natural. And unrealistic to try and look past it. Being superficial in the negative light is to ascribe certain characteristics on a person because of how they look. i.e. skinny people are drug users, fat people are lazy ect.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
quote:Originally posted by Diabolicus:
quote:Originally posted by prettyfeet702:
quote:Originally posted by Diabolicus: this is a straight guy fetish.
are you kidding me? I know tons of gay men, gay women, and straight women into feet! Since when did you have to be a hetero male to dig feet?
Okay, you are right about this. I know plenty that are in to this fetish as well not just hetero males and females.
Also, on another note, regarding my responses on this topic. I am sorry if I offended anyone with my viewpoints. That was not what I intended at all. I simply got a little too passionate that I was called superficial. I truly do not envision myself as someone who puts too much emphasis on aesthetics.
In either case, I enjoy contributing opinions and commentary on this forum because there is a lot of like-minded people here.
I guess what I really want to say is: Sorry I got a bit argumentative.
No harm done, we all kinda get carried away with sensitive subjects. It's especially hard to remain calm on forums when you don't have the person in front of you to read their emotions to know how they mean things. When all you have is a bunch of typed up words it is easy to take what they said in a way that was not meant.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
quote:Originally posted by Spruce314: I would rather date a plus size lady with pretty feet than a supermodel with ugly feet. Guess most of us agree on that.
Personally, I find meaty feet more attractive too. SLT, I have to agree. What I've seen of you I wouldn't change either. :-)
Thank you!
Posted by Those Toes (Member # 2489) on :
If the cap fits, let them wear it.
...and Elisha, you would so get it. Damn. You're fine!
Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
quote:Originally posted by Spruce314: I would rather date a plus size lady with pretty feet than a supermodel with ugly feet. Guess most of us agree on that.
C'mon, really? Let me ask you this: Would you rather date a plus size girl with pretty feet or a supemodel who also has beautiful feet? Now, let's see how men answer that.
That quote was like asking "Would you rather have sex with a slim girl who's terrible in bed or a fat girl who's exciting in the sack?" You see, questions like these are worded in a way that would FORCE someone to pick a fat girl. Why? Because if the situation was equal (other than their weight) the vast, overwhelming majority would pick the slim one. If the question was "would you rather have sex with a slim girl who's amazing in bed or a fat one who's lousy?", guess who we're picking? If the question was if both were of equal wildness in bed, then men would still pick the slim.
Often you'll hear, "what if she was anorexic?". That's not what being argued. No one with rational thinking would go for someone like that. We're talking about women who look like Olivia Wilde or Eliza Dushku or Jessica Alba or Megan Fox.
Stop wording the questions that would FORCE someone against his will to pick a fat girl and make it equal to where it become logical to choose the ones who appear on Maxim magazine. You don't see too many plus-sized girl on those covers.
Besides, how many plus-size women do you see advertising sexy-ass shoes, like the one you see at my avatar?
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Spot on DSW! Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by DSW:
quote:Originally posted by Spruce314: I would rather date a plus size lady with pretty feet than a supermodel with ugly feet. Guess most of us agree on that.
C'mon, really? Let me ask you this: Would you rather date a plus size girl with pretty feet or a supemodel who also has beautiful feet? Now, let's see how men answer that.
That quote was like asking "Would you rather have sex with a slim girl who's terrible in bed or a fat girl who's exciting in the sack?" You see, questions like these are worded in a way that would FORCE someone to pick a fat girl. Why? Because if the situation was equal (other than their weight) the vast, overwhelming majority would pick the slim one. If the question was "would you rather have sex with a slim girl who's amazing in bed or a fat one who's lousy?", guess who we're picking? If the question was if both were of equal wildness in bed, then men would still pick the slim.
Often you'll hear, "what if she was anorexic?". That's not what being argued. No one with rational thinking would go for someone like that. We're talking about women who look like Olivia Wilde or Eliza Dushku or Jessica Alba or Megan Fox.
Stop wording the questions that would FORCE someone against his will to pick a fat girl and make it equal to where it become logical to choose the ones who appear on Maxim magazine. You don't see too many plus-sized girl on those covers.
Besides, how many plus-size women do you see advertising sexy-ass shoes, like the one you see at my avatar?
Thank you! Agreed.
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
quote:Originally posted by DSW: C'mon, really? Let me ask you this: Would you rather date a plus size girl with pretty feet or a supemodel who also has beautiful feet? Now, let's see how men answer that.
That quote was like asking "Would you rather have sex with a slim girl who's terrible in bed or a fat girl who's exciting in the sack?" You see, questions like these are worded in a way that would FORCE someone to pick a fat girl. Why? Because if the situation was equal (other than their weight) the vast, overwhelming majority would pick the slim one. If the question was "would you rather have sex with a slim girl who's amazing in bed or a fat one who's lousy?", guess who we're picking? If the question was if both were of equal wildness in bed, then men would still pick the slim.
Stop wording the questions that would FORCE someone against his will to pick a fat girl and make it equal to where it become logical to choose the ones who appear on Maxim magazine. You don't see too many plus-sized girl on those covers.
Why would they word the questions that would leave someone with no choice but to pick the fat one? Because in the back of their minds, they know that they can't compete against the slim ones (not anorexic, like DSW pointed out). So to compensate, they need to add stipulations to the questions to make you pick the overweights. It's as if someone literally put a gun to the side of your head and said, "Pick Miss Three Belly or you'll die." Alright, if you put it that way, I'll pick her only because I don't want to die. But if no gun was put to your head, I'd rather go with Kate Beckinsale than a 200 pounder.
Maxim, and other magazines of men's interest, don't depict plus-sized women on the front, middle, or back of its magazines because that's not what men go for. When asked, "Who's the sexiest woman alive?", none of the names listed are those of fat women.
A thick layer of fat around the foot hides its character. DSWs last sentence was great! I think the only type of shoes fat girls should model in are running shoes. And running shoes are not sexy.
Are fat women ugly? Not all of them, just like the fact that there are slim women who are unattractive. But if I had to make a choice between a fat girl with nice feet and who's wild in bed or a slim one who has great feet but who's lousy in her lovemaking sequences, I'll still pick the slim one. I can always turn a woman who's inept in the sack into a sensational whore in no time.
And slim women do have better-looking feet than the fat ones.
--National
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
National, you sir have just cured my hangover this morning! Great fucking post, no candy coating going on there. Posted by Jillian Ashcroft * (Member # 35450) on :
*editing the guys I would "do" list*
[ December 22, 2009, 04:47 PM: Message edited by: Jillian Ashcroft * ]
Posted by Soopaman Lova (Member # 2743) on :
I'm with "Those Toes", Elisha would get the business.
Posted by ejc8708 (Member # 31433) on :
Ive been with a few big girls n most of them take really good care of there feet Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jillian Ashcroft *: *editing the guys I would "do" list*
Have fun Posted by Jillian Ashcroft * (Member # 35450) on :
Idk guys, I think skinny girls are going out of style, like 80s hair bands and shoulder pads ...
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jillian Ashcroft *: Idk guys, I think skinny girls are going out of style, like 80s hair bands and shoulder pads ...
Skinny girls are going out of style? Really? Riiiiight. Maybe on the 32nd day of the 13th month.
Until then, dream on.
--National
Posted by Jillian Ashcroft * (Member # 35450) on :
Well I guess that would depend on whether you're jacking off to Playboy or King Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
Neither. I look at Playboy for the articles.
Besides, don't be jealous of slimmer ones because they get more praise and attention.
Like I said before, wait until the day when the sun literally burns out for fat to be in style that's preferred over the slim ones.
--National
Posted by Jillian Ashcroft * (Member # 35450) on :
"Modeling standards" are not "guy" standards. This skinny ideal that's perpetuated in the fashion industry is not for men...but for women. I didn't know who(nor had I ever seen) Kate Moss till after she was caught with cocaine. It's women perputuating this image. Not guys. The same altered Polo ad's that one would find in Cosmo won't be found in a men's magazine. We don't buy the tabloids with "look at tyra's 30lbs weight gain..before and after pics". When it comes to women's self image... it's other women and the media that that also share the blame. Women have looked the same for centuries....it's only in the past decade or two that plus size really is the norm. But we (for the most part) like a fit girl. None of the women you posted links to could lose weight if they tried. They all work out religiously and watch what they eat.
A lil off topic. This goes for guys too. But even at a deeper level. 1/3 of guys we turn away that are fighting age 17-34 are unable to serve becaue they are overweight. Rough, "you're too obese to use you even though we're fighting two wars". Go back to playing call of duty on your xbox. Ouch. Aside from not seeing guys like themselves on the cover of mens health. But imagine them saying "guys with big muscles and ripped abs are so 90's 80's". I'm lauging typing it. http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=7142589&page=1
Whn it comes to the usage of the term "plus size" there is alot of ambiguity. Plus size is size 14 and up. I doubt any of those girls are a size 14....but anyway. When a guy uses it....it's synonomous with big. Again, no upper limit. By definition it includes flabby and obese.
Posted by Jammy (Member # 36475) on :
National, there isn't really any need to be so rude, because quite frankly, you really were. There have been studies into this particular subject. It was quite a few years ago now, but one study involved recently deceased Jade Goody.
She's a plus size woman, and men were shown pictures of Keira Knightly, some generic blond woman (Kate Moss, maybe? I can't remember) and Jade Goody, but only of their bodies, not their faces. On average, men far prefered Jade Goody's body to the other two. So, maybe it's different in the UK, but over here the men far prefer the curvier women. I think Jillian's right - thin is going out of style, because thinner women are going to be far more stressed about they look and how many pounds they've put on than a woman with a bit of extra weight on her.
TBH, I look for the personality in a woman, not the aesthetics. Weight doesn't matter to me - I think that Milla Monroe is gorgeous (and she has amazing feet!) and she's far bigger than any woman I would go for normally. In all her videos, she's incredibly warm-hearted and giggly, and she comes across as a wonderful woman, not just a piece of eyecandy. I'd rather have a woman that's got a personality than some bint more worried about how thin she is than me.
Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jammy: National, there isn't really any need to be so rude, because quite frankly, you really were. There have been studies into this particular subject. It was quite a few years ago now, but one study involved recently deceased Jade Goody.
She's a plus size woman, and men were shown pictures of Keira Knightly, some generic blond woman (Kate Moss, maybe? I can't remember) and Jade Goody, but only of their bodies, not their faces. On average, men far prefered Jade Goody's body to the other two. So, maybe it's different in the UK, but over here the men far prefer the curvier women. I think Jillian's right - thin is going out of style, because thinner women are going to be far more stressed about they look and how many pounds they've put on than a woman with a bit of extra weight on her.
TBH, I look for the personality in a woman, not the aesthetics. Weight doesn't matter to me - I think that Milla Monroe is gorgeous (and she has amazing feet!) and she's far bigger than any woman I would go for normally. In all her videos, she's incredibly warm-hearted and giggly, and she comes across as a wonderful woman, not just a piece of eyecandy. I'd rather have a woman that's got a personality than some bint more worried about how thin she is than me.
In that last sentence, are you saying that only fat girls have personalities and not the slim ones? All the slim ones have no personalities? Again, it goes with what I said earlier that people will word the questions or the circumstances in a way that will force someone to not choose the slim women. And what in the world do you mean by "personality"? Does it mean nice? Are slims girls all MEAN? Any person can take that definition anywhere he wishes, so clarify this. I will bet you anything that whatever your answer to that question is, slim girls will possess those characteristics as well (except for eating too much and burping and staying on the couch all day and eating again).
Another thing that got to me: Jade Goody. Are you serious? Men prefer THAT over the hot, slimmer ones you see on the streets? It's so convenient that they would NOT show the faces of the people. Why? DUH, if they did, men would choose the obvious pick by going with the slim ones. How many guys in here would rather worship her feet over Keira Knightly? I mean Keira is quite skinny, I'll give you that, but I will never choose Goody over Knightly. But Knightly is too skinny for what we're referring to. Put Jade Goody up against girls like Petra Nemcova, Jennifer Aniston, Christina Aguilera, Jessica Alba, or Megan Fox, or your average Jane who's just as hot as those women are, and we'll see how many men choose Goody over any one of them. Yes, those women have "personalities", too.
Thin is going out of style? I've heard that more times than what a calculator can count. Comments like that sound more like, "Jesus is coming. Jesus is coming." In other words, when? When will women like the Alba's and the Nemcova's and the Aguilera's and the Aniston's go out of style? If it's not anytime soon, then it will never happen. I can't believe you are encouraging women to not keep in shape.
If overweight women wear the shoes like the one you see in my avatar, the heels will crush!
I suppose we can have a few overweights in the world. Some men like that, but women like those will never dominate the Maxim and FHM lists of the 100 sexiest women. If they outnumber the slim ones, then it's because they got lazy. Not because they wanted to gain weight intentionally. But don't worry, guys. Thin will always be in.
Besides, women like Brooklyn Decker and Christina Aguilera are four times more likely to sexually excite men than overweight women.
Overweight women are three times more likely to sexually excite men UNsuccessfully than the slimmer ones.
Typical. You can replace the words "sexually excite men" with whatever you want and it would still be accurate.
As if there will ever come a day when the cheerleaders for the Dallas Cowboys will be overweight. You want to give men a reason to be there. With cheerleaders whose bellies are wider than their chests will definitely draw the audience away. Is this what mean really want? Cheerleaders heavy enough so that their feet don't leave the floor? Don't think so.
[ December 23, 2009, 01:46 AM: Message edited by: DSW ]
Posted by mclaren f1 2003 (Member # 2934) on :
I hear what dsw and gqguy are saying, even though they may come across as dicks.
The question is this: if you were presented with two girls of equal looks, personality, and great feet but one was thin and one was overweight, who would you pick?
I bet the thin one..mind you the thin chick isn't grossly thin and the overweight one is slightly overweight....I bet most would still pick the thin girl
And before anyone jumps down my throat, I have an overweight gf and I love her the way she is, however she goes to the gym religiously and wants to work the weight off. So good for her
Posted by mclaren f1 2003 (Member # 2934) on :
And dsw, there's a difference between plus-size aka thick (which I think the main point of this thread is) and grossly overweight and should be on biggest loser (like you are constantly describing aka your cheerleader analogy with bellies wider than their chests)
I'm pretty sure that's what the op was going for and like you ask when its brought up "is every thin girl like kate moss?" I say this "is every plus sized girl 300+ and lazy)"
Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
Thin or plus size? With equal everything? My answer: Thin. That was your answer, too. So what's the problem?
Thick or plus size girls is borderline fat. Or they are fat without the obese part. Either way, it's the same thing. But at the same time, calling them plus size doesn't make them any more slim at the same time. Those were the ones who I was exactly referring to in my posts. I call them overweight because they are. They look more fat than skinny, so I call them fat. So what. Plus size girls make the scales scream, too. I also said we don't want anorexics. We prefer the women who I listed in my last posts.
Fat girls are lazy. If they weren't, they wouldn't let go of themselves the way they do.
Again, plus size girls cannot be cheerleaders for any team.
Happy now?
Posted by mclaren f1 2003 (Member # 2934) on :
Haha ok man, I see this is a sensitive topic for you. I was agreeing with you and you still get all defensive.
We get it, you hate overweight, thick, fat, obese girls. I feel bad for your wife, if you have one. Heaven forbid she gains weight during a pregnancy or menopause, you might rip her head off haha
Posted by mclaren f1 2003 (Member # 2934) on :
And I wasn't asking you the thick or thin question btw...I was trying to simplify the thread for the rest of the class
Posted by Mr. CP (Member # 30238) on :
A few extra pounds are okay; I find that sexy. However, cankles? Forget it! Slim
Posted by Jammy (Member # 36475) on :
Way to miss the point, DSW :/ Yes, I recognise that there are plenty of skinny women with a lot of personality - that was not my point. I know a lot of lovely skinny women, and I know plenty of wonderful curvy and chubby women, but my point still stands - over the snooty, skinny bitch or the warm-hearted and genuine chubby woman, who would you rather date? My point would be a bit pointless if I switched it around, wouldn't it?
Yes, suprisingly enough, they chose Jade Goody's body over a thin body. Why? Because some men, or most men in the UK in this case, prefer a woman with something to hold onto. And on top of that you have basically compared women like Jade Goody to women like Milla Monroe or April Flores - there is a BIG gap between curvy/chubby and obese. There's curvy, chubby, overweight, grossly overweight, obese and grossly obese, and there's all sorts for different men and women.
Also, plus sized girls making the scales scream? If I were three inches taller I would be the ideal weight for my height, and I am a plus sized girl. The scales are hardly screaming, and I don't have no respect for my body - I love the way I look, and I enjoy food. What's the problem in that? Suddenly women aren't allowed to enjoy things, they have to be completely focused on their image all the time? Seems a bit strange to me, to be honest.
Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jammy: Way to miss the point, DSW :/ Yes, I recognise that there are plenty of skinny women with a lot of personality - that was not my point. I know a lot of lovely skinny women, and I know plenty of wonderful curvy and chubby women, but my point still stands - over the snooty, skinny bitch or the warm-hearted and genuine chubby woman, who would you rather date? My point would be a bit pointless if I switched it around, wouldn't it?
This is like asking if you rather go out with a plus size girl or a slim woman who has a dick attached to her? Stop wording the questions in where the stipulations are set up so that men have literally no choice but to pick the fat girl. Why must you ask that question? Because you know that if the circumstances were equal, men would pick the slim ones over the overweight ones. To answer your question, anyway, I will pick the skinny one. Especially because since you tried manipulating me into picking the overweight chick. If the question was if BOTH were too bitchy, who would you pick? If both were kind, down-to-earth women, who would you pick? If the FAT one was cruel, and the slim one was very nice and kind, who would you date? In all three question, the majority will pick the slim one. You know it, I know it, the world knows it. You see, in the first two questions, men will pick the slim ones naturally. In that last question, same thing. The difference is that with the last question, men won't feel manipulated into making a choice because the slim one was going to get chosen anyhow. With your question, you word it in a way in where just about every guy on the planet will have to go against his will. Make the circumstances equal, and we'll see which weight class wins.
Overweight women discombobulate these questions only so that they can feel better about themselves when deep inside they feel rejected by the world outside. These questions masquerades them from the truth that men prefer slim women. Not anorexic. That's disgusting! Nor am I talking about women who are big enough to model clothes for Lane Bryant. I'm talking about the ideal weight range. Those in between like Christina Aguilera, Eva Mendes, Jessica Alba, Marisa Miller. You cannot name a famous overweight woman who is hotter than any of them (or any of those hot enough to appear on Maxim, FHM, Playboy, Perfect 10, even Cosmopolitan, Seventeen, and Women's Health. So that should already tell you that men prefer those who are kept in shape.
quote:Originally posted by Jammy: Yes, suprisingly enough, they chose Jade Goody's body over a thin body. Why? Because some men, or most men in the UK in this case, prefer a woman with something to hold onto. And on top of that you have basically compared women like Jade Goody to women like Milla Monroe or April Flores - there is a BIG gap between curvy/chubby and obese. There's curvy, chubby, overweight, grossly overweight, obese and grossly obese, and there's all sorts for different men and women.
I had to google those names to see who they were, and those women are disgusting! What the hell do these women drink? Cooking oil? Just because Goody is not as fat as them does not excuse her from the hook. She is still guilty as charged. Fat girls don't get fat unless they were like Goody first. Like I said, Lane Bryant girls are disqualified because they, too, can't compete against women who are in shape like the celebs I mentioned. Jane Goody is NOT hotter than any of those Maxim-like girls. You're not fooling into thinking that Goody is THAT hot.
quote:Originally posted by Jammy: Also, plus sized girls making the scales scream? If I were three inches taller I would be the ideal weight for my height, and I am a plus sized girl. The scales are hardly screaming, and I don't have no respect for my body - I love the way I look, and I enjoy food. What's the problem in that? Suddenly women aren't allowed to enjoy things, they have to be completely focused on their image all the time? Seems a bit strange to me, to be honest.
"If I were three inches taller, I would be blah, blah, blah." Excuses, excuses. TRUST me, the scales are screaming. If a slim girl were to trample on some guy, and a an overweight girl (yes, Lane Bryant girls ARE overweight, too) went to trample on the same person, who's more likely to break his bones? Who's more likely to put more pressure on him? It's not the skinny one. So, yeah, your scale IS screaming.
You love the way you look? Okay. Just know that women your size are not the ones that are the hot commodities. Sex sells. Slim women sell it better than those who are overweight.
You also said you feel good about yourself. I will bet you just about anything that you will feel MUCH better if you lost that weight. Not only will you feel better, you will also LOOK better, get MORE attention from guys, and be able to run faster. Think about it. When someone loses the weight, people close to you will treat it as if it were a celebration. If you put the weight back on after losing the weight, then they feel let down. No more celebration.
There's a difference between feeling good and feeling BETTER.
I would like to repeat what I said yesterday:
Besides, women like Brooklyn Decker and Christina Aguilera are four times more likely to sexually excite men than overweight women. Overweight women are three times more likely to sexually excite men UNsuccessfully than the slimmer ones.
Typical. You can replace the words "sexually excite men" with whatever you want and it would still be accurate.
Before I go, I'm going to apologize to "mclaren f1 2003." I did read your post. It's just that when I got to the sentence where you mentioned an overweight girlfriend, I stopped reading before I completed that sentence because I thought you were going to say something that would completely ho against what you said in the paragraph before it. The other thing was I thought you were trying to ask me the "thick and thin" question. You do agree with me that the thin ones will get picked and that your girlfriend works out to get the weight off. Yes, good for her.
Before I go, let me remind everyone that the newest issue of Maxim is out now in newsstands everywhere. Get your copy today.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Well said DSW! Posted by mclaren f1 2003 (Member # 2934) on :
quote:Originally posted by DSW: Before I go, I'm going to apologize to "mclaren f1 2003." I did read your post. It's just that when I got to the sentence where you mentioned an overweight girlfriend, I stopped reading before I completed that sentence because I thought you were going to say something that would completely ho against what you said in the paragraph before it. The other thing was I thought you were trying to ask me the "thick and thin" question. You do agree with me that the thin ones will get picked and that your girlfriend works out to get the weight off. Yes, good for her.
Before I go, let me remind everyone that the newest issue of Maxim is out now in newsstands everywhere. Get your copy today.
apology accepted. you are right, ALL OTHER THINGS BEING EQUAL, most guys will pick the slim girl over the overweight one. theres no way around that.
i agree with you AND im usually more attracted to women with "meat on their bones", but theres still no way around the above fact
Posted by Girlgotsole (Member # 14405) on :
I do not like fat women. I say fat. I don't mean plus size. 10/12 isn't a problem.
But if we're going to ask how I feel about bbw women, the answer is easy: They didn't take care of their bodies and it looks like it.
What makes a woman too big?
Easy: When they lose their womanly shape. See, my girl has some weight on her, but it's just right. It's all in her ass and breasts. It gives her a nice curve. But once a woman gets too much, they lose that form, and they become just a blob of mass.
No good there.
- Girlgotsole
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
I agree with every singe thing DSW said. Great job! It was also very funny reading the things he said. The part where he said that slim women are four times more likely to sexually excite men than the overweight ones was hilarious! I replaced the words "sexually excite men" with whatever I wanted and he's right. It's still accurate. They can very well be four times more likely to get the job they were both applying for, assuming that both were perfectly qualified for the job in question. I would think they want eye candy at the secretary's desk or something.
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In any event, let me say something to the overweight ladies. You probably believe that personality is more important than appearance and you're right to SOME extent. But the problem is: how do you attract the right man in the first place in order to dazzle him with your wit and charm? You can improve the way you present yourself without having to compromise your beliefs. Joining a gym to improve your body shape WILL increase your attractiveness to men, but will also make you feel fitter, healthier, and give you a greater zest for life. The male factor could be an added bonus! You may say you're not interested in a man who's so shallow as to be hypnotized by physical appearance. The problem with that, however, is that even the most intellectual and sensitive of men are at the mercy of their biology, at least at first. Men can't help being attractive to the obvious female hot body. Why not work with this -- however much you dislike it -- to improve your appearance and end up with a GREATER range of men to choose from?
--National
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
quote:Originally posted by Weekend_Warrior:
quote:Originally posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com: I have a fetish for voluptuous women. I am very down with the plus sized models.
DITTO!
You know guys, this would be a great idea for our next topic....
"BBW have nice feet too!" I'm sure it's been discussed before.
and let's not forget the obvious: The average woman is a PLUS SIZE Women! (not a matter of opinion) It's a matter of fact.
P.S. I toe-tally agree with Spruce314! I'm also attracted to women with thick, meaty soles!
Some of my models are plus sized. I think my most plus sized is Paige. But she has that cool little "rockabilly" thing going on.
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
i could care less about what u look like when it comes to feet!!!As long as hey are well taken care of and as long as they are naturally beautiful and clean then im good!!! Ive had a beautiful friend who was about 5'9 250...she carried the weight very well and her feet were perfect..we had great fun...And she was 1 of the best all around sexual experiences that i ever had...IM EXTREMELY FIT AND I FIND ALL SHAPES SIZES AND COLORS OF WOMEN ATTRACTIVE....PRETTY FEET ARE PRETTY FEET...WHO CARES WHATS ABOVE THE ANKLES!!!!
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
quote:Originally posted by DeTrOiT: PRETTY FEET ARE PRETTY FEET...WHO CARES WHATS ABOVE THE ANKLES!!!!
I care.
Posted by Martial Law (Member # 2564) on :
You still "read" Maxim, DSW? How quaint. I haven't seen anyone over the age of fourteen "read" that in years. Haha.
And BBWs quite often have gorgeous feet, lovely soft soles and plump toes ripe for sucking. That isn't to say "big girls have better feet" but I find myself more attracted to plus size girl's feet than others.
Posted by Jammy (Member # 36475) on :
So, National, if I want a job then I am going to have to try harder than a slim woman who may have less qualifications than I do? If I have a greater portfolio of work than a slim woman, is she still more likely to get the job? Are you telling me that if I don't lose the 15 lbs that make me plus size, I'm never going to get a job because all those slim women are applying and because they LOOK nice, and may not produce good work, they will get hired? I highly doubt what you just said is true.
And, no, National - while I think that personality is more important than looks, I have found a man who finds me beautiful just the way I am. Why do I need to change when I have everything I want in life? I am perfectly happy just the way I am and dieting makes me depressed, so I'm happy staying how I am, thank you.
And finally, DSW - you've written a small essay for me so I'm just going to address one or two points -
1. I trample my boyfriend, who is slim, quite a lot. You're telling me I've broken his bones by trampling on him? The logistics of it may work in your head, but bigger women don't have to put ALL their weight down - I certainly don't, because I know what the consequences are going to be, and that is that I'm going to hurt him.
2. I sexually excite my boyfriend perfectly enough, thank you, and considering that I get compliments from men around me at college rather often I would think that I wouldn't have any problem exciting them, too.
3. Looking at the first part of your post, I have to re-iterate, again. They thought her BODY was attractive, not her FACE. I think she's pig ugly, but her body type is one that men prefered. They were not shown the FACES of any of the celebrities, just their bodies. I'm not saying that the other celebrities didn't get being saying they preffered that - the majority said they liked Jade Goody's body.
Also, have you noticed that there are other magazines on the top shelves for men who prefer bigger women? They keep them in seperate magazines, because yes - some men prefer slim women. You really can't argue that they don't get into Playboy or Maxim (which as Martial Law states is generally only read by 14 year olds) because they aren't attractiv enough - their body type is for a different demographic to the ones that read mainstream mags. Doesn't that make sense when you think about it? Maybe the majority of people you know prefer these slim celebrities, and maybe the majority of Americans do, but do you really think ALL men like slim women? Every single man would turn their nose up at a BBW or a curvy woman? I think not - because April Flores and Milla Monroe, however gross you think they are, have pretty successfull modelling careers - April Flores was even on the front cover of Bizarre magazine a few months back.
I'm not even going to humour you any more, mate. Most of your arguments have holes in them, and where's the fun in that? You're all pseudo-psychology and opinion turned fact, completely ignoring the glaringly obvious.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Just want to add something to the argument/debate. Maxim's demographic is 18-24 year olds. I have been reading it since I was about 17 and am now 23...it has some really great articles but at the same time it shows what guys want, cars,jokes, slim women(slim being the operative word here) etc. The magazine is a representative of the male mind like it or not. Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
This arguement is pretty pointless. Some guys like bigger women. Every one has their own reality.
Ladies: Don't let anyone tell you you're not attractive. There are tons of men out there that find you attractive as you are as evidenced by this thread. This is your reality and no one can change it. Your confidence will drive men to you.
Fellas: What point is trying to be made here? Theres no point in having to justify what we like. It's all around us. The point of this thread was to make everyone aware that it's not cool to bash on bigger women when they post stuff. Simple.
GQguy
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jammy: So, National, if I want a job then I am going to have to try harder than a slim woman who may have less qualifications than I do? If I have a greater portfolio of work than a slim woman, is she still more likely to get the job? Are you telling me that if I don't lose the 15 lbs that make me plus size, I'm never going to get a job because all those slim women are applying and because they LOOK nice, and may not produce good work, they will get hired? I highly doubt what you just said is true.
Did you not read a single word I wrote? Women your size always try to twist things around. What I said was they (the slim ones) are more likely to get the job, ASSUMING BOTH WERE EQUALLY QUALIFIED FOR THE JOB. Where did I say that the slim one would get the job even though the fat one was clearly more qualified of the two to get the position? If you can find where I said that, please point it out to me.
If they hired the slim, hotter one just because of her looks, knowing full well that she's not as qualified as the overweight one, then that company is asking for trouble.
So again, point out where I said what you thought I said in regards to who gets hired for the spot.
----
And dieting makes you depressed? So you figured that risking your health and life by putting on more and more pounds is the way to go to avoid feeling depressed and lost? Okay. Just don't say that I never told you that you can still lose the weight without having to compromise your beliefs, which I did in my last post in this topic.
--National
[ December 26, 2009, 06:10 PM: Message edited by: National ]
Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
I do get a little irritated though when someone starts a thread with "the most beautiful feet ever" only for me to open the post and see chipped polish, scaley heels, flat feet or puffy ankles. A more modest title will do.
Totally. and...
seems like the fatter a person gets, the less shape there is to the foot.
but, ppl like what they like.
Im picky. but I dont feel the need to comment negatively if I see something I dont personally like.
To me personally, If a woman is "fat"... I dont care what her feet look like...Im not lookin at all.
we like what we like, I like what I like, you like what you like. We all have to respect what we all like, but we dont have to like it too.
Posted by scrunchlover (Member # 21542) on :
quote:Originally posted by chefflash: I found a video on youtube tittle fat toes.It was of a plus size girl with chubby feet that were realy nice.But there were so many negative comments about her feet and size.This bother me because just because a women is not a 100pound supermodel does not mean she does not have sexy feet.A friend of mine is about 5ft7 and 200+ pounds but she has the most beautiful feet I have ever seen.[Before you ask I have never aproached her about my foot fetish.]I was wondering how everyone else felt? Is weight a factor with feet because with me it is not.
Don't worry about other people's opinion. Just do you. This reminds me of my days in junior high, when I was seeking the approval of my girlfriends from others, like THEY were dating her. LOL!
Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: Just want to add something to the argument/debate. Maxim's demographic is 18-24 year olds. I have been reading it since I was about 17 and am now 23...it has some really great articles but at the same time it shows what guys want, cars,jokes, slim women(slim being the operative word here) etc. The magazine is a representative of the male mind like it or not.
The last sentence from that quote speaks the biggest truth of them all. Maxim magazine generate, get this, $40 to $45 MILLION U.S. Dollars in sales annually. So, yeah, you tell me if only 14 year-old are purchasing every issue.
Let me give you an idea of how much that is: If you think more than half the men prefer larger women over these hot bitches (slim women), then explain why Maxim is among the top 25 publications in PAID circulation? Of the top 25 magazines, none of them showcase the BBWs, or thick, or plus size women. Oh yeah, Playboy is among the top 25 as well. And men PREFER bbw's? Also in the top 25, Cosmopolitan. Another magazine that knows that if you stay fit and thin, you will be rewarded. Everybody wants to pick on Maxim. You know, I also talked about Cosmopolitan, Seventeen, and Women's Health magazines. All of them know what Maxim already does: thin will always be in. I don't remember seeing an overweight girl grace the cover of any of those magazines. If you can show me one example where a thick girl has been on the cover of any of those publications, then I can show you 200 examples of where those who were in shape got on the cover of the same magazines.
It's okay for BBWs to trash the slim women, but if thin women trashed the overweights, then they get put on death row. Why? I'll tell you. The reason plus size women can get away with trashing thin women is because they know they don't have it like that. Thin women know they've got it like that. But they can't say anything because the truth hurts.
If you google the words "sexiest women in the world", or "hot chicks", or "hot babes", "beautiful girl", "hot women", I don't think you're not going to find plus size women. What you're going to find is what the ideal of what hot is.
Do ALL men prefer those you see on Playboy, FHM, Maxim, Seventeen? No. But I can tell you that more than half of the male population prefer the ones you see in the magazines I mentioned.
April Flores and Milla Monroe successful models? I don't know how anyone can say that without throwing up? If they're happy with what they're making, fine. But are they good enough to model for Calvin Klein, Guess?, Giorgio Armani, Steve Madden, Stuart Weitzman, Aldo, Nine West, DSW? I didn't think so, either. Those gigs go to the better-looking women. Because they know that if they advertise their products by showing bbw's modeling their clothes and shoes, that will not attract a lot of people buying their accessories. That's absolutely true. That's why I said that thin women sell sex better than the overweight ones.
Have you ever noticed that whenever you walk by a gym like Crunch, and you look inside to see the people working out, have you noticed that there has never been a case where the plus size girl (or overwieght guy) was standing right next to the window of the street where the people walk by? Never. Whenever you walk by, there's always a slimmer person working out right by the window. That's because they feel that if fat people are the first ones they saw when they walk by, that will not attract people into joining their gyms.
So if you work out, you can trample your boyfriend with ALL of your weight instead of acting as if you're walking on eggshells when you're on top of him to trample.
The majority of men prefer Goody's body over Eva Mendes' or Jessica Alba's type? Give me a break!
[ December 27, 2009, 04:41 AM: Message edited by: DSW ]
Posted by Jillian Ashcroft * (Member # 35450) on :
quote:Originally posted by DSW: But are they good enough to model for Calvin Klein, Guess?, Giorgio Armani, Steve Madden, Stuart Weitzman, Aldo, Nine West, DSW?
I've done SEVERAL paid shoots for NineWest (and many other shoe manufacturers who participate at WSA every year) so I guess that blows holes into THAT theory!
Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jillian Ashcroft *:
quote:Originally posted by DSW: But are they good enough to model for Calvin Klein, Guess?, Giorgio Armani, Steve Madden, Stuart Weitzman, Aldo, Nine West, DSW?
I've done SEVERAL paid shoots for NineWest (and many other shoe manufacturers who participate at WSA every year) so I guess that blows holes into THAT theory!
But..in my opinion and Im sure many other male's opinions here, you are not overweight in the least, hell I wouldnt consider you a "plus sized model" even. So based on that, DSW's statment doesnt apply to you. At least I dont think it does.
Posted by footfetish&martini (Member # 34060) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jillian Ashcroft *:
quote:Originally posted by DSW: But are they good enough to model for Calvin Klein, Guess?, Giorgio Armani, Steve Madden, Stuart Weitzman, Aldo, Nine West, DSW?
I've done SEVERAL paid shoots for NineWest (and many other shoe manufacturers who participate at WSA every year) so I guess that blows holes into THAT theory!
You did several shoots for Nine West? That's awesome!
But what about the other brands and designers he mentioned? You're rarely going to find (if not, never going to find) plus size or overweight women doing spreads for those guys. And what about every other thing he said said in his posts? I think his alibis are air tight.
I will have to agree with some of the others that the fatter a girl gets, the less shape there is to the foot. Another one in here said that a thick layer of fat around the foot hides it's "character." I agree with all of that. And I also agree that Maxim magazine is the representative of the male mind.
Let it be said that there are quite a number of plus size women who look nice. I'll admit that. However, nice is as far as I'm going to go with them. I've never seen a plus size girl and thought to myself, "WOW, she looks HOT!" I've only thought that about the slimmer women. I've never seen the feet of a girl who's overweight and thought, "WOW, she got HOT feet." All the hottest feet in the world belong to the slim women. Like those you see in Maxim and FHM, (and like DSW said) Seventeen, Cosmopolitan, and even Shape magazines.
While I think those plus size look nice, I think the slim women who dedicate themselves to staying in shape and have better considerations for their health and appearances are at an advanced level of appeal.
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
LOL This thread is funny as hell. ALL of you have me in tears laughing. LOL
Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: LOL This thread is funny as hell. ALL of you have me in tears laughing. LOL
I'm glad you had a wonderful time reading our comments. Entertainment is good for the soul.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I'm not a big fan of having food on the feet, but I'm taking the one who's not fat by several of thousands of miles.
Was this a trick question?
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
No, I don't pose a lopsided question. I posted two pictures, both of which have two very different looking women. Didn't say anything about their personalities, just for guys to look at each pic and pick ONE.
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
I choose the second set of pictures. After seeing the first set, I believe you owe me 1 gallon of eye-bleach.
Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: No, I don't pose a lopsided question. I posted two pictures, both of which have two very different looking women. Didn't say anything about their personalities, just for guys to look at each pic and pick ONE.
Perhaps he was trying to be funny when he asked if it were a trick question.
Even if you did say something about their personalities, I'd still pick the brunette over the fat one. And so would he. If the fat girl you posted (or any plus size, for that matter) had chocolate syrup and cake with whipcream covering her feet, the images would like a dessert that had more calories than ten whoppers with cheese put together! With the the brunette you posted, it would look more like a tasty treat.
And it was good that you said nothing about the personalities because like I said: Overweight women always twist things around. They are the ones adding fineprints at the end of the question in order to leave you with no choice but to pick them. With you (bluetoelover), all you did was ask people to pick one girl, without having to consider how "nice" one girl is or how "mean" the other one was.
That was one of the easiest choices I had to make.
Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
#2 for sure... minus the food.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
quote:Originally posted by DSW:
quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: No, I don't pose a lopsided question. I posted two pictures, both of which have two very different looking women. Didn't say anything about their personalities, just for guys to look at each pic and pick ONE.
Perhaps he was trying to be funny when he asked if it were a trick question.
Even if you did say something about their personalities, I'd still pick the brunette over the fat one. And so would he. If the fat girl you posted (or any plus size, for that matter) had chocolate syrup and cake with whipcream covering her feet, the images would like a dessert that had more calories than ten whoppers with cheese put together! With the the brunette you posted, it would look more like a tasty treat.
And it was good that you said nothing about the personalities because like I said: Overweight women always twist things around. They are the ones adding fineprints at the end of the question in order to leave you with no choice but to pick them. With you (bluetoelover), all you did was ask people to pick one girl, without having to consider how "nice" one girl is or how "mean" the other one was.
That was one of the easiest choices I had to make.
That was my point, no skewering needed. Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
I got my first "fat" comment on youtube, and thought I would share it with you all.
"Thanks for replying obese girl, glad you found your self enough free time to stop eating. Glad you pointed the scars on your arm out to me as i hadn't even noticed them in the first place, your even MORE of an emo faggot then i thought. What i was reffering to were the cuts on your disgusting fat left hand (i think its left, i can't tell your pinky is the same size as your thumb). Those my fat friend do not look "3 years old"
Posted by foot_fashion_industry (Member # 33265) on :
Now why in the world would I pick the other one? Yuk!
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I got my first "fat" comment on youtube, and thought I would share it with you all.
"Thanks for replying obese girl, glad you found your self enough free time to stop eating. Glad you pointed the scars on your arm out to me as i hadn't even noticed them in the first place, your even MORE of an emo faggot then i thought. What i was reffering to were the cuts on your disgusting fat left hand (i think its left, i can't tell your pinky is the same size as your thumb). Those my fat friend do not look "3 years old"
Unacceptable.
GQ
Posted by footfetish&martini (Member # 34060) on :
quote:Originally posted by Dave888: #2 for sure... minus the food.
I agree. The first one does not appeal to me at all.
Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I got my first "fat" comment on youtube, and thought I would share it with you all.
"Thanks for replying obese girl, glad you found your self enough free time to stop eating. Glad you pointed the scars on your arm out to me as i hadn't even noticed them in the first place, your even MORE of an emo faggot then i thought. What i was reffering to were the cuts on your disgusting fat left hand (i think its left, i can't tell your pinky is the same size as your thumb). Those my fat friend do not look "3 years old"
People who are bigoted enough to leave a comment like that are either really immature; are miserable, unhappy people; or both. I sincerely hope you didn't take that comment to heart, even though it seems like you didn't. Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
quote:Originally posted by Wing-Washer:
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I got my first "fat" comment on youtube, and thought I would share it with you all.
"Thanks for replying obese girl, glad you found your self enough free time to stop eating. Glad you pointed the scars on your arm out to me as i hadn't even noticed them in the first place, your even MORE of an emo faggot then i thought. What i was reffering to were the cuts on your disgusting fat left hand (i think its left, i can't tell your pinky is the same size as your thumb). Those my fat friend do not look "3 years old"
People who are bigoted enough to leave a comment like that are either really immature; are miserable, unhappy people; or both. I sincerely hope you didn't take that comment to heart, even though it seems like you didn't.
Nah I just corrected them to make fat comments that are visually correct. Told him to act his age(34), and to pick up a better hobby.
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
My choice of the two girls? The second girl, of course!
--National
Posted by temp1234 (Member # 33411) on :
I prefer number 2. But in general I like slim girls. I don't like scrawny (I don't mean this from the POV of one of those Anti-skinny people, I mean those who are unhealthily underweight to the point their body starts reacting to it) but I don't like those slightly overweight either. I totally expect my partner to have the same thoughts too. I'm happy knowing she wants me in good shape.
And food on feet? bleh!
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: I got my first "fat" comment on youtube, and thought I would share it with you all.
"Thanks for replying obese girl, glad you found your self enough free time to stop eating. Glad you pointed the scars on your arm out to me as i hadn't even noticed them in the first place, your even MORE of an emo faggot then i thought. What i was reffering to were the cuts on your disgusting fat left hand (i think its left, i can't tell your pinky is the same size as your thumb). Those my fat friend do not look "3 years old"
That is just mean and wrong on all types of levels.
Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: LOL This thread is funny as hell. ALL of you have me in tears laughing. LOL
I can only skim through it. The whole topic's too subjective to really stress about.
Posted by 18th Floor (Member # 35007) on :
I choose the slim one. Women like her have the ideal shape women should have.
Posted by chastisedfootpiggy (Member # 37391) on :
I find all this particularly funny since my Mistress is a somewhat plump gal, and She's a professional Domme. Never once has anyone suspected she was overweight from a picture of her little foot. I mean, I know just because I know what the rest of Her is shaped like. The boys that spoil Her don't care, or maybe they're just blinded by the beauty of Her feet. One should not judge a book by Her cover, or in this case, Her weight.
Oh. I recall pages back one of the plus sized models (sorry I forgot your nic Miss.. you're really lovely) asked if you boys cared what the models thought. It was remarked upon that NO, FRANKLY, they didn't give a shit about what you think. I think this person missed the point. She was trying to see if you realized that attached to every pair of feet on the internet is an actual person, and their character and personality is being disregarded just because they may have hormonal imbalances, it may run in their gene pool, or god knows what. It was a half ass response to a wonderful query. Shame.
One other thing I thought of.. You're trying to tell me all the girls i see in porn and commercials and doing fashion shows are a healthy weight??! Dear, when I can count their ribs, identify each and every organ in their midsection, their faces are sunk in from the dope they're hooked on, I promise they're underweight. And if you're worried about health, worry more about those drug addictions than their weight. Unless of course, you like the bulimic look. I mean, nothing's sexier than a roman shower, right?! ...
It's funny to see misogyny disguised as being "pro-health." And yes, I *can* attack you for having that sort of lifestyle. It doesn't make me right, no more than attacking anyone else makes YOU right. But here goes, just to prove to you it can be done. I could argue you don't know how to enjoy life because you're too caught up in the superficial aspects that real intelligence and beauty simply do not matter. I could argue that you waste what could be time with your wife and family, etc, on worrying about your physical appearance. Or worse, I could ridicule you for spending time away from your signigicant other to come relieve your base urges at places like this. And don't lie.. you're as superficial as they come when you base your entire argument around one such statement. Now, stop attacking plump women for something they didn't get to choose. Were you given a questionaire at birth asking you what body type or sexuality you prefer? Huh, I must have missed that day in the nursery.
Was "intolerance" also on the questionairre? I'm seeing a lot of it here.
And a favorite quote before I go.. "i don't give a damn what men find attractive. what is pleasing to the eye and pleasing to the touch are seldom the same." ~ Pulp Fiction.
cfp.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
^^ Posted by temp1234 (Member # 33411) on :
quote:Originally posted by chastisedfootpiggy: Now, stop attacking plump women for something they didn't get to choose.
That's debatable. Daily calorie intake>daily calorie usage= weight gain. It's as simple as that. Valid health problems that cause weight gain are much lower than the number of overweight people. The problem is lack of exercise and discipline with food.
I don't think everyone here said they like skinny girls either, quite a few (me included) said they like healthy. Healthy is being around the BMI, having a high calorie intake but exercising to keep it off. Maybe I read too much into it but I only find girls who actively take care of themselves as attractive. If that means a thin marathon runner or a toned jogger then I'm all for that :3
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Well put temp Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by chastisedfootpiggy:
Oh. I recall pages back one of the plus sized models (sorry I forgot your nic Miss.. you're really lovely) asked if you boys cared what the models thought. It was remarked upon that NO, FRANKLY, they didn't give a shit about what you think. I think this person missed the point. She was trying to see if you realized that attached to every pair of feet on the internet is an actual person, and their character and personality is being disregarded just because they may have hormonal imbalances, it may run in their gene pool, or god knows what. It was a half ass response to a wonderful query. Shame.
cfp.
I was the one with the frank response. Full "ass" response. Modeling is an occupation. I train people, that's my occupation. Who cares what/who i'm attracted to? How does that matter? This is a foot fetish forum not match.com. Who cares that I only date women 5'8" and above? Even if I did model when would that info be relevant? If I walked into ELITE models right now...at any point will anyone ask me what type of woman I like? If one model said they like blond haired blue eyed guy's with tattoos and a beard why should I be concerned? Modeling is what you do. What the consumer finds attractive is at utmost importance to the model but what the model finds attractive doesn't matter. Unless of course I wanted to date her.
I get that the models are people, hence my response to the initial subject saying it's not cool to be mean to models simply because they're not your type. They are people with feelings on the other side of the screen. But as for my favorite model Adriana Lima her preference for men is inconsequential to my life. I like the way she looks. I have zero bearing on what she is like. She models for a living. People judge her 100% on how she looks. It's her job. I heard she likes rich guys....who cares...she's hot right?
GQguy
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
Temp got it bang on.
Posted by paintedtoesluver (Member # 33499) on :
I love plus size women also! Some have nice feet some don't just like any other female body type.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
Curvy (not fat) is...how a girl should be. In nature and just...health-wise.
Thin is just horrific to me. (Just because something may take more work - to be very skinny - doesn't make it better).
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
I'm not into "plus-size" women, really. I prefer slim and petite women in general.
Posted by kingler (Member # 40920) on :
Yea I'm not into fat women either. I'm an active person so I find other people who are active attractive. I don't think I could ever be with a girl who thought sitting back and doing nothing whilst they got big is a beautiful thing.
Posted by chefflash (Member # 36219) on :
not all big girls sit back and dp nothing.It is narrow minded people like you that piss me off.Also let me tell you jackass,Most plus size women are very,very beautiful.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Wow chef, somebody posts an opinion about a plus sized woman(respectively too) and you go off on them? Show some maturity.
I've weighed in on this issue already in terms of me not liking the plus sized women based on looks but I don't bash the members here who DO like the plus sized women. Keep it mature and this thread can stay civil Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
I like a little something to hold onto when it comes to my women. Not too thin, not too heavy. A FEW extra pounds is just fine by me.
As far as guys and gals that claim they are "models" by profession doesn't impress me. The women are usually materialistic c*unts and the guys are egotistical feminine douchbags
Stick that in your Hugo, Boss.
Posted by canIsmellYourFeet (Member # 11183) on :
I've seen plus sized women with awesome toes...and I've seen skinny girls with fvcked up toes. And vice versa. Can't say I have a preference, its all about feet.
Posted by Dirty Foot Man (Member # 9086) on :
quote:Originally posted by little5: I actually prefer plump chicks. Not to the point of those awful cellulite legs but 200 lbs doesn't bother me at all. Yes plump chicks tend to have feet that are more fleshy and wrinkly than thin chicks. I like that.
Couldent have said it better myself
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Hmmmm. Next time I need a wingman to talk to the plus size girl that is out with her hot friend i'll look no further than here.
Posted by wvcple2003 (Member # 5268) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Hmmmm. Next time I need a wingman to talk to the plus size girl that is out with her hot friend i'll look no further than here.
WRONG. The plus size girl is usually considered the 'cock-blocker' in most social circles. And just 'finding' a good wingman is very hard. So 'hiring' a good wingman,one that can handle the situation in a gentleman-like fashion may be the best course! Most of my friends growing up were black, and loved chunky girls; so I had no problems chatting with the smaller gals that we came apon, while they were going Rico Suave on the bigger chicks. It was lovely!
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
i just want to clear up some generalizations...
i AM a fat girl. i am not ashamed nor do i hate the guys who hate girls like me. to each their own.
my issue is this. the world is NOT sitting on a chair eating all the time watching soap operas.
the REAL world consists of work and maybe kids, a spouse, family and maintiaing a household and nurturing those relationships.
the average woman will put herself last on her list of priorities.
Fat girls are not desperate for male attention (read that as sex)
Fat girls can and do wear stiletto heels. we do not break them.
on a personal note i do exercise and eat pretty healthy. i like me and have been known to turn heads in not only a dress and heels but also my ratty sweats.
bottom line...you like what you like. im not defensive or upest by comments made in this thread. that being said i don't see the point in repeatedly using derogitory words to describe fat and thin women. many of you had very well thought out well worded posts. however there IS a difference between candy coating something and being straightforwad its called TACT!! GQ and BTL links were spot on. Posted by Love2Sniff (Member # 26799) on :
I like real women and that is considered, at least, overweight nowadays. There is no weight limit, it's different with every woman. Most "overweight" women have nice feet and, as I have experienced, they tend to have a nice scent.
Posted by bassguitar81 (Member # 41076) on :
i have a "BBW with sexy feet" fetish so i can't lose...and i think having gorgeous, well cared-for feet absolutely redeams a BBW in areas that society would considered to be lacking
Posted by bassguitar81 (Member # 41076) on :
All Pro Poster Member # 29787
posted 2010-11-03 04:52 AM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- i just want to clear up some generalizations...
i AM a fat girl. i am not ashamed nor do i hate the guys who hate girls like me. to each their own.
my issue is this. the world is NOT sitting on a chair eating all the time watching soap operas.
the REAL world consists of work and maybe kids, a spouse, family and maintiaing a household and nurturing those relationships.
the average woman will put herself last on her list of priorities.
Fat girls are not desperate for male attention (read that as sex)
Fat girls can and do wear stiletto heels. we do not break them.
on a personal note i do exercise and eat pretty healthy. i like me and have been known to turn heads in not only a dress and heels but also my ratty sweats.
bottom line...you like what you like. im not defensive or upest by comments made in this thread. that being said i don't see the point in repeatedly using derogitory words to describe fat and thin women. many of you had very well thought out well worded posts. however there IS a difference between candy coating something and being straightforwad its called TACT!! GQ and BTL links were spot on.
well said, made my day
Posted by Five For Feet (Member # 33596) on :
As it's been stated, to each his own. My attraction to women does not depend on their size necessarily. I can be just as attracted to a woman 200 plus, or closer to 100 lbs. I consider myself fortunate to have a wide variety of taste in women (and their feet).
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
i have never been more secure and comfortable than i am with the body i have. i have no shortage of admirers. Foot related or not. p this thread is far too negative. Lets get back to what we are here for. admiring the beauty of female feet. everyone has a preference and we all can respect each other and set negativity aside. we get enough bad press from people who are closed minded to the fetish. Should we really show that from the inside?
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
I love plus size women in which they have got a booty,shaply legs,wide feet that show their wrinkled soles better for the most part.
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
The topic of this thread is plus size woman. The original poster asked if weight was an issue with feet. So - only those who appreciate them should be able to answer that question in this thread or they are being negative? I did not read the whole thread. Only the first page and the last couple.
Can't someone say they don't like plus sized woman? That is not necessarily negative, it is simply what they are or are not attracted to.
Is it negative to say that you like do not like woman with red hair?
[EDIT: In retrospect, I believe the answer to this question is yes. It is negative. However there is no other way to answer the question if you do not like plus sized woman. What that in mind - why does it bother you that people are simply answering the question honestly in the negative]
This thread seems to have become very defensive.
And with regard to generalizations (male or woman). Our society is getting lazier and more indulgent. The result - we have many, many over weight people. That is a fact.
That is not genetics it is a life style choice that many have taken. My wife works a full time job (part of the time at home). We have two boys (10 and 8) with no nanny or help. Yet she makes time to hit the gym regularly for two reasons. First and foremost - it is healthier. Second - because of vanity. She feels better when she is in shape. If she cannot get to the gym she works out at home. That is her lifestyle choice. Sometimes she has to get up an extra hour early to do this.
Bottom line - regardless of reasons, a large majority of people are over weight by their own life style choices.
When things get busy in my life, I get up 1 1/2 earlier in my day to make time to hit the gym. That is my lifestyle choice and I do not think it is negative for me to look for the same in my partner.
[ November 05, 2010, 02:20 PM: Message edited by: mmmtoes ]
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
I'm not saying the thread as a whole is negative. I'm saying it has become negative.
Posted by kingler (Member # 40920) on :
quote:Originally posted by mmmtoes: And with regard to generalizations (male or woman). Our society is getting lazier and more indulgent. The result - we have many, many over weight people. That is a fact.
That is not genetics it is a life style choice that many have taken. My wife works a full time job (part of the time at home). We have two boys (10 and 8) with no nanny or help. Yet she makes time to hit the gym regularly for two reasons. First and foremost - it is healthier. Second - because of vanity. She feels better when she is in shape. If she cannot get to the gym she works out at home. That is her lifestyle choice. Sometimes she has to get up an extra hour early to do this.
That is exactly, 100% correct.
In older civilisations fat women, and men, were celebrated and were usually found in the upper tier of society. That was when food was scarce.
For men it was Food=weath=power For women it was Food=weath=attractiveness
That is no longer the case and now that we have an understanding of the human body and the science behind it we know that fat=excess.
Our/western society was a lot slimmer during the earlier half of the last century. It has only been since convenience services and products have appeared that size has really gone up. The current situation is a very new one.
I'm glad that some people can be happy with their own weight. But what I'm quite scared about is it becoming the norm (as another poster pointed out). I really do think that for a society to accept something that is bad for you is not a good thing; this includes drug taking, smoking, being lazy, being overweight.
If people walked more and were more active we wouldn't have this obesity time bomb. It's not as serious in Europe where people generally walk more and where our diet isn't full of bad food products like HFCS and trans fats.
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
Very well stated Ophillia. The reality of life is that a woman constantly puts herself last in the list of priorities. Us men have the luxury of getting up an hour and a half early to "hit the gym". If my wife wakes up an hour and a half early she's preparing lunch for the kids or cleaning. Putting others first.
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
I don't know about you Sinnister - but I will frequently get up with the kids if my wife needs the extra time to go to the gym or if she is not feeling well. In those cases, I go into work a little later and I work a little later. We compromise. I also help with the housework when she gets behind. That is what makes our marriage work, compromise. Sounds like you are "old school" and have your wife perform her wifely duties. That is your life style choice. I would rather help my wife and give her the opportunity to take care of herself.
To each there own. In most cases - it still boils down to life choices.
You can sugar coat it all you want, most overweight people have excuses. Eat smarter and exercise for 3-4 hours a week. You can do wonders in that amount of time. It just takes dedication and discipline. Something I see severely lacking in our society nowadays.
I sincerely doubt anyone cannot make time for 3-4 hours of exercise weekly. Of course something has to give to do that. No matter what anyone says there are not many of us that are truly busy 100% of the day. We all have down time. Some choose to read, some like tv, some like to play games or surf the internet. I all of these things but give some up to make time for my workouts. I also watch what I eat. I am not a health nut. I eat junk, but in moderation. If my clothes get tight, I cut back.
I got on a rant because I feel the same way as Kingler. Our society is in trouble and all I hear are excuses. People don't take ownership of their lives anymore.
[ November 05, 2010, 03:52 PM: Message edited by: mmmtoes ]
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
quote:Originally posted by mmmtoes: I don't know about you Sinnister - but I will frequently get up with the kids if my wife needs the extra time to go to the gym or if she is not feeling well. In those cases, I go into work a little later and I work a little later. We compromise. I also help with the housework when she gets behind. That is what makes our marriage work, compromise. Sounds like you are "old school" and have your wife perform her wifely duties. That is your life style choice. I would rather help my wife and give her the opportunity to take care of herself.
To each there own. In most cases - it still boils down to life choices.
You can sugar coat it all you want, most overweight people have excuses. Eat smarter and exercise for 3-4 hours a week. You can do wonders in that amount of time. It just takes dedication and discipline. Something I see severely lacking in our society nowadays.
I sincerely doubt anyone cannot make time for 3-4 hours of exercise weekly. Of course something has to give to do that. No matter what anyone says there are not many of us that are truly busy 100% of the day. We all have down time. Some choose to read, some like tv, some like to play games or surf the internet. I all of these things but give some up to make time for my workouts. I also watch what I eat. I am not a health nut. I eat junk, but in moderation. If my clothes get tight, I cut back.
I got on a rant because I feel the same way as Kingler. Our society is in trouble and all I hear are excuses. People don't take ownership of their lives anymore.
Exactly!
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
i take full ownership for my choices. my choices may seem like excuses to some but thats just the difference in perspective and i completely respect that. that wasn't my issue. i have no problem with people saying they dont like fat women. what gets me is the over the top negativity ie the pile of dough, sitting around all day eating frosting, so fat they are not able to wear heels without breaking them..ect those kinda comments. maybe it didn't come across the way i wanted it too.
either way its beating a dead horse. im not here to teach people im here for the female feet and the comaraderie. hope yall have a fantastic day :-)
Posted by chefflash (Member # 36219) on :
I LOVE plus size women and their feet and thats all.THE END
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
To answer the question posed to me...I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. My wife and I are both IT professionals. We have almost zero time outside the home. After working (i work longer than 9-5 by the way) all we have time for is dinner, bathe the kids and bed. I do more than my share to help raise the kids. When I have free time I am ironing, doing laundry, cooking etc. That's my free time. Every once in a while I'll give the wife a break and wake up with the colicy 1 year old and soothe her to sleep.
The idea that people in my situation are overweight because we don't use our time wisely is nuts. I barely have time to sleep let alone go the gym and my wife has even less time. That is the reality of life in my world.
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
quote:Originally posted by Sinnister: To answer the question posed to me...I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. My wife and I are both IT professionals. We have almost zero time outside the home. After working (i work longer than 9-5 by the way) all we have time for is dinner, bathe the kids and bed. I do more than my share to help raise the kids. When I have free time I am ironing, doing laundry, cooking etc. That's my free time. Every once in a while I'll give the wife a break and wake up with the colicy 1 year old and soothe her to sleep.
The idea that people in my situation are overweight because we don't use our time wisely is nuts. I barely have time to sleep let alone go the gym and my wife has even less time. That is the reality of life in my world.
Oh geez... I'm an IT professional-in-training, and I hope to get married with two (just two, if I can help it) kids. I hope this isn't my future... D:
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
I guess it depends. I also work in the IT world as do most of my friends and co-workers. Sure there are times when we are as busy as you state you are all the time - but that is not the norm where I work. I am in the DC area which is a very IT oriented area. I've been in the IT industry for almost 17 years. I was a software engineer 4 years. Then a contract programmer for 6 years, an IT Project manager for 5 years and am now an operations manager/PM.
I am not suggesting that your situation is not as you state. I am only stating that yours is not necessarily the "norm" in the IT industry.
My boys are 10 and 7 so I have been about where you are. From my history, it is the kids that really make it tough, not the job. My wife put on about 20 pounds in that time of her life. But she did not say to herself "this is my life and I will never be in shape". She worked out when she could and as the boys grew we made adjustments to our lives and she eventually made it back in the gym and was in shape once again.
Your post came across like this was a permanent life decision that your wife would never have time to get in shape. Life will ALWAYS get in the way. It is your DECISION to adjust or to not adjust by changing your routine to make time. It is this general mindset, IMO, that is causing 1/3 of our society to be obese.
And one other thing I never mentioned. You can still prevent being overweight with very moderate exercise if you watch what you eat. So no time is till not an excuse to over eat. Again - life decisions.
Dude - I've been there and that is why I still stand by my belief it is ultimately a life choice. I've been on project deadlines forced to work 14 hour days. But when things got back to normal, I went back to my workout routine. Taht is the hardest part for me. Getting back after an interruption.
[ November 10, 2010, 07:45 AM: Message edited by: mmmtoes ]
Posted by Maverick Matrix (Member # 2989) on :
Pretty feet are pretty feet regardless of the woman.
Posted by Sol (Member # 2476) on :
I'm sorry but if you are overweight it is simply because you are eating more than you are burning off.
If you stick to a healthy diet of no more than 2,500 calories in a day, no matter how busy you are and how little time you get to exercise, you still won't be overweight.
And anyway, the notion that you have absolutely no time to exercise is complete bullshit. There is no doubt you can find 20, hell, even 10 minutes in your day to do exercise. You can do it while waiting for food to be ready, while letting your bath run, while watching TV, you can park a block or two earlier going to work and jog the remaining distance... there are infinite ways to fit even a tiny bit of exercise into your day.
The reason people are overweight is simply lack of trying. It might sound harsh but it's the truth. All it takes is a first step, and even a little change in your lifestyle would see changes to your weight.
Posted by luvtheladyfeet (Member # 33464) on :
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Posted by FootLover36 (Member # 22908) on :
The way I see it, bigger chicks will make for intense trampling lol. But yeah, as long as I find them and their feet attractive then it's all good. I've seen some BBW content where the ladies had such AWESOME feet.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
quote:Originally posted by Sol: I'm sorry but if you are overweight it is simply because you are eating more than you are burning off.
If you stick to a healthy diet of no more than 2,500 calories in a day, no matter how busy you are and how little time you get to exercise, you still won't be overweight.
And anyway, the notion that you have absolutely no time to exercise is complete bullshit. There is no doubt you can find 20, hell, even 10 minutes in your day to do exercise. You can do it while waiting for food to be ready, while letting your bath run, while watching TV, you can park a block or two earlier going to work and jog the remaining distance... there are infinite ways to fit even a tiny bit of exercise into your day.
The reason people are overweight is simply lack of trying. It might sound harsh but it's the truth. All it takes is a first step, and even a little change in your lifestyle would see changes to your weight.
This^^ Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
The world is going to have fat people and skinny people. Big deal. You can't knock a guy for his preferences. Guys that like bigger girls need to go out with guys that like skinny girls so when there's a fat girl/skinny girl pair both guys can be happy and get laid.
There's no need to defend one's preference. It's your preference. There's also no need to knock another guy for his.
Posted by vanderfeeet (Member # 8733) on :
I entered this thread just to hoist myself up onto my high horse for a few minutes and enjoy the view like everyone else. Well, that was fun.
Also: great post, GQguy.
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
I never knocked anyone for their preference. I chimed in for two reasons.
First, chefflash asked the question quoted below. Yet some seemed put off when other posted in the negative. Each has there own preference and no one should be upset for someone voicing that preference. You seem to agree with that.
quote:Originally posted by chefflash: Is weight a factor with feet because with me it is not.
Second, some imply that being overweight is forced upon them due to life situations. I strongly disagree with this, which is the main reason I responded to this thread.
I have NO problem with anyone that is overweight. I am just not attracted to them. Some of my dearest and closest relatives are overweight. I try to talk them into eating healthier and exercising. They don't and that is their choice. But I continue to pester them. Regardless their weight has absolutely no impact on how much they mean to me.
However, I do have a problem when overweight people suggest it is not a choice they made to allow that to happen or to stay that way, at least in most cases. I do not want to get into an argument. I know there are some cases of health issues. I know in some cases, parents raised their children without teaching them how to moderate what they eat. I also realize some people are prone to weight gain while others are not. These are the cards we are dealt and we then decide how to play them. We are all adults and we ultimately decide how we will live our lives.
If that puts me up on a high horse, then I guess that is where I sit. Fine by me.
Posted by chefflash (Member # 36219) on :
I am glad this post got the response and attetion that it has.THANK YOU all for your post.I however feel the same way I always did.I love womens feet and I LOVE plus size women and their feet.
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