Makes me sick..
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
It's a baby. Nothing weird or odd about it. Just first time parents with a camera filming and posting whatever they can. Prob for grandma and grandpa to see. Wish my sis posted vids of my nephew and neice. I don't get to see them enough.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
It's cute for one. I know my sister when she was younger (She's 3 now) always used to come up and bite/chew/lick my feet whjen I wasn't paying attention.
My boyfriend used to do this when he was younger as well. Foot fetishes can start that way, so I don't see what's soo sick about it. From the looks of his channel he didn't put it up there for dirty sexual purposes. He just documents this boy's life by video. If you weren't looking for it then I suggest you look on a different site. Youtube has a bunch of videos of all different sorts, most of them being stupid.
Posted by silke (Member # 8419) on :
The boy starts early to love feet!
Posted by Brek (Member # 28601) on :
That borders child abuse. In 20 years when he can't hold a relationship because of his FF, at least he'll know for sure his parents are the ones that screwed him up.
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
So just because someone develops a foot fetish, he's bound to be a fucked-up misfit; is that what you're saying, Brek?
Who said the parents are in any way forcing the kid to wanna do this? Right now, it's child-like play. It's certainly no guarantee that he will end up having a foot fetish. We don't even know whether or not one was born into him. And even if he does end up with a foot fetish, SO FUCKING WHAT?!
I mean, WTF are you doing here, if you think that a foot fetish--however it is engendered--is such a horrible thing?
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
it's like SLT said.. human nature.. parent horsing around. no one gets bent out of shape if the parent is teaching the kid that feet are stinky (my sis-inlaw did that and i was the only person alive objecting to the game) today..she's still a tot.. she always does the sinky face when she see's feet.. and points at them.
will she grow averse to feet.. who knows. but there is no way to make a kid have a fetish just by messin' around with the kid.. u can just enhance the probability or not.
will the kids be messed up? highly unlikely is my vote.
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
>My face when Lars and Brek hate babies
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
The little kid is adorable in the video, by the way.
Posted by oppressus (Member # 36433) on :
hahaha, video is harmless but what i got from this thred is brek can't get a girlfriend.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
omg that poor kid, i would never do that to any sort of male feet and i would hope that the kid would be held back from even doing that to his own mother's feet. here's verbatim what the video description said: "Baby putting his face on Daddy & Mommy's dirty feet."
if she had hot friends over and he kept doing it relentlessly out of curiosity to her hot female friends' feet then it might be bearable but this kind of stuff with male feet or with any blood parent is just wayyyyyyy outta my league and i am sorry guys. and honestly, the stuff that is in my league is pretty darn perverted so this tellsya something if even i can't stand it.
Posted by BFS (Member # 20905) on :
It's harmless...just a kid being a kid...although it sort of does fall into the social convention that feet are to be considered gross, but such is life I guess.
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
Seriously, there is nothing wrong with this video. It's a baby exploring a new world which in this case is his mothers feet. It is not sexual in any way and in no way borders child abuse.
This upsets me to no end and reminds me of how the Walmart employee reported photos taken by parents of their children in the bath tub playing. EVERY PARENT IN THE WORLD has these type of photos...GOD my mom has embarrassing bath time photos of me when i was a baby/child. The parents in this case lost their children for almost a year while the case was heard in court. IT SHOULD NEVER HAVE HAPPENED IN THE FIRST PLACE.
When have we as a society lost touch with what is deemed sexual and what is deemed innocent fun. Not all photos of feet are created for sexual purposes, some are created for art, others just having fun with the camera. In the end it is the eye of the beholder that will decide whether they find it to be sexual.
Think about this sick scenario, people take photos of their children playing at the park, for some people in this world this type of photo would be sexual for them. Does that mean we ban photos of children playing at the park and classify them as sick photos or do we label the person that sees it as sexual as being sick?
To wrap this up because I am going on and on and on, something like this video is only sexual when the eye of the beholder makes it that way. It's a shame that you can't see past your foot fetish to see the innocence of a baby exploring a new world through the babies eyes.
Posted by Lars (Member # 1461) on :
sorry you guys,,, maybe I was overreacted a bit
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
usually the reason people do things is
1. because they want to 2. because they can
there are other reason, but most of the time they are one the those 2 reasons
Posted by Below_the_Ankles (Member # 33795) on :
quote:Originally posted by oppressus: hahaha, video is harmless but what i got from this thred is brek can't get a girlfriend.
That made me laugh out loud, literally. Cheers! Posted by Brek (Member # 28601) on :
quote:Originally posted by Below_the_Ankles:
quote:Originally posted by oppressus: hahaha, video is harmless but what i got from this thred is brek can't get a girlfriend.
That made me laugh out loud, literally. Cheers!
It's true. My wife would kill me.
We raised three kids. Fine adults now. I know a little about what not to do.
Hey lets film Johnny licking our dirty feet, and put it on the internet. How can you people think this is ok?
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
how can you think it's that big of a deal, honestly? It's not like they were forcing the child to do it. Little kids do that stuff all the time.
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
quote:Originally posted by Brek: Hey lets film Johnny licking our dirty feet, and put it on the internet. How can you people think this is ok?
Oh, ok, so first you imply that allowing a kid to develop a foot fetish (as though we even know what ends up "causing" it to happen) is a horrible thing that will doom the kid to a life of not being able to hold down a relationship. (Strange, though, because don't you have a foot fetish? And you're married with grown kids?)
Next, you TOTALLY MISREPRESENT what was going on in the video--known as a "straw-man argument"--and suddenly change the circumstances to claim that the kid was being allowed to LICK the parents' feet! Where was this licking, Brek?
There's something seriously wrong with your approach to this video. From the get-go, you make clear that you think a foot fetish is a bad thing; you make clear that "causing" it to manifest in one's kid is to be avoided at all costs; you have no problem falsifying your evidence.
Readers should keep that all in mind when they read your posts.
Posted by Brek (Member # 28601) on :
quote:Originally posted by Pjay:
quote:Originally posted by Brek: Hey lets film Johnny licking our dirty feet, and put it on the internet. How can you people think this is ok?
Oh, ok, so first you imply that allowing a kid to develop a foot fetish (as though we even know what ends up "causing" it to happen) is a horrible thing that will doom the kid to a life of not being able to hold down a relationship. (Strange, though, because don't you have a foot fetish? And you're married with grown kids?)
Next, you TOTALLY MISREPRESENT what was going on in the video--known as a "straw-man argument"--and suddenly change the circumstances to claim that the kid was being allowed to LICK the parents' feet! Where was this licking, Brek?
There's something seriously wrong with your approach to this video. From the get-go, you make clear that you think a foot fetish is a bad thing; you make clear that "causing" it to manifest in one's kid is to be avoided at all costs; you have no problem falsifying your evidence.
Readers should keep that all in mind when they read your posts.
You can read what you want into my posts.
Besides I don't come here to see crap like that video and is in Violation of two of Wu's rules.
[q]# Do not post anything inappropriate. By that I mean do not post anything involving minors, incest, bestiality...etc. Use common sense. # This is a female feet forum only. No male feet period.[/q]
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.: omg that poor kid, i would never do that to any sort of male feet and i would hope that the kid would be held back from even doing that to his own mother's feet.
The most telling part of this is where you say I would never...[/i]
So YOU would never. How does that relate to anyone else--especially a toddler?!
To a kid his age--with NO sexual identity yet whatsoever, nor developed preference--feet are feet, the world is a big new thing to explore, and there is nothing particularly "icky" about his daddy's or his mommy's feet! He doesn't know from "incest" as you or I would, either.
When I read your post, it occurred to me that you are clearly projecting your own predispositions onto another human being, and then insisting that someone should protect the kid against doing things that you wouldn't like to do.
So I have to ask you, when you see a person about to start licking an ice cream cone with a flavor that you personally detest, do you start wringing your hands and telling everyone that someone's got to stop that person from eating that ice cream that you don't like, even if the person does like it, just because you don't like it?
quote:if she had hot friends over and he kept doing it relentlessly out of curiosity to her hot female friends' feet then it might be bearable but this kind of stuff with male feet or with any blood parent is just wayyyyyyy outta my league and i am sorry guys. and honestly, the stuff that is in my league is pretty darn perverted so this tellsya something if even i can't stand it. [/qb]
What it tells me is that you're having trouble understanding that other people are not required to govern their lives based on what you do or do not like. Learn to separate the two concepts and you'll see that this really ought not bother you as much as it evidently does.
[ December 18, 2009, 12:19 AM: Message edited by: Pjay ]
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
quote:You can read what you want into my posts.
Besides I don't come here to see crap like that video and is in Violation of two of Wu's rules.
[q]# Do not post anything inappropriate. By that I mean do not post anything involving minors, incest, bestiality...etc. Use common sense. # This is a female feet forum only. No male feet period.[/q]
I didn't "read into" anything. You came right out and said that the depiction in the video was going to make it so that this kid grows up into an emotional cripple. You said it could be directly blamed on them letting him snuggle mommy and daddy's feet, and that his foot fetish would prevent him later in life from being able to have a normal relationship.
The link did not post anything that is against the rules. Are you saying that somehow the parents broke Wu's rules by posting something on Youtube?
You didn't come anywhere near addressing what I said in my post, by the way. Why did you make the leap to talking about "LICKING" mommy and daddy's feet, when the kid clearly does not do that in the video?
Posted by Brek (Member # 28601) on :
As far back as I can remember, female feet have been sexual.
Posted by Brek (Member # 28601) on :
quote:Originally posted by Pjay:
quote:You can read what you want into my posts.
Besides I don't come here to see crap like that video and is in Violation of two of Wu's rules.
[q]# Do not post anything inappropriate. By that I mean do not post anything involving minors, incest, bestiality...etc. Use common sense. # This is a female feet forum only. No male feet period.[/q]
I didn't "read into" anything. You came right out and said that the depiction in the video was going to make it so that this kid grows up into an emotional cripple. You said it could be directly blamed on them letting him snuggle mommy and daddy's feet, and that his foot fetish would prevent him later in life from being able to have a normal relationship.
The link did not post anything that is against the rules. Are you saying that somehow the parents broke Wu's rules by posting something on Youtube?
You didn't come anywhere near addressing what I said in my post, by the way. Why did you make the leap to talking about "LICKING" mommy and daddy's feet, when the kid clearly does not do that in the video?
It was linked to this site. Maybe the mods can decide.
I didn't watch enough of it to see if he was "licking". I was trying not to barf.
Posted by Brek (Member # 28601) on :
Besides my FF has done it's damage to my relationship with my wife. But we worked through it.
Mine comes from a family member (sister) and her friends, when I was as young if not younger. So don't tell me it didn't do any damage.
Yea, I hate my fetish sometimes.
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
In general a Young kid like this is INNOCENT with an entire world to explore...The parents do not force his foot playing...[The male feet thing is another story!]
Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
nothing wrong with that vid. Innocent baby playing..
now if someone were to watch that video and derive sexual excitement from the video...THAT would be wrong and gross.
The video on its own is harmless.
Posted by reamow (Member # 37306) on :
this kid was going to town on his moms feet. He reminds me of me NOW.....i bet this kid grows up to be one of us.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by Pjay: What it tells me is that you're having trouble understanding that other people are not required to govern their lives based on what you do or do not like. Learn to separate the two concepts and you'll see that this really ought not bother you as much as it evidently does.
whatever gets your rocks off mate. i'm not one to come down on others' preferences because I would be a major hypocrite when I factor in all the crazy dimented and perverted things that I like myself.
if i didn't make it clear in my original post, I'll make it clear now: "I," personally, did not like the video. If anyone else enjoyed it, then I have nothing against you and that is your right which I will not infringe on.
Peace and sorry for any misunderstandings.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by Danielle Moore: Does that mean we ban photos of children playing at the park and classify them as sick photos or do we label the person that sees it as sexual as being sick?
you made an excellent point here, and I would agree to label the deviants who derive pleasure from the photos as sick instead of labeling the photos themselves.
but as I mentioned previously I will not pass judgement on folks regardless of how they view the material. it is their right to enjoy whatever they like as long as it does not infringe on the rights of others.
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
quote:Originally posted by Brek: Besides my FF has done it's damage to my relationship with my wife. But we worked through it.
I'm glad to read that you worked through it.
What I find surprising is that evidently a lot of guys marry women before they have ironed out the particulars of what is to be their mature, adult sexual relationship.
I cannot conceive of being willing to marry a woman before she not only knows about my foot fetish--which is an integral part of me and always will be--but also enjoys sharing it with me.
quote:Mine comes from a family member (sister) and her friends, when I was as young if not younger. So don't tell me it didn't do any damage.
Yea, I hate my fetish sometimes.
Some of us don't hate our fetishes, ever.
So you trace your foot fetish specifically to stuff that your sister and her friends did to you when you were young? Did they, like, make you smell their feet or suck their toes or something?
You said that when you were very young, feet were already sexual to you. Do you really mean to say that the stuff your sister & her friends did made you (somehow??) find feet to be sexual?
I have had a fascination with feet from the time of my earliest conscious memories; at first, at that age, it was not "sexual" but still very intense. It became sexual as I became sexual. But I know for sure that even as young as first grade, I had a desire to get feet into my mouth; it's just something I did not get to do until years later. But had a girl I thought was cute in, say, third grade suggested that she wanted to play after school and have me give her foot massages and foot tongue-baths, I would have been right there, dude.
And no "damage" need ever have been done to me to get me to that point.
Posted by ajantis (Member # 10394) on :
My foot fetish has utterly destroyed my life. If I ever found out my parents did anything like this with me as a child I would most likely be unable to forgive them.
Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
quote:Originally posted by ajantis: My foot fetish has utterly destroyed my life. If I ever found out my parents did anything like this with me as a child I would most likely be unable to forgive them.
how has it "utterly destroyed" your life? I dont see how thats possible unless you made some piss poor (illegal) decisions related to feet.
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
quote:Originally posted by Dave888: nothing wrong with that vid. Innocent baby playing..
now if someone were to watch that video and derive sexual excitement from the video...THAT would be wrong and gross.
The video on its own is harmless.
You hit the nail right on the head with that one.
The video itself is harmless and is a wonderful example of how a baby explores their new found world. EVERYTHING AND EVERYTHING goes into a baby's mouth, that's how they learn and discover things, a baby will use all their senses to discover their world.
It's sad that some found it to be sexual (read the videos comments on youtube)
Anyways, I apologize if I came across to strong, it was not my intention.
MUAH D xoxo
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
Future moderator for this forum in early stages of development.
Posted by ajantis (Member # 10394) on :
quote:Originally posted by Dave888:
quote:Originally posted by ajantis: My foot fetish has utterly destroyed my life. If I ever found out my parents did anything like this with me as a child I would most likely be unable to forgive them.
how has it "utterly destroyed" your life? I dont see how thats possible unless you made some piss poor (illegal) decisions related to feet.
No, no. I would never do anything illegal.
I'm in my early 20s and have never so much as kissed a girl, or been in a relationship before; let alone had sex. I've never even touched a female foot before. At the least, my foot fetish greatly exacerbates (via my self-esteem) some inherent inability to form relationships with women. At most, it is the source of the inability itself. The failure to cultivate a romantic relationship renders my existence pointless. We can discuss what a poor attitude that is. It's nevertheless how I feel.
Posted by Firefighter86 (Member # 34943) on :
Well bro, get off the computer and start running daily. Get your self hygiene and health in order. Then stay busy and make money with what ever you do. Start trying to hang out and meet people. But get out of your house man.
Posted by ajantis (Member # 10394) on :
See, that's the thing. I'm quite physically fit. My physical appearance isn't what makes me lack confidence in meeting people; it's linked more to my foot fetish. It's that which makes it difficult to meet women.
I thought I'd add this to the discussion because I'm getting kind of frustrated hearing people who apparently get 10 footjobs a week talk about how incomprehensible it is to them that anybody could think a foot fetish was a negative thing. We're not all so lucky. No doubt I have an underlying problem; but it's one I probably would have solved if I didn't have this thing.
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by ajantis: I thought I'd add this to the discussion because I'm getting kind of frustrated hearing people who apparently get 10 footjobs a week talk about how incomprehensible it is to them that anybody could think a foot fetish was a negative thing. We're not all so lucky. No doubt I have an underlying problem; but it's one I probably would have solved if I didn't have this thing.
^^^ FUCKING THIS!!!
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
Not sure what "fucking this" means, but...
Ajantis, I think I understand a little about what you're talking about. I have had relationships, so I'm not in the virgin boat with you (and I do not mean to make light of it or deride you for it, by any means). But I do understand what it means to have a foot fetish complicate one's mindset as he heads into relating with a woman.
I think it's important to be able to temporarily "shut down" the desire for feet, or to see her feet, touch her feet, et cetera, until a "normal" mode of relating with her has been established. We need to find balance; we can't always be fantasizing about the feet!
I respect the fact that you can open up here and at least talk about what's bugging you. Rock on, dude.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by ajantis: I'm quite physically fit. My physical appearance isn't what makes me lack confidence in meeting people; it's linked more to my foot fetish. It's that which makes it difficult to meet women.
I know your feeling. It was back when I was in the best shape of my life that my fetish held me back during a time when I should've exuded nothing but confidence.
It wasn't until later in life that the feet started rolling in for me and basically by that point, I completely looked the part of a loser and freak. However, I was able to get women's feet by being who I was with no qualms and they liked the fact that I wasn't trying to bullshit them.
Women respect a real man who doesn't beat around the bush.
Hiding from our fetishes only makes things worse. Let women embrace who you are and that means all of you, not just the public image face. We as fetishists need to stop pussy footin in the closet so to speak. It breeds insecurity.
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
To be honest...I knew that i liked pretty female feet when i was about 4 years old...i knew nothing about sex but i knew that i liked cute toes...My son,who is 15 now, was the same way...he would be acting up and my wife could take off her shoes and wiggle & spread her toes and my son would be almost hypnotized...She showed me because she couldnt believe it herself...he was 15months old...I believe that we are born this way...
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ajantis: See, that's the thing. I'm quite physically fit. My physical appearance isn't what makes me lack confidence in meeting people; it's linked more to my foot fetish. It's that which makes it difficult to meet women.
I thought I'd add this to the discussion because I'm getting kind of frustrated hearing people who apparently get 10 footjobs a week talk about how incomprehensible it is to them that anybody could think a foot fetish was a negative thing. We're not all so lucky. No doubt I have an underlying problem; but it's one I probably would have solved if I didn't have this thing.
Interesting. Some guys that read a post about a guy saying he gets 10 footjobs a week will read it and then ask "dude...what's your secret" and then try till he gets what he wants. Others will try once and when he doesn't get what he wants will quit. And a sad lot will hear these story's and find comfort and sick satisfaction that they'll never achieve that. They won't even try.
There are plenty of guys on this board that have been intimate with women on all levels. And most would be willing to assist with this nich in your life.
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That made me laugh out loud, literally. Cheers! ![[Cheers]](graemlins/cheers.gif)
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