I just remembered a situation that occurred in the 1990s that I wanted to post about, to find out what forum members thought.
I used to live in northern NJ, and my best friend and his gf lived in CT. My best friend's gf, who I had some problems with, wanted someone to drive her to Action Park Amusement Park, 90 minutes from my house. My friend didnt want to do it, because he had already driven down to NJ from CT, and he didn't want his gf driving his car, because he didn't like how she drove.
So, I was asked to do it. Even though I really didnt like this girl, I did it for my friend. Since I was putting through such effort, I wanted something in return, so I asked my friend the following question.
We've known each other 29 years, and he knows I like feet. I asked him to ask his gf if I could smell her feet for a minute, in return for driving her all the way to the park. I told him I wouldnt do anything sexual to them like kiss or suck her toes, but that I just wanted to smell them, and maybe give them a quick tickle for a minute. He agreed to that, and said he would ask her. She said no, which I remember really ticked me off. Which is more difficult: Driving someone 3 hrs round trip to something you really dont want to do, or smelling someone's feet for one second? My friend told me that if one of his gf's friends had done him a big favor, and wanted to smell his feet, he would say okay, and try to tell his gf that one second of foot smelling isnt as big a deal as driving someone to an amusement park. If one of my gf's friends asked to smell my feet for such a favor, I would let her do it, if my gf was okay with it.
So, my question is this: If you do a close friend's gf a huge favor, and want to do something for one minute to her feet, thats just like smelling or a quick tickle, and not anything sexual, and the close friend is okay with that, should the gf agree to have her feet smelled in that situation? My friend told me he thought his gf was wrong, for not making the extra effort, considering that one minute of foot smelling, wasnt as much effort as what I did for her.
Anyhow, I'll be interested to hear feedback on this. Thanks.
Mitch
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
being a member of Wu's, the answer is going to be biased... lol
but outside that.. the reality it's her body, her choice if she wants you that close to her feet.
after that, given what you were doing for her, why didn't she offer to pay for gas.. maybe even food too.. it's 3 hours out of your way. (not to mention you had to go north to pick her up).
her lack of effort towards any form of compensation is a bit "off". not cool.
but, now for my biased reply.. your request was minimal, her man was cool with it.. that should have told her that it should be cool. but that's biased as a Wu's member.. lol
she sounds flat out selfish to me. (i would have even accepted the story that she's a student on a tight budget and the run was critical towards a worthy goal and she'd make it up to you other ways... like a future favor of sorts)
RPM
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
How is that not sexual? Wouldn't that make the relationship awkward?
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
If I had a "friend" ask me that but in this case switch it out to say just hold her tits, not suck on the nipples or anything sexual like that just for driving my girl somewhere I would promptly punch him in the mouth.
In kind, I would give him $40 bucks for gas/food
Now if it was ME driving my buddy's girl the only thing I would consider asking is maybe for some gas money. I realize what friends are for and I would hope they would do the same for me if needed.
Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :
Requests like that can really ruin friendships. I know you've rationalized it with yourself to say it wasn't sexual, totally harmless, she owed you, etc, etc. But bottom line: that's just some weird shit to ask somebody, especially a friend of many years.
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
Unless they were swingers or something and everyone was in the know, I don't think I could have asked that question. I don't think I could have asked the guy about his girl like that even if I knew they were swingers or open.
Now if the girl said, "I'll let you smell my feet if you drive me to the park. Our secret." I can't say I wouldn't have been tempted. LOL
Patrick
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
I'm with the others. I don't think that was the right offer, and she did have the right to refuse, since it IS her body. Even if it was just going to be a sniff.
I agree that a better offer would have been to have her pay for at least half of the gas.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
You never said weather you took her there or not. I wouldn't have settled for anything less than having that bitch's feet in my face for the whole trip.
Posted by jamaicanfeet (Member # 16678) on :
I could never see myself asking that of any of my friends....
Posted by Mona (Member # 8351) on :
quote:Originally posted by footjoyboy: You never said weather you took her there or not. I wouldn't have settled for anything less than having that bitch's feet in my face for the whole trip.
Actually, no, she isn't a "Bitch" because she wasn't comfortable with that.
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
Yes, I did take her there. I drove her back and forth, and paid for gas, more so because my friend has been so good to me, so I made the trip that she asked me to, for his benefit.
Okay, so the common consensus is that she had every right to refuse to let me smell her feet. I may not agree with those opinions, but I accept them.
All I will say is this: I had better make sure that whoever my next gf is will be okay with letting me smell or kiss her feet, because, if SHE refuses to let me smell her feet, that I wont be able to deal with, and I'd have to find someone who would at least let me indulge in her feet sometimes.
Mitch
Posted by JZ Wand (Member # 36398) on :
quote:Originally posted by MitchC: Yes, I did take her there. I drove her back and forth, and paid for gas, more so because my friend has been so good to me, so I made the trip that she asked me to, for his benefit.
Okay, so the common consensus is that she had every right to refuse to let me smell her feet. I may not agree with those opinions, but I accept them.
All I will say is this: I had better make sure that whoever my next gf is will be okay with letting me smell or kiss her feet, because, if SHE refuses to let me smell her feet, that I wont be able to deal with, and I'd have to find someone who would at least let me indulge in her feet sometimes.
Mitch
You dont agree with the opinion that she has every right to refuse to allow you to smell her feet????
Dude, its her body. Shes allowed to do and not do what she feels comfortable with. She may have been a bitch because of other things, but shes not a bitch because of that.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote: the reality it's her body, her choice if she wants you that close to her feet.
bingo.
but in reality, it was kinda lame of her to say no. i mean looking at it from all the discussions i've had with my wife on such stuff, as she would put it.. if he gets off on my feet, it wouldnt bother me.
i do agree with other people though that it was an odd request of yours. no matter if they didnt mind, it is a sexual act. it's not much different than saying let me see her boobs. i wont touch them or anything, i just want to see them. they might not have understood the full implications, but YOU should have.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
I know i replied showing my biased incline.. but really... in real life, i'd never ask that.. the only time that'd come up is if was single... she was single.. and knew i had a thing for her and her feet.. other than that.. no.. lol
RPM
Posted by footster008 (Member # 26335) on :
i wouldn't sounds creepy
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
How many guys would be comfortable letting a stinky foot fetish homosexual male sniff your feet?
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: How many guys would be comfortable letting a stinky foot fetish homosexual male sniff your feet?
Did we change subjects? I'm confused...
Patrick
Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: How many guys would be comfortable letting a stinky foot fetish homosexual male sniff your feet?
Wouldn't a heterosexual female make more sense here?
Anyhow, fuck no on another dude obv. And I'd be creeped out more than a little if some chick asked that out of the blue as well...
Posted by FabulosoFeet (Member # 3205) on :
quote:Originally posted by Patrick:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: How many guys would be comfortable letting a stinky foot fetish homosexual male sniff your feet?
Did we change subjects? I'm confused...
Patrick
quote:Originally posted by -cfg-:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: How many guys would be comfortable letting a stinky foot fetish homosexual male sniff your feet?
Wouldn't a heterosexual female make more sense here?
GQ Guy was putting us in her shoes
Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :
It's not like a lesbian woman asked to sniff her feet...
Posted by Groovyfacey (Member # 35475) on :
I think he chose a Homosexual guy because that's someone you're clearly not attracted to, rather than a woman. The lack of attraction is the main point methinks.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by FabulosoFeet:
quote:Originally posted by Patrick:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: How many guys would be comfortable letting a stinky foot fetish homosexual male sniff your feet?
Did we change subjects? I'm confused...
Patrick
quote:Originally posted by -cfg-:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: How many guys would be comfortable letting a stinky foot fetish homosexual male sniff your feet?
Wouldn't a heterosexual female make more sense here?
GQ Guy was putting us in her shoes
[/qb][/QUOTE]I think he chose a Homosexual guy because that's someone you're clearly not attracted to, rather than a woman. The lack of attraction is the main point methinks.[/QB][/QUOTE]
Pretty much. A rhetorical question meant to provoke thought. Not hijack the thread. My apologies. I think we get caught up in how "innocent" our fetish is because it doesn't carry the same stigma as a guy after ass or tits. Putting a spin on the situation where you've got a homosexual male stealing your shoes or trying to get a whiff of your feet puts things in perspective on how not innocent any of these actions are.
Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :
Ah ok I see. I was looking at it from the point of view like this:
Since the chances are slim to nil that any self-respecting straight man would ever let a gay dude sniff his feet, that it should be compared to a hetero woman. I figured that since there was a slight chance the OP's woman friend *might* have said yes, and that there are certainly women who would have said yes, that we should compare a situation where some of us may say yes and others might say no.
Make sense?
That said, I agree with you entirely GQGuy. Food for thought is always good
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