Ok everyone, I just want to kind of document whats going on with this situation. Last friday I hooked up with a girl at the bar, turns out I went to highschool with her but had never talked to her, anyway we did the dirty when we got back to her place. i went home the next day, hung out with her on tuesday. all is good, she doesn't know my fetish as of yet. But, tomorrow night we're going downtown to the bars and she's coming back to my house after.
I'm going to wheeze it into a conversation sometime that night that i'm into feet, and see how she reacts. I've done this a few times and it's worked so far.
I know there's some people here who are petrified to bring it up to the girl because they're afraid of they're reactions, (booze helps). I'll give everyone the play by play tomorrow or the following day sometime and let you guys know exactly what happened.
edit: just wanted to also say I wouldn't flat out tell every girl on the third time hanging out about a fetish, I've just got a good feeling and feel comfortable with this particular one to do it so soon.
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
Well, all I can say is good luck.
Posted by shook (Member # 12484) on :
haha thanks, hopefully it doesn't turn out bad. Just gotta be confident!
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
I don't do many random hook ups, but I find that most girls won't find the fetish strange unless you make it seem like it's strange. Girls tend to like the confidence, so if you play off of that, they seem to go for it. Act shy and timid with the fetish and they're probably thinking differently.
Patrick
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
I think that the confidence-thing helps to get them to simply let you do what you set out to do. They go along with it. Then, they get to discover whether they like what you're doing to/with them. The confidence is the... er... "foot-in-the-door," so to speak. It sort of goes along with that concept that "it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission."
Many's the time I smoothly just went for it with regard to making-nice on a girl's feet (all the way up through sucking on them) and few are the times when I got a negative reaction.
Shook, best of luck to you. I'm sure you'll do fine.
Posted by aka.footjoyboy (Member # 32751) on :
I wouldn't even bring it up at all, I'd just wait until we started making love. If you're a smell guy and you talk about it ahead of time, what if she thinks 'he's going to pay attention to my feet' and then goes and washes them or puts moisturizer on them? That would be a buzz-kill for me.
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
I must be crazy...But how were the feet...I know some of my FOOT BROTHERS don't care too much about the look of those feet...BUT I KNOW THAT YOU CHECKED THEM. OUT...
Posted by Sly (Member # 5446) on :
be confident, its sexy Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
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