i have been going with my gf a long time no i want a footjob but i dunno the best way to ask i have never had one i so want one
Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :
Well, first off.... how deep are you into the relationship, and does she know about your fetish?
Posted by Lucky 7 (Member # 38927) on :
My man first she needs to really know about the fetish you have. I have a friend his wife got him a footjob for his birhday,cost 40.00 bucks I guess there are foot hooker out there in the world.
Posted by Dick Lipschitz (Member # 127) on :
You will, at some point, have to ask someone ... whether it's your girlfriend or a hooker.
You might even have to explain exactly what you're after and how to do it.
But if you want a footjob, it won't just happen on its own. Speak up.
Cheers, DL
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
First of all, you should just tell her what you like. There's nothing wrong with it.
You wouldn't feel funny about asking for a blowjob, would you?
Secondly, be prepared to tell her what you want her to do when she agrees. Just like blowjobs, not all women are good at giving footjobs, and she will most likely require some practise to get it right. So remember to be patient and also be appreciative.
Posted by Dick Lipschitz (Member # 127) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lucky 7: My man first she needs to really know about the fetish you have. I have a friend his wife got him a footjob for his birhday,cost 40.00 bucks I guess there are foot hooker out there in the world.
Cool wife. But did this opportunity occur because:
(A) Your friend wanted to experience it with someone new, and his wife was OK with it? (B) Your friend wanted a footjob and his wife is an amputee? (C) Your friend's wife has all of her appendages but had no interest in fulfilling his interest?
Curious minds want to know.
Cheers, DL
Posted by Flip flop fan (Member # 9565) on :
quote:Originally posted by Dick Lipschitz:
quote:Originally posted by Lucky 7: My man first she needs to really know about the fetish you have. I have a friend his wife got him a footjob for his birhday,cost 40.00 bucks I guess there are foot hooker out there in the world.
Cool wife. But did this opportunity occur because:
(A) Your friend wanted to experience it with someone new, and his wife was OK with it? (B) Your friend wanted a footjob and his wife is an amputee? (C) Your friend's wife has all of her appendages but had no interest in fulfilling his interest?
Curious minds want to know.
Cheers, DL
Ok that was some seriously funny shit right there.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by ilovefeet%nailpolish: i have been going with my gf a long time no i want a footjob but i dunno the best way to ask i have never had one i so want one
welp i look at it this way.
the cat is gonna get out of the bag sooner or later so better to save yourselves both from a potential disaster and do it before things get too deep.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
just ask her for one. if she loves you, she will do it for you.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
Don't waste time obsessing over what she will think. Next time you two are about to do the nasty just grab her by the ankles and direct her feet where you want them to go. She'll be relieved you didn't roll her over and plant the root where the sun doesn't shine. I'm pretty sure she'll be receptive to it in the heat of the moment.
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
Start the ball rolling by using her feet during foreplay. Stroke them, rub them on your face, inhale them as you play towards sex, and before ya know it, she'll be rousting old Mr. Johnson with a little foot cuddle and ya go from there.
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
Outside of the ladies who have a FOOT PHOBIA, She is going love the fact that you adore ANY part of her body.. Don't ask for a footjob...Just added it to some SUPERB foreplay and massage...Do a little research (Google) Best Foot Massage Techniques and forever change her life!.. Cross her over to the "FOOTSIDE"..."May the force be with you..."
Posted by girlyfootlvr (Member # 27325) on :
Le Daemon always has some good advice!
So, here's the FAIL-PROOF and simple way: First, don't 'think' of it as a big deal or make a big fuss about it. When you were a kid you had never kissed a girl before. I'm sure you were asking all your friends how to get a girl to kiss you. And now... kissing is not a big deal! right?
Footjobs are the same way. Plan a regular romantic evening. Kiss her, and do your thing. When in bed, kiss her boobs, stomach, etc.. and lay her foot on your tool. Since her foot will be on it, she'll begin to massage it. If she doesn't, then you begin to hump her foot or hold her ankle and rub it on your tool....all the while kissing her legs, boobs, etc. It will be just a normal thing. She'll use her feet to massage you instead of her hands, since your body would be lower in the bed than her's. She'll do it without even thinking about it.
Now, if you simply want a footjob and not regular sex. Then keep doing what I said, even better if you can give her Oral and get her off first. She'd be in La La land. Then grab both her feet and begin to slide yourself between them, and kiss her feet too... telling her how beautiful they are....
It's not Science man, just common sense... Works EVERYTIME, with EVERYONE!!!
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
Lucky, I'm curious about your friend too> his wife would not induldge him?
Posted by obertar (Member # 38526) on :
What worked for me is that one time while I was going down on my girlfriend, I asked her to play with my wood at the same time. She was slightly unsure so I guided her foot to my wood and before I knew it I was receiving a footjob. Then another day she started voluntarily giving it a rub with her feet, out of the blue...and literally yesterday morning she actually requested that I go down on her while she plays with my wood with her feet. Happy days :-)
Introducing footjobs, etc to a girl who may be completely inexperienced in footplay will more than likely be a long process, but if you really like her (for more then her feet) then the gradual, patient approach is totally worth it as I'm finding - I'm getting a lot of foot play without having full-on declared a foot fetish yet, and I may not even need to!
Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
When you're in bed just grab her feet and plonk them on your cock and say 'that looks hot' or 'that feels good'. It ain't neuroscience buddy.
Also, there is no need to tell a girl in words 'I have a foot fetish' in words which sounds a bit weird, it will become plain as day in your actions.
Posted by Mia Hollywood (Member # 39227) on :
Many good words of advice. Bottom line, if she's into you or really LOVES you there's not much she won't do to satisfy and make sure your satisfied! What turns you on will turn her on,again if she's REALLY into or loves you. There's nothing I won't do for mine...or maybe I'm just "special" :-)
Posted by chipa (Member # 7775) on :
dude just have her feet on ur lap while ur watchin a movie or somethin then rub her feet on ur hard on and then go from there....u gotta have foot game
Posted by asiafoot (Member # 1925) on :
Count me in with the less talk, more action folks...
I've never said anything about my foot fetish to any of the ladies I've been involved with. They figured that out on their own soon enough My current girlfriend was very much a foot virgin and, being Thai, was perplex by my fondness for her feet. All I did was give her a foot rub from time-to-time & incorporated her feet into our foreplay. Eventually I placed her foot on my cock while I was giving her a good going over The rest is history. Nowadays, if she's in the mood I'm often the happy recipient of enjoyable impromptu footjob while just sitting around watching the tube... I love this little lady!
Asiafoot Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Just had to laugh at the topic line...it remains the eternal question for foot-fanciers.
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My current girlfriend was very much a foot virgin and, being Thai, was perplex by my fondness for her feet. All I did was give her a foot rub from time-to-time & incorporated her feet into our foreplay. Eventually I placed her foot on my cock while I was giving her a good going over ![[Drool]](graemlins/drool.gif)
The rest is history. Nowadays, if she's in the mood I'm often the happy recipient of enjoyable impromptu footjob while just sitting around watching the tube... I love this little lady!![[Cheers]](graemlins/cheers.gif)