So I had a girl over the other night that i'm highly attracted to. We went to a party and had a blast with crazy sexual chemistry all night. At one point I contemplated having my way with her in my car but I figured I'd try and make it home. We get home and get pretty hammered and we pass out. Next morning we start hooking up again. And i'll be damned if my cock wasn't fully hard the whole time. Even when I was inside of her my hard on would wear off. Despite looking down at her pretty butt as I stradled her it was a no go. Sad. This isn't the first time either. I've lost women when this happens!
So i've decided to give up getting off to internet feet for a month.
Anyone else have erectile issues that you feel might stem from too much internet not enough real sex?
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
Pop a Viagra son.
Posted by Spruce314 (Member # 35412) on :
Have had the same problem for years. Most women don't seem to mind though. One actually commented that she liked the 'give' in mine.
Posted by solebrotha985 (Member # 2347) on :
yea it might be a good idea to give up the net porn for a little bit. so when u do get in the real thing u will be pretty ready to tear it apart.
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
no not at all. With all of the porn that I look at everyday for 12 hours a day, no problems. Mind you, I have my foot site my pantyhose site, my foot worship site, 3 directories and a tube site, whew.
...But i also masturbate about 5 times per day. My doctor thinks it's funny I think I am pretty much addicted to the orgasm, at this point. Doesn't matter how I get off, as long as I get off.
Posted by asiafoot (Member # 1925) on :
Purely IMHO... Don't think internet porn had anything to do with it; maybe you just weren’t into her (emotionally/mentally) as much as you thought you were. Been there myself a few times Of course a heavy night of drinking probably doesn’t help and actually exacerbates the situation in most cases. I’d press with your normal routine, I have a feeling you’ll be back on your “A” game soon enough. Like I said, been there before & it’s frustrating. Worst case, Kamagra works wonders when all else fails!
Good luck to you, I think you’ll be good to go in short order
Asiafoot
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Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
Another thing could be your diet, lack of leg and stomach exercises, and lack of rest. And alot of alcohol will NOT help. lol If all fails, then just pop a v-pill and you're good to go.
Posted by Flip flop fan (Member # 9565) on :
Stress is a motherfucker down there, meditate, work out, any positive outlet for stress.
If you're with a woman and you're not having a good day down there you still have ten fingers and a tongue to knock her dead with. In my early 20's I did a lot of partying and a lot of hard drugs. It happened to me a few times as well.
Smoking is directly linked to ed, I keep thinking about that every time I want to go for a smoke right now...
Posted by mclaren f1 2003 (Member # 2934) on :
i personally just cant do that right after i wake up, same thing happens
but i too dont think the internet had anything thing to do with this...
Posted by toesukr22B (Member # 6298) on :
" lack of leg and stomach exercises"
Please explain how this influences erection capabilities???
Posted by MrSoleLvr (Member # 21192) on :
May have to do with living in fantasy land surfing for porn and what not, your mind becomes so used to seeing air brushed and surgically enhanced chicks that are deemed perfect...and lets face it in most of our lives these ladies are unattainable hence all you can get off to is these pics and vids of these ladies.
I'd have to agree with you and lay off the porn, you may actually find it helps you to connect to your parts again.....or like LeDaemon said pop a blue pill and carry on!
Posted by toesucker - uk (Member # 5495) on :
It has nothing to do with watching porn or how often you wank. Drink and smoking could be a factor and can happen as you get older ( 30s upwards). As this isnt first time suggest you see a doctor as could be another factor causing it so good to get checked out. Thou its not easy try not to become anxious over it, more likely you think you will lose the erection more likely you will. When all said and done you can still have lots of fun without intercourse.
Posted by JZ Wand (Member # 36398) on :
You said you were hammered. Its called whiskey dick!
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
I have had that happen 3 times..The 1st two times I just wasn't comfortable...Both of these girls were young and I just felt like a pervert (NOT ILLEGAL YOUNG! I was 24 and she was 18..back then it seemed worse) ..It just felt like I was taking advantage of them...I couldn't do it. The other time I ran into and old friend from college and I just loved her back then but she was so fine(She looks like Lisa Raye)..I couldn't believe that we were finally about to get it on...I WAS SO NERVOUS. MY POLE WAS LIKE A RAMEN NOODLE...I made up for It later though...lol...If your shaft is on a semi hard state GET A "HEAD" START...Like Colt 45...Works everytime...WELL 4 ME IT DOES...lol
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
I just thought of this one...try an All Natural testosterone booster..I started taking some a year ago and..I shoot ROPES!..Im also multi orgasmic..The stuff turns you into a beast!
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
It will happen to all of us sooner or later. I has happened to me. If you let it fuck with your mind(i did), can become a problem. the next time you are going to fuck, you will be saying to "i hope it woun't happen again. then you are fucked.
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
quote:Originally posted by babeflover: It will happen to all of us sooner or later. I has happened to me. If you let it fuck with your mind(i did), can become a problem. the next time you are going to fuck, you will be saying to "i hope it woun't happen again. then you are fucked.
Exactly.....it will happen to every guy reading this thread and every other guy not reading this thread. You gotta let it go or it will get into your head and then the erection or not will take the place of the pleasure you are about to receive. I agree that licking a sweet pussy and foot rubbing is not as much fun without a hard-on, but sometimes that is what you'll have to do my friend. Welcome to middle age......
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
Quote"....Welcome to middle age"
RIGHT! my dick does not get as hard as it used to ten years ago(i'm 47).So, what to do? what to do?. Oh yeah. Viagra, levitra or cialys the mother fucker. I(we) have to fuck pussy and/or ass by any means necessary.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Me and my girl don't use condoms(she is on the pill) and about 2 weeks ago we tried using a rubber and my dick basically said "Fuck that rubber shit" and wouldn't work. Ripped the rubber off and went at it bareback and voila! Worked perfect but it had me scared(I'm only 23!) Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
quote:Originally posted by mclaren f1 2003: i personally just cant do that right after i wake up, same thing happens
but i too dont think the internet had anything thing to do with this...
Me neither! The two options are: 1) Manky morning breath or that minty taste from toothpaste meaning you can't taste anything.
2) Needing a piss, or just having had one.
Anyway, to refer to the original topic, not happened to me personally, but I think it would have got to a point where you were wanting it to happen when it wasn't happening so much that it had the adverse effect.
And like others have said, alcohol, stress etc.
I'd really doubt it was anything to do with wanking - I do it maybe a couple of times a day and can get it up whenever - greatest achievement being coming twice off the same erection
Plus I doubt you wanked like half an hour before you went out or whatever...even if you did...is more than one orgasm a day too much to handle? (I'd assume not)
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
Well. this continue to be an interesting post. it is the next morning since my last post. An again, with me, it is mostly "performance anxiety", and that is with my wife of twenty years. Can you imagine if some shit like that were to happen on some kind of night-stand? I'd be mentally fucked for ever. just this morning i sent her to work with what i would call,"preview fuck". that is when i fuck her for a while without allowing her to come, so we can resume the Saturday fuck-fest tonight. Of course, since there was not pressure to perform, my cock was as hard as piece of wood.she had stop me a couple time so she wouldn't come. My point again is that most times, it is just your mind fucking with you.
Posted by girlyfootlvr (Member # 27325) on :
2 things -
1. Too much jacking off, especially before a date (on the same day) does not help.
2. Too much drinking also slower/lowers things for you. Alcohol in blood will slow you down.
3. Being Nervous on your first date with a new girl is also a downer. Sometimes, we expect a lot from us. We want to make that 'impression', and get too wrapped up/stressed about it. It's more of a mental thing, than physical.
....been there done that. When you're with your regular girl, and been with her for a while, feel comfortable with her.. things will work for you even without ANY effort...
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
It could be anything bro...new chick, your nervous...and on top of that your drinkin too?
See when shit like this happens to me or has happened to me, I immediately direct her mouth to you know where...and that seems to help. BUT usually, if im tryin to bang a girl and i don't know her that well, im gonna really make it a point to go slow on the booze. Only AFTER if ive gotten to know her a little better and banged her a few times will i then not care you know?
But you could be stressed too man its hard to say maybe you have low libido?...I think every guy in this forum has had this happen to him at least ONCE in their "sexual careers". But like every one said, it happened...DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT FROM THIS POINT MOVING FORWARD.
Your erection is a state of mind man. And it has NOTHING to do with how much porn you look at, how many times you jack off, none of that shit...there's guys out there that bang multiple chicks at once! Three different girls over the weekend whatever the case is you know? How do you explain that? You mean to tell me they're takin Viagra every single time? I dont think so...
I think what you should do is, stick to your normal routine, dont bug out on this shit, CONTINUE TO WORK OUT, aright...and please man next time you bag a chick and your planning on bangin her DO NOT GET WASTED!! Go slow on the booze!!
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I think I am pretty much addicted to the orgasm, at this point. Doesn't matter how I get off, as long as I get off.
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Of course a heavy night of drinking probably doesn’t help and actually exacerbates the situation in most cases. I’d press with your normal routine, I have a feeling you’ll be back on your “A” game soon enough. Like I said, been there before & it’s frustrating. Worst case, Kamagra works wonders when all else fails!![[Cheers]](graemlins/cheers.gif)
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