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Posted by J.S (Member # 19854) on :
 
My wifes size 9's rock i love them cum on them at least once a day but every since spring popped up I want some new feet any suggestions ??!
 
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
 
www.footfetishtube.com make friends with it [Smile]

Feet are not worth giving up a marriage for, no excuses.
 
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
 
Probably gonna have to pay for 'it'...
 
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by J.S:
I want some new feet any suggestions ??!

Yeah.

Stick with your wife. You're married for a reason. Breaking up a marriage just for other feet (epecially after you said you love your wife's) is pretty pathetic.
 
Posted by Panic (Member # 21074) on :
 
Think about this....Do you want your wife sharing her feet with others?
 
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
 
Is the Mrs. o.k. with this???? Foot Fetish Tube is good to see different things without physically touching anyone else feet but your wifey's. But if your wife is o.k. with this then let er in on it and pick a pair of feet for ya!
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
It's gonna be up to you and the Wifey...If she is ok with it then who are we to judge...My Wife is not going for it...I ASKED HER LAST WEEK AND SHE WAS LIKE WTF!..I wish that I could though..lol...It's not like I'm trying to have sex...I understand because I don't like for her to wear SANDLES to work..I just wouldn't want some FOOT FREAK to start licking her feet or jacking off right on the spot!...lol...She works in a public place...

[ May 10, 2010, 04:10 PM: Message edited by: DeTrOiT ]
 
Posted by kara (Member # 36617) on :
 
There is some very good advice in this topic.

Think about it this way, you start cheating on your wife and she finds out. And you obviously love her feet and she indulges you in your fetish. Now think about what happens if she leaves you and you can't find a woman out there who has both sexy feet, and is willing to let you have your way with them?

Is the possible reward greater than the risk?
 
Posted by ajantis (Member # 10394) on :
 
Divorce your wife - the marriage is obviously an utter farce if you're seriously contemplating doing this.

Or better yet, just cheat on her. And why not? Women seem to love dating assholes like you, so it will no doubt serve simply to turn her on more; then you'll end up with two really good sex-lives, instead of a single banal one with someone you obviously don't even like all that much.
 
Posted by ajantis (Member # 10394) on :
 
Married only recently too, I see:

http://www.wusfeetlinks.com/ubbcgi/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=2;t=001478;p=1#000000

http://www.wusfeetlinks.com/ubbcgi/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=2;t=001504;p=1#000000

...Right? You wouldn't actually make posts like this if you were married at the time, would you?

A few years ago I'd have felt sorry for your wife. But not any more.
 
Posted by daveafguy (Member # 39201) on :
 
Karas right. Its hard to find a woman who's actually into this or will indulge you the way you want it. My wife doesnt get into it like i do but let's me do what I want with her feet.
 
Posted by Foot Lover Of London (Member # 2420) on :
 
I pose a question...Would you be happy to share your wife`s feet with anyone here ? Or share your wife in general ? Not asking is I am interested...Just curious as to how that would make you feel.
 
Posted by Flip flop fan (Member # 9565) on :
 
... then why the fuck did you get married? Straight up!

Seriously, I'm so fucking sick of people getting married, then finding out it's not for them. That's what being young is for, to find out what type of person you are. Married family man or a playboy. There's nothing wrong with either of the two, what is wrong is pretending to be one and bringing another persons feelings into the equation...

You could totally open a can of worms here, maybe your fetish is feet, maybe hers is getting gang banged by six dudes. Once you proposition her for feet, she will tell you her deal then you're fucked. If you both back out, then you both know each other wants sex with others and you have basically ruined your marriage.

Maybe you should fuck off on the foot fetish for a while and find out what the fuck you want outta life and your marriage?

I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but I'm from a tightly knit Scottish family, where honor, trust and loyalty are priorities. Family is supposed to be for life, and I'm guessing she doesn't know you're propositioning people for foot massages on the internets now does she?
 
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
 
I agree. People just don't seem to understand that marriage is hard work that requires commitment, communication and compromise.

My wife and I have been married for 10 years. We've had our ups and our downs, but we work through it and its been really tough at times. But after we get through the tough times our relationship always seems to get stronger.

It is awful how easily people look toward divorce because they think marriage is what makes the relationship.
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
Dude...Talk to your wife...Tell her how you feel and come to a compromise...Whatever it is..its cool if you both have an understandong...
Wow...I find it amazing how people can force THEIR MORALS AND VALUES on someone else...It's obvious that this man FEELS THE WAY THAT HE FEELS and his morals and values are all his own..You don't know whats going on in this man's house...MY GOD!...I'm not trying to say that its cool to cheat on your spouse...All is not always well In marriage and what makes us "PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR LONGTIME" different from people who are divorced or haven't "Found the Right Person Yet" IS NOT THAT WE DON'T MAKE MISTAKES or have problems....IT'S THE FACT THAT WE PERSEVERE THRU THEM...Worry about your own relationship...
I flat out asked my wife....I wanted to know what she thought about it...She said NO WAY!...Thats the only person that matters....and for those of you who maybe to young to understand what a true long term relationship or marriage is...SOMETIME IT MAKES A MARRIAGE STRONGER....When you go thru some SHIT!...

[ May 12, 2010, 05:04 PM: Message edited by: DeTrOiT ]
 
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
 
Are you calling me an Asshole because I think that cheating on your wife behind her back is wrong? If so - that says a lot about you. If not, then I misunderstood. In either case I don't see what your problem is given the information presented in his first post. Those of us that respect the vows of marriage will not agree with his request. Are you saying we cannot post our opinions on the matter?

From my morally imposing high ground it is my opinion, that if you get married you have an obligation to your wife, under most circumstance to remain faithful to her and only her. Of course there are extenuating circumstances. Perhaps you have an open marriage. Perhaps you have been married a while and you have tried talking to your wife about the lack of sex of lack or fetish related activities. If you tried to communicate with no luck then I could see looking elsewhere.

But this dude stated he gets what he wants all the time. He is just looking for some variety. That makes it wrong unless his wife knows about it! I bet 99% of married guys would love to get some variety. Those who respect their marriage fight the urge and find other outlets.

[ May 12, 2010, 05:14 PM: Message edited by: mmmtoes ]
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
NO I AGREE THAT WE SHOULD BE THE BEST FAITHFUL HUSBANDS THAT WE CAN...You felt like he was an ASSHOLE because he Is being tempted to CHEAT...I felt like you were acting like one by forcing your standards on him...AND REALLY SOUNDING ANGRY ABOUT IT...I actually edited that post and took ASSHOLE out within 20 min of posting( not trying to make any enemies)...I just felt that you went to hard on that guy ranting and raving about YOUR MORALS...He is living his life...He's being honest (I guess) and HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT MARRIAGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM WANTING OTHER FEET!...Me personally?...I'm good... But If I wanted or needed to have other feet or women in life...THEN I WOULD...That would be me and my Wifey's problem to workout...
You...or FLIP FLOP fan just went the F off like this was Oprah's "Cheating Husband" episode...It's ok to have your opinion but don't hang the man because of his issues...You sounded so angry....Why?...Have you been hurt by a girlfriend or wife?..No need to answer that...I would have expected an angry post like that from one of the ladies (who have been hurt by the CHEATING BOYFRIEND)......Anyway all is cool and I didn't mean any disrespect...THAT'S WHY I CHANGED THE POST WELL BEFORE I READ YOUR REPLY...

[ May 12, 2010, 06:41 PM: Message edited by: DeTrOiT ]
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
Oh, mmmtoes...I AGREED WITH YOU TOTALLY!..It was Ajantis and Flip Flop Fan who went the F off...Lol...Read the Post....DAMNED IT WAS MEAN AND HARSH...Nothing against those guys either...all is cool....I HOPE?
 
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
 
Man if your gonna do it, just don't get caught...any guy in here who thinks that his wife/girlfriend wouldn't cheat on him just as quick as he would cheat on her is a FOOL.

ANYONE will cheat on ANYBODY given the right circumstances doesn't matter if your with someone for 6 months or 30 years, guys and girls alike. One thing that I have learned from my past relationships is that YOU CAN NOT PREVENT SOMEONE FROM CHEATING ON YOU, plain and simple...if they're gonna cheat, then they're gonna cheat...nothin you can do about that.

There's no such thing as loyalty now a'days your just as loyal as the next guy. What's important is that you stay up on YOU. Make your own money, have your own car, have your own place and make sure you always look your BEST. That way, if things go south with the one your currently with, your not left out to dry. You move forward and your on to the next one.

Which is why marriage scares me. The legal ramifications for getting a divorce in this country are HUUUGGGGEEEE and people often over look that. I have a job, in sales, where I'm out on the road all day. One of the industries that I handle is "professional services" I.E. legal, real estate, accounting, you get the idea...

The lawyers I speak to that handle divorces say that getting a divorce is "very very very expensive" HELLO??? THE LAWS IN THIS COUNTRY DONT FAVOR THE MEN. YOU GET A DIVORCE AND YOU LOSE ALL YOUR SHIT!!! The wife is even "entitled" to access to your PENSION...if you have one. Not to mention all the money your gonna pay the lawyer just to process the thing.

So my conclusion to all this is, your married right? Your thinking about getting feet? Ok rock on...women are the best! I love em! Now, if you get caught, and if you think that could potentially lead down the road of splitting up, accusations of cheating...DIVORCE...make no mistake, YOU WILL PAY...no doubt about it.
 
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
 
It's cool [Joint]
 
Posted by J.S (Member # 19854) on :
 
Detroit you seem very intelligent I like your point of view all I'm saying is the same ol" bowl of cereal everyday ,sure would be nice to smell and feel another chicks feet ! Like caras she's yummy!!
 
Posted by desmond (Member # 20001) on :
 
JS,

everyone thinks about another women's feet, but let's just keep it at that...
hope you'll never induldge yourself on another women's feet men!!!
you're wife gives you all the feet you need, please don't be one of those guys that cheats on his loving wife, even though she's satisfying you sexually...
think about other feet, but don't go beyond that!!!

keep your face buried in your wife's feet as much as you can and as much as she allows you too, so you won't have time to think about cheating...
would you let you wife cheat? just because she want's a different "bowl of cereal"?
not likely right?
please realise how lucky you are before you're one of those men that realises what they had when it's gone!!!

take care JS
 
Posted by Flip flop fan (Member # 9565) on :
 
Yeah Detroit I was harsh, that's my opinion and I'm damn well entitled to it, posting my opinions online is certainly not forcing them on anyone. Especially when it became obvious that he was posting looking for other women when he hadn't spoken to his wife about it. This is an internet forum if you have forgotten and if you or anyone else here doesn't like someone else's opinion, maybe this isn't the place for you. If you don't want to hear the truth then don't ask the question.

Don't give me this fairy-tale bullshit about finding the right one. Hollywood has us believing that we're all going to find the right one and everything will be all happy with no work at all. WRONG, this is real life, good things take patience, work, compromise and communication. As for open relationships? The term itself is an oxymoron. I have had many friends, some of which in married open relationships, all have failed. Oh and finally figuring out that you're an open relationship type person once married is kinda bullshit, you're supposed to figure that shit out before you agree to vows. What are your words worth if you go back on them? You want to know a real scary statistic? When the economy bottomed out so did the divorce rate. No one wanted to go through the possible financial stress of a divorce. That just shows what is really important to the majority of the population.

Thank you skaramunga for saying that loyalty is gone and basically telling me that I lied about my moral values. Yes, in fact I have been hurt by women and I have hurt women in the past. Again, part of growing up and making me the man I am today. I am loyal to my girl, and she is loyal to me. Without question. So don't tell me who I am when you honestly have no fucking idea. Maybe I am all alone when I say that I find monogamy attractive, that I like the idea of building a life with my partner and having a family at my side when I pass into the next life. This is just who I am.

By the way the word your shows possession, you're means you are. Both you and Detroit's use of capitol lettering is highly annoying. Now, I'm just being an asshole...

[ May 13, 2010, 01:52 PM: Message edited by: Flip flop fan ]
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
Wow...are you really that angry because a man is tempted to cheat?...Actually I was stating that FINDING THE RIGHT ONE is some bull...It's all about compromise...My style of posting is MY STYLE OF POSTING...And yes you are being an ASSHOLE about it...Lol..I read the rules for posting on here and it specifically states DON'T POST IN ALL CAPITOL LETTERS...I don't do that...If there was a problem, I'M SURE THAT THE MODERATORS WOULD LET ME KNOW...
I'm not suprised that you are annoyed...After calling a person an ASSHOLE and straight losing it because he is tempted to cheat.. Call me what you want, I'm happy...I can't identify with being cheated on...I guess I now understand why you were so upset...
 
Posted by Flip flop fan (Member # 9565) on :
 
I'm not angry or losing it what so ever. I wrote that post in a calm and orderly manner. I did bust out the caps once, and for that, I apologize.

You pretty well missed the entire point of my last post. Especially the ending, where I showed the difference between me being an asshole and me expressing who I am as a person and my opinions.

This has obviously become some sort of personal attack, what exactly I called you? I am not sure of, so if you could highlight this for me, I may consider this statement. In fact, my initial post on this page wasn't even addressed to you, although you had a problem with it.

Alas, I am done with this thread. I'm not here to argue, although, I am quite opinionated, as you already know.

Oh good for you for never being cheated on, that's great. Again, this wasn't supposed to be a pissing match.
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
It's not Flip Flop fan...All is good...I'm not arguing...I understand your view..I just felt that you were harsh...I love feet and so do you...In the end that's what we are here for...Peace unto You my man...PEACE UNTO TO YOU...
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
Thanks my man...I have learned (because of my foot kink) to be more understanding of peoples weaknesses...Who am I to judge, I GET SEXUALLY AROUSED AT THE SITE OF DESIRABLE FEET?...I do mean an instant boner? THE REASON THAT HAVE BEEN WITH MY WIFE FOR 18 YEARS IS NOT BECAUSE I HAVEN'T WANTED TO CHEAT...It's because of the many beautiful women who have been interested didn't know that IT'S THE FEET THAT MAKES ME WEAK NOT THE PUNANI...lucky for me...AND MY WIFE...If they REALLY KNEW... I would have screwed up my marriage years ago!..Not Lol...


quote:
Originally posted by J.S:
Detroit you seem very intelligent I like your point of view all I'm saying is the same ol" bowl of cereal everyday ,sure would be nice to smell and feel another chicks feet ! Like caras she's yummy!!


 
Posted by J.S (Member # 19854) on :
 
In my 36 years of life I've learned when someone gets real disturbed about people being attracted to other people that those people have a hard time! Getting woman !
 
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
 
?????

Care to explain - I did not see anyone in this thread suggest that they have a problem with people being attracted to other people. Getting a little defensive??
 
Posted by SOLESQUIRTERS (Member # 29802) on :
 
believe it or not,i was married to a hot turkish girl with size 7 killer feet & i blew it because i wanted more feet. my wife allowed me to do whatever i wanted to her and her gorgeous feet but i felt like more variety was needed. yes i get tons of footjobs now;but the headache of dealing with new chicks all the time is more frustrating than any issues i ever had with my wife. to me it became a case of the grass really not being greener on the other side if you know what i mean.better to have just sat back,enjoyed what i had and watch kool videos like this... 2 HOT CUMSHOTS on Soles enjoy!!! [Jerkoff]
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by SOLESQUIRTERS:
believe it or not,i was married to a hot turkish girl with size 7 killer feet & i blew it because i wanted more feet. my wife allowed me to do whatever i wanted to her and her gorgeous feet but i felt like more variety was needed. yes i get tons of footjobs now;but the headache of dealing with new chicks all the time is more frustrating than any issues i ever had with my wife. to me it became a case of the grass really not being greener on the other side if you know what i mean.better to have just sat back,enjoyed what i had and watch kool videos like this... 2 HOT CUMSHOTS on Soles enjoy!!! [Jerkoff]

Great post!..I agree totally...This is exactly why its easy for me to DO RIGHT BY THE WIFEY!...I am a firm believer that MEN ARE GOING TO BE FAITHFUL BY CHOICE...NOT BECAUSE IT'S WHAT WE ARE SUPPOSED TO DO!...Fight that LUST DEMON and Stay Strong my friends stay strong!
 
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Flip flop fan:
Yeah Detroit I was harsh, that's my opinion and I'm damn well entitled to it, posting my opinions online is certainly not forcing them on anyone. Especially when it became obvious that he was posting looking for other women when he hadn't spoken to his wife about it. This is an internet forum if you have forgotten and if you or anyone else here doesn't like someone else's opinion, maybe this isn't the place for you. If you don't want to hear the truth then don't ask the question.

Don't give me this fairy-tale bullshit about finding the right one. Hollywood has us believing that we're all going to find the right one and everything will be all happy with no work at all. WRONG, this is real life, good things take patience, work, compromise and communication. As for open relationships? The term itself is an oxymoron. I have had many friends, some of which in married open relationships, all have failed. Oh and finally figuring out that you're an open relationship type person once married is kinda bullshit, you're supposed to figure that shit out before you agree to vows. What are your words worth if you go back on them? You want to know a real scary statistic? When the economy bottomed out so did the divorce rate. No one wanted to go through the possible financial stress of a divorce. That just shows what is really important to the majority of the population.

Thank you skaramunga for saying that loyalty is gone and basically telling me that I lied about my moral values. Yes, in fact I have been hurt by women and I have hurt women in the past. Again, part of growing up and making me the man I am today. I am loyal to my girl, and she is loyal to me. Without question. So don't tell me who I am when you honestly have no fucking idea. Maybe I am all alone when I say that I find monogamy attractive, that I like the idea of building a life with my partner and having a family at my side when I pass into the next life. This is just who I am.

By the way the word your shows possession, you're means you are. Both you and Detroit's use of capitol lettering is highly annoying. Now, I'm just being an asshole...

Angry or not, well said!

If one doesn't grow a spine and have principles that one is willing to stand up for and believe in all the time and everything turns into "This is good but only in these certain situations..." or "This applies to me but only in these situations...", it makes for a slippery slope. That's how Tiger Woods got into trouble. He may have had certain principles but compromised them by thinking that some of those principles in certain situations didn't apply to him.
 
Posted by temp1234 (Member # 33411) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by J.S:
Detroit you seem very intelligent I like your point of view all I'm saying is the same ol" bowl of cereal everyday ,sure would be nice to smell and feel another chicks feet ! Like caras she's yummy!!

You're only saying he's intelligent because you agree with him. His analogies are incorrect and have no relevance to each other.

It sounds to me like you married the wrong person. I've been with the same girl for almost 8 years now and there's no way in hell I could ever consider interacting with another womans feet. I mean sure I like the look of some I see but I'm never going to take that further.
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
Analogies?...Relevance?..Lol...OK...#1. Im not saying go cheat on your wife...I'm saying talk to your wife and see what she has to say about it..Whatever you come up with as a couple, IS WHAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU...If it doesn't work, It's all good. You made a mistake. Fix it and move on What does he have to agree with me about?...I DIDN'T SAY "HEY GO OUT AND CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE"...Wtf..
#2. I completely understand what Flip Flop Fan is saying! Yes, many of us men need to do better.. But everybody's situation is different...I just felt that Ajantis and his post was borderline brutal...That's what I had a problem with...NOT HIS OPINION..
I see that we have a high ratio of guys WHO WOULDN'T EVER TOUCH ANOTHER WOMEN BECAUSE YOU'RE MARRIED...Lol...Ok...Well good for you guys and your wives...The world is a better place because of stand up Gentlemen like you...

[ May 14, 2010, 04:03 PM: Message edited by: DeTrOiT ]
 
Posted by chefflash (Member # 36219) on :
 
I will let you play with my wifes feet if you let me play with your wifes feet.If you want email me.I feel the same
 
Posted by Mickey G (Member # 39263) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by J.S:
My wifes size 9's rock i love them cum on them at least once a day but every since spring popped up I want some new feet any suggestions ??!

this is why i don't want to get married, why screw around with one girl when you can have many?

tiger woods got married to get more endorsements being the "wholesome family guy", a guy with his money and power can't leave the house without women throwing themselves at him, he will never be marriage material

i would only get married if i wanted kids, as of today i want nothing to do with them

other than that, i think marriage just benefits the woman and doesn't benefit the man at all
 
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by bluetoelover: www.footfetishtube.com make friends with it [Smile] Feet are not worth giving up a marriage for, no excuses.
The golden rule is to make sure you don't get caught is'nt it?
 
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by DeTrOiT:
NO I AGREE THAT WE SHOULD BE THE BEST FAITHFUL HUSBANDS THAT WE CAN...You felt like he was an ASSHOLE because he Is being tempted to CHEAT...I felt like you were acting like one by forcing your standards on him...AND REALLY SOUNDING ANGRY ABOUT IT...I actually edited that post and took ASSHOLE out within 20 min of posting( not trying to make any enemies)...I just felt that you went to hard on that guy ranting and raving about YOUR MORALS...He is living his life...He's being honest (I guess) and HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT MARRIAGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM WANTING OTHER FEET!...Me personally?...I'm good... But If I wanted or needed to have other feet or women in life...THEN I WOULD...That would be me and my Wifey's problem to workout...
You...or FLIP FLOP fan just went the F off like this was Oprah's "Cheating Husband" episode...It's ok to have your opinion but don't hang the man because of his issues...You sounded so angry....Why?...Have you been hurt by a girlfriend or wife?..No need to answer that...I would have expected an angry post like that from one of the ladies (who have been hurt by the CHEATING BOYFRIEND)......Anyway all is cool and I didn't mean any disrespect...THAT'S WHY I CHANGED THE POST WELL BEFORE I READ YOUR REPLY...

Well said, Detroit, everything you said was spot-on in my opinion.
 
Posted by baalfootish (Member # 33991) on :
 
Don't listen to the BS dude. I'm with girl five years now. Love her to death but
Think bout it. Most men wanna fuck like bunnies after they marry.
At least ur just after feet. Tell her. C what she says. I know mygf
Doesn't like it but she prefers me wanting feet as opposed to pussy
But if ur truthfull ur good. U have to make her very comfy with feet.
She will c how u love em n don't really care bout sex. If it goes
Well ur good. U need that understanding in relationships.
My gf finds it worse to go to strip clubs. She knows I look
And will indulge soon. So if she knows its always there. Bare
Feet like a topless woman she may even see how it helps.

I told my girl I wanted to b covered in feet n she understands
And whil it may happen on my bday at least she knows and is
Comfortable with it.

Sry I'm typin on my fone
 
Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
 
I must agree with the rest of the group, you have a wife that accepts your love for feet. Just play it safe, check in with wus website, when in doubt "Rub it out".
 
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
 
I laugh at people trying to push morality on foot fetish message board.

You do realise that this board is the very type of thing that most morality police frown upon right?

Irony.
 
Posted by Outback69 (Member # 2217) on :
 
Hehe...I am with the minority it seems...my wife allows me to indulge my fetish and doesn't give it a second thought.

She's actually come to strip clubs with me and actually BOUGHT me lap dances with the express purpose of telling the dancer that I am into feet.

I used to and maybe again soon will be taking pics of women's feet and she has supported this 100% with money being the only thing that she has curtailed. If I wanted to indulge a little more, she took the pics and video herself.

The street runs both ways as she goes off and does her thing with the male strippers and let me tell ya...it is WAY more raunchy than the ladies.

So I guess you can debate all of the morality that you want to but I feel like THE LUCKIEST man alive having found her. So yes, if you do wait, there IS someone out there that will allow you the freedom and understanding that comes with it.

Now you can call us "disturbed" or think that something is "wrong" with our marriage and all of that psycho-babble crap that you want, but I am WAY more HAPPY in this marriage than I was in my previous, faithful-to-only-one-person farce.

Anyway, my 2 cents.
 
Posted by temp1234 (Member # 33411) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Outback69:

Now you can call us "disturbed" or think that something is "wrong" with our marriage and all of that psycho-babble crap that you want, but I am WAY more HAPPY in this marriage than I was in my previous, faithful-to-only-one-person farce.

Anyway, my 2 cents.

So I will! Yea that... that isn't a sign of a healthy relationship. The thrill from cheating comes from the partner not knowing what is going on!
You 2 would make a great case study! Was there an event in your past that brought this on? Betrayal, abuse, drugs, alternate upbringing?

quote:
Originally posted by Sinnister:
I laugh at people trying to push morality on foot fetish message board.

You do realise that this board is the very type of thing that most morality police frown upon right?

Irony.

No, not really. Liking feet isn't a "morality" problem. You can like feet and be an upstanding member of society, or you can be a homeless drug addict who likes feet. The 2 are not connected.
 
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
 
^^ This. [Cheers]
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
...I DO THE RIGHT THING because it feels right in my world...In my spirit...AND IN THE COLLECTIVE WORLD OF TWO PEOPLE...My wife and I...ONLY THE PEOPLE INVOLVED CAN DRAW THE BOUNDARIES TO THEIR RELATIONSHIP...Not society...Society says I'm crazy because I like feet a lot..So I stopped judging along time ago...

I'm 37 years old and...I've been BEST FRIENDS with my wife for 25 years...We have a 16 year old and I love her more and more as time passes...And honestly...I've had enough meaningless lust filled nights...I call it EMPTY SEX...That's why we (well I used to...lol) keep looking for it in so many women...It always feels like something is missing...IT THE LOVE THAT'S MISSING...It just got old for me...I'm good...I'm happy that wifey has the cutest little 7 1/2's...And my god does she know how to use them...
 
Posted by jamesdd (Member # 19270) on :
 
man, is it me or are there a few ungrateful people in this world?

can anybody be happy with what they've got?

jesus, i would kill to have a wife who i love and be able to explore my foot fetish whenever i wanted. do you not realise how lucky you are?

my girlfriend wont let, me touch her feet, and even i wouldnt go as far as cheating on her with another woman! this post is just nuts. you've clearly got everything you want and now you're greedy enough to want more. your wife doesnt deserve that.

(this is to the topic poster by the way)
 
Posted by wvcple2003 (Member # 5268) on :
 
I told the wife about this stupid fuckin post, and she put this scenario in my head. You meet a lovely girl, you romance her for months, and you finally marry her. In the honeymoon sweet, you finally undress her and look at her feet. And staring back at you are appendages that would make a baboon blush! Do you divorce her? No. You married her, so deal with it! wvcple out

BTW My wife has very purty feet, so I kinda married into good things, sorry for your situation!
 


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