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Originally posted by JerryJones:
I'm in love with my gf toes, especially when she does them with a french pedicure. Recently, just to encourage her to keep them like that, i offered to try and do them for her since shes been low on money lately.

I like to paint in general weather it be a house, or whatever. I got a kit and actually did her toes. I have to say, I did a pretty good job, her toes look damn sexy. I had sex with her feet that night and came on them after she was giving me a FJ.

Anyone think it's weird that I do this?

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Weird? Dude, that what this forum is all about. BTW, without pics to share with us here, it never happened. Continue please...more pedicures and share with us.
 

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Posted by domitilo (Member # 1325) on :
 
Nice! Not weird at all, piccs please
 

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Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
We've all done it or wanted to do it...You're good here...As long as there is no Animals, Guys feet or underage girls...
 

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Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
 
My wife is VERY particular when it comes to painting her toes. I used to offer to do them all the time, but she refused because she said they had to be done right. Apparently you can do a bad job painting toe nails.

Frustrating because I figure we could save money if she would let me learn, but I don't push it. At least she likes to keep her feet nice for me, even if it comes at a cost.
 

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Posted by Mickey G (Member # 39263) on :
 
not something i've ever wanted to do
 

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Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
 
[QUOTE]Originally posted by JerryJones: I'm in love with my gf toes, especially when she does them with a french pedicure. Recently, just to encourage her to keep them like that, i offered to try and do them for her since shes been low on money lately. I like to paint in general weather it be a house, or whatever. I got a kit and actually did her toes. I have to say, I did a pretty good job, her toes look damn sexy. I had sex with her feet that night and came on them after she was giving me a FJ. Anyone think it's weird that I do this?[/QUOTE Good luck to you.
 

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Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
 
My girlfriend has let me paint her toes a couple of times. She said I did a good job, too!
 

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Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
It's funny. I feel that women complain more now about there not being any "real men" around than they did in my parents age. Most women I date want a guy similar to their fathers. Many might disagree. But the truth is while male cheerleaders don't have the same stigma they used to, the macho quarterback still gets the girl.

Ok. Back to your original question. I don't think it's manly. It's extremely feminine actually and submissive. But then again your chic might like it. It can be cool in small doses balanced by masculine abilities traits i.e. She's sad and in order to cheer her up you paint her toes(masculine trait is the ability to control the emotional state of others) or (Just changed your engine oil only to paint her toes later). Must be highly secure in your masculinty both real and percieved.

It's a tough line. Women try very hard to feminize men...in my opinion. The men with the most success are the ones that are able to resist. My mom used to get us to help her paint her finger nails as young boys. That's something I did as a kid to be a good boy and not to upset my mom. I'm grown now and know that women aren't sexually attracted to good boys.

If I were a single father i'd paint my daughter's nails in a heartbeat.

I'd rather pay for my girl's pedicure instead and check them out when she was done.

GQguy
 

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Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
 
I think it's weird. In general this is not an act I would encourage foot fetishists to take on. Leave the toenail painting up to the pros at the nail salon. I read Jerry Jone's post about half way through before I said to myself that that was gay. After that I didn't want to read the rest of it. Painting her toenails seems cute, but it isn't. Would you offer to brush her hair for her or put on her make-up on a daily basis?

Referring to what GQ said, women do try to feminize their men. In fact, I remember walking through a Barnes & Noble one day and there was a book (I forgot the name of the it and the lady who wrote it) where it specifically teaches women on how to feminize their boyfriends. Also when you walk into a married man's home, there's hardly any sign that a guy even lives there.

If a guy (especially one who doesn't have a foot fetish) overhears a conversation where a woman tells her friends that her boyfriend did her toe- and fingernails, I would think that it'll sound weird to him.

--National
 

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Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 

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Originally posted by GQguy:
It's funny. I feel that women complain more now about there not being any "real men" around than they did in my parents age. Most women I date want a guy similar to their fathers. Many might disagree. But the truth is while male cheerleaders don't have the same stigma they used to, the macho quarterback still gets the girl.

Ok. Back to your original question. I don't think it's manly. It's extremely feminine actually and submissive. But then again your chic might like it. It can be cool in small doses balanced by masculine abilities traits i.e. She's sad and in order to cheer her up you paint her toes(masculine trait is the ability to control the emotional state of others) or (Just changed your engine oil only to paint her toes later). Must be highly secure in your masculinty both real and percieved.

It's a tough line. Women try very hard to feminize men...in my opinion. The men with the most success are the ones that are able to resist. My mom used to get us to help her paint her finger nails as young boys. That's something I did as a kid to be a good boy and not to upset my mom. I'm grown now and know that women aren't sexually attracted to good boys.

If I were a single father i'd paint my daughter's nails in a heartbeat.

I'd rather pay for my girl's pedicure instead and check them out when she was done.

GQguy

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Originally posted by National:
I think it's weird. In general this is not an act I would encourage foot fetishists to take on. Leave the toenail painting up to the pros at the nail salon. I read Jerry Jone's post about half way through before I said to myself that that was gay. After that I didn't want to read the rest of it. Painting her toenails seems cute, but it isn't. Would you offer to brush her hair for her or put on her make-up on a daily basis?

If a guy (especially one who doesn't have a foot fetish) overhears a conversation where a woman tells her friends that her boyfriend did her toe- and fingernails, I would think that it'll sound weird to him.

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Originally posted by GQguy:
It's funny. I feel that women complain more now about there not being any "real men" around than they did in my parents age. Most women I date want a guy similar to their fathers. Many might disagree. But the truth is while male cheerleaders don't have the same stigma they used to, the macho quarterback still gets the girl.

Ok. Back to your original question. I don't think it's manly. It's extremely feminine actually and submissive. But then again your chic might like it. It can be cool in small doses balanced by masculine abilities traits i.e. She's sad and in order to cheer her up you paint her toes(masculine trait is the ability to control the emotional state of others) or (Just changed your engine oil only to paint her toes later). Must be highly secure in your masculinty both real and percieved.

It's a tough line. Women try very hard to feminize men...in my opinion. The men with the most success are the ones that are able to resist. My mom used to get us to help her paint her finger nails as young boys. That's something I did as a kid to be a good boy and not to upset my mom. I'm grown now and know that women aren't sexually attracted to good boys.

If I were a single father i'd paint my daughter's nails in a heartbeat.

I'd rather pay for my girl's pedicure instead and check them out when she was done.

GQguy

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Would you offer to brush her hair for her or put on her make-up on a daily basis?

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Then again, this site does seem to have a lot of macho men on it.

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Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
At last...some balance...lol...I don't look at it(polishing toes) as anything sexual... I'm not sexually turned on by polishing her toes...If she asks for help...I give it to her...
 

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Posted by feet lover/chris (Member # 2048) on :
 
it is not weird at all. ive given a pedicre to my ex wifes toes.nothing wrong with that
 

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Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
 

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Originally posted by JerryJones:
I'm in love with my gf toes, especially when she does them with a french pedicure. Recently, just to encourage her to keep them like that, i offered to try and do them for her since shes been low on money lately.

I like to paint in general weather it be a house, or whatever. I got a kit and actually did her toes. I have to say, I did a pretty good job, her toes look damn sexy. I had sex with her feet that night and came on them after she was giving me a FJ.

Anyone think it's weird that I do this?

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I would find it clinically worrisome if you derived the same pleasure painting a house that you experience while giving your girlfriends beautiful toes a pedicure. As for your second concern, weird is the new wonderful. Just remember to give her a treat fitting the treat she gave you.
 

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Posted by JerryJones (Member # 35340) on :
 
Just curious what everyone thought, very interesting hearing the replies.

Regardless of what some people say, I do it because I want her feet looking the way I want them to look.

Btw, I've only done it once.
 

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Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
I think that I've done it twice...maybe 3 times at the most...It's not like its my favorite thing ...I found it very intresting that SOOOOOO many guys were like NOOOO WAY...Great topic too JerryJones...
 

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Posted by solesearching (Member # 20157) on :
 
Not weird at all, I say. If you like it, and she likes it, go for it, and keep at it. The simple truth is who-the-hell-cares if other people think it's 'weird' or 'femmy' whatever else. At the end of the day, you and your girl are having a good time, and there's apparently a happy ending involved! There's a heck of a lot more 'weird' stuff going on out there. You can always find something weirder. No regrets about who you are and what you like to do. To thine own self, be true.
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Oh, and if we could get some pics of the FJ, that'd be delightful.
 

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Posted by Martial Law (Member # 2564) on :
 

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Originally posted by National:
I read Jerry Jone's post about half way through before I said to myself that that was gay. After that I didn't want to read the rest of it.

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What? I really don't understand this.

On the subject of the original topic, I wouldn't do it but that's only because I'm really clumsy and I'd do a rubbish job. I think I tried it once but just ended up getting too much polish on the toes and not the nails, heh. And I'm quite feminine at times, should see me in the kitchen before guests come round!
 

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Posted by Martial Law (Member # 2564) on :
 

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Originally posted by DSW:
Painting someone else's toenails is something girls do with each other when they're gossiping about who's cock they want to suck next. If a dominatrix demands a slave to paint her toenails, who looks like a bigger bitch? Well, anything a dom demands her slave to do makes him more fragile than she is but painting the toenails is quite comical.

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Originally posted by National:
I think it's weird. In general this is not an act I would encourage foot fetishists to take on. Leave the toenail painting up to the pros at the nail salon. I read Jerry Jone's post about half way through before I said to myself that that was gay. After that I didn't want to read the rest of it. Painting her toenails seems cute, but it isn't. Would you offer to brush her hair for her or put on her make-up on a daily basis?

If a guy (especially one who doesn't have a foot fetish) overhears a conversation where a woman tells her friends that her boyfriend did her toe- and fingernails, I would think that it'll sound weird to him.

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I agree with you, man. Totally agree.

This whole thing sounds a bit tutti frutti to me. Just from the fact that the question was asked to begin with should suggest that something about it is not quite right. Painting her fingernails every now and then sounds quite feminine. So why would painting toenails be any less feminine? You cannot paint her toenails and make it look as hot as she would do it or anyone from a salon would do it.

Painting someone else's toenails is something girls do with each other when they're gossiping about who's cock they want to suck next. If a dominatrix demands a slave to paint her toenails, who looks like a bigger bitch? Well, anything a dom demands her slave to do makes him more fragile than she is but painting the toenails is quite comical.

I'll tell you what, Mr. Dallas Cowboy. Instead of asking the people in here, why don't you tell your male buddies and co-workers exactly what you told us and see what THEY tell you. I'll bet that an overwhelming majority will side with me.

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This is sexist and disgusting. You should be ashamed of yourself, you pig.

I think you completely overlooked the point, while you were getting completely over your head with your over-masculine bullshit. The OP's girl was low on money, so he thought he'd treat her by doing her nails herself. It requires her to do nothing, just as if she were in a salon, and it is just another stage of pampering your woman.

Men who are completely secure with their sexuality are happy to do things like this to make their woman happy. The way I see it this is like a woman watching the football with her boyfriend or husband, even when she doesn't really like sports and such. But, oh god, that means she's a DYKE, right? Hiss, spit, burn it!! Grow up. People have moved on from the 50s, you know.
 

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Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
 
No, women who watch sports with their boyfriends are cool! That's even if they know very little about the sport in question. They're not dykes, sweetheart!

Trust me, I read the part where the girl was low on money, but still...

I'm all for making women happy. I mean, I'm DSW. Shoes make women happy and I'm for providing that sense of comfort and giddiness they feel when trying on something new.

So when women get together for a little slumber party or when they get their feet done at the salon, don't they talk about men and sex? I don't see where I went wrong in my statement. If women don't talk about men and sex when they are out together getting pampered or out shopping for clothes, then what DO they talk about?

But since they DO talk about those stuff, then that means you're missing out, honey. You might need to get out more often and become more socialized.
 

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Posted by Martial Law (Member # 2564) on :
 
I really think that women have things other than sex to talk about.
 

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Posted by Jammy (Member # 36475) on :
 
I don't understand how you can't see the flip in gender roles there. It's an obvious one, and yet you just can't see past 'BUT THAT'S SOMETHING WOMEN DO!' Sports like football are a 'man' thing, stereotypically. Even if a woman doesn't like it, she may sit down and watch it with her man to make him happy. It's still a swap in gender roles - so one is okay, but the other isn't? I think you need to come out of the closet a little, can you see Narnia yet?

Women talking about men and sex is a stereotype, and actually kind of a harmful one if you get to thinking about it. It portrays all women as sluts who just want cock and will do nothing but gossip about it when they get it. I for one am very private and hardly ever talk about my sex life. I like to go out and shop, but I have better things to talk about than my personal life. I often have intelligent debate (shock horror!) while I do my nails, am dying my hair, etc. When I talk to my female friends I talk exactly the same way I would talk to my male friends - about music, about art, about video games, and about current affairs, because that's what is actually interesting.

You know, maybe you should stop watching Sex and the City, DSW, because it's having a very negative impact on how you think women interact. You will be surprised to find when you finally bed your first woman that not every woman is a vacuous, loose-cunted and shallow bitch.
 

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Posted by DSW (Member # 35008) on :
 

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Originally posted by Martial Law:
I really think that women have things other than sex to talk about.

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Originally posted by Jammy:
I don't understand how you can't see the flip in gender roles there. It's an obvious one, and yet you just can't see past 'BUT THAT'S SOMETHING WOMEN DO!' Sports like football are a 'man' thing, stereotypically. Even if a woman doesn't like it, she may sit down and watch it with her man to make him happy. It's still a swap in gender roles - so one is okay, but the other isn't? I think you need to come out of the closet a little, can you see Narnia yet?

Women talking about men and sex is a stereotype, and actually kind of a harmful one if you get to thinking about it. It portrays all women as sluts who just want cock and will do nothing but gossip about it when they get it. I for one am very private and hardly ever talk about my sex life. I like to go out and shop, but I have better things to talk about than my personal life. I often have intelligent debate (shock horror!) while I do my nails, am dying my hair, etc. When I talk to my female friends I talk exactly the same way I would talk to my male friends - about music, about art, about video games, and about current affairs, because that's what is actually interesting.

You know, maybe you should stop watching Sex and the City, DSW, because it's having a very negative impact on how you think women interact. You will be surprised to find when you finally bed your first woman that not every woman is a vacuous, loose-cunted and shallow bitch.

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Come out of the closet, okay?

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You know, Jammy, as much as I find DSW's comments to be a bit too brash, I find your responses to him to be quite nasty as well. I have no reason to believe that he's a homosexual, but I find you as someone who hates homosexuals. You want to poke funs at gays and about men watching Sex and the City, instead of picking on someone who doesn't watch those movies, why don't you say them to me? Because I'm a guy who watches movies like Sex and the City. I put glitter on my face when I go out and act slutty with friends. I go shopping as much as women do. Lets see how "funny" your comments are when you talk to someone like me.

You responded to him in such a crass way. It was a nature hateful to homosexuals. Why do hate homosexuals like soooooooooooooooo much?

You sling homosexual insults at him (and I bet to other men in general) with a fervor and intensity of a wolf chewing a beehive. You practically spit all over yourself when you get a chace to snarl some anti-gay epithet at a man. You are like sooooooooooooooooo disgusting.

Then in an act of mind-numbing duplicity, women (and I bet you're one of them) claim as loudly as possible that gays are the greatest thing since slice bread. But listen to the reasons: because gays shop and gays listen.

Listen? Darling, you know as much about listening as shrimps know about how to drive cars.

When you're not shaming gays behind their backs with slanders that are like sooooooooooooooooo anachronistic, what you (and other women in general) really want to do with gays is make them sit through endless tirades of nonsesical blubbering without without like ever having to return the favor. Trust me on this one because I hang out with gays a lot.

To answer the question of this thread, it's not weird. But at the same time, it can be. I can understand DSW's comments because I can tell you as a fact that when I have my girlfriends and bitches get together at my place or theirs, one of the things we do, darling, is paint each other's toenails and fingernails. I also, like, play with each other's hair and we apply makeup on each others faces. A topic in the conversations that's quite common, sweetheart, is sex. Cocksucking and riding men like cowgirls, to be exact. We're not that candid in our conversations when we get our nails done at a salon. But in the privacy of my home or theris, honey, it's girl talk at its juciest. It's that all we talk about? No, but you can be sure that sex is somewhere in the menu. We talk about work, projects, backstabbing people (we're such devious bitches, aren't we? ) and .... oh yeah, SEX.

Why am I on this forum? Because I love women sexually as well and I do have a fetish for women's feet. I also like men, but women take better care of them 100% better than men (excluding yourself, Jammy, just by judging from that picture from your avatar) so my fetish for feet is strickly on the female side.

Again, for straight men to paint women's toenails is not weird but at the same time it is. I guess DSW wanted to add shock value to the topic, and I'm all for drama, sweethearts and bithces. So I understand where he's coming from when he says it's like sooooooooooooooooo Project Runway-ready gay. I just find it funny how you try to call him a faggot and using that as a way in hopes of swamping this topic by intimidation.

The Drama Queen has spoken.

Bye, Bithces!

[ June 05, 2010, 04:48 PM: Message edited by: Night in Paris ]
 

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Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
Fun thread!!

What's wrong with being a man? Being a man is now equated with being insecure/closet homosexual ect? What's wrong with doing macho things? Painting toe nails won't fully emasculate you. But funny, as DSW mentioned sorta imagine your wife/gf saying in front of your friends...honey lets get home so you can paint my toe nails....he'd be fully emascualated.

Football and toe nail painting aren't equal. I'd say chic flic and football are equal.

Women really are trying to emsaculate men. Even Jammy is guilty of it. If you're macho you must be gay or insecure. It takes a truly secure man to resist these sorts of taunts that are meant to be painful. Male sexuality and identity is far tougher now than it was for my father's generation that knew exactly how to bbehave because they were raised by their fathers. This generation where men are raised by their mothers have lost their identity. Those taunts of "come out of the closet ok" are similar to the toned down things single mothers say to their sons all the time...while telling them not to be like their macho fathers.

Some men can find a balance. For some it's harder. Men must becareful with such things. There are many women i've dated that would resent their "man" painting their toenails. They want a protector/provider not a pedicurist. But then again, in moderation it's cool. One poster on the first page captures it exactly. Football coach, mechanic, provider, protector, sexual master, father and he paints his wifes toes. A true man.....he does it in moderation. Most men aren't masters of their domain. I can't think of many men in a commited relationship that are. I can think of fewer that can actually get away with it. Women are constantly testing us men to see how masculine we truly are...at least in the dating phase. I have no experience with marriage but from the majority of guys i've seen(not all but most) the women rarely challenge anymore because they know their man is weak.
 

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Posted by dicky5 (Member # 10026) on :
 
Some of the viewpoints I've read in this thread I find pretty ridiculous. If you don't mind me paraphrasing, basically it seems some are implying that painting toenails is too submissive of an action to fit into a healthy relationship.

I mean, you guys do realize that there are aspects of foot fetishism that include cleaning filthy shoes and having your nuts smashed into the ground, right? Fetishism can get pretty extreme. Pretty extreme, obtuse, and bizarre. There are men and women that live - what they would call - fulfilling lives involved in "total power exchange" with their partners. Basically what I'm trying to say is that in the spectrum of submissive acts, giving a pedicure is barely the tip of the iceberg. It's like the third ice crystal from the very tip top of the iceberg. Saying, "whoa, too far" about a pedicure, to me, is coming off as pretty naive.

I can understand that possibly some people may not have a submissive side at all (or at least they are completely and totally in denial that it exists). But for someone to think that painting a woman's toenails is going to lead down a slippery slope into wearing a tutu? Absolutely ridiculous.
 

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Posted by Martial Law (Member # 2564) on :
 

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You know, Jammy, as much as I find DSW's comments to be a bit too brash, I find your responses to him to be quite nasty as well. I have no reason to believe that he's a homosexual, but I find you as someone who hates homosexuals.

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Some of the viewpoints I've read in this thread I find pretty ridiculous. If you don't mind me paraphrasing, basically it seems some are implying that painting toenails is too submissive of an action to fit into a healthy relationship.

I mean, you guys do realize that there are aspects of foot fetishism that include cleaning filthy shoes and having your nuts smashed into the ground, right? Fetishism can get pretty extreme. Pretty extreme, obtuse, and bizarre. There are men and women that live - what they would call - fulfilling lives involved in "total power exchange" with their partners. Basically what I'm trying to say is that in the spectrum of submissive acts, giving a pedicure is barely the tip of the iceberg. It's like the third ice crystal from the very tip top of the iceberg. Saying, "whoa, too far" about a pedicure, to me, is coming off as pretty naive.

I can understand that possibly some people may not have a submissive side at all (or at least they are completely and totally in denial that it exists). But for someone to think that painting a woman's toenails is going to lead down a slippery slope into wearing a tutu? Absolutely ridiculous.

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DeTrOiT - Your post mirrored many of my own personal thoughts while reviewing this thread.

Seems there are two camps, the "players" and those that are in long term well-established relationships.

Those of us in the long-term relationships have no need to play the power games.

If I was single and in a new relationship, I can understand the arguments against this.

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Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
 
count me in as support for DETROIT viewpoint. too many guys feeling they need to try and be super-macho. we arent living in the 1950s any more and there is no need to stick to the old gender roles. it's silly.
 

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Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
Reality shapes my views and my behaviour. I see 3 camps as opposed to two. Camp 1:Guys that are married and their wives aren't going anywhere. Good for you!

2)Guys that are macho, and get the girl consistently. Values this new mindset seeing as he's been brain washed to be a nice guy at the expense of his dating life.

3)The guy that paints toenails and does everything else his girl wants. He's very nice. His girl will most likely cheat on him or at least lust after the guy above. I actually was this guy before. I've never painted toenails, but I did buy polish with the intention of doing so. I was whipped. Her attraction for me was low. Fast forward 8 years to "macho" GQguy and this same woman was/is willing to drop her lucrative career to have my children and give me as much footsex as I can handle. The guys she currently dates are very much like I was when I was younger. It kills her attraction. This macho/feminine dynamic is sexy too. The sex is far better when I don't supplicate. Her arousal is far higher when I don't supplicate. What gets a woman hotter....A playful debate where you stand your ground or painting her toenails where her "man" is on his knees?

How is not painting a girl's toenails macho? Even gay guys don't do that. I understand that most women I encounter 18-30 like a man that can fix stuff, takes out the trash...but can cook and take care of himself. For a woman that GETS the foot fetish....it's not a big deal. Most women don't. So for them painting toenails is no different than applying her makeup for her, giving her a manicure or braiding her hair. You can hold her purse while you're at it too. She can't help but to put you in the "not man enough category" for good reason!

Ironically enough i've found that women respond more to what you'd say "no" to as opposed to what you'd say "yes" to. I date VERY pretty women who have guys willing to do anything for them. Hell, I have no doubt that guys that hate feet would paint my girl's toenails just to be able to take her out one night. Guys would/have held her purse for her while she shops ect. Saying "no" to her request and those beautiful brown eyes puts you at risk of upsetting her. Upsetting her means no sex and she could move on to the next guy. To risk this out of respect for myself however is sexy. But of course one risks going overboard. I concede occasionally. I saw Sex in the City one...and I know it's a matter of time before some pretty girl has me see part 2. I hate shopping, but i've been known to carry victoria secret bags around the mall. But one must'nt forget that they are a man. Being a man is pretty damn awesome! And women love us for it!
 

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Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
 
you are deluded if you equate painting a girls toes with holding a purse or watching a chick flick. if you really want to put them on equal ground you need to compare it to shaving your girls pussy. painting her toes is doing a little maintenance on a part of the body that you find attractive and can be slightly erotic as would be shaving her pussy. ask any of your unenlightened friends (AKA non foot fetishists ) if they think that shaving their girl's pussy is submitting to her and having their manhood taken away from them.
 

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Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 

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you are deluded if you equate painting a girls toes with holding a purse or watching a chick flick. if you really want to put them on equal ground you need to compare it to shaving your girls pussy. painting her toes is doing a little maintenance on a part of the body that you find attractive and can be slightly erotic as would be shaving her pussy. ask any of your unenlightened friends (AKA non foot fetishists ) if they think that shaving their girl's pussy is submitting to her and having their manhood taken away from them.

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I agree with you. But that's now how MOST women will see it. I'm assuming that the married guys have women that understand their fetish...so for those couples the equivalent is shaving a pussy. For us non married guys women view it differently. I actually asked my buddy about it and he said it was far too submissive and something a gay friend would do. A gay friend conversely wouldn't shave a pussy. My friend of course doesn't have a foot fetish and has the same mentality that most women would have.

Chatting with my buddy about this topic also reminded me of how my mom used to have me and my bros remove her finger nail polish. It was bonding time/relax time for her. I was a boy...my dad would never do such a thing. My mom would never ask him to. Actually if my dad were around he wouldn't allow it.

If the girl GETS the foot fetish then painting is ok. Most girls don't GET it though and a MAN will start to be seen as a BOY. This is our culture.

I'm pretty certain that most guys would have no problem admitting that they shaved their girls pussy but would have a problem saying they painted their woman's toenails. Even though one action is very sexual and the other is not. I wonder where the respect level of one's friends would sit after such a confession?
"dude we spent quality time together last night and I shaved her pussy"

or "dude we spent quality tim last night and I gave her a pedicure". First thing i'd ask is...dude did she do your nails too?!? Fuschia is your color...I hope you painted yours fuschia. Lol.
 

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Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
 
ok, now you are pulling out all kinds of twists GQ. this is a foot fetish forum, we are foot fetish guys, and this whole discussion was based upon that. of course non-fetish guys are gonna think that painting your girls nails is a frou frou activity. arent you an advocate of making sure you woman knows about your fetish and gets it? it's not like the OP nor anyone in this thread is painting his woman's toes as a means to get close to her feet surreptitiously. they are participating in a semi-sexual activity.. a type of foreplay. when i give my wife a back massage, am i submitting to her and becoming less manly or am i making her feel good, getting her in mood possibly, and getting my hands on her body. how is this different than painting her toes if i am foot fetishist?

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Chatting with my buddy about this topic also reminded me of how my mom used to have me and my bros remove her finger nail polish. It was bonding time/relax time for her. I was a boy...my dad would never do such a thing. My mom would never ask him to. Actually if my dad were around he wouldn't allow it.

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hell yeah, thats kinda odd... definitely placing yourself in that submissive position but this isnt apples to apples. i can only assume your relationship to your mother is much different than your woman and i wouldnt expect your dad to do it unless he is a foot guy.

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I wonder where the respect level of one's friends would sit after such a confession?
"dude we spent quality time together last night and I shaved her pussy"

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omg. one, who the hell would call that quality time? i dont understand where this is coming from. two, why would that lessen your respect for a friend if he said that. thats the whole lame uber-man image that some guys thing they need to uphold. be confident in who you are and what you like and what you are comfortable doing. stop trying to worry about an image and reputation and what everyone else thinks.
 

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