What was it like the first time you expressed to a girl friend or whatever that you liked feet? Just a little curious as too what I should expect..
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
The first time I ever did, I brought it in by touching her feet during sex, and massaging them at first (when she put them up on my leg, not just take off her shoes and start massaging them.) Ive had to talk to them about it too as time has gone by, like with my current girlfriend, because I feel like Im so irritable and crazy horny all the time when I have to hang out with her with her barefeet out so much... its been better for me to be completely honest about how much her feet turn me on.
One thing that never fails for me, it seems, is to always present it as an interesting personality quirk, a unique taste that I have... to not call it a 'foot fetish', (but certainly not deny that it is excactly that if Im asked).. just showing it as a special and interesting alternate taste; even opening it up by telling her 'Im a little bit freaky', then talking about my love of feet rather than, 'I have a foot fetish'.
Posted by LovelyLadies (Member # 5079) on :
Yeah especially if you CAN be turned on w/o feet required completely. I feel it should only be called a foot fetish if you REQUIRE feet to be turned on. If you can be turned on with other means than just feet, then that's a lot going for you. You can say feet really help turn you on when your playing with her. But if you've had sex or she knows you are good prior to telling her about your love for feet, then your good to go. She might like it if it helps add excitement on both ends.
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
The first time I told one of my last girlfriends, she was okay with it. Same with the second one that I told.
...I am not awaiting the day where I end up with a girl that finds the whole foot thing disgusting. >_<
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
My girlfriend knew about it before I admitted it to her! We worked in the same office together, and I was "open" about it.