Have any of you ever received negative reactions from girlfriends when you confessed your foot fetish to them? "You're a weido!," for example. My girlfriend has been very accepting of my foot fetish, I'm happy to say.
Posted by J.S (Member # 19854) on :
Ooh yeah I just tell them feets just like boobs what's the diffrence
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
One girl told me she didn't like her feet before we even began dating. I still tried and only had luck when she was drunk for the most part. When she was drunk, she'd tell me she actually loves my foot rubs. When sober, later, she'd deny ever saying it. We didn't last.
Patrick
Posted by combine_hunter (Member # 39526) on :
None of the girls I was with ever had a problem with it. Lucky me, I guess. Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
I've had some women that got freaked out and it ruined the relationship.
I think some women are really really uncomfortable and have this self-hatred towards their feet for whatever reason.
One woman told me I reminded her of this one creep who followed her around a grocery store, aisle by aisle and then walked up to her and said she had beautiful feet. She spoke about that as if he was sicker then a rapist.
Needless to say, she kept a big distance from me after that.
Pity...she did have wonderful feet and always wore flip flops
...but to leave this post on a happier note...I have had a few girlfriends that dug it...and did whatever I wanted to...sniff 'em, self-worship, whatever I wanted, they were more then turned on by my foot attention.
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
Thankfully, I haven't had this problem.
I'm not looking forward to the possibility of having to deal with it, either.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
oh yes indeed, quite often they are weirded out.
heck the last girl i was with about 3 days ago was looking at me strange and asking how long it was gonna take for me to cum. and in the middle of it she looked at me and said: "you have a foot fetish, huh?"
at the end when i made myself cum, she kept asking if i cummed cuz she wanted to be done and over with. i didn't answer at first, but she kept looking at my cock and accused me of cumming cuz she wanted to be done with my foot fetish... saying like: "yeah, you cummed"
heck, one time with a regular girlfriend of mine from like 2 years ago, she would use a synonym to describe my foot fetish by saying i was "complicated" LOL
she would say things to me like i need a "foot to get hard" and she would even talk to her friends on the phone and talk about me in 3rd person just using phrases like that to describe to her friends what she has to put up with.
many times she would talk like that while i was right there watching too. she basically thought i was a weirdo and she wasn't fond of it cuz she wanted to have normal sex with me.
and boy let me tellya, i would make her cum so much when we had normal sex so you can see why she put up with me so much despite my "complications" as she put it.
nonetheless we eventually broke up cuz this girl had way too much drama. plus i guess in the end we were incompatible.
quote:Originally posted by oneagain: One woman told me I reminded her of this one creep who followed her around a grocery store, aisle by aisle and then walked up to her and said she had beautiful feet. She spoke about that as if he was sicker then a rapist.
Needless to say, she kept a big distance from me after that.
oh wow, that is very unfortunate for any foot man!
[ July 11, 2010, 02:29 AM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
yep. been called wierd by some and by others I was the man. Just really depended on how open orclosed off the lady was. Funny thing though anyone who can get weirded out because someone finds someting on their body attractive has kinda missed the point anyway.
Posted by houseshooz (Member # 10572) on :
The first girl that I ever got feet from made it clear she wasn't into it but we'd done everything and I made it seem like I just wanted to try something new.
After a while I started to get comfortable with just going for her feet without hesitation or feelings of awkwardness and I'd just grab her foot and start sucking her toes or licking her soles.
Until one evening that I'd planned out and wined and dined her, got back to my place and ripped off these sexy heels I'd thought she'd been teasing me with all night and went straight for some toe sucking. When she said in the most annoyed voice "you suck my toes too much". Too much? I thought, this has been a problem for some time and now she tells me? The foot action pretty much ended that night and the relationship shortly after that.
It was too bad because I'm really into sniffing and she had the most erotic scent to her feet that I've ever experienced on a woman.
Posted by MarkM1 (Member # 39757) on :
I've probably told 20 to 30 girls about my fetish now, and never once had a negative reaction. Now some were more into it than others, but all of them were willing to let me indulge in it. I think it makes a huge difference how you approach it with them. If you bring it up in a fun, playful way which is how I usually do it, I think that's the key. Whereas if you are creepy or aggressive about it, I can see that not going over so well.
Posted by runn427 (Member # 38948) on :
yooo MarkM1, nice avator pic...guess u into stockings hu??
Posted by chefflash (Member # 36219) on :
Mine was like,DO YOU LIKE MY FEET??????????
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
quote:Originally posted by oneagain: I've had some women that got freaked out and it ruined the relationship.
I think some women are really really uncomfortable and have this self-hatred towards their feet for whatever reason.
One woman told me I reminded her of this one creep who followed her around a grocery store, aisle by aisle and then walked up to her and said she had beautiful feet. She spoke about that as if he was sicker then a rapist.
Needless to say, she kept a big distance from me after that.
Pity...she did have wonderful feet and always wore flip flops
...but to leave this post on a happier note...I have had a few girlfriends that dug it...and did whatever I wanted to...sniff 'em, self-worship, whatever I wanted, they were more then turned on by my foot attention.
She always wore flip-flops--but copped an attitude when you told her you're into feet? Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts:
quote:Originally posted by oneagain: I've had some women that got freaked out and it ruined the relationship.
I think some women are really really uncomfortable and have this self-hatred towards their feet for whatever reason.
One woman told me I reminded her of this one creep who followed her around a grocery store, aisle by aisle and then walked up to her and said she had beautiful feet. She spoke about that as if he was sicker then a rapist.
Needless to say, she kept a big distance from me after that.
Pity...she did have wonderful feet and always wore flip flops
...but to leave this post on a happier note...I have had a few girlfriends that dug it...and did whatever I wanted to...sniff 'em, self-worship, whatever I wanted, they were more then turned on by my foot attention.
She always wore flip-flops--but copped an attitude when you told her you're into feet?
It happens more than you think. Lots of girls wear flip-flops, and a good portion of them are disgusted by feet. I guess they just want to be comfortable.
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
quote:Originally posted by Rider Aldebaran: It happens more than you think. Lots of girls wear flip-flops, and a good portion of them are disgusted by feet. I guess they just want to be comfortable.
Totally and sadly agree Rider.
There are even women that will say they have a shoe fetish or even refer to it as a foot fetish...yet it isn't their feet getting worshiped or them worshiping another foot/shoe...it is just an obsession with buying shoes and hiding their own feet.
Guess when we are raised, it is humorous as kids to say 'stinky feet' or something degrading about feet and everyone accepts it...and some get locked into feet being forever ugly or discusting or some sort of curse.
Glad I only had a few bad rejections...and several really fantastic accpetions...but the bad ones really make you feel crummy and like you have a Scarlet Letter emblazed upon you!
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: She always wore flip-flops--but copped an attitude when you told her you're into feet?
Yeah Dougie...she took great care of her feet...soles super smooth...no dead skin or neglect...toes always well pedicured.
...and get this...I am a sole man...but her toes were so freakin sexy and just had this strong and powerful look about 'em...I really dug her toes.
Seems silly for her to put so much effort into making sure her feet were very beautiful, only to react in horror when someone dare says they are so.
We used to meet at the train station and walk 3-4 blocks to the office...well, after my admiration one day...she suddenly 'had to take a later train'
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.: [QB] heck the last girl i was with about 3 days ago was looking at me strange and asking how long it was gonna take for me to cum. and in the middle of it she looked at me and said: "you have a foot fetish, huh?"
Tyler,
This is a flashback as well.
Met a woman who was just interested in going out for lunch or diner. Would talk about intimate things...we'd hold hands, and she liked when I kissed her hand when I left...saying it was 'old fashioned' but she liked it.
She always wore very comfortable shoes...like slippers and ugg type stuff...I only saw her heel and never sole or toes...arches.
So I was DYING to see what they looked like...so one time I casually offered to massage her feet.
She just goes "your foot fetish, aren't you?? that is a TOTAL TURNOFF"
Then went in to mention she had a boyfriend that would lick her feet and she was discusted by it.
Needless to say, after that those feet were secured well away in my presence and the relationship just melted.
...and all I just offered was to massage her feet...not in a creepy manner...just at a casual moment.
turned into a freak out!!
but I hate to leave negative feeling post...so I do want to mention how I met two women on Plenty of Fish who after some game playing about feet...were cool about it and were taking pics of their feet and one that I met loved the attention and told me she always thought her feet were beautiful...yet never had a man show any interest.
Posted by MarkM1 (Member # 39757) on :
quote:Originally posted by runn427: yooo MarkM1, nice avator pic...guess u into stockings hu??
Haha thanks man. Yeah I love stockings too!
Posted by ghost (Member # 1664) on :
well i will put it this way. i always put it out there before the 1st date. so that way i NEVER EVER get involved with someone who is against it.
if i already know they dont like it then i know not to take anything any further. i loose interest because it is a big part of me.
i dont wait until we get it moving and then spill it out because if they have a negative reaction then all the time i wasted and interested is gone.
so when i first tell them if they enjoy it then i know theres hope for a future.
Posted by mfdooms (Member # 18036) on :
quote:Originally posted by oneagain: Met a woman who was just interested in going out for lunch or diner. Would talk about intimate things...we'd hold hands, and she liked when I kissed her hand when I left...saying it was 'old fashioned' but she liked it.
She always wore very comfortable shoes...like slippers and ugg type stuff...I only saw her heel and never sole or toes...arches.
So I was DYING to see what they looked like...so one time I casually offered to massage her feet.
She just goes "your foot fetish, aren't you?? that is a TOTAL TURNOFF"
The thing is, most girls won't mind your foot fetish if they're really attracted to you.
Girls who say "You have a foot fetish? That's gross!" just want a reason to tell themselves that the relationship won't work because of your foot fetish. You guys need to man up and stop letting woman put you down like that.
When a women tells you that, you tell her that you care about the woman from head to toes. You tell her that she gets unlimited supply of the best foot massages in town and that she's missing out. If she's bitchy you call her out on not being open to something different, that she's too vanilla and boring, etc.
Notice how some people here never had a problem with their foot fetish, that's probably because they have good social skills, are confident and know how to attract girls. While others have let multiple women turn them down. It's not because of your fetish, it's because they're generally not attracted to you or that you're coming on too hard.
I've had a few negative reactions from the get-go and I can tell that the relation is going nowhere. Unlike Tyler D., I won't put up with women disrespecting me. I just say fuck it and move on to the next one, I don't waste time.
There's an ex that I met 3 years after we broke up, she told me that I was the best guy she's ever been with and that all the guys she's been with since we broke up were bad. She mentioned how she liked that I sucked her toes and was really intimate with her. That made my week. I doubt that "me sucking her toes" was the main factor that made her fall in love with me... but when she weighed everything that made her feel great she psychologically felt that it was a factor even though it probably was a burden.
It's like with a girl that has trouble cumming during sex. I tell her to finger herself while I'm banging her. So inevitably she cums (she knows her body) and then she feels that I am the best sexual partner she had because other guys didn't make her cum. Even though that is not true, because she got "help" from herself! But psychologically, she connects that great orgasm to ME.
[ July 14, 2010, 03:35 AM: Message edited by: mfdooms ]
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
Never had that weirdo comment or anything that bad. Mostly, they are surprised that I like their feet. I always attempted to make my fetish as a gain for them, as in foot massages any time they wanted. I'm 52, been in numerous relationships and marriages in my life and I have yet to meet a woman that isn't a sucker for a 'good' foot rubbing.
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