Hey all.. Ill keep this one shorter, and as well spaced as possible...
My girl indulges my foot fetish pretty regularly now, almost to the point where I hold back playing with her feet EVERY single time I want to just because I love and respect her and she is a person.. but pretty much every other day I get them.
This has been fantastic when it has been satisfying my fetish, making me exremely happy and keeping me calm and relaxed when Im around her and her sexy barefeet all the time, the only problem is, Ive had a couple of experiences lately where Ive worshipped her feet like mad, climaxing with a footjob, etc. only to be completely turned on again when we get out of the bedroom and I see her barefeet or shoeplay, etc.
Its incredibly difficult being around her this season with her baring her feet on every occasion and always wearing flip flops, only to take them off every single chance she gets, especially in restuarants, at people's houses, pretty much every time she sits down and sometimes when shes standing.. she immediately kicks off her shoes to drive which turns me on, and is fond of putting her feet up on high surfaces and flexing and moving them all around.
Ive tried just masturbating a whole lot in addition to playing with her feet and having regular sex with her but it still drives me crazy with desire... have any of you experienced this or do any of you have any advice on controlling your fetish a lot more so you can just chill with your girl when her feet are out sometimes and forget about her feet?? I enjoy her company too, loll and am starting to miss it seeing as almost all I can think about, and focus on, when were hanging out and talking is her flexing her sexy feet. Any help is much appreciated.. thanks
Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
It's impossible to control in the summertime. Don't even try to control it. Live your life and enjoy. You sound a lot like me--tame in the non summer months, overheating every minute in the summer months. Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
Its rough Bro..My Wife was teasing me the other day and said, "ALL THAT YOU WANNA DO IS LOOK AT MY FEET ALL THE TIME"..She's right and Im happy that she understands...Its crazy though...I truly cant help myself...
Posted by collegefootguy (Member # 23221) on :
Hard to control in the summertime...definitely. A friend of mine and I were recently at the movies and she was wearing these nice black flip flops and her toe nails were painted blue with white spots. The theater was not completely packed so she was able to rest both of her feet in the chair in front of her and they were right within my sight. Got an instant boner and had to keep my snack tray over my lap a good while.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Just feel lucky that you have a lady who's willing to indulge in your desires.
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
Honestly guitardrew, I don't see what the problem is? From what you're tellin' me, you sound like the luckiest man alive! Why would u wanna hold back, or restrict yourself from the very thing that makes you happy? (Unless yourjohnsonis sore!) Hell, your girlfriend sounds like the Perfect Wife!!
With that being said, there's only one reason for you to control your fetish--when you're around other women! Posted by aerodrew (Member # 2682) on :
Well I live in Florida,, so that summer/winter thing isn't a factor... It's full time here. I'm feeling you though man,, I pretty much can't get enough of her feet... We work together, so I see her walking around the office all day. Everytime I walk by her offce I'll either see her shoe or flip flop dangling off her toes or a nice sole shot. Then at home she's walking around barefoot or has her feet propped up on the recliner... We've been together for over 20 years and luckily for me she totally understands and offers her feet just about anytime I want (need) them.. LOL It helps that she actually really likes all the foot rubs and attention I give her feet too. We have a big ass king size bed and just about every night she kinda lays a little sideways and puts her feet in my lap... She says "rub em" lol.. Within 5 minutes her toes are twitching and she's fast alseep... But theres still sometimes I'm thinking.. DAMN,, I need to chill on her feet and give her a little space... Just bring it down a level & and keep cool... And I do keep it somewhat in control. Seriously though,, I'd probably file for a restraining order to keep me away from her feet the way I get sometimes if I were her..
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
you're lucky. imagine being with someone who wasnt comfortable to let you indulge, or let you at her feet only on rare occasions. that is hard to deal with
Posted by collegefootguy (Member # 23221) on :
Another thing came to mind. With the same friend, another time when we were out until late at night, just before we called it a night, she mentioned that her feet hurt and were very sweaty from wearing these black pointy toe heels all day. She wasn't wearing any stockings or socks and I almost lost my composure!
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
That would crush me definitely... Ive discovered a subtle interest in sweaty and smelly feet that I didnt know I had because my girlfriend can stink up a shoe with the best of them.. but it is a very particular smell and isnt horrible...
Its crazy to have a girl resting her feet on your skin somewhere on your body, and be able to feel them get moist with sweat.
Ive also done things I used to never think Id want to do, like grabbing her shoes and smelling them when she's out of the room loll... having a girlfriend who is cool with my fetish seems to be making it evolve in different ways and become more intense.
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
wish i had that "problem"...
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
Did you try putting stinging insects into your undergarments? They should offer fast relief to your overindulgent tendencies. If relief is not soon realized, I must conclude you are just another haploid male who exists only to mate with the queen. You can't fight chromosomes, buddy!
Posted by MistressMilky (Member # 39824) on :
Only way i can think of controlling it is get a chastity device and give your girl the key..... you never know you might both enjoy that and it would prevent you getting huge erections at inappropriate times
Posted by Sole-licker (Member # 39406) on :
You're really lucky dude...
...if i was in your possition, i would worship her feet every opportunity i get... i can see you big concern though, you're worried that if you indulge you fetish whenever you want, that your girl might get upset and think that all you're care about is her feet...
...if thats what you're getting at in this thread, then all i can say is dont worry, she probably won't get upset with you, infact if she is indulging your fetish regularly then chances are she likes her feet worshipped as much as you like worshipping them.
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
i would say enjoy it as much as possible but be aware not to go for her feet ALL the time. i made this mistake in my relationship and caused some real problems because feet were the first thing i went for, i neglected the rest of our sex life which is actually more important. especially for the happiness of your relationship.
in the end she became resentful, and then when trying to work things out, i calmed down on my foor fetish but apparently the "damage was done", and as much as she wanted to let me at her feet to make me happy, she said it brought her bad feelings of dread and upset from forcing herself to do it. i had no idea she was forcing herself and was so unhappy. now she cant do all those wonderful things she used to do for me. we've been trying to get over it, i dont know it we will.
it ruined my relationship. sorry if this sounds negative, i just want to point out that if i knew the consequences back then, i would have been happier to compromise and go without now and again in order to have my fetish taken care of in general.
im sorry, but you have nothing to complain about. its been nearly a year since ive had anything foot related. trust me, you'd realise how damn lucky you are if it were gone
Posted by MistressMilky (Member # 39824) on :
thanks for sharing that lamp. It can be good to share things like that and at maybe help others.
it raises a good point. Women like to think you like all of them not just one part...... it can be fun to have a man slobber of one of your attributes but you have to remember people have a lot of needs.
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
thanks a lot for the advice lamp and sole licker, and everyone else.
it helps just knowing that other guys are in the same boat, now i dont feel like a nut when i realize how often i think about and want her feet.. i just say oh well it is summer and at least i have this girlfriend and her feet.
i could stand to take a small step back and show more of an interest in everything else sexual we do i think, although she hasnt said anything yet.. i just wanna be careful and play it cool, i really care about this girl.
Posted by collegefootguy (Member # 23221) on :
Good thing your shared that lamp. Keep things in perspective. It's important to maintain a balance in a relationship and to ensure both you and your gf needs/desires are met.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
I go through bouts where my foot fetish is definitely out of control. Things are relatively "stable" for the moment...
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
i'm glad my story was help to someone!
i really got so out of control with it that i ruined the whole thing for her. maybe a different girl would have been more understanding. we are still trying to fix things and my girlfriend broke up with me recently because she felt under pressure that she'd never be able to do this foot thing again, and it was bringing me down too.
she's now asked if we can get back together and work things out. its really difficult because we had arguments about it, and i dont know how to undo those painful memories. we're looking into the idea of counciling, but this is specific to us.
i didnt mean to sound harsh or blunt. by all means your needs are important, and she clearly realises that. i know what its like when you get really in the mood for feet, but just think to yourself its still here and still available.
i dont know how much you should or shouldnt go for it, just dont over do it like i did. whatever you do dont ever get into an argument about it or ever put her under pressure because that damage has huge impacts! i really dont know if i will work things out with my girlfriend who i also really love. i hate the thought of losing someone over a foot fetish.
maybe my best advice is make sure you enjoy other parts of the sex life too!
i love good sex and really that is what will bond the two of you more than anything
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
No question- you're obsessed! And as you can tell most of us are very envious.
I'm obsessed with feet as well- but with other seeing girl's feet. (up to this point I've never touched another girl's feet)
Right after I told her about my fetish and she started indulging me (which she does fantastically) I was somewhat focused and obsessed with her feet, but that seems to have worn off. I still love her feet, but also love looking at other girl's feet- alot.
I can easily imagine how difficult it must be when I imagine what it would be like to be married to a stunningly beautiful girl. I guess it's good that I'm not, because I don't know how I'd keep my hands off her.
I guess I really don't have any advice for you other than to somehow enjoy it by either masturbating or somehow getting her into the act as often as she will agree to it.
As others have said- do make sure that you're meeting HER sexual needs as well, and show her your appreciation for showing off her pretty feet all the time.
Posted by footlovinman_2000 (Member # 28391) on :
There is no controlling it, so don't even try.
To keep both of you happy.... start with your tongue on her feet and work your way up from there!!!! It's kept me with my beautiful wife for over 20 years now.
She's getting a fresh pedicure for me as I type. Can't wait to see what color she's picked.
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
Last night I had my girlfriend over. She got upset because I was trying not to look at other girls feet earlier in the night. Then later we laid in bed and she's barefoot, I'm not allowed to touch her feet. I know if I ask her she will ask why & say no. I don't bother asking anymore because it causes hassle. So I just bottle it up.
asking that of her would just make me feel guilty anyway. I've not done anything wrong to deserve this. We talk about it and she says she can't help the feelings from the past and wants them to go away & reminds me how obsessed I used to be and how it made her feel shit. All I can sat is I'm sorry and I'm not like that anymore, I just want it now and again.but she can't.
I love her still, we connect, we have sex & I care for her. This is the biggest pain and torture I have experienced.
So please stop whining. I have had enough of people complaining about "problems". I'm stuck in a relationship where I have to completely abstain until she eventually comes to terms. What do I do? Wait for her to get over it? Break up with her over it? Keep trying to ask nicely and compromise. I'm totally fucked. It makes me dizzy I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
quote:Originally posted by guitardrew: Ive also done things I used to never think Id want to do, like grabbing her shoes and smelling them when she's out of the room loll... having a girlfriend who is cool with my fetish seems to be making it evolve in different ways and become more intense.
So glad u mentioned that! I might've said this in an earlier post, but there's an easy way to intensify that 'aroma' if the odor starts to fade with time. (Not too funky--but just right!) I keep a spray bottle (of ordinary water) just for these occasions.
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