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Posted by mtcarmeman2323 (Member # 35435) on :
 
ok this was is just a thought I had. I have never gone up 2 girls and asked this and i will not go up to random girls to ask this question. has anybody ever asked a random girl in public that looked really hot or at least average looking if you could have her smelly socks or even offered to pay them for her smelly socks. tell me if any of you have had any experiences like this. like I said before i have never asked a random girl this question and I dont plan to ask it. I was just curous if any has asked this question.
 
Posted by baalfootish (Member # 33991) on :
 
sure dude, its hit or miss depending on how its approached. ive paid random girls to smell their feet for a small donation, even got to worship some girls feet and one gave me the smelly sock afterwards. i would say go the whole way if u wanna try because if they have sox that arent smelly, then u just paid for nothing. hope this helps
 
Posted by mtcarmeman2323 (Member # 35435) on :
 
thank you great response
 
Posted by mtcarmeman2323 (Member # 35435) on :
 
@baal how much did u end up paying as a small donation. what did you say to convice them to let u worship there feet.
 
Posted by baalfootish (Member # 33991) on :
 
depends on the neighborhood and who u ask. generally speaking u can tell the type of woman thats not gonna go for it. it has nothing to do with race, ethnicity, or any of that. if she looks stuck up and prude. dont ask. if she seems like she may find it amusing you are golden. its the same thing with alot of foot fetish stuff, look at some of the post from guys who ask girls to take their feet pictures, those same ones that say yes will generally go for this. and also, if u are in a very rich area dont even bother. the women wont value the dollar. if u are in the hood, u will find a better variety of feet from black to white to asian and they probably will go for it. i have paid 10 dollars and only had to pay 20 once but the girl let me take of her shoes and go the whole distance for a good 10 minutes, toe sucking, licking, and she gave me a sock when we finished. dont be deterred if someone says no or if u have a bad run. half the time its finding someone u think to be attractive and with nice feet and this takes the most time. AND LASTLY, but most IMPORTANTLY, these are women, so show some fucking respect. talk to them as you would any female you were trying to pick up or take on a date, meaning, dont go right up and offer money, thats fucked up. talk to them, chat a little. see if she would be interested in a foot massage as you are partial to feet, and then you ask "would it be ok for me to offer you cash to kiss your feet?" again dont go this route if it isnt necessary. if you are confident they will be cool with it nonetheless, u just have to make sure they know that you are into feet and thats ur thing. why wouldnt you? if you went right up and asked "may i offer u cash to kiss your feet?" it will work sometimes if u have a sharp eye, but why do that? it is telling them u are a footguy right off the bat, so why not just say that u are a footguy and chat them up a little first? they are people, so are we. respect and u shall recieve dude!
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by baalfootish:
and also, if u are in a very rich area dont even bother. the women wont value the dollar. if u are in the hood, u will find a better variety of feet from black to white to asian and they probably will go for it.

lol, this is so true
 
Posted by MistressMilky (Member # 39824) on :
 
If you just want to dive into Money for socks then id recommend you just message someone who sells there socks. Some people who do this online are reasonable enough anyway (for example i sell socks in the UK for £10).

I would not recommend just approaching random strangers and making offers though as i don't think this would go down well if done this fast.

If your prepared to talk to them start small say hello make a little small talk. Then progress onto maybe you noticed there sandals. What Woman doesn't like a comment on something they are wearing. Then slowly work your way up...

I also agree with what has already been mentioned. Use some common sense and get a feel for a person based on the body language they show, so that you approach more open minded people.

[ August 18, 2010, 02:04 PM: Message edited by: MistressMilky ]
 
Posted by mfdooms (Member # 18036) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by MistressMilky:
If you just want to dive into Money for socks then id recommend you just message someone who sells there socks some people who do this online are reasonable enough anyway (for example i sell socks in the UK for £10).

Way to advertise your business. lol.
 
Posted by MistressMilky (Member # 39824) on :
 
thanks mfdooms i was trying to be subtle lol

I really wanted to comment on the best way to approach this situation as i find the topic interesting but couldn't resist a little plug.

If it helps I have to admit that if a man out in public was to approach me as a Lady and get into this whole can i buy your socks discussion I would much rather he be a gentleman and start of with the hello and build up to it.

Not saying a can i buy your socks straight out of the bat wouldn't work but id be happier and therefore more accommodating if he acted like a gentleman and took his time and even threw in a compliment or two.

I have known guys and gals who love the fear and adrenaline of asking a random stranger so i can see how that can be exciting. I have also known those who are very scared by it and cant do it.
It all depends on what you want if you just want the socks or you want the thrill of the chase.
 
Posted by hyperion2424 (Member # 39397) on :
 
MM, the adrenaline and thrill of the chase is a big attraction for me in asking for feet pictures. Sometimes I just sit there and dig on (what is actually) the flight or fight physiology when I see a girl I know I want to photo: the elevated heart/respiration rate; my sight and hearing sharpen, I notice more smells...
And then she walks on by and I don't get the shot. The thrill is addictive, yes.
-hyp
 
Posted by roynaba (Member # 21745) on :
 
I have to agree with hyperion....th adrenaline is just off the roof!!! Everyday I say that I stop but I just cant, lol....
 
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
 
I havent done this. Although I have found a way to get conversations started about feet.

A couple of times, I was at the mall with a female friend, as she was getting her nails manicured/pedicured. I waited in the salon while this happened. A couple of times, as girls were sitting in the pedicure chairs, I said something like "Does it bother you to have your feet touched by the pedicurist. or.. Does the pedicure tickle your feet". It might not seem like the most unique of foot questions, but, this way, you're sneaking in conversation about their feet, without going up to them, and saying "Can I smell your socks or your feet", which looks even odder. The only socks or feet that I have smelled, was either of babysitters when I was much younger, gfs, or female friends. I do not think I would have the guts to go up to a random girl, and say "Can I have your socks to smell, or can I smell your feet". That is just wayyy too bold for me.

Mitch
 
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
 
Whatever happened to just asking a girl out, getting her REAL feet after the date and never calling her again...if you want variety that is?
 
Posted by mfdooms (Member # 18036) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Sinnister:
Whatever happened to just asking a girl out, getting her REAL feet after the date and never calling her again...if you want variety that is?

It's still alive! I'm proof of that.
 
Posted by MistressMilky (Member # 39824) on :
 
you know what they say ''Try one brave thing a day..... and run like hell if it goes wrong'' [Smile]
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Sinnister:
Whatever happened to just asking a girl out, getting her REAL feet after the date and never calling her again...if you want variety that is?

Good post.

It's creepy behaviour like asking random girls for their socks that give us a bad name. So weird. So creepy. I'd call the cops on someone that propositioned my girl/sis/mom like that. All of my buddies would react the same way. Live in the real world and get the girl. There's at least one for everyone. You don't have to rely on just hooking up with her dirty laundry.

GQ
 
Posted by mtcarmeman2323 (Member # 35435) on :
 
to be honest i dont have the guts to just ask random girls for there socks or to smell there feet. plus i dont want to give me or any of foot people a bad rap.
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mtcarmeman2323:
plus i dont want to give me or any of foot people a bad rap.

now that's the spirit! [Thumbs Up]
 
Posted by mtcarmeman2323 (Member # 35435) on :
 
when i made this post i was just courious if anyone has ever asked random girls and all that. it was just a thought that was on my mind.
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
I'd think it'd be a whole lot easier to ask a girl out on a date than to ask for her dirty socks. Hmmm?
 
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
I'd think it'd be a whole lot easier to ask a girl out on a date than to ask for her dirty socks. Hmmm?

that's if you actually get the date. idk, i don't wanna think about it, but i guess i'm sorta interested in knowing too
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
I'd think it'd be a whole lot easier to ask a girl out on a date than to ask for her dirty socks.

it can be but not always. in fact, it can actually be quite the opposite at times depending on where and how the question is asked. for instance, an undercover cop posing as a female hooker... the asking for socks rather than a date will less likely land you in a holding cell.

also, some girls who have no interest in guys hitting on them whatsoever (ie. girls who are married, or have a boyfriend, or are lesbians) might be more inclined to take money in exchange for socks as opposed to getting no money at all and having to put up with some old sweaty stinky dude trying to get her in bed.

be careful out there fellas, women can be like animals in the wild: you never know for sure how they will react. get some game and gauge them accordingly. my 2cents
 
Posted by MistressMilky (Member # 39824) on :
 
I have never had a guy ask me for my socks out in the wild yet but i have had a lady ask me. I have to admit i found it cute. I let her peel them off my feet. I found it flattering but I am definitely going to agree with the be careful and try and gauge the people and situation recommendation above.
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
I'd think it'd be a whole lot easier to ask a girl out on a date than to ask for her dirty socks.

it can be but not always. in fact, it can actually be quite the opposite at times depending on where and how the question is asked. for instance, an undercover cop posing as a female hooker... the asking for socks rather than a date will less likely land you in a holding cell.

also, some girls who have no interest in guys hitting on them whatsoever (ie. girls who are married, or have a boyfriend, or are lesbians) might be more inclined to take money in exchange for socks as opposed to getting no money at all and having to put up with some old sweaty stinky dude trying to get her in bed.

be careful out there fellas, women can be like animals in the wild: you never know for sure how they will react. get some game and gauge them accordingly. my 2cents

Propositioning an undercover cop is different than asking a woman out for drinks and good conversation. Even though i've asked out hundreds of girls...it's never easy. I admit that. But asking for someone's dirty laundry is just out of the realm of normal behavior. Especially if it's someone you don't know well. But I guess it all depends on the individual. If George Clooney asked for a woman's hose I think he could pull it off. But then again...with his cool he could get her in bed too so screw the dirty laundry.

I think people should aspire for more. As foot fetishist we should do the things needed to have the object of our passion....pretty feet. Settling for over looked clothing items won't do.
But to each his own. More for the rest of us.
 
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
also, some girls who have no interest in guys hitting on them whatsoever (ie. girls who are married, or have a boyfriend, or are lesbians) might be more inclined to take money in exchange for socks as opposed to getting no money at all and having to put up with some old sweaty stinky dude trying to get her in bed.

makes total sense. just by this alone, i might try it. why not ask for socks when asking someone out's gonna come off creepy anyway???
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
Propositioning an undercover cop is different than asking a woman out for drinks and good conversation.

true, but they have alot of upfront similarities: horny guy... wants some action... approaches a desirable woman in order to achieve his near term hopes. they both require some risk taking on the male's part and they both require an icebreaker that hopefully works [Wink]


quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
I think people should aspire for more.

this is so very true and unfortunate that many foot fetishists cut themselves short.

guys, you can get alot more than you imagined. just put your mind to it [Big Grin] [Thumbs Up]
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
also, some girls who have no interest in guys hitting on them whatsoever (ie. girls who are married, or have a boyfriend, or are lesbians) might be more inclined to take money in exchange for socks as opposed to getting no money at all and having to put up with some old sweaty stinky dude trying to get her in bed.

makes total sense. just by this alone, i might try it. why not ask for socks when asking someone out's gonna come off creepy anyway???
I was talking to my girlfriend about "what makes a guy creepy". It's not looks, while some looks certainly don't help. It's not book smarts. It's social intelligence and understanding other people and how one comes across. Understanding other people's comfort levels, body language and tone. As I say asking people for dirty socks is creepy, it's because it takes NO regard for how the person feels. The thought that cash could help is true but not the whole picture. If someone asked my girlfriend out she'd politely decline, especially if the guy were nice. If a guy asked her for her dirty socks it not only weird her out...but would ruin her whole day. If she told me i'd be pissed which would upset her more. She wouldn't want to go to her apartment alone for fear that the guy might follow her. These are all credible fears. How many foot models even let you know what city they're in? They're very aware of the threat out there. The creepy guy puts his comfort above all others at the expense of all others.

I'm good with women because I finally understand them. I know when and what makes them uncomfortable. I know how to make them happy. And I get how to make them laugh. I've learned how to make them orgasm too. It's not about me. It's about them. See how the two propositions differ in that way? "Can I take you out and show you a good time?" "Can I have you dirty socks? I'll give you money!" One is about her. The other is about yourself. The latter has VERY negative connotations. Even as a foot fetishist i'd be hella worried about a girl being stalked by a guy asking for her used laundry. It's stalkerish.

Dinner/drinks/a walk in the park leads to feet and sex! It's the first step. Isn't that what we want anyway?

Blackhx. What have you done NOT to come off creepy? You must take the initiative and work on yourself bro. It will pay dividends. I did a few years ago and I just had a bombshell tell me she loved me last sat. All of my ex's want me back. One actually has a fiance' and i'm still going to screw her brains out. It can be done. I'm more than willing to help. But you must want to help yourself.

GQ
 
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
also, some girls who have no interest in guys hitting on them whatsoever (ie. girls who are married, or have a boyfriend, or are lesbians) might be more inclined to take money in exchange for socks as opposed to getting no money at all and having to put up with some old sweaty stinky dude trying to get her in bed.

makes total sense. just by this alone, i might try it. why not ask for socks when asking someone out's gonna come off creepy anyway???
Blackhx. What have you done NOT to come off creepy?
nothing. the point i was making, is that if asking someone out comes off as weird or creepy, why not just ask for socks anyway??? it isn't as if it's gonna make a damn bit of difference to either of you, cause both will come off as weird and/or creepy
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by blackHxC88:
if asking someone out comes off as weird or creepy, why not just ask for socks anyway??? it isn't as if it's gonna make a damn bit of difference to either of you, cause both will come off as weird and/or creepy

surprisingly there are ways to pull off creepy acts in an acceptably non-creepy way. for instance, i know of a guy who successfully (and perhaps anonymously) tapes the feet of women in a public park in new york city.

he basically sits around and looks for target feet. then he creeps his way closer to the women's feet and films their soles right out there in public. he does not talk to them prior to or while filming, but according to him, he films them with their complete knowledge.

this is certainly creepy and does not cater to a woman's comfort needs at all. it demonstrates for us, a very rare situation where a creepy person can actually do something very creepy and in fact get away with it, even with the woman's consent.

in fact, most of the women that i have seen the guy filming in this public park are not alarmed by him at all. it is almost as though they think he is reading a newspaper in his lap and perhaps the camera that is sitting underneath his newspaper is not powered on.

in other cases where the women might realize that the camera is indeed powered on and that her feet are being recorded without consent, they still generally have no problems with the methods of the creepy videographer.

i think it mostly depends on how threatened the woman feels around certain types of men. So if a foot fetishists is able to ask for socks w/o the creepy vibe, then women might be more inclined to simply blow it off in the event that they aren't happy or thrilled to make some quick easy cash.

i do advise to always approach with caution though fellas. can never be too safe [Thumbs Up]

[ August 24, 2010, 03:46 AM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
 
Posted by baalfootish (Member # 33991) on :
 
ok lets clear this up guys, it is NOT illegal to ask for socks or even propositioning for foot worship. well at least in new york anyways. it isnt a proposition for sex and therefore isnt illegal. foot worship is not considered sex in most states as there has to be some sort of genital contact. and there are ways of taking the creepy factor out. just be confident dudes
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
I read the thread....i'm not sure if anyone said it was ILLEGAL to ask a girl for socks or proposition them for foot worship. What is being said is that it is NOT socially acceptable and far better to just do the normal thing and date a girl. It is better for you...the guy...and better for the girl.

As for creepy dudes....you guys are missing my point. Even the guy who thinks he is being inconspicuous actually is not. I don't know a girl that would see a dude filming them...good looking or not and be cool about it! Even if a hot chic were filming me i'd be creeped out. And i'm big dude! Imagine being a girl in that situation where protesting could cause her harm? That's the point...being considerate to others will prevent the creepy vibe. This is why so many guys have to resort to buy dirty laundry to satisfy their needs...they can't get over themselves.

Be more concerned about the connection with the woman/people and you'll avoid the creepy vibe. Focus on the sexual act and you'll have to pay to play.
 
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
 
I'm with yah GQ.

To go up and ask a random woman to smell their feet or buy their socks is just asking for trouble.

There might be some cool women up for it, but I can't see an everyday, non-porn woman just saying, "Cool!"

Would hate to see anyone get in trouble for something that makes us 'feet people' look 'abnormal' in the 'normal' people's eyes.

While it isn't illegal, do you want security or law enforcement asking you questions, trying to find something to hassle you on, or have a group of people surround you...or someone from your workplace or neighborhood finds out about it and then you got this stigma.
 
Posted by mmmtoes (Member # 30792) on :
 
I also agree with GQ. It just isn't socially acceptable.

My wife knows about the smell fetish even though I don't like it. Even so, I know she would be severely put off if someone approached her about things like this.

This type of behavior is just plain creepy...
 
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
 
When i was in undergrad, i would sometimes ask girls at other campuses to snap shots of me with their feet on my face. Silly, but true...
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mmmtoes:
It just isn't socially acceptable.

i can remember a couple of decades ago when i was a younger lad that it wasn't socially acceptable to like feet. i guess the term "socially acceptable" can be a bad gauge for whether something is right or wrong.

heck, if I had been wise enough to use "social acceptance" as my moral compass back then, I might've realized that I should not have liked feet when I was an impressionable teenager. And if i had realized that in those formative years, then maybe i would be a more socially acceptable person today.

actually i dunno, and i really don't care. live outside "their" boxes fellas. that's my advice for a funfilled foot fetish existence
 
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
 
Always to the extreams, Tyler!

I guess if you weren't going to the extreams...we might think you ARE abnormal!!
 
Posted by canIsmellYourFeet (Member # 11183) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Sinnister:
Whatever happened to just asking a girl out, getting her REAL feet after the date and never calling her again...if you want variety that is?

[Laugh] Where's the clapping icon? [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by oneagain:
I guess if you weren't going to the extreams... we might think you ARE abnormal!!

Oh you should see the women's reactions to how i lick & sniff their feet... now that is the epitome of an abnormal reaction [Eek!] [Confused] It's usually the extremes that provide greater clarity than the grey areas in between. Just ask about me to most women I've been with and you will get a resoundingly clear answer, Hee Hee

I am highly perverted for feet indeed, but at the same time, these same women who I've been with know for a fact (thru my completely unabated & point blank behaviors) that I'm not hiding anything from them [Big Grin] Basically, they've seen the extreme truth and have little doubt as to what's behind the curtain.

That might be both a good and bad thing if ya know what i mean. Careful what ya ask for fellas,and never bet the farm unless you know for sure!

Get them feet boiz [Jerkoff]

[ August 29, 2010, 02:37 AM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
 


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