My gf knows how much I like her feet yet she still doesn't take great care of them. I try to drop hints like tell her I love when she paints her toes or comment on how nice her feet look. Despite this she barely ever does anything special with them... even if I offer to massage moisturizer she is like thanks but no thanks. I don't get it at all because she has no problem letting me do whatever with them FJ's etc... Anyway anyone know how I can get her to spice up her feet now and then?? lol
Posted by vampirefeet (Member # 8733) on :
how can a girl pass up getting her feet lotioned? something isn't right, there...
Posted by Footguy87 (Member # 20261) on :
My suggestion is to stop taking showers. Or stop shaving. You know, little things like that that chicks notice Posted by evolved (Member # 3907) on :
she likes it when I dont shave seriously Posted by wvcple2003 (Member # 5268) on :
quote:Originally posted by Footguy87: My suggestion is to stop taking showers. Or stop shaving. You know, little things like that that chicks notice
Yep. Stop shaving. Girls hate a chaffed cooch. I use that trick all the time on my girl. It goes like this! me "Suck my dick". her "No", me "Fine, I wont shave for a week" her "Omg, you cant do that to my pussy; slurp slurp slurp
Posted by REYMAN01 (Member # 38637) on :
i agree but it can also mean she is being lazy my girl was doing tha. So i did what any smart man would do stop shaving and taking showers and dressing nice but this can also back fire depending on what type of girl she is.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
If she lets you do whatever you want to do with her feet, perhaps it is time that you "want" to moisturize them, clean them, and polish her nails.
Maybe you should give her the pedicure and put her feet (pleasurably) in the condition you desire.
Or you could get, LIKE, all confrontational; don't shave, or bathe, and make sure you comb your hair with bacon-grease.
Posted by MistressMilky (Member # 39824) on :
any chance she is starting to think your paying more attention to her feet than her? Take her out to some nice places concentrate on making her feel good as a person then after awhile see if she will let you take care of and pamper her feet.
The whole confrontational approach could end badly if you push it to hard
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
why dont you stop 'hinting' and ask her why she doesnt try harder to pretty up her feet. whatever you do, make sure whatever you say isnt insulting or confrontational in any way. dont say 'you dont take care of your feet' or 'why dont you care what i think of your feet' or anything where it's a 'you' kind of statement. try something like, your feet are so sexy that i'd love to pamper you and them more.. can i massage them with some lotion?
Posted by MrSoleLvr (Member # 21192) on :
Send her for a pedicure a 'my treat' sort of thing...
Posted by Sol (Member # 2476) on :
You should book an appointment for a pedicure for her, then surprise her with it. Tell her that sometimes she neglects her lovely feet so they deserve some TLC.
When she sees how excited you get when her feet are well looked after she should start doing it more often.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Hmmm. Somethings not right. Perhaps it's my type...but the women I date that are into me ensure that their appearance is great whenever they see me. My girlfriend spent an hour getting her hair and makeup done an hour before seeing me. Why? Because i'm cooler than you? No. She's trying to keep me. She knows that if I get bored that I have zero problem moving on and finding another pretty girl that will look great for me.
So for you buddy....I think your problem is FAR deeper than just her nails being done. She's become complacent with your relationship. There is no challenge. You're not keeping her on her toes. My first gf didn't keep her feet up when we dated. I wasn't a challenge. When we started talkinng again a few years later I kept her on her toes. Even though she was 2000miles away she was sure to send me pics of her pedicures or her parafin wax treatments to keep them soft for whenever I wanted her to fly out.Ask yourself why that is.
Start a some new hobbies. Start working out more if you don't. Go clothes shopping and update your style. Dress like the cool guy that gets the ladies. Take some classes. Throw in a dance class in the mix where the majority of the class are females. Keep yourself very well groomed. Pretty much put yourself in a situation where she either steps up her game....or you move on to the hot girl who notices your new style, your great physique or you who you meet in class.
Getting a pedicure ain't hard. When will you have a girl that cares enough about you to take the time to polish her toenails because you are VERY passionate about it? Perhaps next lifetime....or now?
GQ
Posted by 2swift (Member # 16002) on :
There is also another possibility as well. Perhaps she is simply comfortable and confident in her appearance as is. While she enjoys your love of her feet, and gives you access to do what you wish of them, then perhaps this is all she is willing to do. Not that she is being defiant or obstinate with you, simply she does not see the need for pedicures, or applying nail lacquer, and so on. Maybe she is a woman of simple tastes and desires and does not see the need for finer care of her feet, as you would have them be.
Obviously, you are better able to answer this than I, but simply another opinion as to why she does not feel the need. As others have stated, direct discussion is best in order to convey your thoughts and have your questions answered. Best of luck, and let us know what happens.
Regards, 2swift
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
Yes, something is definitely wrong with this picture. There could be a number of things. How is your communication in your relationship?
Posted by tom (Member # 223) on :
Some lazy gals love the attention, rhino heels and iron toes, to be honest some of us love the oppotunity to soften up those sexy piggies and chew on those sexy female feet for hours.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
I would simply ask her. I've wasted far to much time hinting or suggestion things and it seems like it goes right over their head. Have you ever just asked.
Posted by Toe-fu (Member # 18036) on :
She doesn't care about you or understand you. I've never been with a girl that knew about my foot fetish and didn't take extra care of her feet.
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toe-fu: She doesn't care about you or understand you. I've never been with a girl that knew about my foot fetish and didn't take extra care of her feet.
True
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
just tell her you want her to get a pedicure. thats what the relationship is all about.
Posted by MistressMilky (Member # 39824) on :
Yeah i think the plain up ask idea is a good one.
once you know why then you can do what ever you have to do.
Posted by ashtray2329 (Member # 21189) on :
Why don't you just man up and tell her that you like feet?
Believe me, she won't think you are weird.
Posted by www.afw4u.com (Member # 37725) on :
Nike : just do it!
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
You don't want to be having to nag her about it (if you have to go THAT far then there probably is a problem in the relationship). Most girls WANT to make their guys happy. But as others have mentioned: 1) offer to send her to the spa to get her feet taken care of or 2) offer to learn how to do it yourself
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