...Almost seems like your a poser or something. Like "Look at me, please jerk off to my feet" but oh not, I choose to not let you see my face or what I look like. For fear of people that I may actually know, be like Gasp and Awe and think I am some sort of super perv. ...or something.
I mean, you only have one life and who friggin cares in the grand scheme of things. God doesn't care, it's not like he will only have your website pics or something when your being judged if your a Christian.
...Or it's not like people will talk shit because they are secretly jealous that they aren't comfortable with their bodies or one of the many excuses that haters in general fall back on when griping about something.
And your just showing your feet usually, not like your tits are hanging out or your breastfeeding a damn goat or anything.
...just saying.
Posted by Fiona McFee (Member # 39121) on :
For me, I like the anonymity. If you don't like it, don't watch it but I've chosen not to put my face out there on the interwebs making kinky videos. I'm not a model but I really enjoy footplay so I show what I'm comfortable with. I don't believe in God because no one can prove to me that such a being exists but I sure do believe in judgmental people and those are the ones I'm protecting myself from. I don't get why that would make me a poser.
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
quote:Originally posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com: ...Almost seems like your a poser or something. Like "Look at me, please jerk off to my feet" but oh not, I choose to not let you see my face or what I look like. For fear of people that I may actually know, be like Gasp and Awe and think I am some sort of super perv. ...or something.
I mean, you only have one life and who friggin cares in the grand scheme of things. God doesn't care, it's not like he will only have your website pics or something when your being judged if your a Christian.
...Or it's not like people will talk shit because they are secretly jealous that they aren't comfortable with their bodies or one of the many excuses that haters in general fall back on when griping about something.
And your just showing your feet usually, not like your tits are hanging out or your breastfeeding a damn goat or anything.
quote:Originally posted by Fiona McFee: For me, I like the anonymity. If you don't like it, don't watch it but I've chosen not to put my face out there on the interwebs making kinky videos. I'm not a model but I really enjoy footplay so I show what I'm comfortable with. I don't believe in God because no one can prove to me that such a being exists but I sure do believe in judgmental people and those are the ones I'm protecting myself from. I don't get why that would make me a poser.
...i uploaded your video Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
I am outspoken on pretty much everything. As most people know here. I wear my "fetish" life on my sleeve and figure the more people know the better. If for anything, so that the next guy that likes feet that comes along, I have already "softened her up", paved the way so to speak.
So don't take offense, by any means, just throwing the topic out there...
Posted by Athena K (Member # 33809) on :
My own personal reason is that I am training to be, and will very soon be, a high school teacher. The ramifications of my face and body on a site such as this could be potentially career threatening. I was debating at first whether to stop posting completely, but I now only post occasional sets, sans face. If a student, colleague or boss were to identify me on this site, I could lose my authority, my reputation or even my job.
You say it is 'just feet' that we are showing here on this site... but I don't agree with you. This is an adult site - that's the whole point, isn't it? And I am sure that women in my profession, or other professions like law enforcement, corporate positions and the like (where reputation is paramount) would agree with me.
Many of you men cannot even reveal your fetish to those around you, and yet you scorn us because we don't show our face? If faceless photos offend or annoy you, don't look at them. But bare in mind that there is always a reason.
Posted by ShortLivedTyranny (Member # 36627) on :
to each their own i would have to say. why scorn at all? Having a willing model that loves her feet is a pretty sweet deal. A lot of men on the forum wont show their face in posts either, so lets hear that reasoning as well.
I personally like to show my face because I like everyone to know what I do. I love doing this. It part of my life now and if a certain job field will not accept it than there are plenty of other options. I respect those who choose not to, but it is always nice to see the face that goes with a pretty set of feet. Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
That seems like a pretty harsh attitude to adopt for all of us who have wives who do not wish their face shown-but let us post their feet.
My wife has a great body and an amazingly beautiful face- but does not want her face shown just like Athena K and many other members' wives.
I have alot of respect for your work and enjoy your photos very much. This topic has been discused more than once here- and if any members have an issue with not seeing a face in a set of pics -they should move on to the next post.
Posted by Robotron2084 (Member # 33263) on :
quote:Originally posted by ShortLivedTyranny: A lot of men on the forum wont show their face in posts either, so lets hear that reasoning as well.
I do not because I am not very attractive...
Posted by Robotron2084 (Member # 33263) on :
I respect those that do not show their faces, but I prefer face and feet.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
As I've said before, I don't find faceless feet appealing, but understand and appreciate a woman's decision not to show her face when posting pictures on a foot fetish forum. I also recognize that for many guys a woman's facial features don't matter as long as she has feet they find attractive.
I don't have to view a woman's face in every individual picture in a set or every frame of a video, but do need to see it enough to place those bare heels, soles and toes in the proper context.
Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
It's certainly nice to have a face to go along with the pictures, or at least a full body shot, even if the face is somehow hidden.
But I can understand and appreciate the reason for not wanting to disclose their identity. For many of us with foot fetishes will not think differently of it, but for the rest of the world who don't understand it nor appreciate it, it can have some undesirable consequences.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I have no problem with women who don't want their faces shown. My girlfriend has asked me not to post any photos of her barefoot on the web, and I will respect that. And I don't mind posting photos of myself. I'm sure most of you would rather not see my feet, though! (Come to think of it, I don't want to look at MY feet!)
Posted by aka.footjoyboy (Member # 32751) on :
Is this a foot fetish site or a face fetish site?
As long as I'm sure that the feet are female, I'm satisfied with the content.
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
quote:Originally posted by oscarthemonkey: That seems like a pretty harsh attitude to adopt for all of us who have wives who do not wish their face shown-but let us post their feet.
My wife has a great body and an amazingly beautiful face- but does not want her face shown just like Athena K and many other members' wives.
I have alot of respect for your work and enjoy your photos very much. This topic has been discused more than once here- and if any members have an issue with not seeing a face in a set of pics -they should move on to the next post.
Thank you for the compliment! I appreciate it. If anything, the topic is not directed towards wives or those that post foot pics for fun, more so to sites that directly make money via memberships, etc. Like some of my peers have said, it just completes the portrait, if you will, of the woman in question. And yes, also verification that the feet are female.
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
I also prefer to see a pretty face with pretty feet, but I can understand why some choose not to show their faces. There's the whole "everyone I know potentially finding out" thing, and then there's what Athena said, about the career-threatening issues around putting your face on an Adult/fetish website.
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
My 2 cents on this topic has always been the following key points:
- I prefer full body with focus on feet
- I don't hate feet only pictures as I understand some people cannot do so out of the possibility of issues with a job, safety, etc.
- I only will post females on my site who will allow full body photos as I remember a site back in the day who had a tranny showing off their feet for quite a while and then going public that she was a he.
- I respect what each person can or wants to do and will not bash them for it. If their photos, quality, subject matter, etc. is not my cup of tea, there are others out there that are.
- Do what feels right with your situation and life and enjoy it!
Patrick
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
Hey... Seeing the face (full body actually) helps authenticate the feet...if you know what I mean.
Up until very recently, none of the gals who let me take their pix wanted their face shown. the reason they even agreed to model was the assurance that their face and identifiable features would be edited or cropped out for web use.
my wife only agreed to let me take pix if i could promise and maintain her privacy.
I fully respect that. it's a feet adult site first. and as long as i'm not being duped.. i'm cool with that.
more power to the gals who are comfy showing their whole self.
although i've gotten compliments on having "awesome feet for a guy" i won't post myself up. and my career is also very sensitive to my reputation.
to each their own at the end of the day.
RPM
p.s. I've seen other guys take pix of gals peds that i wante to photograph and the social repurcussion they endured... very intense and shameful. not everyone shares our open minds
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
i like how the title assumes "pretty face".
perhaps lack thereof may be the reason some of these women don't post the face with the feet in the first place. it could also be the deal breaker for why guys who pose as women would hesitant to post face with the feet.
bottomline, they know the attention would dwindle
Posted by Goddess Melanie (Member # 40802) on :
quote:Originally posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com: Almost seems like your a poser or something. Like "Look at me, please jerk off to my feet" but oh not, I choose to not let you see my face or what I look like. For fear of people that I may actually know, be like Gasp and Awe and think I am some sort of super perv. ...or something.
I believe it depends on someones personal situation. Some people are not as extroverted or secure in the way the look over-all.
A few models do very non-R-rated things while under the cloak of anonymity such as FJ's, there it becomes a bigger issue for privacy reasons.
Some models live in small towns where if this was spread, would be damaging, some even have kids in school, which would be double damaging.
Most however hide their faces due to a singular bad experiences with "CRAZED LUNATIC FANS" who, when ignored make all sort of threats or try to pull up personal information etc, make further threats....
The only one thing a person needs to remember is that privacy is gone, technology eliminated it, so even if you're not posting your photos on facebook from your iphone, someone is posting photos in which you're in on facebook and tagging them with your name.
In the grand scheme of things for every one TV/TS, BBW etc, there are about twenty normal women without faces.
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
I think the answer to your question is very simple, when your personal lifestyle choices, in this case something as simple as a foot fetish model and your professional career meet with a head on collision, the end results can be devastating and hurt a lot of innocent people.
If you think that is $^%& $3!@, all you need to do is ask Michelle and her husband (from OHMYHOSE/SEXY MICHELLE) what happened to their lives when their two worlds collided. Or how about Sarah and Charles from Soccermomfeet (who didn't even show her face). Being a foot fetish model within the foot fetish community does carry risks and in some cases does carry severe consequences.
In having said that, I do not speak for all models, there are a lot of models out there that have successfully merged their two worlds with full support from their family and friends, I can not think of any better example than MD. I guess the bottom line is this, everyone's lives are different and it's not anyone's place within the foot fetish community to make judgment on any foot fetish model based on whether she decides to show her face or not. In today's WWW, you are very fortunate as there are tons of sites out there and if you don't like what you see on one particular site then you can simply move on to another site.
For me, I am very particular on who I show my face to, there are a few, here on wu's that over time I have created friendships with and have either met in person MD :-) or have received photos from me) it's not because I am ugly or have any features to hide, it's because I have a family that I respect. I also have a great career that allows me the flexibility to do almost anything I want in life. These 2 things in my life mean way too much to me and I will not risk them.
My 2 Cents only!
Kisses, Dani xoxo
Posted by goodguyneighbor (Member # 2824) on :
I've always wondered why so many feet people strive to paint themselves "Adult" when they have such strong concerns.
Whatever your preference, fact is, the majority of consumers just don't buy anonymous feet.
Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
quote:Originally posted by Danielle Moore:
If you think that is $^%& $3!@, all you need to do is ask Michelle and her husband (from OHMYHOSE/SEXY MICHELLE) what happened to their lives when their two worlds collided.....
I've always wondered what happened to sexy Michelle. She was very pretty with a superhot bod for a milf type modelling super sexy lingerie and hose.
Care to fill us in a little??
Posted by redd (Member # 7848) on :
If by having the comfort of not not showing their face allows many more amateurish type models with beautiful feet to feel more comfortable to show us their feet, i am all for it. Yes, there are freaks are out to trick others, yes, there are models that would otherwise not be of your taste face wise; but that is the risk. Most of the non-face showing models do show fuller body shots thus letting us know that yes, they are women etc etc. Now, if you are very worried about what her face is like, then click the Back button on the webpage. These models understand that they are missing out a portion of the market (even most of the market), and that is the price they want to pay for their anonmity, we should respect that.
Posted by northernfeet (Member # 36540) on :
As just an average couple who posts adult pictures, we have quite a few very damaging reasons to remain anonymous. We love to meet people and have some fun, but we can't have anything linking us to our pictures, and it's just because we chose a different lifestyle
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
quote:Originally posted by redd: These models understand that they are missing out a portion of the market (even most of the market), and that is the price they want to pay for their anonmity, we should respect that.
You are absolutely correct, my site does not generate the traffic that other sites do and I am ok with that. For me, it's not about the money, my website allows me a medium/forum to express my sexuality in a safe way. I choose to share my photos/videos because I want too, not because I rely on it for a business or extra money. In the next few days, my new 100% free website will be launched which will contain FREE photos and Videos for everyone that wants to visit me there. In having said that, I will compromise by taking more body shots if it helps add to the photos and videos.
It's a sad story of what happens when your professional career meets your personal interests. This is just one example, there are tons of examples of 20 something year old female teachers being fired because of videos or photos being posted online. I recall reading one story about a 22 year old female who was fired from her job as a teacher because of a photo that surfaced on the internet of her wearing a Bikini serving alcohol on a boat.
Sometimes the world isn't fair and for some of us, in order to participate in the foot fetish world, we need to do so discretely.
More 2 cents worth, I guess I am at 4 cents now :-)
Dani xoxo
Posted by redd (Member # 7848) on :
i have been a big fan of Sarah and Charles of Soccermomfeet for a long time. I had some contact with them etc. Things were really looking up for them in this community. THen it all disappeared overnight because her identity was compromised.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
quote:Originally posted by Danielle Moore:
quote:Originally posted by redd: These models understand that they are missing out a portion of the market (even most of the market), and that is the price they want to pay for their anonmity, we should respect that.
You are absolutely correct, my site does not generate the traffic that other sites do and I am ok with that. For me, it's not about the money, my website allows me a medium/forum to express my sexuality in a safe way. I choose to share my photos/videos because I want too, not because I rely on it for a business or extra money. In the next few days, my new 100% free website will be launched which will contain FREE photos and Videos for everyone that wants to visit me there. In having said that, I will compromise by taking more body shots if it helps add to the photos and videos.
It's a sad story of what happens when your professional career meets your personal interests. This is just one example, there are tons of examples of 20 something year old female teachers being fired because of videos or photos being posted online. I recall reading one story about a 22 year old female who was fired from her job as a teacher because of a photo that surfaced on the internet of her wearing a Bikini serving alcohol on a boat.
Sometimes the world isn't fair and for some of us, in order to participate in the foot fetish world, we need to do so discretely.
More 2 cents worth, I guess I am at 4 cents now :-)
Dani xoxo
Shit...pathetic that it's true, but there ya go :/
Posted by goodguyneighbor (Member # 2824) on :
The headline,"Foot-fetish-gets-jailer-fired" is a bit misleading. The guy did nothing illegal; he resigned, and it was more than just a foot site.
Can anyone find a link to share of any ladies that were actually fired for showing only their feet?
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: The headline,"Foot-fetish-gets-jailer-fired" is a bit misleading. The guy did nothing illegal; he resigned, and it was more than just a foot site.
Can anyone find a link to share of any ladies that were actually fired for showing only their feet?
No need to. No such case has ever happened.
Posted by Goddess Melanie (Member # 40802) on :
I don't think this entirely passes the litmus test, as this is more like holding public office rather than working in the private sector.
Yes if you're a politician or are working for one as a campaign manager or hold public office it may create a stir, but so can anything sexual. In America we like our public office figures to be either completely asexual or have a very generic marriage.
After reading this article I am also more than certain that whom-ever "leaked" this to the press anonymously most likely wanted the poor guy to resign or quit and was just looking for "dirt" on that person. I may be wrong but the only reason why this anonymous leak happened is to make damn sure that there will be no-contest to the resignation. It could have just as easily been an affair or an indiscretion with a call girl as with Elliot Spitzer - if anyone thinks that he got nailed because he was not careful and not because he had it in for CitiBank/CitiGroup is buying the "spin".
An alternate article states "Authorities Discovered that Mark Kassle was the website operator of ohmyhose.com" - I ask you, why would authorities be "discovering" this unless he was placed into a dirt-digging investigation that was supposed to turn up "something" inflammatory or damaging in the first place.
But here is the counter to prove that stupid things happen in the private sector indeed. ->
Here is the reason why you don't see a single real stewardess/air-hostess posting a single photo, of anything, and you possibly never will, ever:
it got me to thinking maybe this would solve the faceless feet pics? do you think she wears masks on her feet as well? Posted by Jesi Jaymes (Member # 40911) on :
I've hemmed and hawed about even replying to this topic, but I figure hey, it's the intertoobz, if I can't say it here, where can I say it?
I am not comfortable showing my face, for several reasons.
- When I was in university, I had a quasi-stalker. He'd show up wherever I was, would follow me from class to class, and would come into my work. I started borrowing friend's cars so he would think I got a new one (I had a bumper-sticker-covered car, so it was really recognizable.) I managed to shake him eventually. Even now, some 7 years later, I still get nervous if I see the same person in more than one place on the same day. Putting my face out there makes me feel more vulnerable than I'd like.
- I am the black sheep child of the black sheep branch of a Very Very Religious Family. The shit would hit the fan so hard and the hypocrisy of being spotted on a "porn" website by those browsing said website would be totally lost on them. This will not be as much of an issue once my grandmother passes, but until that day (which I hope is a very very long time from now, because my grandma is awesome), it's "safer".
- This is all very new to me. It's a way of exploring my sexuality outside of the traditional confines of marriage. My husband is -not- the peen in the footjob films (and he's okay with this; feet aren't his thing).
- I'll have the discussion with my daughter about what mommy does when she's old enough, not when Timmy from kindergarten's mother tsk-tsk's at me.
- The title of this post infers that my face would be pretty. I don't see it. I was horribly bullied from 2nd grade through middle school (I started talking back in high school), and my appearance was a major picking point. You can't undo six years of hearing "you're ugly, you're worthless" and the like overnight - it's a very long healing process. These days, I'm seeing myself as "average". This is a helluva step up from before.
(Thank you for reading my book. Yikes. Wasn't expecting that. Also, I need to find a new descriptor to go with "very".)
Posted by sole arch-bishop (Member # 30462) on :
I would just say thanks for sharing your feet with us, better than nothing after all. While "the pose" is one of my favorite picture positions I understand some women wanting to be discreet. Besides, if we give her enough positive feedback maybe she will show her face someday. I just want to give out a big THANK YOU to all the ladies for sharing their beautiful feet with us, and understanding our fetish.
Posted by Robotron2084 (Member # 33263) on :
quote:Originally posted by sole arch-bishop: I would just say thanks for sharing your feet with us, better than nothing after all. While "the pose" is one of my favorite picture positions I understand some women wanting to be discreet. Besides, if we give her enough positive feedback maybe she will show her face someday. I just want to give out a big THANK YOU to all the ladies for sharing their beautiful feet with us, and understanding our fetish.
Very true. I remember Layna from My Space and she showed only feet. Now she shows her face too!
![[Smile]](smile.gif)
![[Big Grin]](biggrin.gif)