As in has it ever gone away, or partially away for some reason? Perhaps by a girlfriend or wife who either was so against your fetish that it made you begin to stem away from it yourself or perhaps because they just had lower than average feet? Discuss
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
Can't say that it's ever happened to me. Not yet, at least.
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
Just as most of us when i come, i don't want to talk or cuddle. just make me a sandwich an leave me alone, don't touch me i'm too hot and sweaty and too sleepy; the one thing i am willing, able, to do is, to caress feet.
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
No. My foot fetish will never waver. I've had it since I was five years old, literally.
I've been fortunate enough, to have dated people who have been understanding about my foot fetish, and letting me engage in it.
I often wonder what would be if I met someone who had all the other qualities, but who said, "Mitch, I dont want you to touch my feet, ever", either because she was too ticklish, or just didnt like having her feet touched. Chances are, even if she seemed to be a "great match", I would be resentful, or feel like something was missing, in the long run, and couldnt be really happy with such a person.
Hopefully, this wont happen, and I can meet someone, where, at worst, compromise will be reached, where even if I met someone who didnt love or like having her feet played with, she would be willing to allow me to, at least sometimes, for the purpose of making me happy.
Mitch
Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
Ahhh......no.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Sometimes, I think to myself, "Why am I attracted to feet, in the first place?" But not, it's never really wavered.
Posted by mremeat (Member # 21131) on :
It's wavered sometimes but it usually comes down to what I'm not getting at home.
Case in point, my current gf is cool with my foot fetish and is extremely sexual, but is kinda tomboyish, so she doesn't get pedicures or like to show her legs off. She loves open toed shoes for comfort, which I'm cool with, but but she doesn't even carry a purse! So, since I've been with her I find my attention drawn to women who are putting on a really polished feminine look. One of these days I'm going to take her hostage and make her get a pedicure, or do it myself Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
There are occasions when I'm more in the mood for feet but, then, I'm always in a mood for feet.
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
No... it gets worse Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
Yup, it wavers temporarily straight after I ejaculate Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
no
Posted by canIsmellYourFeet (Member # 11183) on :
Big old sloppy NO. It has *evolved*, though: I've had a fetish for sniffing feet since I was five, but I now I like playing with the toes, sniffing right under the toes, tickling the soles...but it has never gone away, and I doubt it evil will. Of all the things in life I worry about, that isn't one of them. Worse case scenario, it goes away, I save money.
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Posted by LovelyLadies (Member # 5079) on :
Mine hasn't, but to be honest, with my current g/f who doesn't have the most perfect feet, nor does she really like me playing with them much, I feel like I need to find an alternative. Obviously there isn't, but I'm enjoying the typical stuff and find myself more and more when I'm with her that I'm able to get heavily turned on by her "other" attributes where I wasn't early on with her. But I'm slowly trying to convince her to be down with a FJ Posted by coqui78 (Member # 9702) on :
A perfect ass has the power to make me forget all about feet, temporarily.
Posted by killa (Member # 8564) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: Sometimes, I think to myself, "Why am I attracted to feet, in the first place?" But not, it's never really wavered.
I too have these moments of clarity. It's kinda wierd. I'll realize that my girl gave me a choice of hot mouth, hot pussy, anything a guy could want this round, and I chose FEET, loved it, and now I'm sitting here taking pictures of them...then thinking "that's pretty fucked up right there, killa"
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
Well to go against the general thread, yeah.
Some days I'm just not in the mood for them.
I've had random pangs for some stuff I'd never normally be into but that never lasts for more than a day or two.
Posted by www.afw4u.com (Member # 37725) on :
oh no...and I hope never
Posted by Layna Love (Member # 35278) on :
People should always appreciate pretty feet There's so many fun things you can do with them. Hehe
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
well, i have other fetishes too, and they came as i got older. and i do perfer them over my foot fetish, but they can only be performed during sex. however, i can give a girl a foot massage anytime. so feet are always the easiest.
Posted by KaunNarazu (Member # 38786) on :
Its funny you ask this, and im probably the only one here that will answer a big fat fucking YES, but not because I want it too. after 4 and a half years with my wife, and 4 and a half years of passive aggressive behavior from her over the subject; I have at times almost come to a place of utter distain and hatred at times, deep within my heart over the subject. Now, I pretty much have come to jerking off on the internet after shes gone to sleep. Thing that pisses me off the most is she loves the parts of the fetish where we shop for shoes, or give her foot rubs...But there are NO foot jobs what so ever, no foot play, sex is all about her and when/IF my turn comes around, she is just disengaged, watches tv etc etc...Like I could buy a pair of those fake feet or better yet, just jerk off on the internet because there is more intimacy/interaction in still pictures and foot vids than there are in my real life. It has even started to change me inside at times, I can still feel it strong, but when it comes to us...I BITCH royally when she asks me to rub her feet anymore, because I know shes over there, "I know youre just a disgusting fuck, but this feels good so ill let you do it". Or she shows me a pair of shoes she thinks I will jump for, and I know it serves no purpose other than for me to just buy the mother fuckers that she might wear one time, I never see again and STILL dont get SHIT for it other than aggravation....This feels good to get off my chest, I cant talk about this anywhere else or to anyone but FUCK, I had to say it. Ive been holding that in for atleast 2 years...Ive just recently hit my breaking point.
Posted by rburgundy1215 (Member # 34982) on :
KaunNarazu, I can relate. My GF was okay with my fetish when I told her about it, but it's been reduced to the point where now she wants footrubs, but will retract when it gets more intimate than kissing, and now I find myself at a point where I'm not into rubbing her feet as much as SHE wants, she pouts and says, "I thought you liked my feet." As much of a sweetie as she is, I'm starting to feel like the only one getting benefit out of this foot revelation is her :|
Complaining aside, the initial guilt I used to feel when browsing the net looking at other feet for my fix has subsided to a point I can now comfortably live with it, given the circumstances.
Posted by KaunNarazu (Member # 38786) on :
YES! Thank you...Im even so bold as to do it in the same room with her while shes sleeping. Im a Ninja like that. Cause heaven forbid she finds out that im doing it, then its, "wtf! thats so hurtful, blah blah". But a few months ago I caught her cheating with another dude (Like it hadnt gone to the point of sex, just on an emotional level, like, sending pictures "Oooh you look so hot" etc)
Fed me a bunch of shit that I dont look at her that way and she needed fulfillment in that area because it was something I wasnt giving her. Which is Bullshit, I always tell her those things, all be it less frequent, litteraly whorship the ground she walks on and she does THIS to me?! Cuss me out over me fulfilling MY need on the net because she wont have jack to do with it, but its ok to do it with another person for her? I wanted to hit the nearest fetish bar (sadly none are close at all) and lick/foot fuck every fem sole in the building.... No intercourse..just foot sex
Posted by LovelyLadies (Member # 5079) on :
I also like to add, and I'm not sure if it's just me, but because my girl hasn't yet become super open minded as I'd like her to be , whenever I get a chance to grab her feet or tickle them, it's extra nice for me because it's not the norm with her. So it's like, I'm able to get turned on by her now with her other assets, but when I can get just a little feet action from her, it's like, Woaa.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
quote:Originally posted by KaunNarazu: YES! Thank you...Im even so bold as to do it in the same room with her while shes sleeping. Im a Ninja like that. Cause heaven forbid she finds out that im doing it, then its, "wtf! thats so hurtful, blah blah". But a few months ago I caught her cheating with another dude (Like it hadnt gone to the point of sex, just on an emotional level, like, sending pictures "Oooh you look so hot" etc)
Fed me a bunch of shit that I dont look at her that way and she needed fulfillment in that area because it was something I wasnt giving her. Which is Bullshit, I always tell her those things, all be it less frequent, litteraly whorship the ground she walks on and she does THIS to me?! Cuss me out over me fulfilling MY need on the net because she wont have jack to do with it, but its ok to do it with another person for her? I wanted to hit the nearest fetish bar (sadly none are close at all) and lick/foot fuck every fem sole in the building.... No intercourse..just foot sex
It's sounding like a divorce might be on the horizon mate - why do stuff to hurt each other intentionally rather than just walk away?
Posted by strakka (Member # 25671) on :
Nice to see this topic has got some attention. For me personally, my foot fetish has kinda of evolved throughout the years. My tastes are extremely particular so I wouldn't say I'm as hardcore of a fetishist as some of you.
Currently, my new gf is so vehemently against foot fetishism and feet in general, that I haven't even told her about my fetish. I don't think I even will, I don't want things to become weird between us. For me it's okay though, because I would be lying if I said her feet are even a 6 or a 7 out of 10 for me. I don't know, they just don't turn me on like my ex's feet used to (which were practically the only good thing about my ex but that's a different story).
Like LovelyLadies said, I'm appreciating the other assets of women now, not just their feet as I did in the past. I still do use the internet to fulfill "those" needs of mine that I can't with my current gf, I just hope it won't disappear in time in the bedroom.
Posted by Hal (Member # 3484) on :
Same here....mine has evolved a lot in the last 20 years and is much more diverse than it used to be.
-Hal-
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
I think that I admire many qualities of my lady but her feet are included in that. I would have a hard time having to only express part of what makes me happy because she wouldn't like it just like there may be things that she doesn't like but I will do because she likes it. Once cheating comes into play, it is a long hard road to recovery and trusting again very very difficult. There is no excuse to cheat, excuses given are to justify what cheaters no to be worng behavior. When they say it hasn't led to sex yest, how can you really tell? it is obvious they will lie because cheating is betrayal. Emotional level is possible but unchecked will almost certainly lead to a physical encounter. very few people will admit to the physical piece of infidelity unless they are caught red handed. I would be inclined not to believe that someone who has committed emotional adultery has not crossed over. I feel bad that people would hold a passive aggressive scenario over their head like do this or I won't do that etc. it's sad persoanlly I care about myself to much to suffer that way when there are people who are willing to be open and engaged. If my lady stood and said that she would no longer involve herself with any foot realted activity to test me, then she would find that she made a mistake and that I would not stay. That of course is just me.
Posted by curly09 (Member # 33380) on :
I was seeing this chick,she was a stripper. So she would get to my place after work and love me rubbing her feet.That was fine to start off with but then she had a bottle smash on her big toe at work and lost her nail. It grossed me out big time!!! She was a cool chick but I had to cut it off, she still wanted foot rubs but I just could not do it I bailed on her a few times and have not seen her since. Other than that I still love my fetish and the kinky fucker I am.lol
Posted by zappa1968 (Member # 27279) on :
Yes it has happened to me, from the age of 17 to 28 I had no inclination towards feet in a sexual sense I didn't even think about them during sex, taking into account that before that time from the age of about seven and massively from the age of 11 I had a serious love of feet,after about 28 the love of female feet came back to a degree far in excess of what it was before. I have no idea why it happened but I'm glad My love of feet returned....they are art.
Posted by jamesdd (Member # 19270) on :
i've spent the last year or so with a girl who resented my fetish. i thought we might be able to work it out and we could get build up to something if i played it right, the sad story is i dont think it would ever happen. she was too self centred and stubborn to ever let it happen, she was never really into it and felt that it was offensive towards her needs and self confidence.
we broke up last week and im actually pretty happy about it because the last few months had become so un-barable, especially during sex where i would sometimes touch her feet for a few seconds if she let me or accidentally feel them brush past me. i wanted them so so so bad that i had to train myself to shut it out and deny myself of fantasizing about them, in hope she would notice i hadnt asked to touch them and i was in total self control. the truth was a was actually damaging a part of myself, i know that sounds extreme, but i was restricted and a part of me and my soul was being destroyed. the ins and outs of who's fault it was is neither here nor there. i discussed it big time here on wus and i'd made some past mistakes, but the bottom line is it would never work.
i now feel slightly uncomfortable about my fetish in the sense that im frightened to scare another girl off with it, but, never ever ever will i go through that again. my next girlfriend must be accepting of my fetish to a point. i went through so much mental strain that it is good to be free and sinlge and not have to worry again! im thinking about treating myself to a one off foot session with an escort soon to get that hunger back!
Posted by kingler (Member # 40920) on :
Not really. I kept my fetish a secret from my girlfriend for years.
Infact it's a pretty silly story.
We're educated people but we joked around saying "well if the LHC destroys the known universe then lets have a wild night". Since then I've been really open about it and she's also been very accommodating about it; taking better care of her feet etc. She loves her feet being played with so its all good.
So no it hasn't wavered but I did keep it secret for a long time.
Posted by jamesdd (Member # 19270) on :
thats pretty cool, i also kept it a secret most of my life. however getting into a situation where you have had a girlfriend let you at her feet and then take it away is a bit more difficult!
once youve had feet you'll never wanna go back lol
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
Heavens No!!! If anything, my fetish has grown that much stronger, over the years. All kidding aside, I'm actually worried that my fetish will eventually affect me negatively.
Posted by Weeka (Member # 3368) on :
I'd have to say it has definitely gotten stronger in some ways over the years. I've not yet felt the desire for feet weaken, other than for maybe a 3 day period at most. I'll turn to other types of porn or activities with the wife from time to time but the good ol' foot fetish always comes raging back in a big way.
Like some others have said, my fetish has evolved over the years. I see many more interesting and arousing aspects of feet these days, as well the female body in general. Funny how that happens. I think the internet has quite a bit to do with that. Always seeing new things to fantasize about and try out.
Posted by luvfemalefeet (Member # 33017) on :
mmh feet love girl with perfect toes 2 b cummed on lookin at a girl i know on facebook now and her feet mmmmmmmmmmh Posted by luvfemalefeet (Member # 33017) on :
lets b fair miss warren can massage my penis anytime with her polished toes Posted by luvfemalefeet (Member # 33017) on :
mmmmmmh pantyhose wankfest
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
quote:Originally posted by FootLongSub Zero: Yup, it wavers temporarily straight after I ejaculate
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: There are occasions when I'm more in the mood for feet but, then, I'm always in a mood for feet.
Same.
Posted by Five For Feet (Member # 33596) on :
Negative.
Posted by RJFoot (Member # 37988) on :
My foot fetish has never wavered. I believe it has evolved as I mature. I'm hoping to find the right girl to share it with.
Posted by eff (Member # 11277) on :
no its never wavered.
If i'm dating a girl that isnt into the foot fetish thing then i find other outlets but its never gone anywhere.
Posted by collegefeetarchive (Member # 3508) on :
Only when I realize I have a butt-load of video editing to do after being lazy for the past month!
Posted by ejc8708 (Member # 31433) on :
My foot fetish hasnt but my love for some what smelly feet kinda has me and this girl where walking on the beach one day and of course she is gonna take off her flats and idk kno why but it was one of the worst smells i have smelled but of course my love for smelly feet has came back cause ive been smelling some good feet since then Posted by jamesdd (Member # 19270) on :
my foot fetish has just recently started to waver now i come to think of it. but not only that but my sex drive in general!
ive not long been split up with my girlfriend and since then ive slept with 2 people. it was alright and im enjoying having some fun.
maybe because i spent such a long time craving my ex's feet who denied me them and now i know i should be able to get them again and im not having trouble pulling girls. or maybe it because ive been feeling pretty ill these last weeks with the colds and things going arond that im generally run down. not sure why but sex etc. and everything has become less exciting right now. but perhaps im just tired and in a few weeks ill start seeing someone and getting all horny again!
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
quote:Originally posted by strakka: As in has it ever gone away, or partially away for some reason? Perhaps by a girlfriend or wife who either was so against your fetish that it made you begin to stem away from it yourself or perhaps because they just had lower than average feet? Discuss
The desire to show my love for a woman by adoring her beautiful feet(aka foot fetish) has never vanished, but sometimes shares top billing with other fascinations. Women are lovable playgrounds from head to toe, after all. I do not believe rejection by a woman of a man's desire for her feet would lead him to reject his own desire. He would only outwardly avoid expression of his desires while searching for another outlet. A man's core romantic desires are forever, once established.
Posted by strakka (Member # 25671) on :
Nicely said markn. I agree with you, while it may be unfortunate if your woman doesn't reciprocate the same fascination for feet as you do, there are always other outlets.
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
quote:Originally posted by luvfemalefeet: ...lookin at a girl i know on facebook now and her feet mmmmmmmmmmh
Ooh!!! That reminds me...I also know a girl (on facebook) whose feet are--for lack of a better word--immaculate! I've actually tried flirting with her once, but she doesn't speak any English. Posted by combine_hunter (Member # 39526) on :
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That reminds me...I also know a girl (on facebook) whose feet are--for lack of a better word--immaculate! ![[Bow Down]](graemlins/bowdown2.gif)
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