Not in the literal term I guess, maybe sometimes, but...
I have maybe 8-10 girls that I rotate through every couple of months. I ask them if they would be nice enough to work all day in their oldest flats, pantyhose, etc. Then they come over after work, we have a "movie night" where I cook them dinner and we watch movies, not not before I spend a good hour or so just working on their feet. Just loving on them and smelling them.
All non models, just friends of mine that are into indulging my fetish. And imho, once you have that comfort level with a woman, she gets into it more, just because it feels good to her and she is comfortable and it's not everyday a guy wants to make a girl dinner, spend some quality time with her after servicing her feet that have been at work all day.
I love being single! And I think I am spiritually closer to them, just knowing my girlfriends by scent.
Anyone care to expand on your situations you have while your single? I know I am not the only one with a stable, lol. Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
...ok, maybe I am Posted by curly09 (Member # 33380) on :
I am single and love it! I have a few girlfriends at the moment,I spoil the ones I like and that does cost a bit.
I dont really cook much at home,I like to take chicks out for dinner and to see movies,all the girls I do see absolutely love me being at their feet,Most of the time it is just a sexual relationship and just fwb.
One of my close gf's loves to read,she will lie on the lounge after getting home from uni and let me sniff,lick,rub,kiss her feet for hours.My favourite part is she will make comments like "o I forgot you were down there." makes me want to cum instantly.
Being a young single guy in Australia is amazing.
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
Awesome! Glad I am not the only one curly, I was like ...really??? for a second.
Posted by kingler (Member # 40920) on :
quote:Originally posted by curly09: One of my close gf's loves to read,she will lie on the lounge after getting home from uni and let me sniff,lick,rub,kiss her feet for hours.My favourite part is she will make comments like "o I forgot you were down there." makes me want to cum instantly.
Being a young single guy in Australia is amazing.
Ha! My girlfriend is the same. She'll read a book or play video games whilst I play with her feet. She loves it when I pay attention to them, and it turns both of us on so win-win! But I'll be doing my thing and I'll stop, and (sometimes xD) fall asleep. Whenever she notices, usually 10 minutes later, she'll nudge me and tell me to carry on!
By the way - what does "Play for pay" mean? I've never heard that term before, part of me thought this was going to be a thread about prostituting ones partner.
Nah. I'm a one-girl guy. I like the intense feeling of togetherness and partnership you get in a 1:1 relationship, that saying of "your other half" sums it up perfectly for me.
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Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
Yeah totally Kingler, I hear you there. Relationships are preferred, but when single, I dunno, I tend to be very up front and women respect it, the whole gesture of laying it out there you know.
Play for pay, just what it sounds like, playing with someone and compensating them for their time by doing dinner for them, movie nights, or just giving them 50 bucks.
Imho, it's worth it for me, as I like to have them wear certain shoes, pantyhose or just going barefoot sometimes and wearing their shoes all day for me. It's just respectful to give them something for putting up with me. And they are all more than play buddies, they are my friends, confidants and just women that I genuinely dig breathing the same air as them.
I think to the women that allow us to indulge our fetish with them, that they endear themselves that much more to us. Fetishistic love if you will. They are special in our hearts. Like the girls we will never forget.
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
haha... its awesome to see 'foot pimpin' in effect! i havent been single when ive been as out about my fetish or have had as much experience with it as i have now... but my 'situation' before this girlfriend and the last one was quite simple.... paying and going to foot parties and being a 'helper' type doin a mistress's computer work for her and worshipping her feet in return. never on a level you guys are talking about!
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
They are all "pay for play" in one form or another.
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
Yes, about 18 years ago my then wife and with 4 girl friends. They costed me a lots of money for foot play and sex. The reason for 4 girl friend because the wife had stop acting like a wife. However, I am a recovering alcoholic and some how I knew I was going to be drunk again with four girl friends and a wife. And at that moment I realized it wasn't the alcohol only it was having a lots of women around for sex and foot play was the problem too. I divorce that wife and stop asocialation with the four girls friend and move to the West Coast and found a real wife who understand my desire for women feet. Now, she is okay with me playing with other women feet, taking pictures, giving other women pedicures, foot messages and she is okay with them coming to our home for foot play. The reason she said, "to take the attention off of her foot everyday." I am in heaven with my foot desire for women feet and now on the other hand. I just play with outside women feet with no sex and with videos and pictures of their feet I masturbate while sucking on my new wife feet while she is masturbating to the pleasure. I ever got pictures of her mother's feet that I masturbate too. In the past her mother's gave me a lots of foot cream, lotions, nail polish to me for me to have fun with her daugther feet. Today, I am working on getting a female bodybuilder feet I met for some foot play and so far since I moved to the west coast I only had to pay once.
Posted by kingler (Member # 40920) on :
quote:Originally posted by longhitter04: They are all "pay for play" in one form or another.
Not at all. When I first met my now fiancee we were penniless students, didn't buy each other gifts for a couple of years. Even now we have a 1:1 gift ratio thing going on, if she buys me something I'll get her something. It's less about treating, more about demonstrating how well we understand what each other wants. If that makes any sense .
But there are lots of materialistic people out there.
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
Kingler, I think your is a rare case though. For the most part, men and women are very moved by treats or money, imho
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by kingler:
quote:Originally posted by longhitter04: They are all "pay for play" in one form or another.
Not at all. When I first met my now fiancee we were penniless students, didn't buy each other gifts for a couple of years. Even now we have a 1:1 gift ratio thing going on, if she buys me something I'll get her something. It's less about treating, more about demonstrating how well we understand what each other wants. If that makes any sense .
Besides money, there are PLENTY of other ways to pay...
But there are lots of materialistic people out there.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by longhitter04:
quote:Originally posted by kingler:
quote:Originally posted by longhitter04: They are all "pay for play" in one form or another.
Not at all. When I first met my now fiancee we were penniless students, didn't buy each other gifts for a couple of years. Even now we have a 1:1 gift ratio thing going on, if she buys me something I'll get her something. It's less about treating, more about demonstrating how well we understand what each other wants. If that makes any sense .
But there are lots of materialistic people out there.
Besides money, there are PLENTY of other ways to pay...
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
A few years ago while living in Ohio I had 4 girl friends and a wife. That wife a little problem with my foot play is the reason I found those 4 girl frined in which cost me a lot of money. I divorce that wife and found a wife in Oregon who understood my love for women feet by telling her and her parents before I married her. However, while living in Oregon I had 5 girl friend who would let me play with their feet as a friend. Now, living in Nevada with that same wife from Oregon I haven't found any girl friend yet for foot play.
Posted by ReneeBlaine (Member # 42271) on :
I'm probably classified as "play for pay" by most- I love foot fetish, adore the guys I work with, and I'm particular about them- they have to be people I like being around. I get a lot of offers from people all across the country for foot time- and I turn a lot down.
Yeah, a lot of my foot guys (my foot bfs, lol) pay me in some way or another for my time, but it's always a matter of they're getting what they want- and usually a bit more- in return for compensating me for the time I take out of my schedule for them. But on the flip side- I don't pull the hooker mentality of "hour's up, gotta run." I talk to them, hang out, we have a friendship that doesn't end at my ankles. I talk to most of my main guys at least three times a week about all sorts of stuff. We FB and email, we hang out when I'm in town BEYOND our foot fetish sessions.
I wouldn't have sex with anyone I didn't like as a person. I feel the same way about my foot and sub sessions- I won't do them with people I don't like or who are rude, disrespectful, or treat me like a piece of meat. Money is a nice side bonus to this job for me- the connections with people are a lot more important.
ETA: I should specify that this applies to my private foot sessions. I get hired by a lot of producers, and many of them are a matter of come in, shoot, shake hands and leave.
Posted by ucflyeah (Member # 32674) on :
My goodness Renee. What an elaborate and adult way of viewing the whole "pay for play" thing. I absolutely love your outlook on things. Sometimes when I tell one of my buddies that I "see" girls and pay them (I don't tell them about my foot fetish) they think it's exactly like you said. "Time's up gotta go." It's so not like that. I chat on the phone and am friends with three of the girls I see. I've given them rides, listened to them cry about whatever, went out to eat, etc....
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