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Posted by somewittyfootfetishname (Member # 12292) on :

Any one ever have a bad encounter with trying to get some feet action?

I was watching a movie with my friends sister who had size 8 feet and had D cups and weighted about 120 pounds give or take and she was 19 at the time. She was hot.Well, when watching the movie she was barefoot the whole time and I asked her if she wanted a foot rub and she looked at me with disgust and said "NO! my feet stink too much" [Cry]

DENIED!

also, a friends mom used to make fun of me in front of my other friends after I offered to give her a foot massage and she was like "hell no", I was like 15 at the time. Yeah...not too smooth of me.

Posted by aka.footjoyboy (Member # 32751) on :

Nothing ventured, nothing gained; but you must keep in mind that a foot rub is a very intimate thing.

You sound young, you'll learn - just use common sense.

Posted by nj754 (Member # 43090) on :

I always envied guys that could just ask without placing an excess of importance on the outcome. I think you played it perfectly, but I would not press with this girl, unless your relationship gets more intimate in other ways. She either has some irrational issues with feet, or she considered it a come-on and wasn't interested.

Your friend's mom might have done you a favor by telling you no, as things could have gotten weird with a grown woman accepting foot massages from a 15 year old, unless she was the kind of person that was really nonchalant about touch. No one expects a 15-year-old to know these things, though.

I wish I had your ability to ask for what you want and let the chips fall where they may. As long as you can deal with some rejection, I think that approach will serve you well in the end.

Posted by FootBoi88 (Member # 43020) on :

Denied! Lol hey it has happened to all of us at some point, just walk it off and you'll be just fine. [Smile]

Posted by dbacks (Member # 26882) on :

At least you had the balls to ask man! it's their loss.

Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :

Yeah, I have been denied in situations before when asking a girl if she would like a foot massage. I have never made a big deal about it if she says no. Sometimes, I would follow up their response with something like, "Okay, cool. It's your loss though because I give a great massage." Sometimes, it wouldn't be enough to sway them. At other times though, it was enough and they would change their minds if their feet hurt too much from being in heels for a long time. Basically, it's all about reading the situation and then gauging what will be acceptable.

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

oh i have been denied many a times by many a hot women.

damn it sucked, but it further endorsed my worthlessness before her feet when she did not feel i was worthy, so in effect it made me quite the lowly foot worm, Hee Hee

Posted by nj754 (Member # 43090) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
oh i have been denied many a times by many a hot women.

damn it sucked, but it further endorsed my worthlessness before her feet when she did not feel i was worthy, so in effect it made me quite the lowly foot worm, Hee Hee

So you got a thrill from the femdom aspect of it? That's a win-win situation.

Posted by somewittyfootfetishname (Member # 12292) on :

hey guys, thanks for the encouragement and what not, but those stores that I posted about are examples from many years ago. I'm 27 now and married and had my fair share of foot experiences. I just wanted to hear other peoples stories too to share the awkwardness of being DENIED fett! : )

Posted by ffetish87 (Member # 41718) on :

Not yet..then again only asked 1 girl and she was in a committed relationship with me [Tongue]

That's it. I can't even bring myself to approach strangers..even though I don't know them the thought of rejection kills me...though I think once I've been rejected like 5 times it won't matter anymore and I'm bound to get lucky somewhere!

Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :

quote:
Originally posted by somewittyfootfetishname:
Any one ever have a bad encounter with trying to get some feet action?

I was watching a movie with my friends sister who had size 8 feet and had D cups and weighted about 120 pounds give or take and she was 19 at the time. She was hot.Well, when watching the movie she was barefoot the whole time and I asked her if she wanted a foot rub and she looked at me with disgust and said "NO! my feet stink too much" DENIED!

also, a friends mom used to make fun of me in front of my other friends after I offered to give her a foot massage and she was like "hell no", I was like 15 at the time. Yeah...not too smooth of me.

In the 2nd instance even though she's a mom..Sounds like she didn't have much if any class even if she looked appealing..(She did not have to make fun of you) [I don't care what anyone says] There is a graceful way to refuse a guy who offers footrub..

Posted by Fair Adam (Member # 13350) on :

I've had my share of rejections, but I've more than made up for it with some amazing feet for sure...

Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :

I'm sure at one point we all have been rejected. We all don't get to massage the feet of our dreams. I tend to avoid opening asking may I massage your feet? I lead into it to find out if a girl is interested in a foot massage.

Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :

Anyone here familiar with the famous quote?
"You'll always miss 100% of the shots you don't take." I don't remember who said it, but I know it's speakin' directly to me. Case in point--I can't really say I've been rejected, because I've never had the balls to ask on my own!
Unless I was attending a foot party, it didn't happen.

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

quote:
Originally posted by nj754:

quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
oh i have been denied many a times by many a hot women.

damn it sucked, but it further endorsed my worthlessness before her feet when she did not feel i was worthy, so in effect it made me quite the lowly foot worm, Hee Hee
So you got a thrill from the femdom aspect of it? That's a win-win situation.

indeed!

and it makes the tongue grow fonder [Drool]

Posted by reamow (Member # 37306) on :

yup been denied before. Girls are not in to feet the way we are. Hence, let them know that you are fond of, their, feet. If a chick has stinky/dirty feet she is even more likely to deny. The following might help:

1) Ply them with booze
2) (If you get that far) put a sexing on them and in the heat of the moment have your way w/their feet if you are doing it right the are likely to let their guard down.
3) Be patient and bide your time. If she says no the first time then stop. But if you continue to interact w/her try to "connect" (become more familiar) and wait for another opportunity.
4) if you have the courage offer a bargain. "I got these green backs take of them sling backs."

Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :

No. Not yet, at least.

Both of the girlfriends that I've told of my fetish let me do stuff with their feet.