Not really knowing who to turn to, ive decided to turn to my pals on Wus.
So im hooking up with this girl last night, ive known her for a while and because of the situation we're both in we have decided to hook up have sex etc...
Well we had sex for the first time together last night, and the good news is i was standing to attention ;-) for what was a big problem for me as you may have read from other posts.
We had sex, i finished up and that was that, then this morning i had the horrible memory of putting the condom on the wrong way then turning it round and putting it on the right way, not thinking anything of it, we were both pretty drunk.
Fuck, what an idiot. I have no idea if i had pre cum on it, it only happened for a split second, but i really don't know what to do, i really do not want a kid. She's not on the pill which has made me really worry. She also doesn't know this happened. Im just so stuck of what to do, i guess there is nothing i can do a part from wait and see if she has her period right? Everytime i think of it, i feel sick!
Has this happened to you guys before? I keep thinking, of all the people world that don't use a condom and keep wondering what my chances are.
Fuck, im really worried and really upset.
fuck.
Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
Dude, it's not like you fucked her, came, dunked the condom on both sides and fucked her again.....
I've banged chicks without a condom who weren't on the pill and never got pregnant. Stop worrying yourself to death.
Go out and play your numbers. I think you have a better chance of winning the lottery at this point.
Posted by warp (Member # 15496) on :
Thanks Scotty you have made feel a lot better, im just usually sooooo careful thats why im completely freaking out! But you have made feel better!
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
I am no friend of the cover, but let me just say that I think you're safe.
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
I'll go along with the others...I think you are in the free & clear.
I understand your paranoia about pre-cum...but unless you were um...really 'salvating' and super aroused before the condom flip-flop...I would doubt you would have had some early swimmers to be worried about.
Just pay attention within a months time if she has her 'cycle'!!!
Posted by stapler (Member # 42599) on :
haha happens to me all time time. seriously man if your so thick with swimmers that your pre cum touches the right side of a woman then maybe your supposed to have kids. I would take a step back, breath, and probably go have some fun with her again because chances are she is not gonna be preggos by you
Posted by warp (Member # 15496) on :
This is all really making me feel so much better about the situation, maybe because your all saying stuff i want to hear.
Like from one of my last posts, when im with a new girl, i really get in a rut and worry i wont get a boner and then that was that time when it happened and i felt so awful for not being aroused. Well it nearly happened last night but luckly i did stand to attention so im thinking (hoping) there was hardly any pre cum there because i was struggling to get aroused.
Deep, deep down i feel im gonna be alright and there is absolutely nothing gonna happen but i just keep getting myself paranoid and feeling ill from the thought!
I guess its just a waiting game now but i feel im gonna be miserable until i know!
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
If you didn't feel something different/holy shit moment until after you finished the universe probably saved you. Physiologically - sperm needs to travel up past the cervix - the cervix is there to weed out the weeds if you know what I mean.
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
It is what it is. Who knows? I'm hoping you're safe, but relax and try to stay calm. Give her a foot massage to add feet into this story!
Posted by warp (Member # 15496) on :
Elvzz, i don't follow you, sorry?!
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
If they concieved, spiritually, they'd feel love @ that moment or fuck what just happened in that moment. Not after the fact. After the fact is guilt, during is fear. Fear is the antithesis of love. Some thing there are 6 emotions, I think shame/revenge, etc are versions of Fear.
Physiologically, the cervix (some call it sperm motel) is a narrow opening that is meant to keep out foreign or unworthy sperm if you will. The sperm has to pass up thru there to get on deck to head to the fallopian tubes. So depending on the exact circumstances it may be more remote than likely. Not a doctor, but been an advocate for others as long as I can remember. Hope that I am making more sense these days.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
Precum doesn't have any sperm in it man - it's kind of a lubricant
You're good.
And even in the 1 in a million chance that ONE little swimmer made it through and did a job sometimes millions can't...most condoms are spermicidal, bruh.
Check the packet.
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
quote:Originally posted by Andy-Laa: Precum doesn't have any sperm in it man - it's kind of a lubricant
You're good.
And even in the 1 in a million chance that ONE little swimmer made it through and did a job sometimes millions can't...most condoms are spermicidal, bruh.
Check the packet.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
this has nothing to do with feet
Posted by warp (Member # 15496) on :
Im sorry Key Feet, i do understand this has nothing to do with feet, just needed to hear from my buddies at Wus
Andy Laa, is this true, if so you really have put me at ease! Thank you Posted by foot-devil (Member # 3807) on :
Warp,
Pre cum can carry small traces of Sperm, But what some people don't know is that some brands of condom's have an anti sperm solution in the condom lube, that when the sperm makes contact with the condom it kill's off the sperm. your safe!! but to turn the subject back to feet. did you get any foot action from this new found lover? does she have nice toes ?
Posted by warp (Member # 15496) on :
Even on the outside on the condom? Cool! i feel my chances are getting better and better!
Ok so back to feet, she has fucking amazing feet! They are tiny and so cute! she has no clue of my fetish but kept putting them in my face the other day jokingly! I kept my cool, but i was thinking this is awesome!
And today she was acting the same, someone said that her feet never smelt, so she put them on my nose and just looked at me, its true they didn't smell (unfortunately) but still pretty hot!
I just wanna take the time to thank all of you for your support, i feel you guys really have my back, it means a lot!
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
quote:Originally posted by foot-devil: Warp,
Pre cum can carry small traces of Sperm, But what some people don't know is that some brands of condom's have an anti sperm solution in the condom lube, that when the sperm makes contact with the condom it kill's off the sperm. your safe!!
I believe I covered that in my post
Warp: yes. It's only on the outside because it wouldn't matter on the inside... Just have a look at the packet for your own edification if you like.
And yes, I assure you it is lottery-winner territory in terms of odds of ANY sperm being in pre-ejaculate.
Posted by foot-devil (Member # 3807) on :
Andy, yes you did cover it but I was more making the point that the condom lube kills the sperm oh and it's on the inside and out side on most brands. Except flavored ones due to the human consumption act. It's one both sides in case of breakage where the brand could be liable.
Posted by baalfootish (Member # 33991) on :
Yea dude ur cool. Don't worry bout it. I used to bang my gf without condom and she wasn't on the pill, I just pulled out and we have no children
Posted by baalfootish (Member # 33991) on :
Yea dude ur cool. Don't worry bout it. I used to bang my gf without condom and she wasn't on the pill, I just pulled out and we have no children
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
quote:Originally posted by foot-devil: Andy, yes you did cover it but I was more making the point that the condom lube kills the sperm oh and it's on the inside and out side on most brands. Except flavored ones due to the human consumption act. It's one both sides in case of breakage where the brand could be liable.
Oh right - fair comment. I stand corrected Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: this has nothing to do with feet
Yes agree Keyfeet..The guy had and emergency!
Posted by warp (Member # 15496) on :
Again, thank you so much you guys, you have really put me at ease, the more i think about it the more i dont think i had any precum anyway, i think im good. I used 'Dots' condom, looked them up, appararently the lube does have spermicide on it, but if what Andy is saying is true and pre cum doesn't have any sperm or very little then i should be ok.
It guess its a learning curve! Please just let me say once again, thank you for all being so patient and understanding and hopefully you won't hear any further info from me with this particular situation! haha!
Thanks boys!
Posted by warp (Member # 15496) on :
Just thought i should update you guys.
It was getting real bad, almost 20 days late for her period, not looking good.
But finally her cycle started and all is well, im a relieved man and i don't think i would have kept my cool as good if it wasn't for you guys so thank you very much...
Now stay tuned for another thread while i try and get into her feet!
Posted by aka.footjoyboy (Member # 32751) on :
Posted by kingler (Member # 40920) on :
hah I've been there (well not exactly but close enough!)
Basically all you really need to know is that a woman isn't a sperm magnet who will get pregnant from the slightest glance of genetic material. There are certain days they can get pregnant on, couple that with a very very low chance of pre-cum containing sperm. You'll be okay.
But just don't make this mistake again!
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
hahaha...yer off the hook!
I remember one woman I was casually seeing...and I used a condom and after the deed was done and I pulled out...I didn't realize but the condom had split and I had gone full bore inside her.
Magically she didn't get pregnant!
I was sweating it for a month.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
quote:Originally posted by mjl1717:
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: this has nothing to do with feet
Yes agree Keyfeet..The guy had and emergency!
I understand. And I'm not the subject matter police. I'm just saying that there are just other forums in the off-topic section he could have posted it in.
I'm sure members would be just as willing to give him advice there
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
20 days late!? fuck man...that's ridiculous lol
Anyway, congrats on your not-baby I suppose? lol
Posted by baalfootish (Member # 33991) on :
Wow I hate to be the one to say this but it seems to me not a lot of dudes on this thread talk or know about the female business very well. YOUR woman can get a decent flow even if she's pregnant. And I don't mean spotting. Women might get a flow that is not an entire shedding of the lining of womb but still flow nonetheless. Tell her to check it out properly.
On the plus side, the pill is excess hormones for females and it isn't odd for a womans cycle to vary due to prolonged use of the pill or from forgetting or interupting the pill cycle. So if its the pill making it happen ur golden, cuz the pill is more effective than a condom.
Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
You can get preggers from pre cum but the odds aren't great
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