In order to save money (& avoid fast foods) I make an effort to 'brown-bag' my lunches, whenever possible. It's simply a win win! Anyway, as I made my way towards the break area, I saw something I should not have seen:
I caught a glimpse of my boss's feet!
An awkward moment, to say the least. Sure the moment has passed, and it only lasted a couple seconds. But a second is all it takes to notice a pair of wide, thick, meaty soles. A small part of me felt as if it happened in slow-motion. I've been replaying that moment in my head (like a TiVo remote) over and over again. To this very day, I'm still in awe!! All kidding aside, my supervisor is very attractive. Now that I've seen her feet, I dunno if I can look @ her with a straight face? I mean...She's THE BOSS! That can't be a good thing, or could it?
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
i cant help it. its in my nature to put it out there. why were her feet out? i woulda totally been a creep and either found a vantage point to watch more closely or i would have approached her with a comment about her feet.
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
LMAO ....I love the way u think!! I could never be that bold!
Why were her feet out? Technically, only her soles were exposed. Kinda like what u see in the library, or under a dinner table? Just innocent shoe play. If only I had a photo (or demo pic) to demonstrate.
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
oh i get it. office attire, presumably. bare feet in heels or sandals of some sort...?
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
and yeah, i realize that regular under the chair shoeplay doesnt leave a fair opening for a foot comment. BUT, i woulda totally found a way to stare at them longer.
i thought maybe her feet were blatantly out there... like she took her shoe off to check something while it was propped up on something. i cant resist chances like these to say something, ANYTHING, related to her feet so i can get closer.
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
That's awesome. From the sounds of it, it's like you've never seen her feet before. Depending on her personality that would determine if you should have done something. If she is a strict boss who loves power then I would do nothing. If she is laid back talkative with employees then I guess you could have complimented her pedicure or if her feet were out of her heels then you could have said resting the feet I see? Nothing like please let me suck your toes and I would never ever touch. Also when I joke around I say like good thing I don't have that problem (sore feet from wearing heels). I love when girls say my feet are so sore because then I can say you should get them massaged. I could never do it since it is a work environment but just the thought is quite a fantasy!
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
take it as a great one time moment. don't mess with it. just treasure it. i would!!!!! I have:D
if she was on break, making anything of it would feel like a violation of her personal space if i had to take a wild guess.
either way.... lucky you!
RPM
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
I work at a place called Reliance Electric and one of the payroll clerk have a pair of thick meaty wide soles. I was in love! However, I remember those meaty, wide thick wrinkled soles today as if it was yesterday. The year was 1975!
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Treasure the moment is right! It's at work...don't shit where you eat man. Especially with the boss! Maybe wait for staff party or that type of thing..ya know, out of office, to give a foot comment like that out. What happens if she takes offense...in this day and age man ya just don't know Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
I say be a tiger or lion, observe her from a safe distance and then strike up a conversation (not about feet) to break the ice. Feel the waters, maybe it can lead to better opportunities. trust me!
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
If you see her shoeless again, you might say--in a joking, friendly way--"Uncomfortable shoes?" That is, if you're bold enough to do that.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
What's the point in talking about her feet? To what end does that course of action lead? Minimal reward for max risk.
If you're attracted to her strike up a normal conversation with her. Ask her how she spent the weekend. Ask how she spends her free time. Crack some FUNNY jokes. If she likes something you like see if you guys can do it together. When it gets to the point where there is mutual attraction going on then you can talk about what you're attracted to including her feet and it will be well received.
Unless you guys are already flirting alot of the advise these other guys are giving will give you the creepy guy moniker in the office.
GQ
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
ditto
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: What's the point in talking about her feet? To what end does that course of action lead? Minimal reward for max risk.
Forgive me for asking, but do you honestly think we--as men--are expected to approach every attractive woman? I see pretty feet everyday. That doesn't necessarily mean I have a TO DO LIST! If there's no sexual conquest, am I wasting my time? I have no intentions of asking her out, nor complimenting her on her feet. She's my boss! For all intents and purposes, I simply wanted to share my thoughts.
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
I would say then just don't mix business with pleasure and continue to enjoy the view as your attraction to her feet will remain your secret.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by Weekend_Warrior:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: What's the point in talking about her feet? To what end does that course of action lead? Minimal reward for max risk.
Forgive me for asking, but do you honestly think we--as men--are expected to approach every attractive woman? I see pretty feet everyday. That doesn't necessarily mean I have a TO DO LIST! If there's no sexual conquest, am I wasting my time? I have no intentions of asking her out, nor complimenting her on her feet. She's my boss! For all intents and purposes, I simply wanted to share my thoughts.
Hmmmm. Yes!!! Just joking.
Men appreciate a man of action. Every man since adam will tell the story of how he saw a hot chic the other day. But the beautiful woman IS NOT the important part of the story...what every guy wants to hear is WHAT YOU DID. Hence why many of the guys substituted in their own way of handling the situation. "dude I would have done this" or " Dude you should have done that". In a way...the story has absolutely NOTHING to do with the pretty girl...but EVERYTHING to do with the character of the person telling it. We get to know the story teller better through it. We've all seen a super hot girl....but what is hot to you is not hot to me and vice versa...but the effect that the beauty has on us is the same and how we deal with that beauty is where the insight into one's being starts. That's the REAL story!
Some guys suggested ogling her. Others suggested complimenting her feet. Still others suggested asking if her feet hurt. I suggested actually engaging her...ignoring your object of desire as a means to obtain your object of desire. Each guy handles it differently! I'm sure if you told your boys about the hot girl you saw...one of them would say "Why didn't say hello?"....Then you could give your excuse. But you wouldn't fault the guy for asking that question. It's expected.
I'm a "go getter" "Type A" personality. I'm the guy in my group of friends that approaches the group of the hottest girls in the club(how I got my gf). I go after what I want. So this attitude is reflected in my posts. It's my opinion. I like to think that my attitude is very much steeped in reality. What I suggest to someone is something I've done, not make believe like some of my foot fetish peers. Of course it's not practical to approach every girl you see...but it's less practical to document inaction for every beautiful woman you see too.
There's always a time and a place... and a classy way to do things. I'd never advocate violating that rule.
GQ
<---- doesn't condone "To do list" as it applies to women. But love "To do list" for life goals.
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: I'm a "go getter" "Type A" personality. I'm the guy in my group of friends that approaches the group of the hottest girls in the club(how I got my gf). I go after what I want. So this attitude is reflected in my posts.
No harm, no foul. You come across as someone with "Type A" personality. Believe me, I admire that! Just needed 2 get that off my chest. Truth be told, I've spent most of my adult life pointing fingers & assuming blame--only to ask the question: "WHY?" when I should b asking myself: "Why not?"
So terrified of the unknown. (I wish there was a medical term for what I have) Then maybe i wouldn't feel so strange half the time. I've been called an introvert, pervert, and more recently, a hermit. Quite honestly, I feel my shyness is more of an excuse than anything else! You'd think @ this point--at age 40--I would've outgrown it by now. Not everyone has the capacity to say what they mean & mean what they say. Over the years, I think I've gotten better. Then again, I'm my own worst critic.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
There is a progression that you've found..Why--->Why not---->How---->When to stop
Why is she with him?
Why not me?
How do I get her?
When do I stop getting women.
Most guys get stuck at the "why". You'll hear it all the time...."he's a jerk but she's with him...why"
Some move on to the "why not me".....but so they approach women...get lucky sometimes...but never consistently.
Even fewer move on to "how do I get her" and stop there...unwilling to make the changes in one's life to become very attractive to women(not talking looks here)
And then some rare guys get to the point where women attracted to them are in abundance...and they have to ask themselves "when do I stop". This is interesting and tough...being able to attract women is like a drug.
I suggest you get "David Deangelo's" advanced series. You could probably get it for free somewhere online(hint hint). Amazing LIFE advice...not just about women. It'll help you answer the why, why not, how.....the when is up to you.
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A small part of me felt as if it happened in slow-motion. I've been replaying that moment in my head (like a TiVo remote) over and over again. To this very day, I'm still in awe!! All kidding aside, my supervisor is very attractive. Now that I've seen her feet, I dunno if I can look @ her with a straight face? I mean...She's THE BOSS! That can't be a good thing, or could it?
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....I love the way u think!! I could never be that bold!![[Smile]](smile.gif)
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I have no intentions of asking her out, nor complimenting her on her feet. She's my boss! For all intents and purposes, I simply wanted to share my thoughts. ![[Roll Eyes]](rolleyes.gif)
You come across as someone with "Type A" personality. Believe me, I admire that! Just needed 2 get that off my chest. Truth be told, I've spent most of my adult life pointing fingers & assuming blame--only to ask the question: "WHY?" when I should b asking myself: "Why not?"