I love complimenting women on their feet. It's something that as foot fetishist is not only a luxury to give...but sometimes a must for a woman's self esteem. But there are times IMHO(in my humble opinion) where guys need to be careful. Here's my take. Feel free to debate and disagree! But please give a reason so we can all learn.
We've all been there before(some are waiting but the time will come) where a woman who is attracted to you asks about your turn ons. You say "beautiful feet". If she's attracted to you she'll say "what do you think of mine"? At this point...you MUST compliment them so as not to upset her.
Attraction is key when it comes to complimenting feet. Curious if your compliment of her pedicure will sound weird...if she's hot for you she'll love it. If you're her type...she'll love it. Always deliver the compliment while giving her eye contact and a smile/grin/smirk ect. Why eye contact and smile? It sub communicates sexuality and women love a man that can state his sexual intentions without saying a word. Funny saying "nice hair" in this fashion really means "i'm going to hook up with you soon". Her giggle and "thanks, I never do it this way, i'm glad you like it!, maybe i'll do it again sometime" means "i'm down with that, maybe if you play your cards right". Note that the verbal convo has nothing to do with sex....but the subcomumnication is dripping with sexuality. When a woman is attracted, you can compliment anything and it's cool. The more she's attracted the more crude you can get. Of course you're a gentleman that knows what to say and when.
Compliment for a purpose! Think of her when you do it. How will it make her feel? A girl who has her hair done like she's on a red carpet most likely spent an hour getting it ready just moments before you see her. Her pedicure is a week old. Which is better to compliment if you're goal is to make her feel confident about her looks that night? Telling her that she's got pretty toes is nice....but it doesn't give her the same confidence boost that a compliment on her hair does. Pick a purpose...I want her to feel beautiful tonight, I want her to feel confident ect. In a room full of gorgeous girls saying she's as gorgeous as the rest of them but has the added dimension of being intelligent goes a long way. See? If she's got crazy shoes on...she wore them to impress! Go ahead and compliment those..."wow those are some fierce shoes, I'm impressed, you've got style". She spent 20 minutes figuring out what shoes to wear, spent $200 and her feet ache 1 hour into the night so she'll be the envy of every girl in the room. Acknowledge that effort but bring the compliment back to her.
I keep reading threads where guys compliment random women on their beautiful feet without knowing them...or knowing they are attracted to them. In this situation...you're more than likely going to be looped into weird guy than not. Why? Because one never thought how it would make her feel! If she's attracted to you...it'll make her feel good no doubt. But from someone she's not attracted to it could be a violation of her comfort...on a far lesser scale of the weirdo that grabs a strangers feet. Think Brad Pitt saying "you have pretty feet" and then think Danny De Vito dropping the same line. One compliment will make her blush and giggle. The other will have her watching her back as she walks to her car. Oddly enough if you do this you're not alone because girls I've dated or know will hit me up out of the blue telling me about some weird guy that said she had pretty feet....teasing me about how I have similar taste to the weird guy. Note that they didn't hit me up saying..."oh this nice gentleman complimented me on my feet"...no..it;s weird. Especially if they are familiar with foot fetish. It's not like 15 years ago where feet were completely unsexualized. Women know...especially if they are younger(my mom would appreciate the compliment, my sister would find it weird). Now if you bring the compliment back to her...it's nolonger weird. Like: "that's quite the pedicure you have there, you seem like the type that likes to take care of herself" "Nice pedicure, you're one of those high maintenance chics aren't you?"(jk) ect. See how that's different than saying " you have the most beautiful feet i've ever seen" to a stranger? See how she would wonder if the guy she reads about in the paper next week that molested some strangers feet could be you?
In conclusion I suggest complimenting women! Yes. But consider how you make them feel first. The more attracted she is to you the more you can compliment and the better she'll feel. If you don't know her...get to know her. Don't compliment random strangers on their feet unless you know they're attracted to you. And if you do, bring the compliment back to the woman.
GQ
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: The more attracted she is to you the more you can compliment and the better she'll feel. If you don't know her...get to know her. GQ
so i guess the whole "not talking to any girls, period!" thing i'm doing is working out, if i go by what you just read???
i used to compliment feet all the time when i was younger, which was a bad move.
now, i'm better off just not talking to a girl instead of talking to them and making them uncomfortable from the word "Hi"
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: The more attracted she is to you the more you can compliment and the better she'll feel. If you don't know her...get to know her. GQ
so i guess the whole "not talking to any girls, period!" thing i'm doing is working out, if i go by what you just read???
i used to compliment feet all the time when i was younger, which was a bad move.
now, i'm better off just not talking to a girl instead of talking to them and making them uncomfortable from the word "Hi"
Saying hi is the best pick up line invented!
I never said don't talk to girls. My advice is on how to go about it without looking like a creep. Especially when you throw your foot fetish into the mix. The number one thing to consider is "how does she feel". If you know how she feels and you care about making her feel good you'll never come across as creepy.
When a woman is attracted to you, you can get away by saying more things than you can if she isn't. It's no different than the boss of your company. If he likes you you can be more candid about things than if he doesn't know you. Getting to know a girl first can help with the attraction. But a guy cannot ignore attraction. A woman will not sleep with a guy she's not attracted to. If you aren't attractive in any way, figure out what your ideal woman is attracted to and be it. Some people say be yourself....well if your current self is lonely...fuck that. Don't be stagnant. Be your better self. Figure it out and improve.
I will always advocate talking to women...that's why we're on this planet(from an evolutionary standpoint). Do it whenever you can BUT learn from your mistakes each time. Know what works and what doesn't. As soon as you're able to think as a woman does and use that knowledge to be a man they need...you'll never be alone.
If you're going to poke holes in my analysis(which I welcome) come harder. Actually listen to what is being said. I didn't say anything about not talking to women.
GQ
Posted by ucflyeah (Member # 32674) on :
GQ you make great points, no doubt about it. And obviously you've read that pick-up artist book which has some great tips?
My only issue is that, I really don't have the energy, nor the care, to drip concern and compliments all over women just to MAYBE get a date. Or to maybe head in the right direction and get a chance to talk or develop some sort of friendship/sexual relationship. I WANT FEET. I don't want to date, dinner, movie, etc...It all just seems like too much work.
Yes, common sense would tell you to be observant and compliment a gal on almost anything but her feet (amazing to me how SOOO many women will get dolled-up from head to....knee. And totally disregard their feet & shoes).
I'm sure I'm the minority but you do pose an interesting topic and I'll be sure to check back to read others' philosophy on this discussion.
I'd like to ask if there are any other guys on here who just wanna kiss and smell pretty feet and could do without all the other stuff? Who don't even really need sex or kissing and just lust after pretty feet & shoes?
Or am I totally alone?
PS. If I could get a gal who looked like yours GQ maybe my outlook would be different but trust me, that will/and never would be the case...
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
An interesting, an I think accurate describe there GQ. The whole meeting people, small talk, complimenting, conversation sequence is a fascinating study in psychology. That's why books are written about it. I rarely compliment women other than my wife largely because I'm afraid that they'll think I have the wrong motive- even though I'm 53 year old professional person who's been married 30 years and doesn't have a "playas" bone in my body. But there's a young, blonde, 30 something mom who works with me who's quite attractive and very high maintenance- meaning she's always Barbie doll perfect: hair, makeup, manicured, pedicured, nice clothes and shoes. The other day she had on a tan colored outfit with tan sandals that complimented her blonde hair and tan skin to the point it made her glow. She looked fantastic. She's an administrative assistant in an office where there's only one way in and out. The first time I walked past her desk I said wow! (Under my breath). When I was leaving that office area I couldn't stop myself. I said "you look really nice in that color". She smiled and said "thank you!". I really was simply giving a sincere compliment. But I also would be lying if I said that she wasn't generating some huge sex appeal that day that made me want to "rotate her tires". Would be interesting to know how she took the compliment and whether anything else came through.
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: The more attracted she is to you the more you can compliment and the better she'll feel. If you don't know her...get to know her. GQ
so i guess the whole "not talking to any girls, period!" thing i'm doing is working out, if i go by what you just read???
i used to compliment feet all the time when i was younger, which was a bad move.
now, i'm better off just not talking to a girl instead of talking to them and making them uncomfortable from the word "Hi"
Saying hi is the best pick up line invented!
I never said don't talk to girls. My advice is on how to go about it without looking like a creep. Especially when you throw your foot fetish into the mix. The number one thing to consider is "how does she feel". If you know how she feels and you care about making her feel good you'll never come across as creepy.
When a woman is attracted to you, you can get away by saying more things than you can if she isn't. It's no different than the boss of your company. If he likes you you can be more candid about things than if he doesn't know you. Getting to know a girl first can help with the attraction. But a guy cannot ignore attraction. A woman will not sleep with a guy she's not attracted to. If you aren't attractive in any way, figure out what your ideal woman is attracted to and be it. Some people say be yourself....well if your current self is lonely...fuck that. Don't be stagnant. Be your better self. Figure it out and improve.
I will always advocate talking to women...that's why we're on this planet(from an evolutionary standpoint). Do it whenever you can BUT learn from your mistakes each time. Know what works and what doesn't. As soon as you're able to think as a woman does and use that knowledge to be a man they need...you'll never be alone.
If you're going to poke holes in my analysis(which I welcome) come harder. Actually listen to what is being said. I didn't say anything about not talking to women.
GQ
wasn't trying to poke holes, just giving my initiation remarks about reading it and thinking about it in terms as myself, i'm not the analyzing type, so i'm surprised you tried to find that angle in my chicken scratch
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
ucflyeah: You sir are not alone! Think about all the guys out there that would rather just get laid and skip the drama/dance that is flirting. I'm certain most guys if given the opportunity would rather "skip the pleasantry's and cut to the chase". But we are Homo Sapiens. I was watching a documentary the other day on human evolution and read a book on human psychology and was told in both our big brains are mainly meant to facilitate understanding each other's complexities. Other species just get laid(if you're the alpha)! Most...do not get laid. That's the advantage of being human....everyone gets a shot at getting laid. Long way to answer your question.....but you're in the norm bro! "You, feet, mouth, now" would work on women every guy here would do it!
Feetluvr: That sounds like a classy compliment. People tend to take compliments as they will though. If she sees you as a platonic figure it'll be seen as innocent. If she sees you as a sexy figure, she'll take it as gentle flirting. If she sees you as creepy man she'll take it as unwanted hitting on her. It depends more on her than it does on you. But knowing what she's thinking allows you to cater to her. All in all it was a pretty thoughtful compliment and it's very unlikely she took it any other way than positive.
GQ
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: The more attracted she is to you the more you can compliment and the better she'll feel. If you don't know her...get to know her. GQ
so i guess the whole "not talking to any girls, period!" thing i'm doing is working out, if i go by what you just read???
i used to compliment feet all the time when i was younger, which was a bad move.
now, i'm better off just not talking to a girl instead of talking to them and making them uncomfortable from the word "Hi"
Saying hi is the best pick up line invented!
I never said don't talk to girls. My advice is on how to go about it without looking like a creep. Especially when you throw your foot fetish into the mix. The number one thing to consider is "how does she feel". If you know how she feels and you care about making her feel good you'll never come across as creepy.
When a woman is attracted to you, you can get away by saying more things than you can if she isn't. It's no different than the boss of your company. If he likes you you can be more candid about things than if he doesn't know you. Getting to know a girl first can help with the attraction. But a guy cannot ignore attraction. A woman will not sleep with a guy she's not attracted to. If you aren't attractive in any way, figure out what your ideal woman is attracted to and be it. Some people say be yourself....well if your current self is lonely...fuck that. Don't be stagnant. Be your better self. Figure it out and improve.
I will always advocate talking to women...that's why we're on this planet(from an evolutionary standpoint). Do it whenever you can BUT learn from your mistakes each time. Know what works and what doesn't. As soon as you're able to think as a woman does and use that knowledge to be a man they need...you'll never be alone.
If you're going to poke holes in my analysis(which I welcome) come harder. Actually listen to what is being said. I didn't say anything about not talking to women.
GQ
wasn't trying to poke holes, just giving my initiation remarks about reading it and thinking about it in terms as myself, i'm not the analyzing type, so i'm surprised you tried to find that angle in my chicken scratch
I welcome holes. I'm still understanding this stuff too. Good debate will strengthen our collective understanding of how to get women(feet). Just felt that you took what I was saying and twisted it knowing that your question wasn't what I intended or meant.
Analyzing though is important. I wasn't good with women as a kid. The girls i've been dating the last 9 years...I wouldn't have dreamed of growing up. Some guys have the gift of getting women naturally. Some guys like us have to think about it. After a while it becomes 2nd nature...but just like any skill in the beginning it's a painstaking process. I suggest you torrent david deangelo's dating stuff. You're not alone....but you must use your brain.
GQ
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
In short, never let the cat (ie. the drooling version of your foot fetish) out of the bag too quick.
Keep it in check, keep things cool with the girl and you will be getting feet if you play your cards right.
For many guys, it's a matter of knowing how and when to reveal his personal "adoration", "preference", or "mental condition" for women's feet. Each guy out there should find an approach that best accompanies his personal style.
When looking for that individual approach, my suggestion is to never let the cat out of the bag too quick. And if your "cat" happens to be a wide-eyed sniffing and licking pervo, then you have to find a way to let it out in smaller increments.
Find a style that works best based on your level of foot fetish needs. For most of the red blooded guys in these forums, I think it will require a major toning down (or downplaying) of their feet adorations. Others can probably just be outright confident and honest and for those men, it is perfectly okay to compliment a stranger as if they have nothing to lose. That is the ideal stance by which to convey one's foot-related compliments IMO.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
woah, way too much text
Posted by hyperion2424 (Member # 39397) on :
^ Oh, good grief. ^
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: The more attracted she is to you the more you can compliment and the better she'll feel. If you don't know her...get to know her. GQ
so i guess the whole "not talking to any girls, period!" thing i'm doing is working out, if i go by what you just read???
i used to compliment feet all the time when i was younger, which was a bad move.
now, i'm better off just not talking to a girl instead of talking to them and making them uncomfortable from the word "Hi"
Saying hi is the best pick up line invented!
I never said don't talk to girls. My advice is on how to go about it without looking like a creep. Especially when you throw your foot fetish into the mix. The number one thing to consider is "how does she feel". If you know how she feels and you care about making her feel good you'll never come across as creepy.
When a woman is attracted to you, you can get away by saying more things than you can if she isn't. It's no different than the boss of your company. If he likes you you can be more candid about things than if he doesn't know you. Getting to know a girl first can help with the attraction. But a guy cannot ignore attraction. A woman will not sleep with a guy she's not attracted to. If you aren't attractive in any way, figure out what your ideal woman is attracted to and be it. Some people say be yourself....well if your current self is lonely...fuck that. Don't be stagnant. Be your better self. Figure it out and improve.
I will always advocate talking to women...that's why we're on this planet(from an evolutionary standpoint). Do it whenever you can BUT learn from your mistakes each time. Know what works and what doesn't. As soon as you're able to think as a woman does and use that knowledge to be a man they need...you'll never be alone.
If you're going to poke holes in my analysis(which I welcome) come harder. Actually listen to what is being said. I didn't say anything about not talking to women.
GQ
wasn't trying to poke holes, just giving my initiation remarks about reading it and thinking about it in terms as myself, i'm not the analyzing type, so i'm surprised you tried to find that angle in my chicken scratch
I welcome holes. I'm still understanding this stuff too. Good debate will strengthen our collective understanding of how to get women(feet). Just felt that you took what I was saying and twisted it knowing that your question wasn't what I intended or meant.
Analyzing though is important. I wasn't good with women as a kid. The girls i've been dating the last 9 years...I wouldn't have dreamed of growing up. Some guys have the gift of getting women naturally. Some guys like us have to think about it. After a while it becomes 2nd nature...but just like any skill in the beginning it's a painstaking process. I suggest you torrent david deangelo's dating stuff. You're not alone....but you must use your brain.
GQ
and i was just using your brad pitt/danny devito line as a reference for what i said. if she gets freaked out at the "devito" for giving the exact same compliment that the "pitt" gave, she'd probably get just as freaked out if he said "Hi" or any old conversation starter.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: The more attracted she is to you the more you can compliment and the better she'll feel. If you don't know her...get to know her. GQ
so i guess the whole "not talking to any girls, period!" thing i'm doing is working out, if i go by what you just read???
i used to compliment feet all the time when i was younger, which was a bad move.
now, i'm better off just not talking to a girl instead of talking to them and making them uncomfortable from the word "Hi"
Saying hi is the best pick up line invented!
I never said don't talk to girls. My advice is on how to go about it without looking like a creep. Especially when you throw your foot fetish into the mix. The number one thing to consider is "how does she feel". If you know how she feels and you care about making her feel good you'll never come across as creepy.
When a woman is attracted to you, you can get away by saying more things than you can if she isn't. It's no different than the boss of your company. If he likes you you can be more candid about things than if he doesn't know you. Getting to know a girl first can help with the attraction. But a guy cannot ignore attraction. A woman will not sleep with a guy she's not attracted to. If you aren't attractive in any way, figure out what your ideal woman is attracted to and be it. Some people say be yourself....well if your current self is lonely...fuck that. Don't be stagnant. Be your better self. Figure it out and improve.
I will always advocate talking to women...that's why we're on this planet(from an evolutionary standpoint). Do it whenever you can BUT learn from your mistakes each time. Know what works and what doesn't. As soon as you're able to think as a woman does and use that knowledge to be a man they need...you'll never be alone.
If you're going to poke holes in my analysis(which I welcome) come harder. Actually listen to what is being said. I didn't say anything about not talking to women.
GQ
wasn't trying to poke holes, just giving my initiation remarks about reading it and thinking about it in terms as myself, i'm not the analyzing type, so i'm surprised you tried to find that angle in my chicken scratch
I welcome holes. I'm still understanding this stuff too. Good debate will strengthen our collective understanding of how to get women(feet). Just felt that you took what I was saying and twisted it knowing that your question wasn't what I intended or meant.
Analyzing though is important. I wasn't good with women as a kid. The girls i've been dating the last 9 years...I wouldn't have dreamed of growing up. Some guys have the gift of getting women naturally. Some guys like us have to think about it. After a while it becomes 2nd nature...but just like any skill in the beginning it's a painstaking process. I suggest you torrent david deangelo's dating stuff. You're not alone....but you must use your brain.
GQ
and i was just using your brad pitt/danny devito line as a reference for what i said. if she gets freaked out at the "devito" for giving the exact same compliment that the "pitt" gave, she'd probably get just as freaked out if he said "Hi" or any old conversation starter.
I said that, in the context of how a foot compliment given to a random stranger would be received differently based on physical appearance alone. Mind you that there are many things that can attract a woman to a guy, but if you're talking to a stranger her attraction is only based on looks. All things being equal, will a hello from Danny Devito be received as well as Brad Pitt....most likely not. Every woman is different though. I'm no Brad Pitt...more Tyson Beckford...A good looking guy...and my hello could be met with a woman clutching her purse while a hello from Danny Devito could be received positively . You never know. But odds are if you're respectful and cool you'll have no problem in most situations.
But no...saying "nice feet" and "hi" are nowhere in the same ballpark. Saying "nice feet" to a stranger is weird....sorry guys. Some guys can pull it off...but it ain't easy to leave with your respect. Saying "hi" is friendly behavior. My number one "pick up line" is "hey" with a smile and eye contact.
Good question.
GQ
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Hahahaha!
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by Spotlight: Hahahaha. I get it. If youre an ugly broke MF, ya better be eliquent. LOL
guess i'm fucked then Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
I find just being real works. If you act like a creep and tell a girl, "Oh my god, I think you have really cute feet." she might just think you a little strange. I think a MAJOR problem many of us have that will actually say something to a girl is that we act like the girl stops at her ankles. You have to wow the entire girl, or at least make her feel comfortable. I also think we WAY over think our fetish and scare our own selves over it.
Patrick
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
These are great points. GQ, if you don't mind me saying, with no disrespect, you kind of remind me of a Hitch.
In the past I have complimented a girl on her pedicure, as she took off her flip flops and had her feet rested on a chair. It was the first thing I said to start conversation. We had a great vibe, talked for a while, exchanged numbers, but she never called me or replied to my texts/calls. I think it was a case of she didn't want to let me down, gave me the number, but then dealt with it by not calling. A lot of girls tell me they have done this to not let a guy down right on the spot. I would have preferred honesty.
For the most part I don't really open conversation with the pretty feet, but since she had hers up, I felt it was a different situation. Maybe if I had a few drinks I would and even still wouldn't.
These are great tips, aside from having a foot fetish, even the relationship aspect. I tend to be laid back, shy type, as I'm told I'm very good looking. I guess I gotta get out more.
[ August 27, 2011, 02:15 PM: Message edited by: octoberbaseball ]
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Hahaha. Hitch! That's a compliment I'll take. Certainly started out like him. Nerdy physics major hooks up with hit party girl and gets burned. Nerdy kid invest lots of time changing his style and how he sees the world becoming very successful with women. Even having that first girl saying she wants to drop everything to marry me. While women come easy to me now I still haven't forgotten my roots and wish to help others while still learning more. So yeah....hitch is pretty appropriate.
GQ
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by Spotlight: Hahahaha. I get it. If youre an ugly broke MF, ya better be eliquent. LOL
guess i'm fucked then
For every guy that is unsuccessful with women and then became successful with women they had to make a change. I can't remember the quote by Einstein but "doing the same thing everytime and expecting different results is insanity". You have to be willing to change and put effort into this area of your life if you want to improve.
Some of the guys on this thread say "don't over think it" because I have! I've spent money and countless hours trying to figure out how to improve my dating situation and it's worked. Some it comes naturally but guys like me, it might as well be a physics problem or a design project. But you must put forth the effort that is needed to make improvements.
There's nothing I can say to you to make you want to improve. It's on you bro.
GQ
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
That was a very well written post, GQguy. I am not sure women regularly read in the news about weird guys grabbing women's feet, but I suspect that when uncomfortable they can imagine such an assault possible, which is counter-romantic indeed.
Posted by hyperion2424 (Member # 39397) on :
Time to apply the GQ-uotient:
GQ = (integral from 0-10) (y/e^x)a/M
where y=hotness coefficient of the feet x=your age e=the number, e (2.7818, etc) a=number of times girl/girls accept your moves M=number of moves you put out there (note that this is not the number of girls) Integrate from 0-10 because that's the number of toes a girl can have. If she has 11 toes, then you may be in the South and you have to use imaginary numbers and shit. -hyp
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Good topic GQ...
I think a good way to break the ice is to see how the woman feels as you say.. But I think buffering the initial comment with something like. "Please don't take this the wrong way" or "Miss I have to tell you this" or "I must tell you this with neutral objectivity"..I find this buffering can go a long way!
**"It shows that you take exceptional care of your feet"
But one must be able to get some kind of opening instead of just saying it out of the clear blue sky. If she is receptive you can go slightly further.If she is not receptive you stop..
Just my opinion..
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
I have never had a problem. I am pretty smooth with my words and my energy. I won't let it come off as creepy or perverted. I have found that ladies are paying more attention to their feet and they seem to appreciate when I notice that they have nice feet. Granted, I am a nice looking guy with a nice body, Swagger and I make Good Money ...I'm not tooting my own horn but, MAYBE I WOULDN'T GET THE SAME RESULTS IF I WERE FAT, SHORT, BROKE AND UGLY and no sense of style...I also find that women who find out that I like feet, want to show me their feet alot (unless they have ugly feet)...Now as for what I like to do with those cute feet, I EASE THEM INTO THAT PART with at least 4-5 sessions..LOL...
[ August 28, 2011, 04:55 PM: Message edited by: DeTrOiT ]
Posted by Libertine (Member # 35475) on :
Totally agree.
If you're trying to attract someone, they want you to notice what they've made an effort with. I like tits as well but I don't compliment a woman's rack as my opening line.
I'd compliment her feet in the same way I'd compliment her body, with sexual undertones so that it creates a sexual atmosphere and moves things along. I don't want "Oh, thanks" as a response because it isn't a platonic thing like it would be if I said she had nice elbows. (Just an example of something not inherently sexual as feet are often considered).
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
Oh yeah...It's all about energy...Here are a couple of NO NO'S THO... #1...If you're trying to engage in convo...Never mention the feet first...Act like you noticed them after the convo. starts...
#2...Act pleasantly surprised by her "Cute Feet"..."Cute" is a good word...IT DOESN'T SOUND CREEPY...It throws a "friendly" overtone on the statement...It may not be time to be "Sexual" in the convo...
#3...Make eye contact with her when you say it...AND ONLY LOOK AT HER FEET AFTER SHE LOOKS AT THEM...Especially if she displays them (sticks one out, slightly bend over and looks at them) Give her a 2 second delay before you look down...Sometimes they look right back up and you don't wanna get caught looking yet..
#4....DON'T STARE, DON'T KEEP TALKING ABOUT HER FEET (Unless she wants to keep talking about her feet)
#5...Make sure to elude to the fact that nice feet say a lot about a woman...How she keeps her feet reflect other possible positive attributes...
#6...Never get into HOW MUCH YOU LIKE FEET or what you like to do with feet...Now is not the time for that..Any slip up can turn this situation CREEPY...
#7....Make sure that she is a lady who likes her feet or shoes...Her feet should be well taken care of...This way YOU KNOW THAT SHE CARES ABOUT HER FEET...You're telling her that you noticed them because of her up keep...
...Most of all "Be Cool and easy going"...It's all about self confidence bordering on arrogance...Not Being an Asshole will help too...AND PLEASE DON'T give off the energy that "I wish I had my penis in my hand" pervert VIBE...YOU'RE DONE...
I know that there are all types of women but, as long as SHE DOESNT HATE FEET...This is what I've always done...
Some Footguys get in their own way by OVER THINKING about their desires for Sexy feet...
[ August 28, 2011, 05:11 PM: Message edited by: DeTrOiT ]
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
quote:Originally posted by Spotlight: Ummm, I think I just bent some of those rules about an hour ago. I told some lady in a Gas Station that if we ever got married, I'd wake up every morning plotting how to lurk toward the bottom of the bed to kiss he beautiful toes! She cracked the fuck up. I was with 3 friends, 2 of which were girls when I did it. If I see her again, and she aint married, you'll probably see 10 or 12 pics of her feet on here!
LOL That was funny as hell and I guarantee that she would've gave you some pussy & feet after that.
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
quote:Originally posted by Spotlight: Ummm, I think I just bent some of those rules about an hour ago. I told some lady in a Gas Station that if we ever got married, I'd wake up every morning plotting how to lurk toward the bottom of the bed to kiss her beautiful toes! She cracked the fuck up. I was with 3 friends, 2 of which were girls when I did it. If I see her again, and she aint married, you'll probably see 10 or 12 pics of her feet on here!
Funny as HELL!...Hey its energy Bro..You were confident when you said it...SHE BOUGHT IT...Just make sure you catch back up with her...WE WANNA SEE THOSE FEET!...lol
Great thread GQ...I haven't been posting much but I always chime in to see what's going on..
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Hahaha. Hitch! That's a compliment I'll take. Certainly started out like him. Nerdy physics major hooks up with hit party girl and gets burned. Nerdy kid invest lots of time changing his style and how he sees the world becoming very successful with women. Even having that first girl saying she wants to drop everything to marry me. While women come easy to me now I still haven't forgotten my roots and wish to help others while still learning more. So yeah....hitch is pretty appropriate.
GQ
And I am happy to learn from you, lol. Great stuff, thanks.
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
GQ -
It's all true everything you said..but especially if she likes you!! That's the big one...you can pretty much almost say anything if she's into you...and you don't have to be the best looking guy, that's all myth. Some of my boys are pretty average looking and they MOP UP when it comes to chicks. Why? Because they got gaaaammmmmeeee!! You need to have game!! Your looks can only get you so far. Sorta like your resume can only get you the interview and not land the actual job itself?
But you also have to remember...there's a lot of other things that go into it as well...such as do you, the guy, like her? what are you looking for? Do you care if you tell her and she blows you off? Do you care how she'll be receptive to it? If she's not receptive to it? Do you care if she tries to make you look like a weirdo? Do you care in general?
I've told some girls within the first ten minutes of meeting them that I am into feet...then there have been others where I might of waited until the third or fourth date because (I liked them) and I was trying to feel them out first and test the waters...(those are usually the ones that led to big disappointment BTW)
But also I've had girls ask me flat out are there any deal breakers for me when it comes to dating or what are some things that turn me on physically about women, and I will not hesitate to say "I will not date a girl that has bad feet!"
You'd be surprised by how many girls then proceed to show me their feet!...it works...
But no man, I never feel weird about it. The way I position the whole thing is, make her feel like she's lucky to be talking to you! And honey baby, if I tell you you better have good feet or else I'm ghost, I mean just that! Your feet better be gooooood are else I'm out quicker than AJ Burnett after giving up 7 runs in the second inning!
What bothers me too is, some guys on this board seem to be so concerned about what girls will think if they tell them they like feet...which is shocking to me!!
I live in a town where it's a very young crowd, very competitive crowd, a lot of good looking girls, with steady jobs, successful, etc. and you wouldn't believe how much SHIT they talk about guys...guys get raged on for every fucking little thing ranging from "oh my God look at his shorts he looks like a tool" to "look at his hair he looks aweful". I see it alllllllll the time. I've heard it all the time!
Guys just remember...the same girl you are trying to act nice to and all civil to (I'm so hesitant to tell her about my fetish, oh God what do I do!) is the same girl that's going to go back to her roommate and completely bash you to bits.
FUCK HER!! SHE'S LUCKY SHE'S TALKING TO YOU!
Posted by feetplease (Member # 36371) on :
Ok, so I agree with most of what you said GQguy although maybe its just me but I don't understand this need of people to compliment women's feet.
Its just like you said about the complimenting her feet when the pedicure is a week old but she spent an hour doing her hair. You can usually tell what a woman would love to get compliments on so I just go from there. I only compliment feet when she has a pedicure or shoes that are screaming for attention. Otherwise I compliment w/e it is that she seems to have put a lot of thought into. Compliments are about timing and opportunity IMHO so looking for a way to compliment her feet when its obvious that she spent way more time thinking about the shirt is useless if you ask me. People spend too much time thinking about how to compliment feet when its another compliment altogether that will usually get you to where you can have your way with them.
The other time I'll compliment a woman's feet is in bed and that's once she's already turned on like hell. I've found if you take care of her she'll take care of you even if its just a one night stand, unless she can't stand anyone touching her feet which has only happened to me twice. If you don't objectify feet it shouldn't be hard to get women to have your way with theirs but taking care of them first is usually the most effective way for them to be like w/e instead of "eww you freak" even if they're not into it.
Just my 2 cents
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I'm REALLY liking where this thread is going! Good advice everyone!
Great stuff feetplease. I agree! Nice elbows! Huh? Weird huh.
GQ
Posted by JustJoe (Member # 9641) on :
quote:Originally posted by Spotlight: Ummm, I think I just bent some of those rules about an hour ago. I told some lady in a Gas Station that if we ever got married, I'd wake up every morning plotting how to lurk toward the bottom of the bed to kiss her beautiful toes! She cracked the fuck up. I was with 3 friends, 2 of which were girls when I did it. If I see her again, and she aint married, you'll probably see 10 or 12 pics of her feet on here!
Honestly, you are so on target on how to approach women. It really comes down to first impressions and appearance. I break every rule there is and somehow I get either numbers or they want to model their feet. Some of my best models have been gotten by being blunt and upfront.
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