Guys who know what they like and are NOT afraid to admit it-- these guys are the hottest. I say this because a lot of guys on the forum are nervous/anxious/afraid to admit their fetish to their girlfriend/friend/stranger. If you're having trouble with it, remember this:
1. Girls LOVE to get compliments. The fact that you noticed that she painted her nails? Impressive. The fact that you LIKE the color she picked? Even better. Don't ever be afraid to compliment a girl. It's an inherently nice thing and she'll appreciate it nine times out of ten. I imagine that if I was walking down the street and a guy complimented my feet, I'd be incredibly flattered. It's not every day that a guy points out such a small detail. (Imagine if a girl on the street complimented something you take care of-- beard, clothes-- how good would that feel?).
2. Girls LOVE to get foot massages. I know SOME girls absolutely detest their feet-- that's their problem. There are way more girls who would die for a relaxing foot massage. And I can tell you from experience: guys with a foot fetish give the BEST foot rubs.. something having to do with attention to detail . A complete stranger may not want a foot massage, but there's no good reason a girlfriend or friend will turn you down (unless she hates her feet-- her major loss). I think the key is to start off slow: gently rub her feet while she's distracted (watching TV, playing a game). Before she knows it, she'll be dying for your foot rubs.
3. Guys with confidence are sexy. If you admit to having a preference for feet, OWN it. If you act like your preference is as natural as breathing then it will be. Feet ARE sexy. They have beautiful curves. They have been decorated and painted for thousands of years. They smell great. There's a million good reasons why feet are sexy-- keeping them in mind will make it easier to make your preference known.
Sorry this was so long! Any confident guys out there have advice for the nervous crowd?
Posted by larrrr (Member # 42092) on :
Why aren't there more like you out there Lix?
Posted by toeringguy (Member # 32356) on :
i agree completely with you lix, more girls should be like you
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lix Vixen: If you admit to having a preference for feet, OWN it. If you act like your preference is as natural as breathing then it will be.
to me, i see no other way!
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Great words LV! Words that I would definitely heed if I were ever back in the dating world. I wasted plenty of good "foot time" with the girl I dated all through high school and 20 some years of married life with my wife before I divulged my fetish. One of my deepest regrets. So as she says- go for it guys!
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
Way too long for me.
But yeah, I'm confident. but not to get girls. I'm confident bc I will talk with someone about something that I know I'm right about. bc I know if the other person Wikipedia'd it, I'd be right.
and I don't try to act confident in front of girls bc I don't care what girls think. I'm not trying to impress them. THEY GOTTA IMPRESS ME! I am the deciding factor, not them. and that is true confidence.
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
Every post that this sorta thing is brought up, I always say, "Your fetish is as weird as you make it." Act like it is out there and creepy, then most likely, so will the girl. Some won't like it, but if we all liked the same stuff, then we'd all be ass and boob men instead.
Patrick
Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
My girlfriend is starting to come around now. I finnaly just came out and told her and just as I feared she was like"yuck" After that remark I felt so much like a freak I wonderd if I should just open the car door while moving at 60 mph and roll out.
But then The other day she sent me pictures of her feet after having her nails done. And she have them painted red my Favorite color.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
THANK YOU 'Lix' , your advice has just made my day, seriously Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lix Vixen: Sorry this was so long! Any confident guys out there have advice for the nervous crowd?
For the nervous crowd?.... When you catch a guy takin' glimses at your feet, please give him a foot show. That's all I've got at the mo, hopefully more to follow...
Posted by jamesdean54 (Member # 42844) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lix Vixen: Guys who know what they like and are NOT afraid to admit it-- these guys are the hottest. I say this because a lot of guys on the forum are nervous/anxious/afraid to admit their fetish to their girlfriend/friend/stranger. If you're having trouble with it, remember this:
1. Girls LOVE to get compliments. The fact that you noticed that she painted her nails? Impressive. The fact that you LIKE the color she picked? Even better. Don't ever be afraid to compliment a girl. It's an inherently nice thing and she'll appreciate it nine times out of ten. I imagine that if I was walking down the street and a guy complimented my feet, I'd be incredibly flattered. It's not every day that a guy points out such a small detail. (Imagine if a girl on the street complimented something you take care of-- beard, clothes-- how good would that feel?).
2. Girls LOVE to get foot massages. I know SOME girls absolutely detest their feet-- that's their problem. There are way more girls who would die for a relaxing foot massage. And I can tell you from experience: guys with a foot fetish give the BEST foot rubs.. something having to do with attention to detail . A complete stranger may not want a foot massage, but there's no good reason a girlfriend or friend will turn you down (unless she hates her feet-- her major loss). I think the key is to start off slow: gently rub her feet while she's distracted (watching TV, playing a game). Before she knows it, she'll be dying for your foot rubs.
3. Guys with confidence are sexy. If you admit to having a preference for feet, OWN it. If you act like your preference is as natural as breathing then it will be. Feet ARE sexy. They have beautiful curves. They have been decorated and painted for thousands of years. They smell great. There's a million good reasons why feet are sexy-- keeping them in mind will make it easier to make your preference known.
Sorry this was so long! Any confident guys out there have advice for the nervous crowd?
Great post! And hope it helps others and dang it's the truth and nothing to add you summed it up. Okay one thing confidence works wonders in every aspec we do in life. Thanks for taking the time to share your input Vixen
Posted by RJFoot (Member # 37988) on :
Briliant post, great advice!
Posted by hyperion2424 (Member # 39397) on :
Any advice I have would sound like yours, Ms. Vixen, but probably not as eloquent.
Your post was not too long. I enjoyed reading it.
TinyDave: That may have been a knee-jerk reaction on her part as a result of sudden self-consciousness. I'd say that her sending you pics is a very good development indeed. Next time y'all are sitting in front of the TV you gotta say, "Baby, let me rub those feet with those pretty red toes!"
Peace out, literati. -hyp
Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
quote:Originally posted by hyperion2424: Any advice I have would sound like yours, Ms. Liz, but probably not as eloquent.
Your post was not too long. I enjoyed reading it.
TinyDave: That may have been a knee-jerk reaction on her part as a result of sudden self-consciousness. I'd say that her sending you pics is a very good development indeed, and now you gotta say, "Baby, let me rub those feet with those pretty red toes!" When y'all are sitting in front of the TV.
Peace out, literati! -hyp
Well I have already got to do that And she let me kiss every toe twice. lol
Posted by hyperion2424 (Member # 39397) on :
Well there you go Dave. Right on! -hyp
Posted by riker25 (Member # 31867) on :
Excellent post. There is always something to be learned everyday.
I will consider your advice with the eventual goal of sliding into a nice comfort zone.
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. A complete stranger may not want a foot massage, but there's no good reason a girlfriend or friend will turn you down (unless she hates her feet-- her major loss). I think the key is to start off slow: gently rub her feet while she's distracted (watching TV, playing a game). Before she knows it, she'll be dying for your foot rubs.