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Posted by bfba22 (Member # 44253) on :
 
Hey all, so I'm a 22 year old college student in Athens, GA and having trouble getting foot action. I don't really drink or go to bars, so trying to meet a foot girl other ways is difficult. Anyone in the area and know of any girls willing to give footjobs?
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
You're in trouble dude. Getting foot action isn't the goal. Otherwise we'd get nowhere. The goal is to meet women that you're attracted to and that are attracted to you. The feet stuff comes later and directly related to how attracted she is to you.

Did you really think that someone would reply "Jenn loves foot action, she lives at 120 Cherry lane and her phone # is 565-XXX-XXXX. Call her, she loves it!" That isn't the real world at all. You must get out...it might not be bars...but you must get out and meet women. Befriend them, attract them, show them a good time.

Getting women is no easy task. Some men will date and sleep with beautiful woman after beautiful woman...some men will have one such woman in their life...and most men will go without. This is reality....where you're at depends alot on the amount of effort you put into yourself.

GQ
 
Posted by AlTheFootLover (Member # 43864) on :
 
GQ could not have said it any better. I would add one caveat to this though if you were really THAT desperate and that is looking through craigslist/backpage. But keep in mind if you do that your not only going to pay through the nose paying for what your looking for is obviously illegal. I would take GQ's advice as although i'm 25 i'm re thinking my whole life and realize there's alot I need to change about myself for the better. It's easy in our fast food world to want things easy but alot of things in life require alot of hard work to get what you want...
 
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
 
GQ's advice is always "SPOT ON"...A big thing that gets in the way of 'Foot Guys" AND HAVING THE FEET YOU WANT IS...

BEING FOCUSED ON THE WRONG THING..

"FOOTJOBS"?

Find the girl that adores you first...YOU'LL GET MORE FOOTJOBS THAN YOU COULD EVER WANT...

If you're just looking for a "Cheap" encounter and you're not to smooth with the ladies, I guess classifieds is the way to go...But its what I term as empty sex...No love, No feelings...I'm doing this for the "Money" energy...Not my kinda thing...

I have only seen a couple of women who "SAY" they love to give footjobs... I don't believe it... There will be the rare woman who gets off on the way her feet can control the guy that she likes... She may actually develope some kinda of "LIKE" for it but its the POWER that she loves...It actually seems like a lot of work. I have actually kept my footjobs kinda short because I thought that the provider was working too hard...

If she really likes you...A FOOTJOB IS NOTHING...
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by AlTheFootLover:
i'm 25 i'm re thinking my whole life and realize there's alot I need to change about myself for the better. It's easy in our fast food world to want things easy but alot of things in life require alot of hard work to get what you want...

Atta boy!! Go get what you want man. It's never too late. 25? You've still got plenty of time as many doors are still open for you. Keep it up. I applaud your efforts.

GQ
 
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by DeTrOiT:
If you're just looking for a "Cheap" encounter and you're not to smooth with the ladies, I guess classifieds is the way to go...But its what I term as empty sex

rather empty than none at all [Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
 
There's a lot of great advice here from GQ, Al and Detroit. You're better off going out to meet women in some sort of social setting (And, by the way, bars don't have to be involved.), get to know them and go from there. Believe me, once a woman is comfortable with you and generally likes being around you, it's definitely possible to get foot action, including footjobs, from female friends. I've been there, done that. Even with female friends, they were good experiences because I knew them to some degree, rather than them being a complete stranger I was paying to get some kind of foot action.
 
Posted by feetplease (Member # 36371) on :
 
So I'm assuming you got to UGA...soo you go to one of the top party schools in the nation and you don't really drink or go to bars?!?! What the hell are you doing there????

Its ridiculously easy to pick up chicks at the bars there and they'l pretty much do anything you want if you've already taken care of them.

You could go to the strip club there and pay for it I guess if thats more your thing its called toppers. Its way cheaper to pay for a girls drinks at one of the bars and take her home with you. She won't be eager to collect and get to the next client.
 
Posted by toesuckerforever (Member # 21311) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
You're in trouble dude. Getting foot action isn't the goal. Otherwise we'd get nowhere. The goal is to meet women that you're attracted to and that are attracted to you. The feet stuff comes later and directly related to how attracted she is to you.

Did you really think that someone would reply "Jenn loves foot action, she lives at 120 Cherry lane and her phone # is 565-XXX-XXXX. Call her, she loves it!" That isn't the real world at all. You must get out...it might not be bars...but you must get out and meet women. Befriend them, attract them, show them a good time.

Getting women is no easy task. Some men will date and sleep with beautiful woman after beautiful woman...some men will have one such woman in their life...and most men will go without. This is reality....where you're at depends alot on the amount of effort you put into yourself.

GQ

I agree with EVERY word of GQs post. Look man, I just turned 20 and I, too, have an incredibly wild foot appetite. Whenever I have a sudden urge to worship and any foot action at all, I text random chick friends and maybe ONCE in a blue moon I'll actually get something. But here's the thing. I've been going through the bouts of wanting to improve myself tenfold to go out and get the things I want. I want to be able to dress well, take care of my health, become financially successful, and get the women also. But again, it takes work. Sometimes to satisfy even our deepest desires, we have to go to extremes to get what we want. But this our time, gentlemen. There should never be an excuse for working hard and focusing on the things that we REALLY want out of life.

Sorry, felt like I needed to express my opinion lol [Hump]
 
Posted by toesuckerforever (Member # 21311) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
You're in trouble dude. Getting foot action isn't the goal. Otherwise we'd get nowhere. The goal is to meet women that you're attracted to and that are attracted to you. The feet stuff comes later and directly related to how attracted she is to you.

Did you really think that someone would reply "Jenn loves foot action, she lives at 120 Cherry lane and her phone # is 565-XXX-XXXX. Call her, she loves it!" That isn't the real world at all. You must get out...it might not be bars...but you must get out and meet women. Befriend them, attract them, show them a good time.

Getting women is no easy task. Some men will date and sleep with beautiful woman after beautiful woman...some men will have one such woman in their life...and most men will go without. This is reality....where you're at depends alot on the amount of effort you put into yourself.

GQ

I agree with EVERY word of GQs post. Look man, I just turned 20 and I, too, have an incredibly wild foot appetite. Whenever I have a sudden urge to worship and any foot action at all, I text random chick friends and maybe ONCE in a blue moon I'll actually get something. But here's the thing. I've been going through the bouts of wanting to improve myself tenfold to go out and get the things I want. I want to be able to dress well, take care of my health, become financially successful, and get the women also. But again, it takes work. Sometimes to satisfy even our deepest desires, we have to go to extremes to get what we want. But this our time, gentlemen. There should never be an excuse for working hard and focusing on the things that we REALLY want out of life.

Sorry, felt like I needed to express my opinion lol [Hump]
 
Posted by hkjohapies@yahoo.com (Member # 44365) on :
 
Hi Im in NJ I give foot worship session my email is hkjohapies@yahoo.com if you come to NJ and looking for sucking my toes [Smile]
 
Posted by bfba22 (Member # 44253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by feetplease:
So I'm assuming you got to UGA...soo you go to one of the top party schools in the nation and you don't really drink or go to bars?!?! What the hell are you doing there????

Its ridiculously easy to pick up chicks at the bars there and they'l pretty much do anything you want if you've already taken care of them.

You could go to the strip club there and pay for it I guess if thats more your thing its called toppers. Its way cheaper to pay for a girls drinks at one of the bars and take her home with you. She won't be eager to collect and get to the next client.

If I went here for undergraduate then I'd probably still have the energy to go to bars and get wasted, but as a grad student I really don't have the time. Besides, all the girls I've run into downtown are stuck up bitches and aren't worth talking to.
 
Posted by feetplease (Member # 36371) on :
 
@ bfba22

I get what you mean more than you know...I go to georgia tech but you don't have to have the energy or time to get wasted. You can just show up somewhere between 12 and 1, buy them a couple drinks and take them home, you don't have to drink yourself.

Say you wish you could but you're allergic to ethanol and would end up in the hospital if they insist on you drinking with them. Or if you're down to waste money/drinks you can just pretend to take the shot and spit it back out into a cup of "vodka sprite."

Trust me, you don't know stuck up until you've come to my college. Even the fat ugly bitch is stuck up and swears she's hot shit. I thought you were just looking for a girl to give you footjobs...who cares if the girl attached to those feet is stuck up and stupid, you're not trying to date her and you'll never see her again unless you try to.

My advice is go to the bars and pick up a girl there, get out of your comfort zone and act confident/cocky and it'll be easy. Even if that's not you, just act like it is...like I said, doesn't sound like you're trying to find Mrs. Right or someone to date so who cares if she knows what you're really like or not...it's the type of guy they're most likely to fuck. Also take a friend that's social with you, it's harder to get a girl without a buddy to help you out with her friend, they're usually in pairs or packs there.

Otherwise, toppers is really your only other option and I don't think they do that type of shit in there so you'd have to take the stripper home and that can get pricey. I think its like 400 bucks for one of them to leave with you but I'm not sure, I've never asked.

If you do take up on my advice on the bars though, unless you're a typical american white boy whatever you do don't walk into the bars with confederate flags at the doors...they're full of racist pricks.
 
Posted by bfba22 (Member # 44253) on :
 
Haha crazy stuff dude, I went to GT for undergrad. Doing my masters in pharmacy here at UGA
 
Posted by bfba22 (Member # 44253) on :
 
Yeah, Tech Bitch Syndrome sucks. I feel guilty about complaining now, because I remember when I was at Tech how bad it was. At least I have hot girls to check out in the library here at UGA
 
Posted by bfba22 (Member # 44253) on :
 
Were you in a fraternity?
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
Lambda Chi here.
 
Posted by feetplease (Member # 36371) on :
 
That's cool haha yea TBS sucks, luckily I don't have to deal with it too much. If I have time to go out I travel to Miami or Boston or DC and if for some odd reason I go out in atlanta I just go with the Emory crowd.

Nope, not a fan of the whole fraternity thing...I'm from Miami so the clubbing type of night life is what I like. Definitely not into listening to country and playing beer pong all night long. Maybe if I went to UGA it might've been worth it but at tech? Anyone who joins one is an idiot if you ask me. Its like 30 frats and 7 sororities and only 2 out of those 7 have a good amount of decent girls.

Undergrads go to the library at UGA? I wasn't aware they even opened books haha
 
Posted by Goddess Chocolate (Member # 31717) on :
 
My, oh, My. Is it really that hard to get a massage from a woman's foot? You could go through all that trouble finding a girl who might like you who is "ACTUALLY GOOD WITH HER FEET." But if she's not, then you spent about $50 on liquor, not to mention, wasted time and still didn't get what you want.

If you don't want to use the list or the page, then try a foot fetish specific site where we foot providers hang. Fetlife is the main one but I have a few more on My site. You can always try to negotiate on the donations. Either way, you're going to pay, you might as well get what you want from someone who knows what she's doing.
 
Posted by undershoes1022 (Member # 30080) on :
 
Used to be easy getting FJ in NYC foot parties but that has changed in the last 3 years and haven't been able to since [Cry]
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Goddess Chocolate:
My, oh, My. Is it really that hard to get a massage from a woman's foot? You could go through all that trouble finding a girl who might like you who is "ACTUALLY GOOD WITH HER FEET." But if she's not, then you spent about $50 on liquor, not to mention, wasted time and still didn't get what you want.

If you don't want to use the list or the page, then try a foot fetish specific site where we foot providers hang. Fetlife is the main one but I have a few more on My site. You can always try to negotiate on the donations. Either way, you're going to pay, you might as well get what you want from someone who knows what she's doing.

LOL. Worst advice ever. True. Either way you're going to pay. But one is an investment with the potential of unlimited returns, the other is a service. At least buying dinner and drinks gets you both fed and drunk. Not to mention the self esteem aspect of paying for something that most men get for free. Stay away from this advice. It's like the mechanic that cautions you against learning how to change your own oil so you'll have to see him every few thousand miles. An investment in self is always best. Attract the woman and she'll stay around. I've been in a relationship for 2 years now and still have women hitting me up talking about how they and their feet miss me. Prostitutes will only hit you up when they need some cash.

GQ
 
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
 
L.....O.....L
 
Posted by aka.footjoyboy (Member # 32751) on :
 
"LOL. Worst advice ever."

Yeah, and the fact that Goddess Chocolate is a suspected dude... [Laugh]
 
Posted by bigfeettracker (Member # 44112) on :
 
You're on the wrong continent. Find an English country with some decent sunshine. Ain't no foot lovin' going on in Europe. Find a country where people are familiar with the word 'feet'. I'm serious.
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
Did you really think that someone would reply "Jenn loves foot action, she lives at 120 Cherry lane and her phone # is 565-XXX-XXXX. Call her, she loves it!"

[Laugh]
 
Posted by AsianFootLove (Member # 43116) on :
 
Move to the Philippines or better yet, just visit. You will be stunned how nice women can be. For money or free -- the USA is a hard place to go back to!
 
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:
Originally posted by Goddess Chocolate:
My, oh, My. Is it really that hard to get a massage from a woman's foot? You could go through all that trouble finding a girl who might like you who is "ACTUALLY GOOD WITH HER FEET." But if she's not, then you spent about $50 on liquor, not to mention, wasted time and still didn't get what you want.

If you don't want to use the list or the page, then try a foot fetish specific site where we foot providers hang. Fetlife is the main one but I have a few more on My site. You can always try to negotiate on the donations. Either way, you're going to pay, you might as well get what you want from someone who knows what she's doing.

LOL. Worst advice ever. True. Either way you're going to pay. But one is an investment with the potential of unlimited returns, the other is a service. But one is an investment with the potential of unlimited returns, the other is a service. At least buying dinner and drinks gets you both fed and drunk. Not to mention the self esteem aspect of paying for something that most men get for free. Stay away from this advice. It's like the mechanic that cautions you against learning how to change your own oil so you'll have to see him every few thousand miles. An investment in self is always best. Attract the woman and she'll stay around. I've been in a relationship for 2 years now and still have women hitting me up talking about how they and their feet miss me. Prostitutes will only hit you up when they need some cash.

GQ

>But one is an investment with the potential of unlimited returns, the other is a service.

i'd rather deal with a service than an "umlimited return" of nothing. at least with the service, i know what i'm getting.

>Not to mention the self esteem aspect of paying for something that most men get for free.

your self-esteem can get just as fucked up having a shitty date as it would paying for a FJ. at least one is guilt and the other is feeling like a dickhead

>Prostitutes will only hit you up when they need some cash.

and that's when you tell them to fuck off. just cause you pay for it doesn't mean you can fall for their "i need cash bad," shit. when i feel like it, i'll call. otherwise, bugger off.
 
Posted by Talos (Member # 39913) on :
 
I'm a lazy ass who doesn't want a relationship, so paying is no problem for me. I do get freebies though, my friends are always on the lookout. But I'm talking about foot worship, not footjobs. I don't really care for them. I've actually gotten more action these past two years than before when I was in and out of relationships. I love being single! I think the best advice I could give would be to just be cool about having a foot fetish. Don't be shy and ashamed or you'll get embarrassed. One of my friends actually said that he wished he could have a foot fetish too, lol! I hang out with a weird crowd so maybe that helps when we draw in the weird girls that are used to the weird shit that us weird folk do.
 
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Talos:
I'm a lazy ass who doesn't want a relationship, so paying is no problem for me. I do get freebies though, my friends are always on the lookout. But I'm talking about foot worship, not footjobs. I don't really care for them. I've actually gotten more action these past two years than before when I was in and out of relationships. I love being single! I think the best advice I could give would be to just be cool about having a foot fetish. Don't be shy and ashamed or you'll get embarrassed. One of my friends actually said that he wished he could have a foot fetish too, lol! I hang out with a weird crowd so maybe that helps when we draw in the weird girls that are used to the weird shit that us weird folk do.

that does help, having friends who don't care or a "weird" crowd.
 
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
You're in trouble dude. Getting foot action isn't the goal. Otherwise we'd get nowhere. The goal is to meet women that you're attracted to and that are attracted to you. The feet stuff comes later and directly related to how attracted she is to you.

Did you really think that someone would reply "Jenn loves foot action, she lives at 120 Cherry lane and her phone # is 565-XXX-XXXX. Call her, she loves it!" That isn't the real world at all. You must get out...it might not be bars...but you must get out and meet women. Befriend them, attract them, show them a good time.

Getting women is no easy task. Some men will date and sleep with beautiful woman after beautiful woman...some men will have one such woman in their life...and most men will go without. This is reality....where you're at depends alot on the amount of effort you put into yourself.

GQ

The original reply to this post that the ever wise GQ gave many months ago to the poster is great advice. Being a recluse is not going to help anyone meet that certain someone to fulfill their desire whatever it may be. Definitely no need to go bar hopping or be a party animal or a put up a façade to be someone you're not. I was never the one to go out and make a point of meeting new people. My comfort zone is people that I already know whether it was from school, work or a friend of a friend.
 
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by aka.footjoyboy:
"LOL. Worst advice ever."

Yeah, and the fact that Goddess Chocolate is a suspected dude... [Laugh]

My thoughts exactly. LOL
 


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