Hey guys, just had a quick question. Hoping for you guys feedback, experience and thoughts.
So I do a lot of walking and like being outside, and I luckily I come across beuatiful women with gorgeous feet, and for some reason I always want to tell them how beutiful their feet are but I don't know how to do it in a creepy way? Haha any ideas? Have any of you complimented on a starngers feet? What was their reaction?
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Why are you complimenting their feet?
I know...it seems like a weird question but it means alot! What is your motivation? Is it to make her feel good and confident? Is it to let her know you're attracted to her? Is it to make conversation? ect
If it's to make them feel better...I would ask...what would the equivalent statement to a guy be? If that thought grossed you out then it's safe to say that it is because you're attracted to her. But! Your attraction to her really doesn't matter. Is she attracted to you? Compliments on physical traits are a great way to let a woman that is interested in you know that you're interested in her too. You can't go wrong saying "you have beautiful feet" to a woman that wants to sleep with you! If she's neutral and not attracted to you i'd be wary of the physical compliments. I'd stick more with complimenting her choices on things, things she said or did.
If I walked by a chic of average beauty and she said "nice feet"......I'd be weirded out. Now if she said "nice outfit, you walk by here everyday and you always look great" ...that'd make my day! If I was attracted to a girl and wanted to sleep with her and she said "I love your feet"....guess what? Who gives a shit...i'm getting laid. If I was talking to a chic that I was attracted to but was unsure if she was attracted to me and she said "I love your feet"...i'd be pretty excited that she liked SOMETHING about me...and would hope that she liked the whole package.
If you put things in reverse and you can start to see into how our actions make women feel.
If you want to make a woman feel really good without creeping her out...let her know how great that outfit looks. Be more liberal with compliments to women that don't receive them as often. Don't point out the sun....be unique. A compliment on a pedicure is FAR better than a compliment on the shape of her foot. But bring it back to her personality, "nice pedicure, you're a trend setter". I'm an arch man myself....when I compliment a woman on her arch I bring it back to her "nice arches! Were you a dancer or ballerina?". Don't dwell on feet unless she wants to stay on that topic. Let the conversation flow. I asked if she was a dancer...I say cool. I tell her how I played basketball. Convo goes on normal. No one is creeped out.
GQ
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
I have said completely easily, "nice pedicure" to several women just in passing and gotten only nice responses. Don't act creepy, and you more than likely will not be treated creepy.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I've complimented women on their feet, before. But I only do it if the situation seems right. I don't go up to women at random and tell them they have nice feet!
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Excellent advice has been given to you thus far by these smart, experienced gentlemen.....the only thing that I would add is......confidence, a big easy smile, with a compliment goes a long way. Be charming, easy going, and let the words flow. A smile is the best attention grabber. A silly line that I have used, that worked for me is........what great shoes, did those pretty feet come with them? LAUGH, JOKE....don't take yourself too seriously, a sense of humor makes up for a lot.......and dress well.....clothes are very important to women.......looking good is more about style and grooming than it is about classic good looks......but, if you have classic good looks, that is a plus too!
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ROYALS22262: what great shoes, did those pretty feet come with them?
Officially stolen!!! Excellent line. When delivered the way you mentioned it says all the right things.
Man. It's funny....it's rarely what you say but how you say it. I can tell a girl that I met at the bar that she's coming home with me and i'm going to rub her feet all night...guys overhearing me would think gross! But she knows that I really mean that I'm going to make love to her all night. Another guy can say the same thing and she'd take it literally. It's all in how you say it.
GQ
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by catsman: Don't act creepy, and you more than likely will not be treated creepy.
what is this "don't act creepy" shit anyway? unless you're a tim tebow like specimen with a joe namath confidence, almost anything said to a girl will creep them out. i know that from experience.
if you are thinking of giving a compliment or starting a convo, and are worried in the slightest if it will make her uncomfortable, JUST DON'T DO IT!!!
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
Honestly I never directly compliment a girl's feet. If I am fortunate enough to massage her feet then I'll say you have really pretty feet. I will compliment a pedicure, but only saying nice manicure I'm sure the toes look just as great!
Posted by goodguyneighbor (Member # 2824) on :
I've approached thousands of random women about their feet.
They're not so much listening to the content of what you're saying. That doesn't really matter.
What counts most is personality and body language.
That's why even a 3ft dude in a wheelchair can get laid.
And you can't win if you don't play.
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
I compliment girls on their feet constantly and (literally) on a daily basis. Sometimes it's a peripheral character in my social net, a casual acquaintance, or (often) a complete stranger.
This happens in grocery stores, concerts, events, the park, on the street and anywhere else - and, always in coffee shops - might the a customer, may be an employee there.
I've never felt creepy about it, nor the least bit odd. One of the BEST things a girl can do, is to have beautiful feet, and I believe this fervently. What I'm doing in complimenting this, is to reinforce those fantastic qualities and that excellent behavior.
I will usually go further than to compliment, in requesting to photograph her feet, or at least in exploring the topic through conversation (not always in that order, of course).
If I see a girl with beautiful feet and do not compliment her, I get a nagging feeling that I let an opportunity slip away and evaporate, and this feeling lingers for hours. We are all different in our philosophies and approach to life, love, girls and Feet - for me, it has always been simple:
ASK and receive! ... or ASK and be granted a polite "no" and get on with life - rather than to carry the lament of never having known.
Yes, there are times when a reaction is not pleasant. You're going to encounter the girl who says "what???" "Really??? get outta here". You will sometimes get a stiff "Hell no!". Every once in awhile, you may even get a violent, boisterous, threatening "F..K YOU jackass!" ... or have food thrown at you, as you turn your back in retreat of the scorn.
This, I have found, is the strangest part of all, and it comes in two elements:
1. For those who say no, it is SO often a kind, quiet or polite declination. Almost always civil - and when I'm rebuked in a civil way, I'll always volunteer to pay for her coffee, etc., and they almost always agree to (at least) that much. THIS often ends up in a nice conversation before parting, and opens dialogue. You actually end up hearing from some of these people, sometime later.
2. Girls who say Yes ... after YEARS of carrying on like this, I still find it inexplicable and astounding, at the number & variety of girls who say yes. What strikes me as most odd, is that there are so many girls who don't think much about it ... "Put my bare feet out the window so you can see them? No problem" ... "Take my shoes off and put them up on the chair? Ok".
THAT is what I can never get used to. Ironically, it is the precise result I hope for - yet, to this day, can (STILL) not come to grips with. I can NOT understand it, I've been trying to understand this for YEARS ... but it still happens and it does so often (and with regularity).
I've asked girls, years later, "What were you thinking? ... I get various replies, but no real answers even from them.
I met Amber (the hispanic one) at a shoe store in Portland, went through this same routine, and Malory (who was with me) asks later: What the HECK did you tell that girl? I can't believe she did that ... and I'm asking Malory "Well what do YOU think??? You were once ONE of them???!!!" ... and SHE had no answer to THAT!
It's funny, it's crazy and it is Beautiful. Girls are forgiving creatures, and a lot more understanding then we sometimes realize.
I may not be the best person to ask, as I am certainly not what most would consider "normal" by social or sociological standards ... but for me, the simple act of complimenting feet unabashedly - and asking for and about them, has given me a fantastic life that is full of female Feet.
So what if she says no or calls me crazy ... the next girl just might be Miss Kirsten, Summer, or even Malory, who's still here, after almost seven years.
[ January 30, 2012, 01:41 PM: Message edited by: Ben Del Amitri ]
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
quote:Originally posted by Ben Del Amitri: I compliment girls on their feet constantly and (literally) on a daily basis. Sometimes it's a peripheral character in my social net, a casual acquaintance, or (often) a complete stranger.
This happens in grocery stores, concerts, events, the park, on the street and anywhere else - and, always in coffee shops - might the a customer, may be an employee there.
I've never felt creepy about it, nor the least bit odd. One of the BEST things a girl can do, is to have beautiful feet, and I believe this fervently. What I'm doing in complimenting this, is to reinforce those fantastic qualities and that excellent behavior.
I will usually go further than to compliment, in requesting to photograph her feet, or at least in exploring the topic through conversation (not always in that order, of course).
If I see a girl with beautiful feet and do not compliment her, I get a nagging feeling that I let an opportunity slip away and evaporate, and this feeling lingers for hours. We are all different in our philosophies and approach to life, love, girls and Feet - for me, it has always been simple:
ASK and receive! ... or ASK and be granted a polite "no" and get on with life - rather than to carry the lament of never having known.
Yes, there are times when a reaction is not pleasant. You're going to encounter the girl who says "what???" "Really??? get outta here". You will sometimes get a stiff "Hell no!". Every once in awhile, you may even get a violent, boisterous, threatening "F..K YOU jackass!" ... or have food thrown at you, as you turn your back in retreat of the scorn.
This, I have found, is the strangest part of all, and it comes in two elements:
1. For those who say no, it is SO often a kind, quiet or polite declination. Almost always civil - and when I'm rebuked in a civil way, I'll always volunteer to pay for her coffee, etc., and they almost always agree to (at least) that much. THIS often ends up in a nice conversation before parting, and opens dialogue. You actually end up hearing from some of these people, sometime later.
2. Girls who say Yes ... after YEARS of carrying on like this, I still find it unexplicable and astounding, at the number & variety of girls who say yes. What strikes me as most odd, is that there are so many girls who don't think much about it ... "Put my bare feet out the window so you can see them? No problem" ... "Take my shoes off and put them up on the chair? Ok".
THAT is what I can never get used to. Ironically, it is the precise result I hope for - yet, to this day, can (STILL) not come to grips with. I can NOT understand it, I've been trying to understand this for YEARS ... but it still happens and it does so often (and with regularity).
I've asked girls, years later, "What were you thinking? ... I get various replies, but no real answers even from them.
I met Amber (the hispanic one) at a shoe store in Portland, went through this same routine, and Malory (who was with me) asks later: What the HECK did you tell that girl? I can't believe she did that ... and I'm asking Malory "Well what do YOU think??? You were once ONE of them???!!!" ... and SHE had no answer to THAT!
It's funny, it's crazy and it is Beautiful. Girls are forgiving creatures, and a lot more understanding then we sometimes realize.
I may not be the best person to ask, as I am certainly not what most would consider "normal" by social or sociological standards ... but for me, the simple act of complimenting feet unabashedly - and asking for and about them, has given me a fantastic life that is full of female Feet.
So what if she says no or calls me crazy ... the next girl just might be Miss Kirsten, Summer, or even Malory.
Your whole post is spot on. Women LOVE to be complimented on anything about them. I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way. Women LOVE the alpha male, not a shy one. Being shy is a WOMAN'S job.
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks
I don't care how handsome/rich/charming a guy is...everytime they go up to talk to a woman there is a risk of negative repercussions. It's a risk men take. Some men take that risk often and get laid often. Some men do it a few times in their lives and only have a few partners. Some men never take that risk and are forever lonely. This is life....it's not fair. Not everyone gets the girl. But we all do choose what category we put ourselves in.
I assure you though...the benefits outweigh the risk. Talk to women. Get to know them!
GQ
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks
I don't care how handsome/rich/charming a guy is...everytime they go up to talk to a woman there is a risk of negative repercussions. It's a risk men take. Some men take that risk often and get laid often. Some men do it a few times in their lives and only have a few partners. Some men never take that risk and are forever lonely. This is life....it's not fair. Not everyone gets the girl. But we all do choose what category we put ourselves in.
I assure you though...the benefits outweigh the risk. Talk to women. Get to know them!
GQ
no point in getting to know them if they don't want you to know them. that's the point, it's shallow as shit. the same guy who takes to few will get laid more then a guy who talks to a lot of girls and get nowhere
fortunately, i found out early on, before it was too late, to just keep my mouth shut and keep it moving. if i have nothing cool to say, and if she looks uncomfortable with me around, don't say a word and go on with your day.
Posted by From Hell (Member # 43826) on :
You must give them Ruby Roman grapes (or any other grapes that are just as big) as a means of complimenting them when you first introduce yourself. At least those are the types of grapes I prefer.
As they eat them, they'll take your compliments about their feet to heart.
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks
LOL BE A MAN!
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks
LOL BE A MAN!
be a man and do what, exactly??? if being a man includes being rejected and shat on, then no thanks! there are those who have the gift and those who don't. and no matter how much effort you put into it, you still don't have it. at least i realized i don't have it and i leave them alone!!!
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks
LOL BE A MAN!
be a man and do what, exactly??? if being a man includes being rejected and shat on, then no thanks! there are those who have the gift and those who don't. and no matter how much effort you put into it, you still don't have it. at least i realized i don't have it and i leave them alone!!!
No worries bro. More chics for the rest of us.
The only reason I give advice to guys that aren't successful with women is because at one point I felt I was in their shoes too. But if every guy were to become successful with women....well....i'd be going back to having only one girl as an option. So while my efforts to help my fellow man fall on deaf ears 99% of the time the abundance of women looking for a confident/quality guy is owed to the guys that refuse to take the necessary steps to up their game.
The only person you're hurting is yourself bro. Can't you see that. If you don't want to talk to chics...fine. Don't. More for those of us that do.
GQ
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks
LOL BE A MAN!
be a man and do what, exactly??? if being a man includes being rejected and shat on, then no thanks! there are those who have the gift and those who don't. and no matter how much effort you put into it, you still don't have it. at least i realized i don't have it and i leave them alone!!!
No worries bro. More chics for the rest of us.
The only reason I give advice to guys that aren't successful with women is because at one point I felt I was in their shoes too. But if every guy were to become successful with women....well....i'd be going back to having only one girl as an option. So while my efforts to help my fellow man fall on deaf ears 99% of the time the abundance of women looking for a confident/quality guy is owed to the guys that refuse to take the necessary steps to up their game.
The only person you're hurting is yourself bro. Can't you see that. If you don't want to talk to chics...fine. Don't. More for those of us that do.
GQ
i'd be hurting myself way more talking to them. so go ahead, whatever, but stop acting like it's so goddamn easy.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks
LOL BE A MAN!
be a man and do what, exactly??? if being a man includes being rejected and shat on, then no thanks! there are those who have the gift and those who don't. and no matter how much effort you put into it, you still don't have it. at least i realized i don't have it and i leave them alone!!!
No worries bro. More chics for the rest of us.
The only reason I give advice to guys that aren't successful with women is because at one point I felt I was in their shoes too. But if every guy were to become successful with women....well....i'd be going back to having only one girl as an option. So while my efforts to help my fellow man fall on deaf ears 99% of the time the abundance of women looking for a confident/quality guy is owed to the guys that refuse to take the necessary steps to up their game.
The only person you're hurting is yourself bro. Can't you see that. If you don't want to talk to chics...fine. Don't. More for those of us that do.
GQ
i'd be hurting myself way more talking to them. so go ahead, whatever, but stop acting like it's so goddamn easy.
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: I don't care how handsome/rich/charming a guy is...everytime they go up to talk to a woman there is a risk of negative repercussions. It's a risk men take. Some men take that risk often and get laid often. Some men do it a few times in their lives and only have a few partners. Some men never take that risk and are forever lonely. This is life....it's not fair. Not everyone gets the girl. But we all do choose what category we put ourselves in.
I assure you though...the benefits outweigh the risk. Talk to women. Get to know them!
GQ [/QB]
Never said it was easy. Look at my quote above. If it was easy everyone would have a girl right? No it's one of the hardest thing a man will do. There are tons of men that will display more bravery on the battle field than they ever will with a room full of women.
Some men have it easy. For most men it takes hard work to learn how to talk to the opposite sex. HARD WORK. I reiterate again...if it were easy everyone would have a chic.
But don't try and say that hard work doesn't work when you haven't tried what we're talking about. Even the idiot that talks to every woman he sees will be more successful than the guy that never does. And if that guy that talks to every woman he sees learns from his mistakes...he'll get better each time like every other skill a person possesses in life.
It's not easy. If it was people wouldn't be buying dirty socks and finding out how to proposition whores on the internet. But it's a skill worth going after.
Baby steps....
GQ
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: [QUOTE] I've said it before and I'll say it again: To the shy guys out there, BE A MAN and let a woman know that she's attractive in some type of way.
and get maced/cussed out? no thanks
LOL BE A MAN!
be a man and do what, exactly??? if being a man includes being rejected and shat on, then no thanks! there are those who have the gift and those who don't. and no matter how much effort you put into it, you still don't have it. at least i realized i don't have it and i leave them alone!!!
LOL How old are you? And I advise you to actually understand GQ's posts. If you want some foot action from some of the females that you think have some sexy feet then, you be get your shy & scary self out there and BE A MAN! A TRUE woman likes a MAN that's not shy of anything and is daring. Now, get out there and get some sexy feet.
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Sometimes the toughest and hardest thing to overcome is ourselves. The MIND is a very powerful tool. If you think negatively, give up, and act like you can't.....then you can't! If you start to think more positively, act more positive, smile, be more carefree, create good karma for yourself, things become easier, people, and women gravitate to you more. People like to hang around with, and be near, confident, good natured, funny, happy, smart people. There are books to read on these subjects, videos to watch, movies to see, observe others from a coffeee shop window, in a library, in a park, in a supermarket, watch how successful people carry themselves. DARE TO LEARN, DARE TO CHANGE, DARE TO GROW....and YOU WILL IMPROVE.....it starts first with YOU, YOUR ATTITUDE, YOUR SELF BELIEF.....LOSE THE FEAR....sometimes the BEST THINGS IN LIFE.....are the THINGS WE OVERCOME......the THINGS THAT WERE ONCE THE HARDEST FOR US TO ACHIEVE........and ONCE HAVING CONQUERED IT....YOU BECOME A BIGGER, BETTER, MORE SUCCESSFUL PERSON!!!! You have to BE IN IT...TO WIN IT........You have TO TRY.....TO SUCCEED!!!!!! NO MORE EXCUSES.......today is A NEW BEGINNING.....THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.......USE YOUR TIME WISELY....and GO GET WHAT YOU WANT!!!!!!
Posted by goodguyneighbor (Member # 2824) on :
Self limiting beliefs can be extremely difficult and uncomfortable to overcome. They are probably the single most powerful thing holding us back, but have a look at this guy, Sean Stephenson: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MztUPT6NG54&feature=related
He blows out every single possible excuse and misconception about why guys think they can't have success with women.
Posted by JDawg (Member # 17113) on :
quote:Originally posted by ROYALS22262: Sometimes the toughest and hardest thing to overcome is ourselves. The MIND is a very powerful tool. If you think negatively, give up, and act like you can't.....then you can't! If you start to think more positively, act more positive, smile, be more carefree, create good karma for yourself, things become easier, people, and women gravitate to you more. People like to hang around with, and be near, confident, good natured, funny, happy, smart people. There are books to read on these subjects, videos to watch, movies to see, observe others from a coffeee shop window, in a library, in a park, in a supermarket, watch how successful people carry themselves. DARE TO LEARN, DARE TO CHANGE, DARE TO GROW....and YOU WILL IMPROVE.....it starts first with YOU, YOUR ATTITUDE, YOUR SELF BELIEF.....LOSE THE FEAR....sometimes the BEST THINGS IN LIFE.....are the THINGS WE OVERCOME......the THINGS THAT WERE ONCE THE HARDEST FOR US TO ACHIEVE........and ONCE HAVING CONQUERED IT....YOU BECOME A BIGGER, BETTER, MORE SUCCESSFUL PERSON!!!! You have to BE IN IT...TO WIN IT........You have TO TRY.....TO SUCCEED!!!!!! NO MORE EXCUSES.......today is A NEW BEGINNING.....THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.......USE YOUR TIME WISELY....and GO GET WHAT YOU WANT!!!!!!
Some true encouraging words. The reason why you're more likely to succeed when positive is because everything is energy. Your thoughts create your reality and one thing I learned is that no matter how good looking you are, it won't get you too far in life without the confidence to back it up. Knowing is one thing but applying the right steps is another, and it can obviously be hard your first time but some more advice that helps is meditating on what you want for yourself and how to obtain it. All of us are meant to be happy.
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: A TRUE woman likes a MAN that's not shy of anything and is daring.
no they don't. they like someone who doesn't look like a creep. doesn't matter what comes out of his mouth, if he's ugly, he gets no play!!!
Posted by Solelvr 20,012 (Member # 20632) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: A TRUE woman likes a MAN that's not shy of anything and is daring.
no they don't. they like someone who doesn't look like a creep. doesn't matter what comes out of his mouth, if he's ugly, he gets no play!!!
Now come on brother, look at flavor flav lol!!!
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by Solelvr 20,012:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: A TRUE woman likes a MAN that's not shy of anything and is daring.
no they don't. they like someone who doesn't look like a creep. doesn't matter what comes out of his mouth, if he's ugly, he gets no play!!!
Now come on brother, look at flavor flav lol!!!
Doesn't count, he's famous. He can get play just waking up...
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by ROYALS22262: observe others from a coffeee shop window, in a library, in a park, in a supermarket
Isn't that called "stalking"? O.o
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: A TRUE woman likes a MAN that's not shy of anything and is daring.
no they don't. they like someone who doesn't look like a creep. doesn't matter what comes out of his mouth, if he's ugly, he gets no play!!!
LOL Apparaently, you have no clue what you just typed. LOL
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: A TRUE woman likes a MAN that's not shy of anything and is daring.
no they don't. they like someone who doesn't look like a creep. doesn't matter what comes out of his mouth, if he's ugly, he gets no play!!!
You can listen to the advice of the men on the boards and make some progress. Or not. Really doesn't matter. Actually it does. You see, the more guys that think like you..the more women that are available to a guy like me. Either way.
The world isn't fair. You have to go after what you want....otherwise the other guy that does will get it. Excuses don't work. Women hate them. Think of it like this...is there any excuse in the world that will make you follow me? Nope.
You don't need looks, money or cool things to get women. We men are brainwashed into thinking this. We're actually more concerned about these things than women are! But! These things can make you feel more confident...that's why it seems as though women are always with the buff, rich guy ect but his confidence boosted once he got these things because he thought he needed these things. Hopefully that made sense because the ramifications are huge.
But if you want GQguy to have the women that you could have had in addition to the one he already has...ignore everything I say and create and excuse. Great men are in short supply so they will ALWAYS have women waiting in the wings even if they decide to be monogamous. Why? Because so many guys like yourself take yourselves out of the game, don't bother to understand women so you creep them out, aren't considerate ect leaving them to flock to the small percentage of cool guys out there.
Don't hate the 1% of guys that could hook up with 99% of the girls. Join the 1% by listening to men wiser than you are!
GQ
Posted by National (Member # 8568) on :
EDIT -- In case anyone's wondering, I had to change the second sentence, and I had to add two new sentences after that to make myself clearer.
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: You don't need looks, money or cool things to get women.
While this is true, it also needs some modification because it doesn't tell the entire story.
You don't need looks, money or cool things to get women. Yes, that's true. But you do need money and cool things to get hotter women. That's the part people always leave out.
Looks aren't everything when it comes to guys, but it does give them an advantage, assuming he also has the attitude and the swagger to go along with that. Looks and outward appearances matter for women. Even if the guy doesn't look good, if he hopes to get hotter women, more money, power, or fame will give him a better chance to get that.
Think about it.
The more successful a guy is, the more money he has, the better the chances that he'll get the hotter women. The less successful he is, the less money he makes, the better the chances that the girls he attracts will be ugly and/or fatter.
Now flip this around to the female point of view. The hotter she is, the better her chances of attracting a male who is more powerful and someone who makes more money than a woman who is overweight or unattractive.
In other words, water seeks its own level.
Do you think guys who takes out the garbage for Taco Bell or Starbucks, as a group, attract women who are hotter and more fit than men who are stockbrokers or real estate agents?
Another analogy is cars. I always compare women to cars. Does that sound sexist? Yeah, so what! Anyway, with this analogy, think about the following. The Mercedes-Benz, Jaguar, and Lexus are much more luxurious and look a lot better than the Prius, and the Kia Sedona.
If you're a guy with that kind of money, why would you settle for the Sedona when you have the Mercedes? Guys who are successful, guys who work hard, guys who strive to get the achieve the best education when they are finally done with school deserve to have the best for all heart and passion they put in to their work. They deserve to have the best cars. Those who are lazy, stupid, or otherwise unproductive are only good for car models that came out ten years ago - or something.
Again, water seeks its own level.
With BlackHxC88, there was time a few years ago when he said he was THAT ugly. The best he can do is attract women who are just as undesirable. But he doesn't want those. He wants what he can't have, just like women want guys who are are never too available and guys who are not at their beck and call, guys who don't put up with that BS, men who stand tall, men who persevere, men who are successful, men who don't give a f*ck about not giving a f*ck.
The hotter they are, the more shallow they become. And you know what? I don't blame them one bit! I have zero problems with that. Those who are the best, get the best!
Men who are at the top of the pyramid when it comes to money, power, or fame get women who are at the top of the pyramid when it comes to their looks. Men in the middle get women who are in the middle when it comes to look. Plumbers, for example. Men at the bottom when it comes to education, money, success and what have you, get more overweight and undesirable women who lie at the bottom of the pyramid when it comes to looks.
Water seeks its own level.
Anyone who doesn't believe a word I said, I can come back in here with a scientific study that backs up what I said.
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: We men are brainwashed into thinking this. We're actually more concerned about these things than women are!
That's right, because to get hotter women, we have to keep those things in check and keep upgrading at the same time.
Not that I'm complaining, though.
While I agree with, and support the comments about being more pro-active when it comes to approaching women, I do understand how BlackHawk88 from Chicago feels. I don't have a problem with it. If that's his take on the situation, then I'm fine with that. If people are showing him the door, and he doesn't want to walk through it, then so be it.
-- National
[ February 04, 2012, 09:23 PM: Message edited by: National ]
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Water does seek it's own level. Take a good look at yourself. What you see, others may see. Hollywood takes average looking people, and makes them look like stars, it is NOT MAGIC, it is time and effort. A good styling, updated look, a good haircut, is a good place to start. Dress better, feel like you look good, hot, desireable. Shined shoes, a nice jacket, stylish pants, and you start feeling better about yourself. STYLISTS make money by making the AVERAGE, WAY ABOVE AVERAGE. Now, once you have the image problem, and confidence problem more or less out of the way, ACT THE PART, walk with confidence, have a presence, feel like you are worthy!!! What are you bringing to the table, do you have ARTISTIC TALENT, MUSICAL TALENT, ATHLETIC TALENT, CREATIVITY, A SENSE OF HUMOR, CHARM???? WHAT??? Play up YOUR STRENGTHS, girls LOVE GUYS who have something to offer, attract them with YOUR TALENT. You have the BASICS now to succeed with women, if you are WELL READ, ARTICULATE, you can hold their attention with good conversation too. BOTTOM LINE......LOOK THE PART, ACT THE PART, OBSERVE OTHERS AROUND YOU, AND ACT AND DON'T BE AFFRAID! STOP.....WITH THE EXCUSES....THE WHOA IS ME.....KICK YOURSELF IN THE ASS AND GET GOING......You are a car merging onto a HIGHWAY of LOVE, STEP ON THE DAMN GAS.....AND GO!!!!!!!!
Posted by tyvianc (Member # 40624) on :
Royals, you said it the best!!!!!
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ROYALS22262: Water does seek it's own level. Take a good look at yourself. What you see, others may see. Hollywood takes average looking people, and makes them look like stars, it is NOT MAGIC, it is time and effort. A good styling, updated look, a good haircut, is a good place to start. Dress better, feel like you look good, hot, desireable. Shined shoes, a nice jacket, stylish pants, and you start feeling better about yourself. STYLISTS make money by making the AVERAGE, WAY ABOVE AVERAGE. Now, once you have the image problem, and confidence problem more or less out of the way, ACT THE PART, walk with confidence, have a presence, feel like you are worthy!!! What are you bringing to the table, do you have ARTISTIC TALENT, MUSICAL TALENT, ATHLETIC TALENT, CREATIVITY, A SENSE OF HUMOR, CHARM???? WHAT??? Play up YOUR STRENGTHS, girls LOVE GUYS who have something to offer, attract them with YOUR TALENT. You have the BASICS now to succeed with women, if you are WELL READ, ARTICULATE, you can hold their attention with good conversation too. BOTTOM LINE......LOOK THE PART, ACT THE PART, OBSERVE OTHERS AROUND YOU, AND ACT AND DON'T BE AFFRAID! STOP.....WITH THE EXCUSES....THE WHOA IS ME.....KICK YOURSELF IN THE ASS AND GET GOING......You are a car merging onto a HIGHWAY of LOVE, STEP ON THE DAMN GAS.....AND GO!!!!!!!!
whooooooo!
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: [QUOTE]Great men are in short supply so they will ALWAYS have women waiting in the wings even if they decide to be monogamous. Why? Because so many guys like yourself take yourselves out of the game, don't bother to understand women so you creep them out, aren't considerate ect leaving them to flock to the small percentage of cool guys out there.
so because i'm not fucking chicks left and right, i'm a creep? fuck you... Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by ROYALS22262: You are a car merging onto a HIGHWAY of...
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Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by National: With BlackHxC88, there was time a few years ago when he said he was THAT ugly. The best he can do is attract women who are just as undesirable. But he doesn't want those.
what i remember is that the one girl who went after me was some girl who lost her virginity to her cousin. so, yeah, if that's my "level", then you can have it. if that's the "door" that you guys claim are gonna open, then i'm better off without. why put in the time and effort when it won't matter?
apparently, i'm a creep here cause i'm not having girls jump out of 2nd story windows for me, so what the hell do you guys care...
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: A TRUE woman likes a MAN that's not shy of anything and is daring.
no they don't. they like someone who doesn't look like a creep. doesn't matter what comes out of his mouth, if he's ugly, he gets no play!!!
LOL Apparaently, you have no clue what you just typed. LOL
it's "apparently" you cocksucker!!!
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Dude, you just want to be angry, then go sit by yourself and be angry, and pitty yourself, curse and make fun of us, and see how far that gets you. OR....YOU CAN GROW THE FUCK UP....start listening to people who are trying to HELP YOU! What....YOU THINK YOU ARE THE ONLY DUDE who has ever felt like this? YOU are WAY WAY WAY TOO BUSY.....trying to prove to us that you got EVERYTHING FIGURED OUT....YOU ARE MR KNOW-IT-ALL....DUDE........YOU DON'T KNOW SHIT!!!!!!!! NOW.....STOP!!!! You cut and paste our quotes really well....YOU ARE A GREAT...CUT AND PASTER! NOW.....use ALL THAT ENERGY, and TALENT.....and LISTEN!!!! YOU...CAN...HAVE...ANY....GIRL....YOU...WANT!!!! Start working on yourself, STOP BEING ANGRY.....CHANGE!!!!! One step at a time. STOP.....THIS GAME! Read the VERY GOOD ADVICE you are getting here....stop resisting, like an ALCOHOLIC who claims they don't drink much, you need an INTERVENTION. Why do I THINK I AM SO SMART.......BECAUSE....I WAS YOU!!!!! For TEN YEARS of my ADOLESCENCE...I ACTED LIKE YOU, SOUNDED LIKE YOU, WAS ANGRY LIKE YOU.....AND.....I GREW UP TOO LATE.....TEN YEARS TOO LATE!!!! Then I LISTENED, AND LEARNED, and HAD MORE WOMEN THEN YOU COULD EVER COUNT! I was the SAME A-HOLE that I ALWAYS WAS.....BUT, I HAD MORE CONFIDENCE, HAD A BIG SMILE, LOOKED BETTER, GOT STYLED, DRESSED BETTER, and TOOK CHANCES....AND VIOLA......I GOT LAID A LOT!!!!! A REAL LOT!!!! I can only share my real experiences, lessons learned with you. I am not BRAGGING, SHOWING OFF......I AM TRYING TO HELP YOU!!! IF an UGLY A-HOLE LIKE ME CAN AND DID GET WOMEN........SO CAN YOU! Don't cut and paste this......LISTEN TO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
If you want to compliment a woman's feet, do it. The key, as with just about all communication, is to use tact.
How do you develop tact? You make mistakes, and if you're perceptive, you learn from them.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: [QUOTE]Great men are in short supply so they will ALWAYS have women waiting in the wings even if they decide to be monogamous. Why? Because so many guys like yourself take yourselves out of the game, don't bother to understand women so you creep them out, aren't considerate ect leaving them to flock to the small percentage of cool guys out there.
so because i'm not fucking chicks left and right, i'm a creep? fuck you...
If you're going to quote me, do it correctly please. I said "you don't bother to understand women so you creep them out". Never called you a creep.
Fuck me? *Sigh* No dude you got it all wrong. You want to fuck women..not GQguys. *Sigh* Even here you're too blinded by your own shortsightedness to see that all of these guys are trying to help you. If you can't find camaraderie with a bunch of guys on a foot fetish site trying to help you how are you going to be able to find that camaraderie with women?
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
Fuck me? *Sigh* No dude you got it all wrong. You want to fuck women..not GQguys. *Sigh* Even here you're too blinded by your own shortsightedness to see that all of these guys are trying to help you. If you can't find camaraderie with a bunch of guys on a foot fetish site trying to help you how are you going to be able to find that camaraderie with women?
Now this is one of the BEST THINGS I have ever read on this board, or anywhere else for that matter! SEE....I can copy and paste too! PLEASE don't be angry.....take a deep breath and just read this again!!!!
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: [QUOTE]Great men are in short supply so they will ALWAYS have women waiting in the wings even if they decide to be monogamous. Why? Because so many guys like yourself take yourselves out of the game, don't bother to understand women so you creep them out, aren't considerate ect leaving them to flock to the small percentage of cool guys out there.
so because i'm not fucking chicks left and right, i'm a creep? fuck you...
If you're going to quote me, do it correctly please. I said "you don't bother to understand women so you creep them out". Never called you a creep.
Fuck me? *Sigh* No dude you got it all wrong. You want to fuck women..not GQguys. *Sigh* Even here you're too blinded by your own shortsightedness to see that all of these guys are trying to help you. If you can't find camaraderie with a bunch of guys on a foot fetish site trying to help you how are you going to be able to find that camaraderie with women?
it's not really "help" when you're implying that because i don't "understand" women i'm a creep o.O
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: [QUOTE]Great men are in short supply so they will ALWAYS have women waiting in the wings even if they decide to be monogamous. Why? Because so many guys like yourself take yourselves out of the game, don't bother to understand women so you creep them out, aren't considerate ect leaving them to flock to the small percentage of cool guys out there.
so because i'm not fucking chicks left and right, i'm a creep? fuck you...
If you're going to quote me, do it correctly please. I said "you don't bother to understand women so you creep them out". Never called you a creep.
Fuck me? *Sigh* No dude you got it all wrong. You want to fuck women..not GQguys. *Sigh* Even here you're too blinded by your own shortsightedness to see that all of these guys are trying to help you. If you can't find camaraderie with a bunch of guys on a foot fetish site trying to help you how are you going to be able to find that camaraderie with women?
it's not really "help" when you're implying that because i don't "understand" women i'm a creep o.O
I'm not implying anything. I'm outright saying that if you(or anyone) does not understand women you WILL creep them out. I'm not one to use labels. I won't call anyone a creep. Not my style.
Funny...how you'd rather focus on some internet guy's verbiage and parts of speech than focus on what you'd need to do to get the women you want.
GQ
Posted by Solelvr 20,012 (Member # 20632) on :
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by Solelvr 20,012:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: A TRUE woman likes a MAN that's not shy of anything and is daring.
no they don't. they like someone who doesn't look like a creep. doesn't matter what comes out of his mouth, if he's ugly, he gets no play!!!
Now come on brother, look at flavor flav lol!!!
Doesn't count, he's famous. He can get play just waking up...
Actually I know a few non-famous "flavor flavs" who do alright lol... Just get a big ass clock, put it around your neck and go around some drunk females, that'll get attention!!! But seriously, I remember a king of the hill episode when Boomhauer (the guy that mumbles) went to the mall and just stood there mumbling to every woman that passed by... After about 20 tries he finally gets lucky- more lucky than if he hadn't talked to any... My point is that you can be a broke, mumbling flavor flav and still be ok, IF YOU'RE WILLING TO TRY
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by BlackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: [QUOTE]Great men are in short supply so they will ALWAYS have women waiting in the wings even if they decide to be monogamous. Why? Because so many guys like yourself take yourselves out of the game, don't bother to understand women so you creep them out, aren't considerate ect leaving them to flock to the small percentage of cool guys out there.
so because i'm not fucking chicks left and right, i'm a creep? fuck you...
If you're going to quote me, do it correctly please. I said "you don't bother to understand women so you creep them out". Never called you a creep.
Fuck me? *Sigh* No dude you got it all wrong. You want to fuck women..not GQguys. *Sigh* Even here you're too blinded by your own shortsightedness to see that all of these guys are trying to help you. If you can't find camaraderie with a bunch of guys on a foot fetish site trying to help you how are you going to be able to find that camaraderie with women?
it's not really "help" when you're implying that because i don't "understand" women i'm a creep o.O
Funny...how you'd rather focus on some internet guy's verbiage and parts of speech than focus on what you'd need to do to get the women you want.
GQ
because it's just as full of shit as the other...
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
BlackHxC88, you are truly a character. I think you're just here for kicks & giggles.
Everyone, just stop posting to this clown. Let him/her continue to be lonely and get footjobs from his "nightmares" when he sleeps. He/she won't/can't get a footjob in the real world.
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
wow...I had read the original post and didn't think too much about it...but it has had some heavy hitters coming in offering up some golden comments.
I gotta read it again and look to incorporate it into my 'routine'
Thanks fellas!
Posted by Raym3n69 (Member # 44308) on :
So back to the question? Haha..I'm thinking..why not just go for it right? Whats she ganna do? Look at me weird, call me a name, (as if that never happened to a guy before) and If anything, on to the next!
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: BlackHxC88, you are truly a character. I think you're just here for kicks & giggles.
Everyone, just stop posting to this clown.
+1. He's had this attitude multiple times with people trying to help him. He's just a miserable individual. Pay him no attention.
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by longhitter04:
quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: BlackHxC88, you are truly a character. I think you're just here for kicks & giggles.
Everyone, just stop posting to this clown.
+1. He's had this attitude multiple times with people trying to help him.
i wouldn't call mockery "help", but whatever... Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by ROYALS22262: YOU are WAY WAY WAY TOO BUSY.....trying to prove to us that you got EVERYTHING FIGURED OUT....YOU ARE MR KNOW-IT-ALL....DUDE........YOU DON'T KNOW SHIT!!!!!!!!
stopped reading after that. i never said i "knew it all", i just knew enough to know that people are shallow, and that i'm better off not even bothering the opposite sex instead of being "that guy" on the news. but, if that's apparently what it takes to talk to girls, to "Creep" them out and bug the shit out of them, than whatever...
Posted by archadmirer (Member # 3142) on :
I laughed so hard... did anyone catch the line "and Viola!" from Royals?? Oh, the imagery... I'm proud that (almost) everyone is being so supportive of BlackHxC88. I have been perplexed by his attitude before, but I can definitely relate to his bitterness. I think every man has been "shot down" before, or felt alienated because of his looks, clothes, wealth, whatever. I read a post from Ben del Amitri once about some woman hurling a burrito at him for his "temerity" complimenting her feet! His perspective is that this is the cost of doing business... and for every negative experience he's had the positives are more than worth the cost. I won't argue that mate-selection (like life in general) is fair (check out "hotchickswithdouchebags.com); but don't lose perspective. Don't dismiss EVERY WOMAN because you've seen some that are too shallow for your tastes (would you want women to equate you with every Jersey-shore asshat they've ever met?) I think the main message is that women desire more desirable men (duh) AND there is more to desirability than looks, clothes, money (though it definitely helps). I bet Henry Kissinger gets more box than Justin Timberlake even now To BlackHxC88: I'm sorry you've been hurt in the past, I hope you don't take your ball and go home... the game is still on and there's fun to be had.
Posted by omni7phat (Member # 999) on :
I usually focus on a particular color of polish the woman might be wearing, or the cute or unique pair of shoes they have on. I have always had some kind of rapport with the woman though. I have never made a cold comment on a woman's feet that she did not already open the door to.
Posted by eddi (Member # 11744) on :
I've complimented alot of girls on their feet but they generally bring up the topic of feet or shoes.... Like last week my best friends wife started saying how big her feet are now and she hate it cause she can't find shoes. I said they dont look big to me, thats went she said " i'm a size 12" her and her husband are almost same size!!!! I said "really? wow they are big!!! I didn't notice cause your feet always look good!" she smiled " yeah I give my self a pedi a couple times a week".... I was hard by now so i said" I can tell your feet look soft and your nails are always perfect, but even with out a pedi i think your feet have a nice shape"
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