Just a quick story about a friend of mine who I have become quite good friends with through work. She's 24 (I'm 23), slim, with long brown hair and one of the prettiest faces you will ever see, she is smoking hot. We've known eachother for about 5 years and we've become good friends in that time.
Once a month at the office we have a day where we can pay £1 to wear whatever clothes we like and the money goes to a different charity every time. I've never told her about my foot fetish because I've never felt the need to, but I have told her in the past that the loud sound of flip flops irritates me alot (that is true, I know some of you like it but it bothers me). So today was 'non uniform day' and she wore flip flops into the office just to annoy me (so she says), and she told me her feet get very hot and sweaty otherwise. We shared a little joke about it, but throughout the day she would keep walking past my desk slapping her flip flops against her soles as loud as she could, and generally drawing alot of attention to them. This I did not mind due to the fact she is stunning, and has very pretty feet. She has always had her toenails painted either red, black, or pink whenever I've seen them too, which is a massive bonus.
This got me thinking, does she know about my fetish? Or does she really think she is irritating me and amusing herself with it? I must say I have given her a foot massage before but we were both very drunk. I know she remembers it because we have spoken about it since.
Unfortunately there is no chance of any action because as I say, we are good friends, and she has a boyfriend who who I have met a few times and he's a nice guy. I think for the time being I am more than happy for her to flaunt her feet in front of me, whether she realises exactly what she's doing or not.
Thanks Posted by Raym3n (Member # 44308) on :
Hey Jack8, seems like you got a really cool co-worker. Sadly, I think she's just wearing the flip flops just to annoy you. On the other hand, you did get to rub her feet once. Maybe you should mention it one day if the topic is brought up. Then maybe who knows? As for the boyfriend part, that sucks. Maybe when she becomes single you two can become a little more closer and open about your fetish and the rest becomes history haha.
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
I agree with the flip-flops worn as a goofy nusance.
but as Raym3n said...hey, you got your hands on her feet...maybe you get get them on them again and a little bit more;)
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
I'd have to say that she is flirting with you.
Her trying to annoy you says that she is going out of her way for your attention. If she didn't want your attention, she wouldn't try to "annoy" you. It's her way of flirting.
Does she know you have a foot fetish? Don't know the whole story so I can't tell you. But she is definitely flirting with you.
Posted by Janet Mason (Member # 24724) on :
Hi sweetie...as woman, my advice is do NOT assume that she knows of or even suspects your foot fetish. That's would be a super-common "guy mistake"...getting so turned on by a woman that you start thinking she can read your mind and is coming on to or teasing you. I can't tell you how many times I've seen this sort of thing go badly.
I would say the best plan of action is one of two options.
The first option, especially if you'd like to get involved with her on a sexual level (at least as far as foot fetishism goes), is to discreetly tell her about your fetish and how her feet attract you/turn you on.
The second option, if she is NOT someone you want to get involved with on that level, is to just keep your feelings to yourself. If you don't "want" her, there's no need for her to know something so deeply personal and potentially embarrassing.
Of course, if you DO desire her but can't muster up the courage to tell her about your fetish and what her feet do to you, then a third option is to still "keep it inside" and feel frustrated about it. But that's what most "foot guys" do anyway...and how happy are they with that kind of eternally closeted desire ruling their lives? Not very, as years of posts here and on other foot forums attest to.
Posted by sportyruss (Member # 16512) on :
I had a similar thing happen to me at work recently, with one of my female colleagues playfully tapping my legs with her feet and it secretly turning me on. The trouble with our fetish is that something that is seen as an innocent bit of playfulness, instantly gets our hopes up, and we suddenly think that the girl that we like has some sort of psychic intuition about us liking feet. Sadly, the truth is that 99.9% of them would not realise you had a foot fetish unless you openly told them. Of course if you want to keep her as a friend, is it worth the risk of her very possibly feeling awkward about your admission. If it was me I would just enjoy the view and nothing more.
Posted by reamow (Member # 37306) on :
I love that that the beatiful Janet Mason chimes in with the female perspective she even gives you two options (naughty or nice). However, Jack8 did say that he gave her a foot massage which means she is either REALLY REALLY down to earth or she has a thing for you as well; how the hell did you manage to give her a foot massage anyway?
Posted by Jiao (Member # 44950) on :
Well...everyone has a nickel for their opinion, so here is mine. I don't think the opposite sex bother to annoy you if they are not interested in you on some level. I also have not met a woman who would not let you touch them in comfort or sensuality if they were not interested in you, on some level. I have also seen many people devoutly mated that were still looking for something else. So I say go for what you want and let the chips fall where they lie.
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