I have never told any of my friends about my foot fetish for fear of ridicule, but have any of you who have admitted it seen a change in attitude towards you.
(Apologies in advance if this question has been done to death!)
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
At our age (40s) friends aren't shocked by something as mild as that. If you're a young guy in your late teens or early 20s its probably a different story as your buds may give you a hard time. But if they're your friends you probably give them shit all the time as well as friends do. Some of them may change their attitude toward you especially if they too have a foot fetish. Then you would have someone to compare notes with in real life rather then just on a forum!
Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
No not really. I was at a my friends party all of our friends were there and my friends wife asked me if I wanted to see her new pedicure.
I said why not and grabbed her foot pulled it up to my face to look at her cute little toes and then grabbed one them and said they looked nice.
Then every body wanted me to put her toes in my mouth and I almost did even her husband told me to do it and she even told me to go for it. So I think my friends dont realy care what I do with womens feet.
[ August 02, 2012, 08:20 PM: Message edited by: Tiny Dave ]
Posted by sperminator (Member # 17162) on :
I thought it would be very uncomfortable to openly discuss my love for women's feet then I was surprised by the reaction. My wife told her friends when we were having a late night cookout / movie night in the yard. Three of her friends had their bare feet resting on my fire pit so when I would add wood I got great closeup views. They were giggling and wiggling their toes in my face. The conversation turned to who likes their feet rubbed or ever had their toes sucked. Then one friend said she had the best feet and then the competitiveness started. One husband and myself were designated foot judges. It was hard because they were all great but my wife won. Not wanting to be the losers then it came up who has the best smelling / tastiest feet. The other husbands were not willing to do that and I stayed quiet. So they came up one at a time and put their feet in my lap. Hysterical laughter breaks out and I wasn't sure if this would be cool with the other dudes present. After minutes of pressuring me I smelled and licked the soles to toes of each girl. They were all great with one being really sweaty/ salty. Needless to say I almost came in my pants. It ended with foot massages for two of them and the wife. On a side note. This little event led to a great foot session with the wife and her friend Maria a week or so later. I got to fully worship their feet at the same time. It was hard to give equal time to each since I do my wife's feet almost daily. Maria's were a tiny size 5 with sky high arches. Plus Maria moans more and squirms in pleasure since she's new to it. been great ever since my friends.
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
i've lost a few friends cause of it when i was younger, so now i just keep it to myself
Posted by Those Toes (Member # 2489) on :
I've lost some "friends" over my fetish and also running my website. They thought it was weird and freaky. Frankly, I couldn't give a shit because it all comes full circle when their ex's hit me up to model their toes for my site or even a *ahem* private session.
And I also agree with the whole age thing as well. Many guys my age and younger, they have a narrow mind sexually and it seems that they are not as open to the foot fetish or any fetish in particular. When I asked a group of people at a party once "does anyone have any type of fetish?" they were all replying, "like chains and whips and stuff?" Get a clue and get educated! Are people out there really that sexually constipated?
Posted by Talos (Member # 39913) on :
Telling my friends was the best thing I could have done. They've gotten me action a lot of times.
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
I get the feeling my roommate seemed to embrace his prudishness when he found out about my foot fetish. Not that I care, but I do get upset if he makes comments and I let him know it isn't cool for him to do so. My other friends seem indifferent, and really, I tend to keep it to myself even if someone does know. I can talk to my oldest cousin about it, and only because his foot fetish is as big as mine. There's a couple of buddies here and there from work that I've been able to be open with. Plus, most everyone knows I think vanilla sexuality is boring.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
Yup. Alotta my workmates already know and one of them brought it up during a conversation and one other friend found out at that particular moment turned to me and said "do you have a foot-fetish" I replied "Yup", he said always wanted to meet a dude with a foot-fetish, I extended my hand and re-introduced myself (although I've known him for a while) . Still carried on as normal after that.
Quite a few other mates were interviewing me with alot of questions poking and pronging as if I was some lab rat ....I talked them round and all is still cool Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
I've told a few of my friends about my fetish, and they didn't treat me any differently.
Posted by Steve Mason (Member # 24827) on :
I'm not exactly sure why anyone would tell someone else other than their very closest friends about any sexual fetish that he/she might have...but even then, if you "lose a friendship" over it then the "friend" must be a very, very superficial person indeed if he/she would dump you over something so utterly inconsequential to their own lives. You're better off without them, trust me.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I remember when my love for feet came to light due to my friends using my laptop while I was out that they all made jokes and laughed about it. Told them to get fucked. After that day they let it go but every once in awhile it would come up in the group(the topic of feet) and I'd see some of them looking at me expecting me to pop a boner or something. Call them out on it and make THEM feel weird about it and they usually shut up.
Seriously guys, if you got friends that break your balls over loving women's feet tell them to fuck off and get fucked. Sounds harsh but so is them criticizing your sexual life/aspects. If you all of a sudden told them you were gay would they be as harsh to you? Probably not.
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
LMMFAO...I dont give a flying fuck as to what anybody thinks about me, my adoration of cute female feet or anything else. I learned a long time ago...Fuck People and their opinions...lmao...But I still love everyone, EVEN MY ENEMIES...
But to be honest, I have converted more men into foot guys..They may not be as bad as we are BUT THEY ARE PAYING ATTENTION..
I remember one of my friends saying..."Man, You fucked me up with this pretty feet thing. I can't fuck this girls anymore because her feet are ugly as hell..."
Posted by Iowas foot slave (Member # 28971) on :
All of my friends know of my fetish. I've lost a few friends for it but it didn't bother me. Some friends act slightly different now too, such as ALWAYS wearing socks/shoes when I'm around. Most of my friends are ok with it and even crack jokes now and then.
Posted by Augustine Trott (Member # 45021) on :
I don't have a serious fetish but as a foot model it's interesting to see how my friends react to my job if I decide to tell them. For some of them it's a little strange but some laugh and I've even had a girlfriend agree to do a shoot with me (:
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Nothing changes. Girls dig it....I come off as "unapproachable" to some women at times...my foot fetish sort of levels the playing field if that makes any sense. It's my weakness and they enjoy being able to exploit it.
As for the fellas....I like what I like. I date pretty women....and introduce them to pretty women....they can't really give me much shit. No one even tries.
Never told my family...they'd give me shit though!
Posted by abow (Member # 21509) on :
Just one of all my friends thinks im a freak, Im 22 but it's ok, he has not gotten laid sience atleast 4 years ago so...
The coolest part with being open with it was that one of my closest friends admited it too. So now we can walk around bars scoping out the best pair and have a cool conversation about it.
There was a time when I was shy about it. Nowadays it's like the best icebreaker ever when talking to girls, seriously. If shes openminden she will have a million questions for you..
Posted by lostinthought (Member # 44961) on :
Wow. I've been trying to be more open about my fetish, but I've never even hit on the subject with my friends. I'm sure at least one of them knows, just because my eyes are hard to miss when there's a nice set of toes nearby.
I know I eventually will (I'm getting to old to care about hiding it), but there's always a concern my female friends might be a bit more reserved around me when I do.
Posted by 27cedw80 (Member # 35792) on :
My best friend and his lady were interested in knowing more about my foot fetish. I was wasted one night with them when I brought it up. His lady asked if I liked her feet which I did.
Posted by soledoctor (Member # 44891) on :
I'm close to 40 and as the years have gone by and my fetish for women's feet has been revealed or exposed , I have noticed little or no change in the attitude from my male or female friends. I will say that certain female friends always have their socks or closed type shoes on when they know that I will be around. And I can't help but think it was done for that reason. One particular girl told me just a few weeks ago, in being flirtatious, that she heard I got a big time foot fetish. I did not deny it, but unfortunately this chic is not cool about it and is loyal to her boyfriend. So I went no further with the chance of possibly getting some foot love from her. But she is still a good friend and it's one of those things that just does not get brought up in conversations. I guess it makes people uncomfortable -like those late night talk show hosts who act like it's so weird and 'why?' do you admire feet. Correction non-foot lovers; women's feet. Posted by Jay the Footman (Member # 42837) on :
quote:Originally posted by Those Toes: I've lost some "friends" over my fetish and also running my website. They thought it was weird and freaky. Frankly, I couldn't give a shit because it all comes full circle when their ex's hit me up to model their toes for my site or even a *ahem* private session.
And I also agree with the whole age thing as well. Many guys my age and younger, they have a narrow mind sexually and it seems that they are not as open to the foot fetish or any fetish in particular. When I asked a group of people at a party once "does anyone have any type of fetish?" they were all replying, "like chains and whips and stuff?" Get a clue and get educated! Are people out there really that sexually constipated?
Amen!
Posted by Alcarde (Member # 44028) on :
Not in the way I really wished it could have. I mean, I had my wife's best friends on my site when I was running it, love-feet.com, and not once did I ever get anything more than to look at their feet and take pictures. One of those friends is married with a kid and her feet still look great. Her husband knows I have a thing for her feet and he's cool with that. Would I ever act? No, I'd get into trouble with my wife. If my wife started it, like said "Here, John, lick L's feet" and shoved her feet in my face, yeah, I'd lick them and take the beating later.
I hate to be mean, but the majority of my friends growing up, were large guys who in turn, married large women. I don't have a turn-off for fat feet, but their feet just haven't made me excited or even turned-on. So, I don't jump out there because I also trust my friends and wouldn't want to do anything with their wife, that turns me on.
My non-married friends, don't care. Oh yeah, I do wish the non-married guys would be like, "hey come over here, my sister wants you to worship her stinky feet" and I would try to sneak over there. But a married guy with mostly married friends doesn't really work that way. Nothing really changed, no one thought it was weird.
Posted by FootBoi88 (Member # 43020) on :
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. Still carried on as normal after that.![[Laugh]](graemlins/laugh.gif)
....I talked them round and all is still cool ![[Cool]](cool.gif)
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Get a clue and get educated! Are people out there really that sexually constipated? ![[Smile]](smile.gif)