So I got a new gf and she of course knows I like her feet. She's never had anyone into her feet so its new to her but she did say it kinda turned her on a bit the other day during a fj (haha score) and she lets me play with them.
So the other day I was playing with them and she said "I hope you don't like my feet more than me"...caught off guard I rambled off something lol. Now I've never played with her feet and not pleased her. I always make sure to pay attention to the rest of her.
Now my question...anyone else run into this situation with a girl who's never had anyone into feet? What can I do to explain to her or ease her mind?
Posted by lovetoes1984 (Member # 45078) on :
Don't over indulge when playing when you get to touch her feet. Give her foot massages anytime she wants one and make worshiping them part of foreplay and focus on your girl. If you the footjob she gave you as a special thing she will not feel neglected.
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
I don't know...Sometimes I feel that Foot Jobs are over rated but when I do feel the need for "Foot Pussy", I like to always make sure that I satisfy my girl first. I do that before I have an orgasm of any kind by handjob, footjob, oral or vaginal...AND REMEMBER...WOMEN HAVE BEEN TRAINED TO BELIEVE THAT THEIR PUSSY IS GOLDEN...Never let your girl think that her feet are more important to you than her Pussy...Always make sure that you keep her believing that, EVEN IF IT'S NOT TRUE...
Posted by FootBoi88 (Member # 43020) on :
quote:Originally posted by DeTrOiT: I don't know...Sometimes I feel that Foot Jobs are over rated but when I do feel the need for "Foot Pussy", I like to always make sure that I satisfy my girl first. I do that before I have an orgasm of any kind by handjob, footjob, oral or vaginal...AND REMEMBER...WOMEN HAVE BEEN TRAINED TO BELIEVE THAT THEIR PUSSY IS GOLDEN...Never let your girl think that her feet are more important to you than her Pussy...Always make sure that you keep her believing that, EVEN IF IT'S NOT TRUE...
Agreed! Always follow the Gordon Rule, Pussy is the divine light of women, don't put Feet above them or you lose everything! Balance is key! Trust me I learned the hard way with past gf's, not the sexy wifey of mines! Please her first always works! lol
Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
It's alot like having sex, no we don't want to kiss and cuddle we just want to fuck. A foot fetish is kind of like that, make her think that she is the prize and everything else is second. There will be plenty of time to worship her feet any you like, just be patient grasshopper. Her feet will come to you.
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
Just remember, feet are just part of the whole package. A line that always works for me is that I simply want to love every last inch of her body as much as I possibly can.
Posted by ArcheyMoore (Member # 43783) on :
That question usually comes from someone that needs to know that, at least for me, that feet get equal treatment.
I always joke that I'm capable of loving a girl "head to toe," literally.
Posted by feetplease (Member # 36371) on :
I don't understand when people ask these questions. Unless you have no experience with girls, its no different than easing a girl about you liking her because of the whole package and not just because of her ass/leg/boobs/etc.
Its simple, just try not playing with her feet every single time at the beginning. She's cool with it so just restrain yourself and next time go at it. She might be thinking that if you're really into her feet every time you fuck. It can seem from their perspective like that's what you care about the most if its the only thing you drool over and can't wait to play with. Like anything else in life, moderation is key or you just have to act the same way about the rest of her body if you're not down for moderation.
Posted by dbacks9534 (Member # 26882) on :
Without reading any of the above comments mine would be that maybe she is insecure thinking that you might just like her for her feet, my reply would be that her feet are a part of her and you like love her whole body Posted by LovelyLadies (Member # 5079) on :
Remember, woman love to feel connected to the person they are making love to. Being able to kiss and be up close to that person is huge and the fact that the feet are at the opposite end of her face, it means your face will be down there more often. My wife doesn't mind at all letting me have my way with her feet but when it comes to having sex and whatnot, she generally prefers me to be closer to her face than down there as she feels most connected with me being closer to her and able to kiss. All I gotta say is never neglect the upper part, lol.
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
quote:Originally posted by DeTrOiT: I don't know...Sometimes I feel that Foot Jobs are over rated but when I do feel the need for "Foot Pussy", I like to always make sure that I satisfy my girl first. I do that before I have an orgasm of any kind by handjob, footjob, oral or vaginal...AND REMEMBER...WOMEN HAVE BEEN TRAINED TO BELIEVE THAT THEIR PUSSY IS GOLDEN...Never let your girl think that her feet are more important to you than her Pussy...Always make sure that you keep her believing that, EVEN IF IT'S NOT TRUE...
If we had a 'like' button, I'd have given this post the like. Totally agree that making sure she thinks you think her pussy is golden and smells like a candy cane is utmost before any foot play. I love the smell of moist pussy anyways, and I always let her know it.
Posted by TwistedMethod (Member # 13216) on :
quote:Originally posted by feetplease: I don't understand when people ask these questions. Unless you have no experience with girls, its no different than easing a girl about you liking her because of the whole package and not just because of her ass/leg/boobs/etc.
Got plenty of experience but never really ran into this issue. Was just looking for others insights/ experiences. I pay plenty of attention to the rest of her but guess I'll have to make her more aware of it. She will come around, it can be tough breaking in a newbie girl to the feet thing Posted by californicator (Member # 10116) on :
quote:Originally posted by ArcheyMoore: That question usually comes from someone that needs to know that, at least for me, that feet get equal treatment.
I always joke that I'm capable of loving a girl "head to toe," literally.
Best line. Period.
Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
Thread full of win
Posted by feetplease (Member # 36371) on :
@TwistedMethod
You haven't had any of them be insecure? They're usually always insecure about something and you have to comfort them and make them believe its just in their head. In this case, making her believe you like her and not just her feet requires you showing her that by not letting it show that you're thinking of her feet every time you're with her.
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(haha score) and she lets me play with them.![[Smile]](smile.gif)