There's this girl I went to high school with. We never really talked at the time, but she added me on Facebook after we graduated, and we started texting each other recently. I told her about my foot fetish, and she said it's not a big deal, and when I asked if they looked nice, she sent me a picture, and they are actually pretty decent. I brought up sucking her toes, and she said she wouldn't mind trying something new, and when I asked if she'd give me a footjob, she said she would enjoy it. I even brought up sex and she said she'd be down for it (I'm a virgin), but I don't really want to have sex. I'd rather wait till I actually get a girlfriend (never had a girlfriend) to have sex, but I wouldn't mind getting a footjob. What can I do to calm my nerves?
Posted by blackmagict34 (Member # 41319) on :
Jerk off, "its like going out there with a loaded gun"
Posted by fordguy351 (Member # 41684) on :
LOL ^^^^
Posted by Talos (Member # 39913) on :
Waiting for sex is what I regret the most of my teen years. Don't put the pussy on a pedestal.
Posted by Kokaith (Member # 22763) on :
"Waiting for sex is what I regret the most of my teen years. Don't put the pussy on a pedestal."
This. You sir are a wise man.
Posted by larrrr (Member # 42092) on :
Confidence is the key. Being nervous and sex on your end probably won't work out... Just take it slow and go with instinct.
Posted by CaliCouple (Member # 45139) on :
quote:Originally posted by Talos: Waiting for sex is what I regret the most of my teen years. Don't put the pussy on a pedestal.
what he said.
Posted by Those Toes (Member # 2489) on :
Virginity. Throw it out, don't save it.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
Jump on it now and don't look back or hesitate. No reason to save your self for "the one." Any updates or progress made yet? Your post is six days old.
Posted by aerodrew (Member # 2682) on :
Sounds like you have a pretty cool chick. You'll probably nut so quick from her footjob, sex will be the last thing on your mind....
But if the situation is right run with with either... The New Testament days are over dude!!
Posted by FootBoi88 (Member # 43020) on :
Ummm...da fukkk u waiting for?! lol
Posted by ozkar (Member # 13264) on :
You are nervous because you are doing a lot at once. It's easier to talk to girls on the internet because you have time to think and react privately. You put a lot on the table for your first face to face interaction... you know, like new expectations for yourself. It may help to hang out with her with sexual stuff temporarily off the table and then just see where it goes. Maybe by the end of the night you'll feel less nervous and end up getting there anyway, or maybe next time.