One of the woes of dating in the winter is that you don't get to see her feet until you get her into bed, and even then, you might not get a glimpse until the next morning.
To spare the suspense, the foot fetish gods really jerked me around this time. You know how it goes. Great girl, nice everything else, and downright untouchable feet.
We've all been there. How have you guys handled it?
Surely you come up with a reason rather than telling the hurtful truth. My truth is this: I want to continue seeing other people.
Posted by kb24son (Member # 31852) on :
i understand you bro i like the rounded and well shaped toe nails and nicely kept to. If there unkept and chipped ill run away in a heart beat.
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
Unkempt feet I can deal with. A few regularly scheduled pedicures and they will be manageble. But aesthetically ugly feet? Bunions, random midget toes (has anyone seen that before? One miniature toe amongst all of them?), heavy callous and other things... I simply can't live with.
Posted by Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
I definitely can relate. I'm living a cold environment for the first time ever. Women's feet are hidden behind thick socks and boots.
I went to a few parties where removing the shoes was necessary. It was much easier then as at least you can see the general shape of their feet and spot red flags such as bunions. You can even tell if they have high arches or not.
Still it's not until the socks come off that you really know if she's eligible.
It's an issue. So much so I'm not committing to anybody until this summer when the feet come out -- unless I stumble across a winner in the meantime.
As for handling it -- I just tell them (before we hook up) I'm not sure if I want a relationship.
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
ha...has happened to me many times.
Very simple. She takes off her socks. You see the goods. Goods are no good.
Sex or no sex, as you are walking her back to her car, bus stop, apartment, whatever, (the same night you met her or the next morning after she sleeps over your place), you have a little exchange.
Exchange goes like this;
You: "I had a great time! I'll call you soon, we'll hang out again."
Her: "I had a great time too! Yea definitely! Call me!"
You: "OK! Have a good night!" (or day)
She escapes into the aforementioned whatever, you turn around, and you never call her back. If she tries calling you, or sends you a text, you don't reply.
Make sense?
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
I met a beautiful woman one sometime ago after seeing her feet after I ask can I give her a foot messages. Her feet was ugly to me and didn't see her again. My friends said I was czary.
Posted by screwhead20 (Member # 16242) on :
quote:Originally posted by Arch_Analyst: It's an issue. So much so I'm not committing to anybody until this summer when the feet come out --
Haha that was too funny...
quote:Originally posted by buster372002: One of the woes of dating in the winter is that you don't get to see her feet until you get her into bed, and even then, you might not get a glimpse until the next morning.
This is funny to me because...I'M HAVING THEM SHOW ME THE FEET ASAP...I don't wait around...No need in me saying more than 10 minutes worth of convo for bunioned up ape feet with hammer toes, elephant skin and thick yellow nails that grow up not out..
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
This is kind of funny situation! Don't mean to laugh, but it is! I feel for you.
A couple things that used to work for me...
Tell her that you have a lot of things going on right now, and need some time to sort things out. Tell her that you have too much respect for her to commit to a relationship that you don't feel you can equally contribute to.
If she keeps pushing you for a better answer...
Tell her you think you still have feelings for an ex, and that you have too much respect for her to lead her on at this point.... and you need time to think about things.
Posted by dbacks9534 (Member # 26882) on :
Summer time maybe the best time to pick up on a beautiful woman? at least many of them are in sandals so you get to see the goods right away!
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
How did I handle it? I admit, I was heartless.
I hung in there as long as I could, but after she helped me move from relatives' house to my first apartment, I dropped her. First, I started to act distant, and didn't call or talk to her much. Then one day, I lowered the boom, and said I wanted to be by myself.
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Haha that was too funny...