So my girlfriend has mentioned a few times that she had an ex who had a foot fetish and that he used to do a weird/creepy thing with her feet. When asked about it she basically said he got footjobs from her.
At one point I was tickling her feet a lot and she asked if I had a foot fetish which I denied. That was a while ago and we've been dating eight months now.
I still haven't told her that I do have a foot fetish but I think she's probably figured that out by now. Since one night I just went for it and started sucking on her toes at first she was reluctant because she said it reminded her of her ex but now she's fine with it.
She doesn't mind me kissing her feet and sex/just fooling around usually ends for me with sucking her toes/sole licking etc and masturbating. On occasion she'll even say "Don't you want my feet?/Do you want my foot?"
Anyway lately I have been wanting a footjob from her and not sure how to ask for it really. In the past when she's mentioned that I said stuff like "I'm not into that" "I don't know what I'd get out of that" just that type of stuff. On a couple of occasions though while having her feet in my lap she has rubbed me through my pants.
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
You probably shouldn't have denied that you had a foot fetish in the first place, but that's already past. At this point, you'll probably have to come to some sort of compromise. Get involved with whatever her fantasies are, as she's been (so far) doing the same for you.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
I agree with Mike- though i understand why you felt unconfortable acknowledging your fetish to her you shouldn't have. On the positive side it sure sounds like she's being pretty accepting of the foot stuff. I think that's a very positive sign. But there's no denying that at some point you'll need to come clean and tell her that you do love feet.
Posted by Daren Luvswrinkles (Member # 43489) on :
Level with her, and tell her that because of the comments she made regarding her ex's foot fetish, you didn't feel she'd support yours. But it's something you'd like to express, preferably with her.
As for her comment "I don't know what I'd get out of that," I'd counter with "doesn't making me happy count for something?"
Good luck!
Posted by sbdo (Member # 42964) on :
That's why past relationships should never be a part of the present. Makes no sense to keep living a lie.
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
If she doesn't mind you kissing her feet, and asks you whether you like her feet, she's at least understanding of you paying attention to her feet, which some girls don't even do. I agree with the previous replies. I would tell her the truth, and I have a feeling she will be fine with understanding it.
Good Luck.
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
How old are you guys? If you're very young than I totally understand your reluctance. As you age you;ll figure out pretty quick that a lot of women who are into you dont care about your fetish. They just do what you like because you like it.
Posted by SXEdx (Member # 33600) on :
quote:Originally posted by Sinnister: How old are you guys? If you're very young than I totally understand your reluctance. As you age you;ll figure out pretty quick that a lot of women who are into you dont care about your fetish. They just do what you like because you like it.
We are both in our early 20s
[ June 18, 2013, 11:40 PM: Message edited by: SXEdx ]
Posted by Tony3 (Member # 45592) on :
This had happen to me before
Posted by YuppieFootGuy (Member # 23221) on :
Her ex might have not balanced things out and was perhaps not fulfilling her needs.
Best thing is be up front with your footjob desires but ensure you balance it out by meeting her needs as well Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
It sounds like if she's letting you suck her toes and even mentioned that it reminded her of her ex, but is cool with it, you're in on the footjobs as well.
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