Perhaps you werent very interested in sex pre 20s or maybe you weren't interested in it at all and you only cared about feet, so what was it for you?
For me, i wasnt interested in sex at all until i reached my 20s, and even then it took a back seat to feet and still does to this day, it is growing as time goes by though.
So in school when all my friends where going through their teen phases and talking about breasts and booty, i nodded my head and pretended to be interested when really, none of it interested me at all, just feet.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
I was more driven for feet but after I had intercourse I got a major thing for pussy as well. My perfect encounter is intercourse with her feet up and me sucking on her toes and smothering my face with her soles.
Posted by Iowas foot slave (Member # 28971) on :
I hardly ever thought about sex, even after I lost my virginity. I remember being about 12 and was thinking about feet fairly often. Even now, I'd say I think about sex 5% of the time, feet take up the other 95%. Most sexual thoughts have always been about feet.
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
I'm like 5th gear, my love for pussy trumped my desire for feet after I had it the first time, and now in my 50's, my ultimate is intercourse and those gorgeous feet in my avatar in my face. I love that female musky foot aroma so much......
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I matured late too. Wasn't till my early to mid twenties when I was interested in sex.
Posted by sbdo (Member # 42964) on :
They went hand and hand for me, starting around 6th grade. I'm like catsman though, pussy trumped everything once I got wet for the first time.
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
No sex for me until soph year of college, age 20. Was much more interested in feet at a much younger age. Sex came secondary, and later.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Sex was an afterthought for me as well, I mean, I was constantly horny since I can remember but in terms of fantasizing about feet or sex it was always feet first with me. When i lost my virginity at age 16 from then on it was pussy combined with feet...but when jerking off I needed to think about feet/see feet.
When having sex now with the wife its gotta involve feet for the most part...well, to be an awesome time for me it does lol I got me a winner though fellas, when she finishes before I do she jams the feet either in my face or around my cock without me even asking or grabbing. Literally blow my load about 30 seconds later when she does that Posted by Talos (Member # 39913) on :
My friends count the number of women they've slept with. I count the number of women who's feet I've had... I've lost count.
I've never jerked off thinking of sex, tits or ass. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 23. I've since had sex with 3 different women multiple times and I still enjoy feet better. I like sex, but I absolutely love getting a handjob while having feet smothering my face.
Posted by archadmirer (Member # 3142) on :
Legs and face were everything until ~25 or so... I only had sex as a means to get feet! I began appreciating breasts more and more as I approached 30, it's nice to finally see what all the fuss was about Posted by elegantbarefeet Foot Lounge- LA (Member # 45862) on :
oh no. We might like feet, but at the end it has to end up on the same spot. We all want the same thing deep inside of us,,.let's not lie,,jejejje
Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
Never simply had the "feet" take precedence over everything else. I liked everything about girls. Their hair, eyes, lips, boobs, ass, legs, feet, smile, personality, and the way they "smelled". Sure, the feet had to be yummy, but there was so much more to appreciate aswell......
Posted by Joblom (Member # 44045) on :
I didn't really think about sex until my late teens.
Posted by mrfoots (Member # 25272) on :
i honestly don't remember when it really started for me... I know as a kid, I used to sneak up on people as they were asleep in recliners and smell their feet, then I remember this one girl Jennifer. I barely remember what she looked like even but still, I remember this one time when we had indoor recess cause it was raining outside and her shoes got totally soaked so she had her shoes and socks off and we had silent reading so she was at the table reading kind of away from the class but she was sitting on one foot and the other was on the balls, heel up toes on the ground and at the time I didn't realize it but I think that's hwere my love for a defined foot shape through arch came to be...
since then, I remember sneaking foot related thoughts into conversations with my friends and seeing where their mind was at and it seemed like they thought feet were important, but not a deal breaker or a major concern. anybody remember TLC's song "red light special?" that was dream come TRUE! both Tboz and Left eye got their feet licked if I remember right. or at least massaged. also, one of Janet jackson's friends (same-ish time fram) in "that's the way love goes" and I'd talk about those music videos and with every thing going on at the time (like Dre and Snoop, sir Mix a lot, Luke Wrex n effects) you'd think I"d have more bodies to talk about but no.... those were the two I focused on. I'm actually surprised, looking back, nobody cought on.... anyways, since then I've been a foot HOUND! lol was way more into feet than sex. I could rub and smell feet all day. It was easier for me to talk to my best of friends about sex than it was about feet
Posted by Jay the Footman (Member # 42837) on :
I'm actually that kind of guy now. When I was younger, teens/ early twenties it was all about the pussy. I always had a foot fetish since I was very very very young, but the feet was the cherry on top, but the cake was the pussy! Mostly because in my teens and early twenties I barely got any. lol
Now it seems as if I can pull pussy (and feet) of a conveyor belt, and just plain ol' pussy makes me *yawns*, these days, (I'm 31) I'd rather get me a good footjob OR even a marathon foot sucking/ licking session and I'm good. Now, pussy is just an extra bonus, but I aim for the feet first.
Posted by Jay the Footman (Member # 42837) on :
I remember that TLC video too. It was just T-Boz getting her feet licked though. Left Eye was dressed like a pimp, with some type of robe, pimp hat and cane, and I forgot what Chili's scene was like, but I do remember it was only T-Boz getting her feet served up.
Posted by Boychick1983 (Member # 46261) on :
I like feet and sex Im like the barefootmanics guy I love fuming a pussy while smelling feet and girls love it too.
Posted by spartanguy (Member # 6990) on :
Feet and sex have always been equal for me. Of course a huge emphasis on feet. I have adored female feet since I was a very young child. As long as I can remember.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I was very much "feet only" in my early years - i.e. teens and twenties. That began changing once I got into my 30s, although by that point I was comfortable enough with my foot fetish to "own it". That led to many great feet related experiences with women - toe sucking, feet licking and footjobs with no "regular sex" involved.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
I was probably interested in sex at 15 but feet at age 4/5. So it was all feet in my early teens
Posted by Jiao (Member # 44950) on :
I have always loved women,,,,everything about them, since kindergarten. When I was young, although always loving feet, I never really thought of not fucking a girl first,,,worry about feet later. As I aged, and after years of great footjobs, all I really want for sex, is feet. To me, nothing compares to the orgasim from someone skilled at it, no other way to orgasim compares! NONE!! I'm fine with pleasing a woman any way I can, love to orally please them. But for me, for my orgasim, I want a toe job every time.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
Once you start with a foot fetish, it's an interesting youth and managing sex with feet.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
Feet = Sex.
If you were thinking about feet, and it got your dick hard. You were thinking about sex. Plain and simple.
That's why it's called a fetish. It's the same thing to us. We need feet to ignite our sex drives. Traditional dick+vagina don't do it for us, unless feet are involved. But because most people don't link feet & sex together, it often leads people to believe that are 'late-bloomers' when that's not the case. You are normal, and have sexual thoughts just like everyone else.
I hate that term late-bloomer, bc it's often used incorrectly. There is no one-size-fits-all. If you were interested in feet at 12, and it got your dick hard, then you were thinking about sex at an early age just like everyone else.
Even if it's as simple as massaging a girl's feet. Most people find that to be non-sexual act, but if it brought you pleasure, then in your mind your hormones are reacting the same way. Like the way women orgasm over money and shoes. In fact, most women can't even orgasm, unless she feels financially secure.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote: If you were interested in feet at 12, and it got your dick hard, then you were thinking about sex at an early age just like everyone else.
Unless of course...you just weren't thinking about the correlation between feet and actual 'sex'. That's a blanket statement that isn't true for everyone. I have known and heard of MANY guys who never thought about sex when they were thinking about feet at this moment, in fact it was the last thing on their mind.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
quote: If you were interested in feet at 12, and it got your dick hard, then you were thinking about sex at an early age just like everyone else.
Unless of course...you just weren't thinking about the correlation between feet and actual 'sex'. That's a blanket statement that isn't true for everyone. I have known and heard of MANY guys who never thought about sex when they were thinking about feet at this moment, in fact it was the last thing on their mind.
Agreed. I could have stayed a virgin forever if it weren't for pressure from women and not felt like I missed a thing. Hell, I didn't even like sex till I was in my mid to late 20's. feet and sex are not the same for everyone.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
exactly right..
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
If you look the definition of a foot fetish, it is "the sexual interest in feet." So if thinking about feet was what got your dick hard, you were thinking about sex. There's really no difference.
If desiring feet causes the same type of hormonal reaction that penis+vagina does other people, it's sex. But instead of a penis+vagina fetish, it's a foot fetish. Same thing.
Here's an example. My friend doesn't drink soda, because it has a lot of sugar in it. But he drinks lots of Vitamin Water, and fruit juice. Since it doesn't have fizz, he doesn't consider it to be soda. Even though a 20oz bottle of Vitamin Water, or fruit punch has more sugar than a can of Coca-Cola. Your body doesn't register it differently than it would with soda. So basically, you're drinking soda.
Another example. My friend claims that he does not watch cartoons, but he watches Family Guy on a regular basis. He says that he doesn't consider Family guy to be a cartoon, bc it's not for kids. Even though the show is animated, and has both a talking dog, and a talking baby.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: If you look the definition of a foot fetish, it is "the sexual interest in feet." So if thinking about feet was what got your dick hard, you were thinking about sex. There's really no difference.
If desiring feet causes the same type of hormonal reaction that penis+vagina does other people, it's sex. But instead of a penis+vagina fetish, it's a foot fetish. Same thing.
Here's an example. My friend doesn't drink soda, because it has a lot of sugar in it. But he drinks lots of Vitamin Water, and fruit juice. Since it doesn't have fizz, he doesn't consider it to be soda. Even though a 20oz bottle of Vitamin Water, or fruit punch has more sugar than a can of Coca-Cola. Your body doesn't register it differently than it would with soda. So basically, you're drinking soda.
Another example. My friend claims that he does not watch cartoons, but he watches Family Guy on a regular basis. He says that he doesn't consider Family guy to be a cartoon, bc it's not for kids. Even though the show is animated, and has both a talking dog, and a talking baby.
No need to over-analyze this. I believe the OP used the word "sex" in conventional terms... sexual intercourse, outside of foot fetish activities.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
I know. I just hate that term "late bloomer." and it annoys me that so many people are confused as youths as to why they aren't thinking about traditional vaginal intercourse, when everybody else around them is. Causing them to feel ashamed, and think they're abnormal, when that's not the case. Its almost NEVER the case. Just because you're not vanilla doesn't make you a late bloomer. But thats what everyone thinks.
I know for a fact that when I was in jr high, and high school, all the girls wore flip flops in the spring and summer. And I had a hard time paying attention in class, bc I was looking at their feet ao much. Why? Bc I was horny. So my hormones were on schedule, and they didn't bloom late.
Heck I even remember being in elementary school, looking at my female classmate's feet. So I was probably an early bloomer.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
Having a foot fetish IE: wanting to smell, massage, lick, suck on feet has absolutely nothing to do with "sex" other than the fact your dick might be hard while doing both. It's the farthest thing from actual sex possible.
Posted by KlassFX (Member # 46337) on :
My basic view is that the fetish tends to get stronger throughout your life. It can coexist with normal sex drive, and frequently seems to start out that way. However, I see that 40+ males are primary consumers of foot fetish material. It will catch up.
And, if I could chime in on whether feet arousal=sex/porn, I understand both Key/Norcal as two halves of the same coin, but with different implications. I agree with Norcal in keeping the idea of feet arousal distinct from the definition of sex. There's a slippery-slope regulatory issue if feet are officially defined as porn or sex.
I think our preference is better characterized as an "interest"... Ironically, what we do is even safer than a hobby. The same could not be said for sex, which has a disease transmission rate, and also an injury rate among other consequences.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
quote:Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios: Having a foot fetish IE: wanting to smell, massage, lick, suck on feet has absolutely nothing to do with "sex" other than the fact your dick might be hard while doing both. It's the farthest thing from actual sex possible.
It has everything to do with sex. What's the main difference between getting a footjob, and a blowjob? I know it's not traditional sex. But if you were thinking about feet for the purposes of arousal, you were thinking about sex. I honestly do not see the difference. You seem to be set on the idea that sex can only be penis+vagina.
It's like when people say you don't really experience a movie, unless you see it on the big screen. I've watched movies on my tablet, that I've enjoyed more than movies I've seen in Imax 3D.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet:
quote:Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios: Having a foot fetish IE: wanting to smell, massage, lick, suck on feet has absolutely nothing to do with "sex" other than the fact your dick might be hard while doing both. It's the farthest thing from actual sex possible.
It has everything to do with sex. What's the main difference between getting a footjob, and a blowjob? I know it's not traditional sex. But if you were thinking about feet for the purposes of arousal, you were thinking about sex. I honestly do not see the difference. You seem to be set on the idea that sex can only be penis+vagina.
It's like when people say you don't really experience a movie, unless you see it on the big screen. I've watched movies on my tablet, that I've enjoyed more than movies I've seen in Imax 3D.
I am talking about guys who just want to sniff, lick, and suck on feet based on their characteristics though....and that is the majority of foot fetishists. Anyone can use just about anything for sexual stimulation but that isn't what the OP was talking about. 90% of guys while thinking about feet aren't thinking about sex because it's a totally different type of arousal. Sexual in nature, but that's it.
Posted by Geronimo (Member # 46383) on :
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: It's like when people say you don't really experience a movie, unless you see it on the big screen. I've watched movies on my tablet, that I've enjoyed more than movies I've seen in Imax 3D.
I 100% agree, there is not just one single way to have sex, or only one way for it to be enjoyable. Sex can come in all sorts of forms/varieties and doesn't have to fit into any one person's mold. Whats funny is to see how sex advice is sometimes given by a person who hasn't even had sex LOL
There's way too many ways to sexually enjoy feet out there and in all truth, we are all sexual creatures in some form or fashion. I wouldn't hinge the definition of my own foot fetish sexuality based on the opinions of some guy who has never even had any feet close to his bits. There's just wayyyy too many women's feet out there who I am craving to get a shot at, and yes I mean sexually with her feet!! Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote: It's like when people say you don't really experience a movie, unless you see it on the big screen. I've watched movies on my tablet, that I've enjoyed more than movies I've seen in Imax 3D.
Again, comparing something to sex that has nothing to do with it man. Let's compare apples to apples. Feet are only the gateway to sex...and only for a small population of men who aren't TRUE foot fetishists and use it as a crutch or an excuse to get in bed with a girl. Nothing wrong with that, been there..done that but sometimes it's just all about feet.
Like with those chubby gals AKAfootboyjoy likes...I wonder if he'd bone those type? My old departed Grandpa Carl (rest his weary sole lol) would say it's "All just Meat n' Potatoes Son" lol Maybe he was right afterall.
[ July 27, 2013, 10:42 AM: Message edited by: NorcalfeetStudios ]
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
I am comparing apples to apples. Pleasure is pleasure. If someone gets more pleasure from feet than they do with penis+vagina, how does that make them a late bloomer? They are still achieving the same orgasm they would get with penis+vagina.
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