Does it do anything for any of you. Just curious. I find it somewhat arousing. I have Dom tendancies and have tried it with my girlfriend. She is Subish so she liked it as a fantasy.
[ October 01, 2013, 05:58 PM: Message edited by: spartanguy ]
Posted by spartanguy (Member # 6990) on :
She enjoys restraint as fantasy play for occasional Spice. I have found it sey too. The bastinado was just a couple times but exciting.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Someone on here (Domitlio maybe?) is way into bastinado. Haven't seen much mention of it lately though. Though I love bondage and I'd gladly do it to a girl if she requested it or it turned her on but It does nothing for me.
Posted by Daren Luvswrinkles (Member # 43489) on :
It can be fun, but as has been said, she has to be into it.
I think bastinado is certainly related to the foot fetish, but it exists in a very different space than the usual lick / sniff / rub / footjob realm. 90% BDSM, 10% foot fetishism.
Posted by Zamora (Member # 1236) on :
I am into bastinado and have been since I was 4 years old. It has been always part of my foot fetish but chances to practice it have been limited to consenting girlfriends who are also subbish ( slaves ). I am not into any kind of foot torture except caning, the true bastinado.
My experience is that it is alien to the Western culture and specially the North American one. In the East, where I lived and was brought up, it is the equivalent of spanking as it is a standard form of correction. It is known and practiced. We call it falaka.
I am happy to find some base for bastinado. For me, It is not BDSM. It is 100 % foot fetish and a cultural expression.
Posted by Daren Luvswrinkles (Member # 43489) on :
quote:Originally posted by Zamora: For me, It is not BDSM. It is 100 % foot fetish and a cultural expression.
I have to concede, my cultural bias tainted my judgment. You certainly make an excellent point!
Posted by Trix (Member # 5218) on :
I'm a huge bastinado fan, but it is hard to find in my life. Most foot guys are more subish. Most subs will not be into tying my feet up and whipping them.
Posted by combine_hunter (Member # 39526) on :
I like bastinado, but I'm picky about the videos that feature it. Like with tickling and foot worship, some are just better than others.
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
It is fascinating that some foot lovers have instincts in the dom realm, and this is positive because it illustrates infinite paths of the romantic imagination. I am gently submissive, but the successful conquest of a romantic relationship in this world requires some aggression, so what r we? Posted by hyperion (Member # 39397) on :
quote:Originally posted by Trix: I'm a huge bastinado fan, but it is hard to find in my life. Most foot guys are more subish. Most subs will not be into tying my feet up and whipping them.
I would do it for a girl that was into it. I have zero sub tendencies.
Posted by itotallylovebarefeet (Member # 43881) on :
That's interesting, I didn't realise it was as common as spanking in the east. Personally I can be very submissive with my foot fetish so bastinado doesn't interest me at all.
Posted by Podnozek24 (Member # 47670) on :
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