How hard was it too, if you have, come out to friends and family about having a foot fetish? I'm 24, and I've just started. What was your experience like?
Posted by imation_pc (Member # 1480) on :
I've never told any family. As far as I know, only 3 people are aware, and I'm 27 years old. One is my ex of 10 years. I never really said it, but I'm sure by the end she figured it out (I mean she knew my favorite thing was cumming on her feet. She'd always tell me to do that once she figured it out). Another is a really close female friend, who actually thought it was cool and assured me there was nothing wrong with it. and lastly is my current love interest. I've known her for about 5 years and only told her a year ago. She loved it and once she indulged me, she learned she liked it more than she thought she ever would. Other than that I'm way too shy to tell anyone else..
Posted by Daren Luvswrinkles (Member # 43489) on :
I didn't vote, because my option didn't exist.
I didn't find it hard at all, because I never really concealed it. And, most people know (and don't care) that I find feet sexy.
Posted by KlassFX (Member # 46337) on :
Why is it necessary to discuss with your family?
"Hi mom, I want you to know that I like to lick womens' feet. How about you? What do you enjoy sexually? Great pie, by the way."
Posted by tulsafootlover (Member # 2118) on :
quote:Originally posted by KlassFX: Why is it necessary to discuss with your family?
"Hi mom, I want you to know that I like to lick womens' feet. How about you? What do you enjoy sexually? Great pie, by the way."
LOL dude love the pie part.
Posted by dissent (Member # 46691) on :
Yes, why is it nessasary, exactly?
Why does your family have to know your sexual preference let alone your trigers?
I can imagine how a similar conversation with a different fetish would go down.
"Hey grandpa, I like to wear women's clothes."
Why is it anyones business but yourself?
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I'm not gay so I don't have to "come out". I've learned a long time ago to not deal with close minded fucktards which there is plenty in this world so therefore if I feel the need to disclose this part of my sexual interest to someone then I will, but as it stands, a handful of my friends know and think its weird and laugh and my wife. And my best friend GooeyFeet69 who is a member here.
Posted by Rocky TSM (Member # 28971) on :
I realized when I was in my teens that if I didn't open up about my fetish, I'd never satisfy it. Since then, I've been very open about it.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by KlassFX: Why is it necessary to discuss with your family?
"Hi mom, I want you to know that I like to lick womens' feet. How about you? What do you enjoy sexually? Great pie, by the way."
Exactly.
Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
My personal life is between my wife, girlfriend or the woman I am going be with. My family doesn't need to know how I party.
Posted by Doc Ock (Member # 46755) on :
Mine started...a couple years back on tumblr and on twitter. I would just randomly search things about foot fetishes and tell ppl how it is etc. Just recently this year I told this girl who posts nothing but feet pics on instagram everything about my thing for feet. Best part is that she understands. As for relatives and friends...I believe some know. Due to the posts on my twitter and liking pretty feet pics on instagram. Tell the truth it feels great to get it off my chest. It's been such a dark secret. The reason for me to let it out was due to me not caring what others say or think about me. Either way people are going to talk about you anyway. Live on.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
I like to keep it personal except for when I'm sexual with a woman. I don't feel the need to get it out around friends and family. Now on the other hand if I had a friend that came out about it to me then it would be cool. I'd tell him about me having it as well.
Posted by ashifechi (Member # 16477) on :
I was trying to tell one of my girlfriends, when I was younger (about 18), about my foot fetish.
I was extremely hard for me. I thought she would think I was a freak. She told me not to worry, because my buddy all ready told her.
I was relieved, but then I asked, "What did he tell you?"
Well, apparently, my buddy told her that he had always felt an attraction between him & I since we first met.
I was blown away & said, "No! That's not it? I am not bi!" And then I told her about my fetish. SHe was cool with it.
But, then we both realized that my friend was attracted to me. That was kind of awkward.
Posted by Talos (Member # 39913) on :
Holy hell, most votes are for not telling anyone! The first person I told was a friend of mine back in 10th grade. He accidentally left a pic of these two girls tickling each others feet up on his computer. I was like "Dude, me too!" So not too hard for me to come out about it to him. I never told any girlfriends all through my school years. The first girl I hooked up with seriously was told by my friend about my fetish. Even after she asked me what I liked about her feet, I found it very difficult to even talk about it to her. After a while we both warmed up to what I was in to. Nowadays, everyone knows. Life has been full of positive experiences for me, but being a shy guy, I still blush when my fetish is brought up.
Posted by 27cedw80 (Member # 35792) on :
I have a female cousin that knows about my foot fetish. My best friend and his girlfriend know too. They don't say anything negative. My best friend said he noticed me staring at his girls feet before.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
It's hard at first but it does get easier. Use to get a weird feeling as I was about to let someone know & a lot of times chickened out. Now Im sweet with it and bring it up in normal conversations. Keep at it Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
Come out? I'm not gay.
Posted by Doc Ock (Member # 46755) on :
quote:Originally posted by Peter, Peter: My personal life is between my wife, girlfriend or the woman I am going be with. My family doesn't need to know how I party.
That's exactly how I would feel.
Posted by Doc Ock (Member # 46755) on :
If your like me that post reblog,retweet and like feet pics on social media sites knowing you have family following then oh well. fuck it haha
Posted by Comrade (Member # 46842) on :
Its all mental. I just say flat out, I couldn't ate a woman with ugly feet. That alone will open so many doors for you. I've had girls try to clown me over it like" Are you a foot guy,lol?" I simply answer "Call it what you want, but it's just not acceptable on a woman to me." Now even my closest friends that are girls are eager to show me new pedicures, heels, and there's a special one that gives me sole shows on Skype Posted by Comrade (Member # 46842) on :
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