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Posted by mrfoots (Member # 25272) on :

...but she's trying! So last night we were hanging out and i got those nice soles in my hands and i gave her a playful kiss on the toes when i noticed the smell. Maybe they stank a little but to meit was heaven! She let me play around with them a bit and she was surprised by how hard i got just from her feet. What really did it for me is that she started flirting with me more teasing me with her toes. I'm Hella excited to see where she takes it :-)

Posted by Tadpole in a Jar (Member # 4402) on :

Good job. But a little advice here...take it slow, start with a foot massage, and work it from there. The more you incorporate her enjoyment, the more you will benefit in the long run.

Good luck!

Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :

Communicate about what you enjoy so she does understand.

Posted by balletshoejob (Member # 6533) on :

Definitely. My current Lady of three years had never even heard of a foot fetish before we got together, but as of last night, the only way she's let me cum for the last week has been kneeling in front of her holding one of her work pumps over my nose and sliding myself against the insole of the other until i finish inside. Honestly, I've created a monster! I have a deep foot and shoe fetish, but wasn't that into BDSM or anything like that when we got together, but not she has trained me like Pavlov's dog, I almost have a hard time climaxing unless I am severely restrained and teased... It's actually made masturbation only frustrating instead of pleasurable because if I can move my limbs, I don't come very hard now. [Cry]

Posted by mrfoots (Member # 25272) on :

guys, sorry, I know how it is when we are introducing someone... I was TERRIFIED when she asked me "you like feet, don't you?" what I'm getting at now is that she is starting to realize how much flirt power she has! [Smile]

Posted by Rocky TSM (Member # 28971) on :

The ladies I know loved finding out I have a foot fetish and how easy it is to get their way with, and take control, of me. Something so simple for a woman holds so much power over us. And they usually love it.

Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :

She is a keeper, most people will not understand your foot fetish, just like I don't understand other peoples fetishes. But, as long she knows that she turns you on and that her feet make your cock harder. That's all that matters.

Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :

BINGO, like Peter said she is a keeper! Most women have just get fucked and that it. But, when some woman get a little fore-play or foot-play it is something different. [Hop]

Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :

Cool deal. I totally agree with Tadpole, make sure she's getting pampered and loving it and she'll be the one pushing it before long. If you make it all about you, she'll not want to take part. That's why I don't mind giving foot rubs for hours as when you plant those little playful kisses, they tend to already be loving it and don't mind.

Patrick

Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :

Enjoy my friend, it's so nice to have someone who understands your love of feet...

Posted by Firefighter86 (Member # 34943) on :

Guys you don't want to "give" power to her. You want her to be so into you that she feels like she is weird for not knowing about it and liking it. If you get her mind in the right place she will go pretty far to please you even if it is way out of the ordinary.

Posted by Californiasun19 (Member # 46935) on :

It should just click naturally.. No give and take or deal making. No power, nada. Should just be a natural want and desire between the two. For it to be healthy and 100% enjoyable anyway.

Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :

It's hard for them sometimes to understand, some guys are lucky to find ones that do.

Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :

Till this day.....I don't understand how a woman can take a cock and suck on it...and swallow the ejaculate.....I mean ewwww gross!

See my point? We're different genders, the only thing that we need to understand is that we have different needs, and the amount of love you have for that other person can be gauged by how far they're willing to go to meet those needs.

It is up to the couple to KNOW what needs require meeting. Like the wise FireFighter was saying above...knowledge of your foot fetish is an honor. You can meet a dozen women in one night..all flirting and vying for your attention. If just one woman knew you had a foot fetish and used that to her advantage...who would you most likely go home with or call? Her! She could be average in every category...but that piece of Intel could be used to seduce you. I save it for later when she's really into me...and if she's not game...there's always another woman that is.

The girl in the OP loves her man. She'll never understand why he's into feet....but she'll know the extent to which he is.

Posted by Reinforcedheelstoes (Member # 1099) on :

I commend her for at least trying....as GQ said, the seeds of true love. How cool is she?

Posted by Roxxy Deveaux (Member # 47175) on :

Communication verbal and non-verbal is the key... your cock getting hard is one thing spoiling her with a pedicure and you picking out the color is another - [Big Grin]