Who is on www.fetlife.com ? Link up! If you're not a member it's like a Facebook for kinky people. Check it out. The biggest foot group on there is 7,500 members strong. Lots of great discussions to engage in.
Posted by Drunk_24-7 (Member # 21781) on :
I'm on there. It's pretty cool. I can't handle facebook and I never even registered for twitter but I must say, this fetlife is right up my alley. Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Never knew it! Now I wonder who I've seen on there that's also here.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
I'm on there as well as Lala. I don't log onto it hardly ever though. kind of like Wu's lately.
Posted by Maverick Matrix (Member # 2989) on :
I WAS on Fet before. Had a few experiences through it and found it wasn't for me. Posted a story or two from my experiences on there and got a lot of negative feedback from it. Thus, I stopped posting my stories.
The biggest thing for me is that I couldn't find a woman who was JUST into feet in my area, as much as I know a few foot guys from this site who are here. All the women on there wanted some sort of D/s relationship and I wasn't there for that. In the end, I deleted my profile and walked away from it.
I hope you have better luck than I did. In the end, I'm only speaking from my experience.
Posted by Icarus (Member # 46711) on :
Yeah, I'm on. Made some interesting connections. No interesting stories, I'm sad to say. Posted by Derfjmeister (Member # 875) on :
I'm on there.....Great site
Made great and lasting friends on there as well.
It's what you make of it,it's a social site.
If you're on socially adept then you won't like it.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote:Originally posted by Derfjmeister: I'm on there.....Great site
Made great and lasting friends on there as well.
It's what you make of it,it's a social site.
If you're on socially adept then you won't like it.
How obtuse There's people who don't like it because theres not enough people or women into what they like in their area or possibly too many fake profiles (men pretending to be women) and it's just a pain in the neck for them. Their ability at being social has nothing to do with their success or the lack of there.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I wouldn't reccomend it as a hook up site. Personally I'm not attracted to most of the women on there and of the ones I do find attractive...I couldn't see myself dating them with so many great options in everyday life.
But as far as discussions and the exchange of ideas go, it's great! The group I mentioned is very active and we get some good threads going. And while the women might not be my flavor...they might be some of yours.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote:Originally posted by LeDaemon: I'm on there as well as Lala. I don't log onto it hardly ever though. kind of like Wu's lately.
lol I did see Lala's actually just browsing, I was wondering if it was the same girl you knew. Posted by Feet of Philly (Member # 20091) on :
I'm on Fet - hit me up at FeetofPhilly. Hey Maverick Matrix, wow, long time no talk, how u been? It's been forever.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
I have a profile on there that I rarely log into. I didn't find many ladies in my area that were looking for foot guys. I tried to hook up with a couple that were into BDSM and other kinks. I told them that I was into feet and never got any responses. I think the search option and listings could be better with the site.
Posted by Derfjmeister (Member # 875) on :
quote:Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
quote:Originally posted by Derfjmeister: I'm on there.....Great site
Made great and lasting friends on there as well.
It's what you make of it,it's a social site.
If you're on socially adept then you won't like it.
How obtuse There's people who don't like it because theres not enough people or women into what they like in their area or possibly too many fake profiles (men pretending to be women) and it's just a pain in the neck for them. Their ability at being social has nothing to do with their success or the lack of there.
Well......A LOT of guys just go looking for feet instead of making friends (both male and female) on there. I can't vouch for anyone else,but I have fun there,and I know of others that enjoy it as well.
My prime motto is "Start looking for sexy and interesting female friends that just so happen to have pretty feet rather than a pair of pretty feet than just happens to be attached to a woman"
Some of you will get what I'm saying...Some of you won't...Simple as that.....I live in a very dry area/state and I don't let that factor stop me...I go out to clubs,social events and I will and have done some traveling to meet new people as well... Most women aren't "footwomen" to begin with...So quit looking for them and just start being friends with women period.
Posted by solemansince74 (Member # 24760) on :
I'm on there. Reminds me a lot of Facebook. Met a few nice ladies and had a few foot sessions. I definitely recommend it. You can explore peoples profiles and pics for hours!
My tag on Fetlife is: SoleFeetures
Posted by Kokaith (Member # 22763) on :
I messed around with it for a while, but most of the local people were into hardcore s&m and stuff like that. It didn't appeal to me and I moved on. I've had much better luck on regular dating sites.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote:Originally posted by Kokaith: I messed around with it for a while, but most of the local people were into hardcore s&m and stuff like that. It didn't appeal to me and I moved on. I've had much better luck on regular dating sites.
Yeah exactly, if S&M is one's idea of "normal socialization" then you had one fucked up childhood and have a misconstrued view of women. I can see if it's JUST a fetish, but some guys at these foot parties eat, live, breathe that role stuff, can't be healthy 24-7.
Posted by Drunk_24-7 (Member # 21781) on :
I just find it's a cool place to meet some open-minded and like minded people. I'm happily married so I'm not trying to hook up with anyone, I just like browsing pics, profiles, chatting with the people I connect with or what have you. I think I use it like most people use facebook. I don't use facebook myself because there's nothing more boring than following other boring people. I find a lot of the stuff that pops up in my fetlife feed is actually cool, sexy, exciting, interesting or awesome, so I enjoy the site for sure.
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
I just joined there, GQ. Been on fetish forums for more than 11 years now, but never on there. I am now.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
That's awesome Mitch! I think you'll dig it. Add me, GQguy there too.
@Drunk24-7 thanks for the friend request. I use it like Facebook too. I think trying to use it like a dating site is too stressful. I just chill and chat. Expand my world view.
Posted by hur (Member # 24089) on :
I'm there, same username... btw, how can I find the aforementioned 7.000+ strong foot group, please?
I see many regional foot groups with a few hundreds of people, but not a major, global one
Posted by ashifechi (Member # 16477) on :
I am on there, but being in Japan, it's pretty lame. Same can be said for CollarMe.com.
Maybe it's just that most the people that are on those sites from Japan, are fake, or time wasters.
They say they want something, or are looking for something, but they are only talkers.
It's not just me, either. I know a Japanese woman who is a member of one of those sites & she is always complaining to me about how the guys that email her are wasting her time. She asked me if the guys are just sending emails while they are fantasizing, because nothing ever seems to come from it.
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There's people who don't like it because theres not enough people or women into what they like in their area or possibly too many fake profiles (men pretending to be women) and it's just a pain in the neck for them. Their ability at being social has nothing to do with their success or the lack of there.