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Posted by PERFECTCEII (Member # 46920) on :
 
I had enough of it...
We are LESS accepted in society than gays.
Meaning if most of society is okay with something that used to be seen as weird...Why not feet?
I mean feet is nothing bad. It's not the vagina or boobs. I don't understand why society is treating feet as if it were a private part?
It's just feet.

All these news stories are hurting us very badly.
So bad..That is probably making many people scared to get girls to model their feet [Cry] 2014 is the WORST year for foot fetishist...It's June and look everything that has happened just 2014

I am fine if we are treated as silly people or perverts but treated as if we were a rapist?
Unacceptable...
 
Posted by PERFECTCEII (Member # 46920) on :
 
I believe...It will be worse for all of us in the future. I don't think our fetish will ever be the norm in society. My wish is for society to treat us like we are silly people who are harmless. If someone wants to smell someone's feet...So be it.
Nothing wrong with it. Ladies should just laugh and be like. Hehe that guy just smelled my stinky feet or be like: AWWWW this guy massaged my feet for me. Thanks buddy.

That's how our fetish should be viewed as.
 
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
 
I agree. I feel that it's easier for a guy to admit that he's gay than for him to admit to being attracted to women's feet.
 
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
 
quote:
All these news stories are hurting us very badly.
So bad..That is probably making many people scared to get girls to model their feet [Cry] 2014 is the WORST year for foot fetishist...It's June and look everything that has happened just 2014

wtf are you talking about man? Oh..those podunk town stories that don't even make mainstream news media and are over sensationalized by a few members here? These threads have run their course.. [Confused]
 
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
 
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Originally posted by dougiezerts:
I agree. I feel that it's easier for a guy to admit that he's gay than for him to admit to being attracted to women's feet.

That's because there's a big movement to normalize homosexuality, and it's working. Not that that's a bad thing, mind you.

There's no such thing for foot fetishists, and it really should be, at least not in the same way the LGBT movement did it. All such a movement would do is make us look creepy, and that goes for any fetish.

The good thing is that since the foot fetish is extremely common, it's somewhat easy to find people who don't have a problem with you having one.
 
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
 
I think 95% of all women this her feet is the ugly part of their body. I think that most haven't really why there are so many styles of shoes to make her feet attractive to be admired. Yes, most feet have an odor which stink to some guys and perfume to other guys. I know for myself there are women whose feet make my dick hard as a rock. I also like women back, eyes, calves too. They we have to understand who they are. These people have found a market to sale female foot products other shoes to make money is my reason for theme (they) point out that it is something wrong with us who love women feet. In Europe in the 16 & 17 century it was customary to kiss women feet because of VD. I also think here in America these idiots have nothing to do but put everything under the microscope just to make the world think they are smart. By trying to put everyone in some kinder category I tell just think the whole world didn't have any problems until the European man left European as a dumb man, criminal, rapist, child molesters, murder and women bitter and now are trying to prove to the world he know everything about nothing in the last 500 years. Just think of all of the damage he has done to the world trying to be smart. The world was just fine up until 1492 because people are different and used lawless religion (Christianity) to change the people of the world. I say the new media need to go the hell (graveyard) Pilgrim.
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White Women has the sexy wrinkled soles of the all. [Blow Job]
 
Posted by PERFECTCEII (Member # 46920) on :
 
What's worse is that we could land in jail just for staring at the feet of a person. Meaning they will claim we were being perverts BUT it's not like we are staring at their butts or boobs... Feet is a non private part and society makes it out to be bad. I am pretty sure soon it will be illegal to look at the feet of a lady if she feels uncomfortable and reports us for staring at their soles or toes.
It may sound pathetic but that's how bad society is.
Sexual harassment charges just for staring :/ such nonsense
 
Posted by TruthBeTold (Member # 47114) on :
 
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Originally posted by PERFECTCEII:
Sexual harassment charges just for staring :/ such nonsense

If this is where it ends up, it will set a very dangerous precedence for foot lovers around the world. God, I hope they put some sense into the harassment laws. Would not surprise me though if the lawmakers went over the lines without understanding all sides of the coin. It has certainly happened before and could easily happen again. That's why we should be more careful with who we vote for as our elected officials.
 
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
 
I'm 56 and have had many relationships and have yet to find a woman that wasn't a sucker for a good foot massage. It's all in how you approach things with our fetish. The stories we always read on weird news sites and hear on the local news stations are almost always about a man that has some serious mental issues that are way above his desire for female feet.
I think things are not as bad as some believe for footmen.
 
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by TruthBeTold:
quote:
Originally posted by PERFECTCEII:
Sexual harassment charges just for staring :/ such nonsense

If this is where it ends up, it will set a very dangerous precedence for foot lovers around the world. God, I hope they put some sense into the harassment laws. Would not surprise me though if the lawmakers went over the lines without understanding all sides of the coin. It has certainly happened before and could easily happen again. That's why we should be more careful with who we vote for as our elected officials.
Imagine women wearing water socks while swimming so that "perverts" won't stare at their feet! [Cry]
 
Posted by houseshooz (Member # 10572) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PERFECTCEII:
What's worse is that we could land in jail just for staring at the feet of a person. Meaning they will claim we were being perverts BUT it's not like we are staring at their butts or boobs... Feet is a non private part and society makes it out to be bad. I am pretty sure soon it will be illegal to look at the feet of a lady if she feels uncomfortable and reports us for staring at their soles or toes.
It may sound pathetic but that's how bad society is.
Sexual harassment charges just for staring :/ such nonsense

No we're not, stop being so dramatic. No one's going to jail for looking at feet, take a breather. The reason why these guys make the news is because they did something creepy or illegal not because they have a foot fetish, it's not "pick on a fetishist" day in the media.

Take, for example, the case of the guy setting up female Realtors to see houses and trying to get at their feet once onsite. Put yourself in the other person's shoes for a minute. Imagine your wife or girlfriend comes home from work and explains to you she was scheduled to meet up with a client and ended up getting unwanted advances or worse sexually assaulted on the job. You won't be thinking "Hooray, score one for the foot guys"! You'll probably be thinking "I'm gonna kill that mf'er"!

Real life isn't a porn set where you get to act out your sexual fantasies without consent, these guys aren't foot fetish pioneers paving the way for the rest of us. As a matter of fact when I hear about these news stores I don't even get mad because I don't associate myself or my fetish with creeps who have to lure unsuspecting women to get their rocks off. The reason they got smeared in the news is because of the deceptive and predatory nature of how they tried to get at a woman's feet, not because they like feet. Think about it, everyday guys like the rest of us who are normal functioning human beings who just happen to have a foot fetish don't end up in the news.

The real underlying problem is not society accepting foot fetishism, it's that we have a fetish that is very hard to accommodate so there tends to be more foot guys who ultimately end up being very sexually frustrated. Imagine if tits were considered repulsive by most women and titty bars didn't exist, there would be news stories every other day of guys breaking into women's houses to steal their bras. What foot guys need are better outlets to release that tension, not better press. It would be nice if the guys who don't live on the coast could visit a foot party right around the corner, socialize with like minded people in person and meet women in an atmosphere where you know for certain your fetish will be welcomed. The only alternative foot guys who just want to get off on some feet and go about their business is craigslist, internet foot sites or drop a whole paycheck to attend a foot party.

That's why it's obvious as to how the lbgt community has advanced to their status, they're incredibly well organized. Plus, you can't really compare the grievances of foot guys to what they've gone through. How many times have you been turned down for a job for having a foot fetish? Never. How many times have you been excluded from serving your country in the military because you like to sniff women's feet? Not once.
 
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PERFECTCEII:
What's worse is that we could land in jail just for staring at the feet of a person. Meaning they will claim we were being perverts BUT it's not like we are staring at their butts or boobs... Feet is a non private part and society makes it out to be bad. I am pretty sure soon it will be illegal to look at the feet of a lady if she feels uncomfortable and reports us for staring at their soles or toes.
It may sound pathetic but that's how bad society is.
Sexual harassment charges just for staring :/ such nonsense

Jailed just for staring at feet? That's nonsense, and I can't think of any instances where that has happened.

As mentioned above, if someone went to jail over their foot fetish, it was because they did something creepy/illegal, not solely because they had the fetish.
 
Posted by Below_the_Ankles (Member # 33795) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PERFECTCEII:


All these news stories are hurting us very badly.
So bad..That is probably making many people scared to get girls to model their feet [Cry] 2014 is the WORST year for foot fetishist...It's June and look everything that has happened just 2014

Man, wake up, those stories don't make the news because they're about some guy who likes feet. They make the news because they're about some creepy fuck who touched a woman without her consent. Doesn't matter what he touched. And even then, don't overestimate the weight those stories have. Wake me when there's a national conversation on the topic of foot fetishism being wrong -- when there's congressional hearings and such. Fun fact: there never will be.

quote:
Originally posted by dougiezerts:
I agree. I feel that it's easier for a guy to admit that he's gay than for him to admit to being attracted to women's feet.

No it's not. Nobody has ever been murdered for liking feet. Nobody has ever been cast out of their family for liking feet. Nobody has ever passed laws saying that a foot lover can't marry a foot model. Don't ever compare a very real social injustice with some imaginary persecution by some insecure guys on a fetish forum.
 
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Below_the_Ankles:
quote:
Originally posted by dougiezerts:
I agree. I feel that it's easier for a guy to admit that he's gay than for him to admit to being attracted to women's feet.

No it's not. Nobody has ever been murdered for liking feet. Nobody has ever been cast out of their family for liking feet. Nobody has ever passed laws saying that a foot lover can't marry a foot model. Don't ever compare a very real social injustice with some imaginary persecution by some insecure guys on a fetish forum.
Thank you for being so blunt about this. I think the problem here is that some people here are treating homosexuality like it's a fetish as well, and have the "Why them and not us?" mentality. When the reality is that it's a sexual orientation, and is a much more serious issue around the world.
 
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Rider Aldebaran:
quote:
Originally posted by Below_the_Ankles:
quote:
Originally posted by dougiezerts:
I agree. I feel that it's easier for a guy to admit that he's gay than for him to admit to being attracted to women's feet.

No it's not. Nobody has ever been murdered for liking feet. Nobody has ever been cast out of their family for liking feet. Nobody has ever passed laws saying that a foot lover can't marry a foot model. Don't ever compare a very real social injustice with some imaginary persecution by some insecure guys on a fetish forum.
Thank you for being so blunt about this. I think the problem here is that some people here are treating homosexuality like it's a fetish as well, and have the "Why them and not us?" mentality. When the reality is that it's a sexual orientation, and is a much more serious issue around the world.
For some guys, Foot Fetish IS their sexual orientation. I knew plenty of them over the years through contact on social media and e-mail that ONLY wanted feet and never sexual contact with either sex. The Foot community is too unorganized, cut throat, and back stabbing to ever get national recognition as a legitimate entity.
 
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
quote:
Originally posted by Rider Aldebaran:
quote:
Originally posted by Below_the_Ankles:
quote:
Originally posted by dougiezerts:
I agree. I feel that it's easier for a guy to admit that he's gay than for him to admit to being attracted to women's feet.

No it's not. Nobody has ever been murdered for liking feet. Nobody has ever been cast out of their family for liking feet. Nobody has ever passed laws saying that a foot lover can't marry a foot model. Don't ever compare a very real social injustice with some imaginary persecution by some insecure guys on a fetish forum.
Thank you for being so blunt about this. I think the problem here is that some people here are treating homosexuality like it's a fetish as well, and have the "Why them and not us?" mentality. When the reality is that it's a sexual orientation, and is a much more serious issue around the world.
For some guys, Foot Fetish IS their sexual orientation. I knew plenty of them over the years through contact on social media and e-mail that ONLY wanted feet and never sexual contact with either sex. The Foot community is too unorganized, cut throat, and back stabbing to ever get national recognition as a legitimate entity.
I'm not sure what you mean by this. "Sexual orientation" is a person's sexual identity in terms of the gender one is attracted to (homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual). Feet cannot be someone's sexual orientation.

I can understand it when perhaps someone likes feet in general, and therefore they like the feet of either sex. Although I think for most males, they are only attracted to the feet of the sex they are sexually attracted to. As a male, you don't go both ways; it's typically you either like dudes or gals, body parts included. It seems to be more acceptable for females who are heterosexual to harmlessly experiment with lesbianism and not be considered homosexual.

A bisexual man is considered homosexual. A bisexual woman is considered what she is, bisexual.
 
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
 
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I'm not sure what you mean by this. "Sexual orientation" is a person's sexual identity in terms of the gender one is attracted to (homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual). Feet cannot be someone's sexual orientation.
Yes they can, if someone claims "Asexuality" and then only wants and needs feet to get off and be satisfied. Just busting the myths.. [Thumbs Up]
 
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
 
If society is treating feet as a private part don't you think that there would be movements to get going barefoot or wearing flip flops outlawed?

I wonder if there are boob guys that complain and cry as much as some of us do. Maybe there's a forum thread where one says, "man I've had enough of seeing these women wearing tight shirts. We should just be able to go up and motorboat them without having charges pressed and being called a rapist".
 
Posted by footntoesmassager (Member # 12132) on :
 
It's clearly a misunderstanding of who we are. I was watching Live with Kelly & Michael last Friday. Whitney Cummings was sitting in for Kelly. She and Michael talked about the story where women perform surgery on their toes so they can fit in high heels. Cummings said that she blamed all the people with foot fetishes for this.

I realize she's just being dramatic for the show, but when you break it down it doesn't really make sense from a foot fetish standpoint. You're going to cut and modify perfectly good toes just to cover them up in shoes and NOT have us see them. Say what? If we get with you the first thing we're going to want to do when we're alone is THROW OFF THE SHOES. So you got the surgery because...?

The foot fetish is "weird" just because it's dirty...not in a perverted manner, but in the "I've got my feet stuck in shoes all day and there's stuff on them," way. It's also explained by a woman not knowing that their feet can be considered sexy. They are just tools to get from point A to point B. It takes understanding and a personal relationship with the person you want to get with first.

I used to not like it (from April to November feet are EVERYWHERE...plus no one's going to take their top off at your house, but those shoes will), but now I love having a foot fetish and it's a part of who I am. Besides, when I give my wife a foot massage it means I get to see ALL of her. It's the only fetish where you can touch them and see the entire rest of their body including their faces. It's 100% immersive as you can see the instant gratification from your mate as they squeal in delight when you nibble.

So I say f it for what people think about it. Approach it one-on-one and there shouldn't be an issue.
 


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