Why does everyone keep saying that foot fetish is a gift? Personally, i am ashamed of it, and most girls are creeped by people with those kind of interests. Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
Once you respect and get comfortable with yourself your views will change.
Posted by Fair Adam (Member # 13350) on :
Ashamed? Ask yourself this question, who exactly gets hurt by you having a foot fetish? I will wait for your answer. I got all day. Get it?
As for people who are grossed out by something that is absolutely harmless? That's their hangup, not yours. Like NorCal stated, when your learn love and accept yourself, your views will change.
I have a foot fetish. I sleep really well at night, and when I look in the mirror, I like the person I see.
Anyone who wants to label me a "creep" or "pervert" can do so, I have no personal control over that, but remember that hate, at its roots, it based on ignorance and fear, and I'll be damned if I let others define who I am to myself.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
I think the question here for guys that post these kinds of comments is are you into females or just their feet?
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
quote:Originally posted by 5thgear: I think the question here for guys that post these kinds of comments is are you into females or just their feet?
That's usually the case when I see people overly hating their fetish. Many don't see anything above the ankles.
Patrick
Posted by Kokaith (Member # 22763) on :
Are you trolling?
Posted by footboy1 (Member # 4549) on :
quote:Originally posted by Patrick:
quote:Originally posted by 5thgear: I think the question here for guys that post these kinds of comments is are you into females or just their feet?
That's usually the case when I see people overly hating their fetish. Many don't see anything above the ankles.
Patrick
That's an excellent point, Patrick. Many times when I see a hot girl, I immediately focus on her feet, and often don't even notice anything else. In fact, it's getting to the point where if I'm watching porn, no matter how hot the girl is it's extremely difficult for me to get turned on at all if I can't see her feet and soles, or at the very least catch a glimpse here and there of some "incidental" foot exposure.
-footboy1
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
It doesn't matter how extreme your foot fetish is or if you only look at a hot woman's feet and nothing else...still doesn't justify calling the "fetish" a curse, or "creepy" or be ashamed of it. That is all personal mindset and there's nothing wrong with JUST liking feet at all. Everyone is unique.
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Ill chime in:
1)Everyone has something that they like.. 2) If it does not hurt anyone its ok. 3) As Norcal said: Get comfortable with your self!
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
Proud of it, greatful I don't have a shit fetish Posted by mywifesfeet (Member # 2630) on :
quote:Originally posted by SadSadErwin: Why does everyone keep saying that foot fetish is a gift? Personally, i am ashamed of it, and most girls are creeped by people with those kind of interests.
Maybe it is the women you have been around, or it is just your approach that creeps them out. I have not been rejected for it ever. My wife LOVES my foot fetish and indulges me with it everyday. That is the honest truth. I have talked to all of our female friends about it, played with and massaged all of their bare feet. and have complimented literally 100's of strangers in my day in public. No one ever has acted creeped out. They have always appreciated my compliments, or at least acted like they did. It has to be your delivery dude. Quit feeling bad and get proud and bold about it. Foot Fetish is part of YOU man. Accept it and enjoy it and get confident about it.
Posted by 88Fierofootguy (Member # 47468) on :
I always look to see if a hot chick or any attractive woman for that matter has for feet. I have a foot fetish and I'm proud of it. A chick could be drop dead gorgeous but if she has ugly feet? Deal breaker... It all starts with the feet as far as being sexually attracted to a woman then I work my way up. Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
this topic seems to come up every other day. And I always say the same thing. Every girl on the planet wouldn't be showing off their feet if they were creeped out by people looking at them. Pedicures alone are a $3 billion empire.
Girls are creeped out by creeps, not feet.
Just like any sane guy would never say "Hey, I wanna lick your ass, and suck on your tits" on a first date.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: this topic seems to come up every other day. And I always say the same thing. Every girl on the planet wouldn't be showing off their feet if they were creeped out by people looking at them. Pedicures alone are a $3 billion empire.
Girls are creeped out by creeps, not feet.
Just like any sane guy would never say "Hey, I wanna lick your ass, and suck on your tits" on a first date.
Yeah I am personally sick of the typical low self esteem type posters who spam the boards with these topics all the time. Unfortunately and especially since they added a bunch of new accounts to the board the place has been flooded with them. In one way this site is moving nicely, the other and I tried..is falling apart just like the Mousepad.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
I too get tired of these types of guys. The guys that are so insecure and have such low self esteem, they need a girl to take them by the hand while they're crying and tell them it's ok to like feet. It's not the fetish itself that girls get creeped out about, it's the attitude and mentality of the guy. If you're embarrassed about your own likes and insecure about them, what makes you think a woman is going to be comfortable with it when you aren't even comfortable with it yourself?
I mean think about it. When you're in the bedroom with a chick and you want to suck her toes, do you think this type of mentality and approach is going to turn her on at all?
"Hey um, I know this is weird so you can say no if you want, but is it ok if I can suck your toes? Sorry for asking."
This just doesn't apply to feet, it applies to anything. Which is why I say it's not the fetish itself that deserved condemnation, it's the way a guy chooses to carry himself.
If a chick is into you or at least sees you as a viable sexual entity, she will be open to indulging just about any of your kinks.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by SadSadErwin: Personally, i am ashamed of it, and most girls are creeped by people with those kind of interests.
Girls are creeped out by the guy, not the fetish. You'd do yourself a favor by remembering that.
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
I tell you what creep me out about some girls. I seen someone pull his dick out of someone ass and some girl is willing to suck his dick.
Why foot fetish it is fore-play and what stinks to some people is perfume to another person. Also, it is safe-sex Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fwrinkledsoles: I tell you what creep me out about some girls. I seen someone pull his dick out of someone ass and some girl is willing to suck his dick.
Why foot fetish it is fore-play and what stinks to some people is perfume to another person. Also, it is safe-sex
And some people get on us for digging feet!
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
Definitely not a curse to me... My wife indulges my fetish and even gazes at other women's feet with me and joins in with the critiquing
Posted by Martial Law (Member # 2564) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fwrinkledsoles: I tell you what creep me out about some girls. I seen someone pull his dick out of someone ass and some girl is willing to suck his dick.
Why foot fetish it is fore-play and what stinks to some people is perfume to another person. Also, it is safe-sex
Is only smells.
Dear Lord why am I making a joke about that.
Posted by mywifesfeet (Member # 2630) on :
Good question Martial Law.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fwrinkledsoles: I tell you what creep me out about some girls. I seen someone pull his dick out of someone ass and some girl is willing to suck his dick.
Where did you see that? In porn? Bc theres lot of gross stuff in porn. That's kinda tame.
Posted by Soleraver83 (Member # 47718) on :
I'm not ashamed. Feet are the one of the best and underrated parts of the female body.
And it's the best fetish of all.
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
My desires were formulated long before I even knew how to relate with females socially. For most, foot "fetishism" is not an all-encompassing definition, but a part of a complex sexual landscape within our minds. I love many many things about women, but beautiful feet and a woman's desire to command my attention with their beauty are certainly major hot buttons to start the romantic process. I have experienced both rejection and acceptance, from the same partner. In reality, it may take some time for a woman to realize that this is the way you express real love and passion,just as any other man may express it in another recurring manner. Honesty with yourself and your partner about your desires will break down any barriers to eventual acceptance if your partner is open minded. Foot Fetishism is powerful passion, and something needed in larger doses in this world.
Posted by foot prince (Member # 22554) on :
Lmao youbare the exact reason why they are creeped out. I never have this problem. Its all confidence and approach. Just chalk it up to you having no game
Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
topic responses like this are why i never post anything on here anymore. unless you are swimming in feet, you're nothing but a scumbag in the eyes of the main posters in this forum.
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