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Posted by vila (Member # 4888) on :

Has anyone come across or had any luck using dating/hookup apps designed for the fetish community? I've had luck on tinder before, but I'm looking for something for like minded people.

Posted by ucflyeah (Member # 32674) on :

Fetlife sucks for me. I've tried two or three different times to participate, contact girls, join groups. Never got past messaging with a few ladies. OKCupid, now that's a different story. I met and smelled 4 girls feet from there. AND I've always got something cooking with a bunch of other chics (messaging, possible meet ups, exchange numbers and emails).

So, yeah, for me OKCupid (although it's not specifically designed for fetishes) has been awesome. And it's free!

Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :

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Originally posted by ucflyeah:
Fetlife sucks for me. I've tried two or three different times to participate, contact girls, join groups. Never got past messaging with a few ladies. OKCupid, now that's a different story. I met and smelled 4 girls feet from there. AND I've always got something cooking with a bunch of other chics (messaging, possible meet ups, exchange numbers and emails).

So, yeah, for me OKCupid (although it's not specifically designed for fetishes) has been awesome. And it's free!

How do you present your personal profile there on OKCupid, is yours blatantly "looking for feet" only or a genuine profile with hints you like feet? I agree with you about FetLife, total waste of time and not user friendly.

Posted by Icarus (Member # 46711) on :

Yeah, I hang around FetLife but often feel like leaving...pretty much a waste of time. Good thing about it is it's very anonymous. I worry, int the wake of the Ashley Maddison hack, about registering anywhere. What kind of info do you need to give to OKCupid to register?

Posted by vila (Member # 4888) on :

I've had some luck on okcupid. I just can't really post the foot fetish thing on there. I can't tell you how many times I've seen coworkers, friends and friends of friends on there. It would make for an awkward conversation if those people all saw my interests.

Posted by goodguyneighbor (Member # 2824) on :

Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.

Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf

Posted by ucflyeah (Member # 32674) on :

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.

Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf

You'll agree that asking a girl in public to photograph her feet and sniffing/smelling the hell out of them like a starving dog are two different things right? Not diminishing your work. It's fabulous. It's just that I think we're talking about diving nose first into a pair of feet here. And that's a completely different story. Girls are joined to their phones, always. And they're constantly on Tinder, OKCupid, etc... these are valuable and productive dating sites for a lot of guys. If you present your profile with honesty and say you wanna smell and massage their feet, you're going to get some hits. You just have to carpet bomb the place. Much easier than going out and spending money only to get "you are so weird, I'm not interested".

Just my opinion. I've got 3 on OKCupid right now who want to meet up but I'm busy all weekend and can't. Hopefully they'll hang on. They DO lost interest very fast.

Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :

You're doing a good job UCfly, let us know if anything comes about and share pics if you can snap some. You are correct as well, the approach to getting women to model feet is VERY different than doing what you are doing and needs much more finesse and skill. Good Luck!

Posted by Surmene (Member # 43593) on :

I've had little luck with OkStupid. I decided to reactivate my profile a while back. Nothing yet. If there's a better site that's not a ripoff I'd like to know.

Posted by DSensationalSoul (Member # 35114) on :

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Originally posted by ucflyeah:

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.

Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf
You'll agree that asking a girl in public to photograph her feet and sniffing/smelling the hell out of them like a starving dog are two different things right? Not diminishing your work. It's fabulous. It's just that I think we're talking about diving nose first into a pair of feet here. And that's a completely different story. Girls are joined to their phones, always. And they're constantly on Tinder, OKCupid, etc... these are valuable and productive dating sites for a lot of guys. If you present your profile with honesty and say you wanna smell and massage their feet, you're going to get some hits. You just have to carpet bomb the place. Much easier than going out and spending money only to get "you are so weird, I'm not interested".

Just my opinion. I've got 3 on OKCupid right now who want to meet up but I'm busy all weekend and can't. Hopefully they'll hang on. They DO lost interest very fast.

GoodGuyNeighbor's post is truth. I've had better success with face to fact meets and/or approaching women in public vs the online thing because a lot of women can't get a feel for nobody behind a screen. I have had success with fetlife as well due to what I do however I will say that for most of those women on there you have to indulge in their interest as well it cant be one sided or else most of them won't even bother talking to you. Now at the same time I will admit that its better to meet in person vs fetlife as well because a lot of women can be uptight with who they add/talk too but that can be due to a lot of men coming at them crazy. now ucflyeah I will admit too that a lot of men dont want to waste time/money just to get I am not really interested thanks anyway response. Now I will admit that if your honest like you say on your profile, very likely you will get hits because unless she hates her feet/don't like anyone touching them, what women wouldnt want a footrub.

Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by ucflyeah:

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.

Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf
You'll agree that asking a girl in public to photograph her feet and sniffing/smelling the hell out of them like a starving dog are two different things right? Not diminishing your work. It's fabulous. It's just that I think we're talking about diving nose first into a pair of feet here. And that's a completely different story.

the success has gone to his head, since i'm sure to him it's all one in the same.

for me, personally, i have better success on okcupid then i do face to face. but, then again, i've not met any ladies off of okcupid but i've actually been able to have conversations with women on there which is better then what happens face to face where women usually tend to cross the street instead of me walking past them.

i have a tinder profile that was useless after a week because i met no one off of it. it's only really still useful to see what coworker or person who interacts with my job shows up on there. i'm honest about what i'm looking for on tinder only because i know that as soon as my pic shows up on a girls round of guys i'm an automatic swipe left so they won't even see it.

Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :

Man don't think so negative of yourself, you don't know that for sure. BTW, Do you still have to link Facebook accounts to Tinder?

Posted by TruthBeTold (Member # 47114) on :

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Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.

Exactly, if I wanted to talk with a male posing as a woman, I'd call one of those old school 900 numbers LOL!

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf

Once again, your golden advice is spot on! This recommendation is also great for guys who want to brush up on their social skills. The rewards though, are phenomenal, as we've seen through countless examples from real life foot troopers over the years. Nothing beats a pair of women's feet after a satisfying day of earning them out in the field.

In the quest for getting feet, the virtual world has no comparison to the trenches of real life. Get out there fellas and share your success stories! Men like GGN and others have perfected the proof of concept, so it's just a matter of being inspired enough to make it happen in your own world!! [Thumbs Up]

[ August 30, 2015, 06:02 AM: Message edited by: TruthBeTold ]

Posted by ucflyeah (Member # 32674) on :

For me, it's never been so easy in person. It seems like SOOOO much work from hello...to...wow your feet tasted and smelled incredible & I came really hard. [Jerkoff]

Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :

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Originally posted by ucflyeah:
For me, it's never been so easy in person. It seems like SOOOO much work from hello...to...wow your feet tasted and smelled incredible & I came really hard.

For most guys I hear the same thing, but I think there's someone up there peddling a book on how it can work every time for you [Laugh]

[ August 30, 2015, 09:34 AM: Message edited by: NorcalfeetStudios ]

Posted by footboy1 (Member # 4549) on :

quote:
Originally posted by TruthBeTold:

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.
Exactly, if I wanted to talk with a male posing as a woman, I'd call one of those old school 900 numbers LOL!

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf
Once again, your golden advice is spot on! This recommendation is also great for guys who want to brush up on their social skills. The rewards though, are phenomenal, as we've seen through countless examples from real life foot troopers over the years. Nothing beats a pair of women's feet after a satisfying day of earning them out in the field.

In the quest for getting feet, the virtual world has no comparison to the trenches of real life. Get out there fellas and share your success stories! Men like GGN and others have perfected the proof of concept, so it's just a matter of being inspired enough to make it happen in your own world!!

-footboy1

Posted by footboy1 (Member # 4549) on :

quote:
Originally posted by ucflyeah:
It seems like SOOOO much work from hello...to...wow your feet tasted and smelled incredible & I came really hard.

-footboy1

Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :

If you're looking for dating, I would highly recommend and encourage you to go out and meet regular women. Me thinks these hookup sites are nothing but a waste of time.

If you're looking for a one and done proposition, you could try the pay for play model.

Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by longhitter04:
If you're looking for dating, I would highly recommend and encourage you to go out and meet regular women. Me thinks these hookup sites are nothing but a waste of time.

If you're looking for a one and done proposition, you could try the pay for play model.

for a lot of men, going out and meeting "regular" women is as much or a bigger waste of time then looking online. it's only not a waste of time to men who are good at it and after a while why keeping going out there and striking out? so that those of y'all on here can laugh at them when they step up to the wrong lady and creep them out and end up in the news? fuck that!

but for pay to play route, backpage is king! just be careful and always go the "outcall" route

Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
Man don't think so negative of yourself, you don't know that for sure. BTW, Do you still have to link Facebook accounts to Tinder?

oh, i know, by way of never getting a swipe right on there. i've changed the profile on there a number of times but get nowhere on it. and you do, but i forgot what info they take off of there besides your interests that you "like" and friends just to see what match you two have mutual friends with.

Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :

quote:
Originally posted by BlackHxC88:

quote:
Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
Man don't think so negative of yourself, you don't know that for sure. BTW, Do you still have to link Facebook accounts to Tinder?
oh, i know, by way of never getting a swipe right on there. i've changed the profile on there a number of times but get nowhere on it. and you do, but i forgot what info they take off of there besides your interests that you "like" and friends just to see what match you two have mutual friends with.

So it doesn't post to your timeline who you swipe or even the fact you are on there?

Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :

When it comes to interaction, I feel there is no better method for displaying your true personality and who you truly are, than face to face in person. Like another person stated earlier, nobody can truly get a feel for how another person is from behind a computer screen. You could totally play someone up in your mind to what you want them to be and what they seem to be from behind a computer screen, but once in person, there's still a possibility you may be disappointed.

Many will claim that the way around this is webcams, pictures, etc. However, when you think about it, what is the purpose of a webcam when you chat with strangers on the web? To make it as close to "real life" as possible. If you're attempting to avoid "real life" interaction in the first place, then why are you investing your time to attempt to make your online encounters feel as "real" as possible? If you have the option, it seems easier to just simply go out and interact face to face with people.

Females have the propensity to be emotional thinkers. That being said, many like spontaneous, on the spot adventures with someone who they feel they are going to have fun being around. If you tell a female you've never actually met in person yet what to expect through text messages, dating sites, dating apps, various Internet messenging services, etc., it takes the mystery, anticipation or intrigue element away. You've already played and shown your entire hand, so to speak. They key is to give a little at a time to where she finds you interesting enough to want to stick around at the moment, while still keeping her guessing in her mind to give her a reason to want to hang out with you again in the future.

When it comes to feet, many guys would be surprised at how often ridiculous, innocuous, petty truths tend to work to one's advantage. Especially when it's something as pedestrian as someone simply finding feet interesting. When it comes to all of these foot fetish stereotypes, it seems like the ones who put a lot of emphasis on it and tend to fret and worry about it the most, are foot enthusiasts themselves. A lot of females really don't have much experience with the matter, or know too much about it.

If something just quite frankly isn't that big of a deal to you and you are able to convey that's it's not a big deal for you, the probability is higher that the other party won't find it to be a big deal, either. That being the case, if the other party doesn't have much experience or knowledge in the subject, they will base their perceptions on the vibe that you project.

If you start making something that quite frankly isn't a big deal, into a big deal, that's when things start to typically become awkward.

Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:

quote:
Originally posted by BlackHxC88:

quote:
Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
Man don't think so negative of yourself, you don't know that for sure. BTW, Do you still have to link Facebook accounts to Tinder?
oh, i know, by way of never getting a swipe right on there. i've changed the profile on there a number of times but get nowhere on it. and you do, but i forgot what info they take off of there besides your interests that you "like" and friends just to see what match you two have mutual friends with.
So it doesn't post to your timeline who you swipe or even the fact you are on there?

nope. it kinda works how espn ask if you'd like to sign on with your facebook account. nothing you post on tinder or swipe on shows up on facebook

Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.

Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf

GGN is on the money here. Disconnect from your computer and other devices and go out and interact face to face with people.

Posted by BlackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by LeDaemon:

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.

Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf
GGN is on the money here. Disconnect from your computer and other devices and go out and interact face to face with people.

computers are more trustworthy and honest then people these days anyway

Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :

quote:
Originally posted by BlackHxC88:

quote:
Originally posted by LeDaemon:

quote:
Originally posted by goodguyneighbor:
Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.

Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.

You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.

cbf
GGN is on the money here. Disconnect from your computer and other devices and go out and interact face to face with people.
computers are more trustworthy and honest then people these days anyway

That's true..I like doing both that way you can see who is who and also how they are online which reflects their personal style.

Posted by TruthBeTold (Member # 47114) on :

quote:
Originally posted by LeDaemon:
GGN is on the money here. Disconnect from your computer and other devices and go out and interact face to face with people.

Very true, and it's the best way to develop "in-person" social skills, which can be priceless when it comes to real life human interaction. [Thumbs Up]

Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :

quote:
Originally posted by BlackHxC88:

quote:
Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:

quote:
Originally posted by BlackHxC88:

quote:
Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
Man don't think so negative of yourself, you don't know that for sure. BTW, Do you still have to link Facebook accounts to Tinder?
oh, i know, by way of never getting a swipe right on there. i've changed the profile on there a number of times but get nowhere on it. and you do, but i forgot what info they take off of there besides your interests that you "like" and friends just to see what match you two have mutual friends with.
So it doesn't post to your timeline who you swipe or even the fact you are on there?
nope. it kinda works how espn ask if you'd like to sign on with your facebook account. nothing you post on tinder or swipe on shows up on facebook

lol can you imagine if it did? [Eek!]