Okay guys, if you read my previous post you know the situation, but I wanted this thread to be more specific in terms of tips and how you guys think I should proceed with this woman I've been seeing.
I've successfully gotten toes in mouth when the woman is less than thrilled about the idea, many times before. Long story short, met this woman, perfect toes, she expressed possible disgust and lack of understanding of foot lovers. She doesn't know about my fetish yet, but before our last date did make it a point to tell me she was having a pedicure done and asked me what color I'd prefer (orange and they looked amazing).
Just curious, and looking for a few tips and tricks to foot paradise. Because her toes are really amazing, and I'm not even a toe guy. If you guys help, I promise to post pics when I get in good with them peds.
Thanks guys!
Posted by luvtheladyfeet (Member # 33464) on :
Just go with the flow, dude, and just keep your foot love to yourself ... for now.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
I'd of been scoping her out during the other foot discussion, but I would of of let her know about my fetish when she asked what color for the pedicure. If she has perfect feet and has brought up foot discussion there's more to it. Either she's onto you, or knows she has pretty feet and wants attn. to them, or in the worst case really did experience the sleep thing and is mentally disturbed by foot guys. I don't think it's very common for most women to discuss their feet on the first few dates, but she's taken it to extremes. Why wait though? It's understandable to wait when you meet a girl that doesn't really say anything about her feet, and you don't want to jump overboard with getting in her pants too fast. If you wait to tell her then she'll probably wonder why you didn't come out when she discussed her feet. She may think you're hiding more or aren't confident enough to own your fetish. If I were you the next time I see her I'd just get it off my chest with her. If you win, you win. If you lose, you lose. Why wait? Do you really want those perfect feet or not?
Posted by goodguyneighbor (Member # 2824) on :
Yes, she already knows you're into feet. She's been trying to flirt with you. If you keep denying your obvious interest, you're going to strike out sooner or later.
Self assured confidence my man. The last thing you want to do is come off as shy, awkward, unsure... Ladies prefer a guy who knows what he wants.
You need to be the one leading the interaction here. You want her impressions of what it's all about to be coming straight from you, not secondhand assumptions.
You sir are a veteran at this. I sincerely hope you won't let us down.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
This girl is testing your self assuredness, in my opinion.
She already knows that you have an interest in feet. She's throwing you clues that she knows and as mentioned, the longer you try and play it off and deny it as if it's just not true, the more you are hurting your own chances. Females tend to be leaps and bounds more perceptive than males, so if she starts giving you hints about something, odds are favorable that she knows.
90% of the time, it's not the actual fetish that's weird; it's how the guy goes about presenting it or carrying himself. As was mentioned, if you continue to try and deny it, her impression is going to be that you're shy, uncomfortable and insecure about it because you think it's weird. Is that the case?
If not, then give her the impression that it isn't, straight from you.
Posted by Lovebareinheels (Member # 31497) on :
My advice will be take it slow. You like her feet yes, something to look forward to. Work on the relationship and her and follow her cues, she likes to dress up her feet and must see them as an attractive part of her
In general feet are seen as things to show off by women, I have never understood why many find 'foot fetish' repulsive but there you go. I agree with BareSoles84 the fetish is not the weird thing it's how the guy goes about it, it should be a natural development of the relationship
Posted by gimmiethemtoes (Member # 28885) on :