Everyone has different preferences; not everyone is going to have the same likes or dislikes. This is common knowledge. But I have seen a bunch of negativity within the foot fetish crowd. Around the web, usually on wikifeet and MousePad Yuku but on other places too, I seen people say that those who love smelly feet and like buying shoes and socks are "fucking sick" and "weird". I seen people say that women who purposely make there feet smelly for the foot fetishist's benefit are "white trash hoes" and are "disgusting". I seen people who greatly frown upon those who love toe sucking and foot worshiping. Hell, I've even seen people say that they only like looking at feet and touching them is considered gross. Most of the time, these people always end their comments by saying people who do those things mentioned above should be "checked into the metal ward" cause they may be "mentally ill". Jeez, these people must think that there's a rule book on how to have a foot fetish or something. I know some might not understand some on these kinks involving feet but you don't have to be a fucking asshole about it. How do we expect the public to accept our fetish if we can't even accept each other?
Posted by hyperion (Member # 39397) on :
I've never seen such comments here. That kind of stuff will get the person kicked out of this community and good riddance. I'm not a sniffer, but what the hell do I care if other people are?
I think there's an older crowd here, and I for one as a middle-aged geezer am not going to embroil myself in such disputes--that's a high-schooler's game.
This forum is well-moderated and the people here are nice.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote: I seen people say that women who purposely make there feet smelly for the foot fetishist's benefit are "white trash hoes" and are "disgusting".
Certainly there are many other races of women online who do this that aren't Caucasian, surely no one has ever used that phrase to describe them, most assuredly whoever said that is wrong about it.
[ December 13, 2015, 11:36 AM: Message edited by: NorcalfeetStudios ]
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
I'll never understand the love for stinky/smelly feet, but to each his own.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
I take that kind of stuff with a grain of salt even though it seems like America's favorite new pasttime is being insulted by minor criticism. I take pride not only in being a grown up and having thick skin, but for accepting others who have rather non harmful kinks, and even BDSM for those who are willing. I don't go around openly admitting my fetish to others in person, well except for women that I get into bed with. Case in point, I don't care what others think bc it's not their business. If I were to tell someone like a friend, and they fired off with the weird/gross or whatever else criticism, then all I can say is sex is sex. Sex is dirty no matter what part or parts you're into. Everyone has their kinks, and those that shame others about theirs probably are just insecure with theirs.
Posted by Fair Adam (Member # 13350) on :
Well, as far as I'm concerned, there's way too much trolling and shaming in the Internet, and that's very unfortunate. It's very easy to hurl insults at others from the safety and anonymity of your computer, since you don't have to look at people in the eye before saying hurtful things. My suggestion is, before you harshly judge others, look in the mirror.
Posted by SmellyFeetSniffer (Member # 42178) on :
quote:Originally posted by Rider Aldebaran: I'll never understand the love for stinky/smelly feet, but to each his own.
It has to do with sexual attraction, like with pheromones and odors and such. It's quite common in nature for certain species to be attracted to the mate's scent. It's perfectly fine with me if you or anyone else is not into that stuff. We all have different turn-ons.
[ December 13, 2015, 02:02 PM: Message edited by: SmellyFeetSniffer ]
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
I don't think I've seen too often foot fetishists slam other foot fetishists that harshly; however, I think that stems from most people these days in general seemingly not being able to tolerate it when someone else holds a different opinion or belief than what they do, regardless of what it is. It just never occurs to them that not everyone is going to think the way they do.
And like FA mentioned, the Internet is the perfect place to troll and disparage others. Sometimes, I almost feel as if someone's persona on the Internet is a true representation of that person's character; a place where they can say the things they wish they can otherwise say in person, but know they can't lest there would be repercussions. The Internet tends to bring out the dark side in a lot of people, knowing that they can get away with it. If they know that they can get away with it, then yes, they will stoop that low from their prespective. Digital communication is a very impersonal way of communicating, so it's very difficult to feel any sort of emotion for someone through a screen being that it's not a face to face, in person interaction.
I have seen guys who otherwise obviously have a foot fetish be in denial about it and if a girl thinks it's "weird", he will agree with her to spare himself ridicule.
Posted by gareney (Member # 49198) on :
you know, I've never realised how nice and friendly this community is since this is the only one I've been to. But seeing u guys compare all the communities I am starting to feel much appreciation of the friendliness of this community. I express my gratitude to the creators and moderators who grant us this incredible environment. I also express my gratitude to everyone else who is in this forum for your contribution and sharing.
Posted by gareney (Member # 49198) on :
you know, I've never realised how nice and friendly this community is since this is the only one I've been to. But seeing u guys compare all the communities I am starting to feel much appreciation of the friendliness of this community. I express my gratitude to the creators and moderators who grant us this incredible environment. I also express my gratitude to everyone else who is in this forum for your contribution and sharing.
Posted by itotallylovebarefeet (Member # 43881) on :
I have to say I've never experienced any such negative comments in this forum. I did get a few disparaging remarks when I used to use the Mousepad, (especially for being into dirty feet), but generally I find the foot fetish community to be very friendly and open Posted by itotallylovebarefeet (Member # 43881) on :
quote:Originally posted by SmellyFeetSniffer: I seen people who greatly frown upon those who love toe sucking and foot worshiping. Hell, I've even seen people say that they only like looking at feet and touching them is considered gross.
I had to laugh, but they are a rare breed, and again that's cool if that's their thing but... a foot fetishist who hates toe sucking?! Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
People are people, trapped within their own view. However, through the web, Wu's paramount, I have learned that ideas are drops in the sea. I know what I love, it is me, and I respect the differences of others, for passion is the love of life. P.s. I love romance, but do not like the label fetish.
[ December 15, 2015, 04:14 PM: Message edited by: markn ]
Posted by goodguyneighbor (Member # 2824) on :
Part of this is that the millennial generation has grown up shielded, spoiled, unable to handle criticism, hostile of dissenting viewpoints, intolerant to free speech, labeling others trolls for disagreeing.
According to a recent poll, up to 40% of millennials believe that free speech should be censored. Young foot fetishists tend to be particularly sensitive, often struggling to come to terms with much shame and insecurity.
This particular forum sometimes tends to be elitist; like an over-moderated like minded echo chamber that does not necessarily include everyone's opinion.
Individual viewpoints are a fact of life, and what makes for great discussion. Those who are too easily offended can only develop a thicker skin, learn to turn the other cheek, or be perpetually frustrated.
Despite the pervasive climate of political correctness and social media group-think, there never has, nor ever will be a consensus on any topic, not the least of which is foot fetishes.
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: Despite the pervasive climate of political correctness and social media group-think, there never has, nor ever will be a consensus on any topic, not the least of which is foot fetishes.
Despite the value of differing opinions, I have to say I am in total agreement with CBF's perpetual wisdom! Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
Sometimes certain things have no purpose being discussed, argued or said online or in person for that matter for the sake of harmony among foot brethren in regards to this specific topic.
I'd be for putting in filters online that sweep for this type of negative chatter and clean it up so that human moderation never needs to come into play because some "cats" let emotions and favoritism always bias up certain issues. OP is right, this place is pretty chill luckily we don't have some of the problems other sites have.
Posted by Fair Adam (Member # 13350) on :
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: Part of this is that the millennial generation has grown up shielded, spoiled, unable to handle criticism, hostile of dissenting viewpoints, intolerant to free speech, labeling others trolls for disagreeing.
According to a recent poll, up to 40% of millennials believe that free speech should be censored. Young foot fetishists tend to be particularly sensitive, often struggling to come to terms with much shame and insecurity.
This particular forum sometimes tends to be elitist; like an over-moderated like minded echo chamber that does not necessarily include everyone's opinion.
Individual viewpoints are a fact of life, and what makes for great discussion. Those who are too easily offended can only develop a thicker skin, learn to turn the other cheek, or be perpetually frustrated.
Despite the pervasive climate of political correctness and social media group-think, there never has, nor ever will be a consensus on any topic, not the least of which is foot fetishes.
Your point is well taken cbf, and although I agree with most of it in principle, I think we need to make some critical distinctions here. First of all, I’m not a millennial so I have no pony in this race. I believe that in a free society, everyone has not only a right, but a duty of free expression, but please remember that free speech shouldn’t give you the right to yell “Fire!” in a crowded theater.
By all means let us all disagree, but as far as I’m concerned, when the discussion devolves into insults and attempts to shame and/or embarrass, it ceases to be of any use to anyone. Over the years, I’ve had some people write to me with constructive criticism about my work, and how I can improve it, and I’ve also had my share of the “I hate you, and your work sucks” variety. I’m a big boy, and I’m secure enough to let my work speak for itself, but what some may see as being “oversensitive” or “politically correct” I see as a matter of common human decency.
Yes, there will always be people that will hurl bombastic opinions on everyone and everything, and that’s their right, but that doesn’t mean that they can’t or shouldn’t be called on it; what’s good for the goose is good for the gander, isn’t it? I once had someone once express some pretty bigoted opinions to me, only to get really defensive and offended when I told him he was being bigoted. I believe that’s called trying to have your cake and eat it too.
We define our character by how we choose to express ourselves, and if I’m not willing to look at someone in the eye and insult them, I sure as hell won’t be using my computer to do it.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote: I once had someone once express some pretty bigoted opinions to me, only to get really defensive and offended when I told him he was being bigoted. I believe that’s called trying to have your cake and eat it too.
I must have had the same guy contact me once. It's funny watching them grasp at straws trying to run roughshot over who they THINK you are and insult your work without ever having done this job. They quickly fold under reverse scrutiny. Posted by Fair Adam (Member # 13350) on :
quote:Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
quote: I once had someone once express some pretty bigoted opinions to me, only to get really defensive and offended when I told him he was being bigoted. I believe that’s called trying to have your cake and eat it too.
I must have had the same guy contact me once. It's funny watching them grasp at straws trying to run roughshot over who they THINK you are and insult your work without ever having done this job. They quickly fold under reverse scrutiny.
Sadly, I think there are some that live just to put others down, NorCal, and if you ask me, that's just pathetic. I really believe if those folks spent half the energy they spend trolling, in doing something creative, like foot photography, who knows?, they might become better photographers than all of us put together.
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fair Adam: but please remember that free speech shouldn’t give you the right to yell “Fire!” in a crowded theater. ... but what some may see as being “oversensitive” or “politically correct” I see as a matter of common human decency.
These two points, I feel a lot of proponents of "free speech" and critics of political correctness seem to forget, even on other sites that I frequent.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fair Adam:
quote:Originally posted by NorcalfeetStudios:
quote: I once had someone once express some pretty bigoted opinions to me, only to get really defensive and offended when I told him he was being bigoted. I believe that’s called trying to have your cake and eat it too.
I must have had the same guy contact me once. It's funny watching them grasp at straws trying to run roughshot over who they THINK you are and insult your work without ever having done this job. They quickly fold under reverse scrutiny.
Sadly, I think there are some that live just to put others down, NorCal, and if you ask me, that's just pathetic. I really believe if those folks spent half the energy they spend trolling, in doing something creative, like foot photography, who knows?, they might become better photographers than all of us put together.
Indeed, even those dudes the OP was talking about that post once and you never see them again. I've had those kind too, and they are far from productive.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
Then too these guys do this to get a rise out of people. Usually ignoring is the best medicine.
Posted by goodguyneighbor (Member # 2824) on :
cbf Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
Doubtful any of those kids in that video
A)Know what the 1st Amendment really says or means.
B) Most people are easily swayed by peer pressure or trying to humor the guy holding the petition clipboard just to be nice.
C)If it really came down to it, they wouldn't support what they just signed.
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
I will be the first person to tell you that I am guilty of doing just that. I've done it out of passionate feelings of self righteousness, displaced anger, fear, lack of understanding or knowledge, peer pressure and the desire to fit in and plain old unadultered bitchiness! This isn't something that I am proud of by any stretch but I strive to learn and grow from every mistake.
I think that it is very easy to get desensitized to fact that there is actually a human being in the other end of computer screen. Common courtesy and human decency have become the exception where it should be the norm. That being said I also think that some of the people in society today are nothing but whiner babies and need to get over themselves!
I apologize, I am not a gifted writer, and my thoughts are not cohesive.
I have never met anyone else in my particular situation before... Ever. It's hard to put myself OUT there and talk about stuff. I like to think that if everyone would just stop and think about that for just a second before they said something a lot of those kind of remarks could be avoided. Does that make sense?
Posted by hyperion (Member # 39397) on :
Ophilia, I think that a collective stopping-and-thinking-for-a-second would result in a much happier society.
At the very least, nobody would get flipped off on the freeways anymore.
But that's just my opinion. Anybody who doesn't agree with me is a big fat poo-poo head who doesn't recognize the value of my super-genius, nor do they realize how lucky they are that I bequeath my wise words to the internet. Neener.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: The millennial generation would just as easily sign away their rights to free speech than risk having their feelings hurt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KJVZa9_Ha5c
"Those who are willing to sacrifice liberty for temporary safety, deserve neither."
Posted by DMoney19 (Member # 46890) on :
We may have different preferences but we all enjoy beautiful female feet. I say we should unite and share our love for them and you never know, you may be introduced to something new.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
If a guy is into underaged girls' feet, or he gets off on causing pain to women, then he SHOULD be ridiculed. Otherwise, I agree that we should be respectful of each other.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: If a guy is into underaged girls' feet, or he gets off on causing pain to women, then he SHOULD be ridiculed. Otherwise, I agree that we should be respectful of each other.
When it comes to fetishes, kinks, idiosyncrasies, oddities, etc., the general guideline that I try to abide by is that if it doesn't cause anyone any physical harm, degrade anyone else nor go against any sort of standard, common sense morals, then I don't see the big deal in it.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: If a guy is into underaged girls' feet, or he gets off on causing pain to women, then he SHOULD be ridiculed. Otherwise, I agree that we should be respectful of each other.
I fully agree and will go to the grave defending it myself. Posted by foottopiadotcom (Member # 48429) on :
You'll see it more in the Facebook foot fetish community. Like Fair Adam said it's easy to say those things behind a computer screen. To each his or her own. As a content provider I have to listen to the fans. Just like the ball crushing and kicking. There is no way in the world I could handle that pain yet i don't think the guys that are into that are crazy. Wusfeetlinks seems to have a mature community of foot fetish men and women. If it's something we don't like we just keep our mouths close and move on.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
quote:Originally posted by Michael Pitt:
quote:Originally posted by SmellyFeetSniffer: Everyone has different preferences; not everyone is going to have the same likes or dislikes. This is common knowledge. But I have seen a bunch of negativity within the foot fetish crowd. Around the web, usually on wikifeet and MousePad Yuku but on other places too, I seen people say that those who love smelly feet and like buying shoes and socks are "fucking sick" and "weird". I seen people say that women who purposely make there feet smelly for the foot fetishist's benefit are "white trash hoes" and are "disgusting". I seen people who greatly frown upon those who love toe sucking and foot worshiping. Hell, I've even seen people say that they only like looking at feet and touching them is considered gross. Most of the time, these people always end their comments by saying people who do those things mentioned above should be "checked into the metal ward" cause they may be "mentally ill". Jeez, these people must think that there's a rule book on how to have a foot fetish or something. I know some might not understand some on these kinks involving feet but you don't have to be a fucking asshole about it. How do we expect the public to accept our fetish if we can't even accept each other?
this happens in all walks of life
True. Regardless of what it is, a lot of people tend to be myopic and can't fathom any other belief, opinion or viewpoint that doesn't coincide with their own. Ironically, the ones that tend to cry that everyone else is "intolerant", are actually the intolerant ones by not being able to tolerate any belief or opinion that isn't what they want to hear.
I tend to agree with a quote by George Patton: "If everyone thought the same way, that means nobody is thinking."
Posted by 57dozzer (Member # 43406) on :
Negative commentors should be peed on...idk
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
Something that used to bother me was seeing this.
*A woman posts pictures of her feet and revels in the attention they receive. She even adds hashtags like #footfetishnation, #lovemyfeet and #suckmytoes. *The woman's friends leave comments about the "weirdos" who are now following her, and she responds in agreement.
Posted by NorcalfeetStudios (Member # 732) on :
quote: this forum was even more politically correct when wu was running things, he closed any thread that wasn't 100% positive
Ah the good old days... Posted by CharDurm (Member # 49392) on :
quote:Originally posted by SmellyFeetSniffer: Everyone has different preferences; not everyone is going to have the same likes or dislikes. This is common knowledge. But I have seen a bunch of negativity within the foot fetish crowd. Around the web, usually on wikifeet and MousePad Yuku but on other places too, I seen people say that those who love smelly feet and like buying shoes and socks are "fucking sick" and "weird". I seen people say that women who purposely make there feet smelly for the foot fetishist's benefit are "white trash hoes" and are "disgusting". I seen people who greatly frown upon those who love toe sucking and foot worshiping. Hell, I've even seen people say that they only like looking at feet and touching them is considered gross. Most of the time, these people always end their comments by saying people who do those things mentioned above should be "checked into the metal ward" cause they may be "mentally ill". Jeez, these people must think that there's a rule book on how to have a foot fetish or something. I know some might not understand some on these kinks involving feet but you don't have to be a fucking asshole about it. How do we expect the public to accept our fetish if we can't even accept each other?
I thinks it's hilarious that of all the horrible things in this world, these people think that foot fetishism is the worst of the worst. Not murderers, or rapists, or terrorists. Nope, it's people who love feet; nothing more, nothing less. I try to look for positives in situations. I like feet, they call me "sick". Okay...I'm still gonna like feet. You don't like my turn-ons. So what? What's stopping me from going to Pornhub or buying videos from fetish websites? I'm not going to let some label from some random person, on the internet no less, ruin my fantasies.
Like what BareSoles and others have said, Everyone has a right to their opinion. That doesn't mean you have to agree with it but that also means you can't really do anything about it. Like in real life with groups like Westboro Baptist Church or NAMBLA, they have their right no matter how controversial they are and it's your right to not agree with them. Nothing you say is going to change their minds though. Yes, you can have a healthy discussion about it but that doesn't mean everyone if going to flip sides immediately. The best thing to do is to let is slide and move on. Take all the time you need to recoup if your sensitive, everyone gets offended at something at some point, but realize that eventually, you'll have to accept it in order to look past it.
Posted by CharDurm (Member # 49392) on :
quote:Originally posted by BareSoles84:
quote:Originally posted by Michael Pitt:
quote:Originally posted by SmellyFeetSniffer: Everyone has different preferences; not everyone is going to have the same likes or dislikes. This is common knowledge. But I have seen a bunch of negativity within the foot fetish crowd. Around the web, usually on wikifeet and MousePad Yuku but on other places too, I seen people say that those who love smelly feet and like buying shoes and socks are "fucking sick" and "weird". I seen people say that women who purposely make there feet smelly for the foot fetishist's benefit are "white trash hoes" and are "disgusting". I seen people who greatly frown upon those who love toe sucking and foot worshiping. Hell, I've even seen people say that they only like looking at feet and touching them is considered gross. Most of the time, these people always end their comments by saying people who do those things mentioned above should be "checked into the metal ward" cause they may be "mentally ill". Jeez, these people must think that there's a rule book on how to have a foot fetish or something. I know some might not understand some on these kinks involving feet but you don't have to be a fucking asshole about it. How do we expect the public to accept our fetish if we can't even accept each other?
this happens in all walks of life
True. Regardless of what it is, a lot of people tend to be myopic and can't fathom any other belief, opinion or viewpoint that doesn't coincide with their own. Ironically, the ones that tend to cry that everyone else is "intolerant", are actually the intolerant ones by not being able to tolerate any belief or opinion that isn't what they want to hear.
I tend to agree with a quote by George Patton: "If everyone thought the same way, that means nobody is thinking."
I'll just leave this here. Then we'll see who the intolerant ones are and hopefully it will make them practice developing thicker skin. Sometimes, taking negativity front and center is the best case scenario.
Posted by 57dozzer (Member # 43406) on :
quote:Originally posted by CharDurm:
quote:Originally posted by SmellyFeetSniffer: Everyone has different preferences; not everyone is going to have the same likes or dislikes. This is common knowledge. But I have seen a bunch of negativity within the foot fetish crowd. Around the web, usually on wikifeet and MousePad Yuku but on other places too, I seen people say that those who love smelly feet and like buying shoes and socks are "fucking sick" and "weird". I seen people say that women who purposely make there feet smelly for the foot fetishist's benefit are "white trash hoes" and are "disgusting". I seen people who greatly frown upon those who love toe sucking and foot worshiping. Hell, I've even seen people say that they only like looking at feet and touching them is considered gross. Most of the time, these people always end their comments by saying people who do those things mentioned above should be "checked into the metal ward" cause they may be "mentally ill". Jeez, these people must think that there's a rule book on how to have a foot fetish or something. I know some might not understand some on these kinks involving feet but you don't have to be a fucking asshole about it. How do we expect the public to accept our fetish if we can't even accept each other?
I thinks it's hilarious that of all the horrible things in this world, these people think that foot fetishism is the worst of the worst. Not murderers, or rapists, or terrorists. Nope, it's people who love feet; nothing more, nothing less. I try to look for positives in situations. I like feet, they call me "sick". Okay...I'm still gonna like feet. You don't like my turn-ons. So what? What's stopping me from going to Pornhub or buying videos from fetish websites? I'm not going to let some label from some random person, on the internet no less, ruin my fantasies.
Like what BareSoles and others have said, Everyone has a right to their opinion. That doesn't mean you have to agree with it but that also means you can't really do anything about it. Like in real life with groups like Westboro Baptist Church or NAMBLA, they have their right no matter how controversial they are and it's your right to not agree with them. Nothing you say is going to change their minds though. Yes, you can have a healthy discussion about it but that doesn't mean everyone if going to flip sides immediately. The best thing to do is to let is slide and move on. Take all the time you need to recoup if your sensitive, everyone gets offended at something at some point, but realize that eventually, you'll have to accept it in order to look past it.
Why the hell is this gay guy making angry rant videos about foot fetishists??? Some 1 needs to pee on him..
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
quote:Originally posted by Michael Pitt:
quote:Originally posted by CharDurm:
quote:Originally posted by BareSoles84:
quote:Originally posted by Michael Pitt:
quote:Originally posted by SmellyFeetSniffer: Everyone has different preferences; not everyone is going to have the same likes or dislikes. This is common knowledge. But I have seen a bunch of negativity within the foot fetish crowd. Around the web, usually on wikifeet and MousePad Yuku but on other places too, I seen people say that those who love smelly feet and like buying shoes and socks are "fucking sick" and "weird". I seen people say that women who purposely make there feet smelly for the foot fetishist's benefit are "white trash hoes" and are "disgusting". I seen people who greatly frown upon those who love toe sucking and foot worshiping. Hell, I've even seen people say that they only like looking at feet and touching them is considered gross. Most of the time, these people always end their comments by saying people who do those things mentioned above should be "checked into the metal ward" cause they may be "mentally ill". Jeez, these people must think that there's a rule book on how to have a foot fetish or something. I know some might not understand some on these kinks involving feet but you don't have to be a fucking asshole about it. How do we expect the public to accept our fetish if we can't even accept each other?
this happens in all walks of life
True. Regardless of what it is, a lot of people tend to be myopic and can't fathom any other belief, opinion or viewpoint that doesn't coincide with their own. Ironically, the ones that tend to cry that everyone else is "intolerant", are actually the intolerant ones by not being able to tolerate any belief or opinion that isn't what they want to hear.
I tend to agree with a quote by George Patton: "If everyone thought the same way, that means nobody is thinking."
I'll just leave this here. Then we'll see who the intolerant ones are and hopefully it will make them practice developing thicker skin. Sometimes, taking negativity front and center is the best case scenario.
that video is hilarious because a guy that clearly sucks cock think we're the weird ones
Perhaps him telling other people that their interests are abnormal and weird makes him feel like his own interests that he's likely insecure about are "normal" because deep down he feels that they are abnormal. Haha.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
When one person goes against the norm and expects everyone and everything else to change for them, I really think that it's really that person deep down wanting self validation that they are "normal", to quell their own insecurities.
As a result, everyone else has to change and potentially feel uncomfortable just for the sake of making that one particular person feel comfortable simply because of their own insecurity.
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