Hello all. Been with my gf for a little over 8 months now. She indulges in my foot fetish from time to time, not as much as I want (she lets me rub/kiss/smell her feet more than giving me footjobs) but for someone I can tell who's not *really* into it, she tries.
She knows I have a foot fetish and how much feet turn me on.
Throughout our relationship, she has said things like "you give good foot massages, you should rub other girls feet or even be a masseuse" and I would reply saying "You would be ok with that? What if they tried giving me a footjob?" and she said "It's just feet, I don't see it as anything wrong/sexual, they're just feet". Even recently we were jokingly talking about glory holes and she asked if there was a footjob glory hole, if I would go. I replied "nah"(out of respect) and she said why not? Its just feet.
She has always said that in reply to things pertaining to my fetish. Now I haven't arranged any footplay with anyone else but just wanted others opinions on something like this.
Any one else have something similar like this happen? I have a great relationship going with her but my fetish urge isn't really satisfied as much as I would like so this wouldn't be a bad idea. So long as it doesn't surpass the feet, lol.
Posted by BTL2.0 (Member # 49128) on :
She's throwing those comments/questions out as a test. You are passing so far by answering no lol.
Posted by feetiesandtoes (Member # 32674) on :
quote:Originally posted by BTL2.0: She's throwing those comments/questions out as a test. You are passing so far by answering no lol.
Exactly! Can only lead to trouble. Stay on track. Once you divert you will most likely lose this girl.
Posted by drummerdude (Member # 47602) on :
I understand but she seems pretty serious about it, as in meaning in what she said and not as in an entrapment kind of way. I've known her for over a year and know her really well. Its why I even said she'd be ok with it and she gave me that answer.
[ March 01, 2016, 04:29 AM: Message edited by: drummerdude ]
Posted by Rocky @TheSoleMates (Member # 28971) on :
From my experiences, I've had one partner that was ok with me doing whatever I wanted with other ladies, as long as we didn't have sex. I enjoyed the pleasure of other feet at least twice a week for the next couple years. Never had an issue with her until her parents said they want her to leave me. That's what happens when you're with a Christian military girl lol
My current partner is ok with me worshipping and being trampled by others, as long as there's no sexual contact and it's all being filmed. Been doing this for over a year and not a single problem. Some women truly are ok with it since it's just feet, but be careful with the sexual acts.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
quote:Originally posted by drummerdude: ..."you give good foot massages, you should rub other girls feet or even be a masseuse" and I would reply saying "You would be ok with that? What if they tried giving me a footjob?" and she said "It's just feet, I don't see it as anything wrong/sexual, they're just feet"....
I just lost 5 IQ points from reading that first post!
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
My wife has watched me get a Footjob from another woman at a foot party. And I watched her feet worshipped by another guy before. Both awesome times!
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
quote:Originally posted by Activist22: Pass the test by saying no???? WTF Man. That is some real beta bitch boy advice.
Ok so I wouldn't have used this wording but I 100% agree. If you are offering to let me fuck with other women's feet, I'll take you up on it. I don't play that "it's a test" bullshit.
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
Perhaps ask her. Is she aware that feet make your dick hard? Don't laugh seriously people don't get it. Tell her baby I love your feet they are sexy as hell and they make me so satisfied but you keep mentioning that I should be rubbing and touching other girls feet. Is that what you want? I wouldn't do that without your full approval but I would be open to that. And then go from there. That's my advice...the unpopular punani vote hahaha
Posted by hyperion (Member # 39397) on :
Ophilia has the best possible advice; straight talk is always best. That said, the gist of Activist's message also holds; life is too short for head games.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
I'd be more concerned with your girlfriend not indulging your needs.
It's one thing if all you do is perv on her feet and don't please her. If that's the case, you will always have this problem.
That aside, if your girl is really into you, she will do whatever she can to earn her keep and make you happy. She should realize that not indulging you will drive you away, much like you would drive her away if you don't please her sexually.
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
I always find it a little bit odd that most of the deep questions, and even odd questions, here on the forum come from accounts in the 1-5 posts range.
Anyhow, I'd say what most people are saying. I'd also consider that she might be trying to push you away for some unknown reason. Maybe she's losing interest? Women are weird like that. Maybe she feels guilty about something she's done, or doesn't want to be the one to end things. So in turn, she might want you to find happiness elsewhere so she feels less like the bad person in the relationship? I don't know. Might be way off, but I know that does happen at times.
Patrick
Posted by EnjoyMyGFsFeet (Member # 49565) on :
quote:Originally posted by Cain: My wife has watched me get a Footjob from another woman at a foot party. And I watched her feet worshipped by another guy before. Both awesome times!
Damn! Lucky man
[ March 07, 2016, 08:31 PM: Message edited by: EnjoyMyGFsFeet ]
Posted by hyperion (Member # 39397) on :
Probably b/c they signed up b/c they have these burning questions, and didn't search the threads.
quote:Originally posted by Patrick: I always find it a little bit odd that most of the deep questions, and even odd questions, here on the forum come from accounts in the 1-5 posts range.
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