Do you guys ever get nervous about getting caught looking at feet? Sometimes i won't even sneak a quick peek just so I won't have any chances of getting caught. For example, there is this gorgeous girl in my chemistry class who all semester long I've wondered what her feet looked like. Well last week was the first time she wore flip flops, I was passing by her quickly in the cafeteria and at the corner of my eye I could tell she was wearing flip flops, but I did not want to point my head downwards to not look suspicious or anything. I was angry at myself because she hasn't worn flip flops since that day so that may have been my only chance.
Or sometimes I'll be walking down the hallway to class and a girl with flip flops will be walking in my direction and we will make eye contact and I want to look down so bad to see what her feet look like but i resist the urge because I don't want to be questioned or get a weird look.
But also, I have heard stories of guys getting caught looking at a girls feet and the girl will be like "Are you looking at my feet?" and the guy will respond "Yeah i was, your pedicure is really nice" and I'm not sure how the girl responds to that. Maybe that could lead into something more?
Have you guys ever got caught looking at a women's feet? if you did, did the woman say anything?
How should a guy respond to "Are you looking at my feet?"
Posted by elmagico (Member # 37173) on :
yes i am
Posted by Panic (Member # 21074) on :
I recently was busted, I didn't make a big deal out of it
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
If a girl asks you if you're looking at her feet, that means she saw you looking at her feet.
At that point, why deny it? It'll only make you look even more bad if you try and deny it. Better off just simply saying yes as if it's no big deal.
Posted by hyperion (Member # 39397) on :
Many people have the habit of looking down as they walk. I do.
Posted by tootsylover (Member # 4584) on :
To be honest the last time I can remember a girl busting me for checking out her feet was 25 years ago now in 7th grade Industrial Arts/Shop class. There was this blonde girl sitting behind me (I think her name was Krista) wearing sandals and I am pretty sure she had her toenails painted some nice color.
Anyways I was of course distracted and kept trying to sneak what I thought were unnoticed glances back at her feet ... sure enough she eventually noticed and giggled and was like "oooohh you like my feeet???" and wiggled her toes. Crap I was busted and could only muster something like "uhhh ummm sure I guess" as a response hahaa
Nowadays I can stare at a girl's feet all I want in passing at the mall or wherever and they don't notice ... because they aren't paying any attention to me in the first place anyways so it is what it is lol Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
I've only been caught once and got a negative response. She was looking at me and I glanced down at her feet and she said "ewww". I don't get nervous about getting caught. I'm at the point where I want them to notice me looking.
Posted by feetiesandtoes (Member # 32674) on :
I used to stare away hoping to get busted just so it would bring up the topic. However, now that I'm older, I try to be sympathetic towards women and think about how I'd feel if some dude, or anyone for that matter, was staring at my feet in public. I'd be pretty horrified and pissed off.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
Being a sole guy I'm generally looking when they are facing away from me. Posted by Panic (Member # 21074) on :
I also caught a guy staring at my wife's feet before...Easy to notice since I often look too...I told her and she didn't believe me but later on she told her friends about it.
Posted by aznfeetish (Member # 49370) on :
Compliment on asian feet, asian girls love the compliments!
Posted by Toes2Nose1969 (Member # 47961) on :
I agree with the masses, don't make a big deal of it. Just be a little honest. say something like cute sandles, or something, or what color is your nail polish. The polish one has worked for me, especially since it was a realy off color green, so I asked what color green is that? She told me what it was, and I simlpy said cute.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
quote:Originally posted by ILoveFeet122:
How should a guy respond to "Are you looking at my feet?"
"Yeah I like em', I think they're quite nice. What do you think of them?" Posted by AceCorr (Member # 37554) on :
You can also compliment them on her pedicure.
Posted by elmagico (Member # 37173) on :
quote:Originally posted by Michael Pitt:
quote:Originally posted by hyperion: Many people have the habit of looking down as they walk. I do.
this is why i'm very discreet about checking out feet, i try to just look with my eyes
to look at feet for more than a second in passing you have to be looking at the ground, i don't like doing this because looking down at the ground while walking makes a guy look weak and lacking confidence
i often don't look at feet unless i know she isn't looking in my direction because i strongly believe she will think you are unattractive if she catches you staring at the ground in her presence
she won't see this as you checking out her feet, they subconsciously see this as you submitting to them which is the opposite of what most women want in a man
this was always my dilemma, to look at feet and enjoy, but at the same time dont want they think i have lack of confidence. So if they keep eye contact i watch them in the eyes, but if they dont look at me, then i stare at their feet Posted by hyperion (Member # 39397) on :
^^ Not something I worry about. I have plenty of confidence in my confidence. I'm too old to have my whole outward aura shaken by my head position. That's a young man's problem.
On the flip side, I'm too old for girls to pay any attention to on the sidewalk. That's an old man's problem.
Posted by feetiesandtoes (Member # 32674) on :
quote:Originally posted by hyperion: ^^ Not something I worry about. I have plenty of confidence in my confidence. I'm too old to have my whole outward aura shaken by my head position. That's a young man's problem.
On the flip side, I'm too old for girls to pay any attention to on the sidewalk. That's an old man's problem.
Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
quote:i don't like doing this because looking down at the ground while walking makes a guy look weak and lacking confidence[/QB]
You actually care if you look like you lack confidence to some strange woman you don't know on the street?
Posted by Polar (Member # 47954) on :
yes, all the time. My girls at the office know I have a thing for feet. Ill go sit up front and talk with them and they will say stuff like, Um, our heads up here pal!" jokingly of course.
Posted by ababyboy (Member # 2712) on :
LoL Polar! I would love to work in your office!
Anyway, to comment on the topic, it would depend on the girl. I remember a girl I once saying to me "Don't look at my feet", since she was self conscious on how her feet looked.
If you are interested in the girl, just go and talk to her and introduce yourself or take your wingman with to introduce you and have something funny to say.
Best of luck!
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by feetiesandtoes: I try to be sympathetic towards women and think about how I'd feel if some dude, or anyone for that matter, was staring at my feet in public. I'd be pretty horrified and pissed off.
99% of their reaction is contingent upon which guy was caught looking.
Posted by Ella Ford (Member # 49716) on :
I get caught all the time! But it's easier for a woman... "Oh! I love your shoes!" works every time!
Sometimes they even model them for me. If only they knew
Ella xx
Posted by Doc Ock (Member # 46755) on :
Funny thread. I'm very discreet myself. Depending on my mood, the type of girl, her body language and if she's giving me any play I will stare long enough just so she could catch me. If mentions anything about it, I'll her how I feel. Being blunt can be straight frfr.
Posted by Rocky @TheSoleMates (Member # 28971) on :
I've been caught looking many times. I don't try hiding it at all. I used to hide it when I was younger though. Now, I want to get caught most of the time. I don't stare unless they can't see, such as the woman having her back to me.
I walk facing down most of the time, so I get to see the feet without seeming creepy. Sometimes, I'll even compliment a woman on her feet and/or toes. The reactions are about 50/50.
Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :
I used to walk with my head down mostly due to shyness, now my head is up all the time so I can look them in the eye. Still able to look at their feet because I've become pretty good at nonchalantly looking
Posted by FailureSexual (Member # 15094) on :
i look down a lot. out of personal experience looking ladies in the eye creeps them out more so i avoid it and get quick glances at times.
Posted by ILoveFeet122 (Member # 49107) on :
quote:Originally posted by Rocky @TheSoleMates: I've been caught looking many times. I don't try hiding it at all. I used to hide it when I was younger though. Now, I want to get caught most of the time. I don't stare unless they can't see, such as the woman having her back to me.
I walk facing down most of the time, so I get to see the feet without seeming creepy. Sometimes, I'll even compliment a woman on her feet and/or toes. The reactions are about 50/50.
Haha why do you want to get caught for?
Posted by Rocky @TheSoleMates (Member # 28971) on :
When I get caught, I respond honestly. I let the woman know what I found so appealing. It's never just the feet, there's something specific each time. That helps to break the ice for the topic in a non creepy way.
Posted by CBill (Member # 49711) on :
I do get nervous about it since i prefer to keep my fetish to myself (except once I get to know a new gf well). But sometimes when I am on the bus I will pretend to be looking at my cell phone with my head down to check out women's feet. So far no one has said anything to me so i think it works.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: I really feel like women CONSCIOUSLY evaluate men on their ability/willingness to make good eye contact.
Fixed that for you.
Good eye contact is a trait of confidence. Confidence goes a long way.
Posted by peterjohn (Member # 37637) on :
Do it often. Didnt get caught. Sometimes whip out my cellphone and discreetly take photos....i once saw my kids teacher at the post office standing in line.i pulled out my phone a snapped away as she was in front of me. Sexy long toes. Perfect nails. I even got hard thats how hectic they were
Posted by FailureSexual (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by Michael Pitt:
quote:Originally posted by FailureSexual: i look down a lot. out of personal experience looking ladies in the eye creeps them out more so i avoid it and get quick glances at times.
if they're creeped out by eye contact, that's their problem
it's my fault cause i'm the guy, just cause that's how life goes sometimes :\
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
Ella,
I have the exact same experience!!! I love the little model (drool) I can't tell you how unfreaky you made me feel by reading that you do that too! So so nice to have another woman's point of view!
I agree it's much easier for a woman. On the rare occasions when I splurge and pay for my pedi I scope out and try to sit next to sexy feet. Sometimes I get stuck next to nasty toes ack!!!
Posted by nodes (Member # 29542) on :
Thanks for your post young man. I was non existent with women in high school. In college, I still wasn't very good. And now, a part of me wishes I was single because I feel like if I have finally, kind of, figured it out. I have two girlfriends now, this is super stressful, and I walk around the streets with a new bounce. When I first became a member of this board I had zero girls.
What I am trying to say is that you need to develop your game. But the important thing is to focus on your classes. Not having girls in college was a good thing for me because I was able to focus. And now 2016 is essentially a forgone conclusion for me. I have to break things off with the side girl and I am horrible at this. I am going to miss her.
I don't want to contradict myself but I said focus on your studies. But you should be finding occasions to talk to this gal. And if she is single you should find a way to go on a date with her. Dude you have to work them. But speaking of work you have to work on yourself too. You have to be an intelligent hard working dude in which case you would value yourself and therefore be confident.
I think girls have busted me for looking. If they don't say anything then neither do I. This is because I am taken or maybe they are. But if they did say something I would tell the truth. Something like this, "yes you have cute toes, and I have never really even noticed a girls toes before. But besides your toes, you are a pretty gal." Go on the offense, at this point a girl is flattered and she knows where you more or less stand.
Posted by Firefighter86 (Member # 34943) on :
On a day she is wearing flip flops just act like you didnt catch something the teacher said at the end and ask her if she could tell you outside of class, write it down as she is telling you, while writing you should be getting great shots of her feet.
Posted by ILoveFeet122 (Member # 49107) on :
quote:Originally posted by Firefighter86: On a day she is wearing flip flops just act like you didnt catch something the teacher said at the end and ask her if she could tell you outside of class, write it down as she is telling you, while writing you should be getting great shots of her feet.
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